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empty-coiners · 3 months
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ROLE GROUP: STABILIZER
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stability handler, holder or a stabilizer -
a headmate role which describes a headmate who:
a. ) fronts to handle unstable headmates
b. ) act as a support or grounder
or c.) takes the feeling of negativity / unstableness away as their own.
this role group can be generally labeled as protectors and/or caretakers in some form.
each flag is in order with the letters. [first flag with stabilizer-a and so on]
note about the alt text: if someone would like to perhaps correct us on color alt text or add onto it feel free to reblog or comment, thanks!
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cavityinmybrain · 11 months
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i was doing some thinking last night while i couldn't sleep. i was thinking particularly about politics in america, even more specifically how identity politics have become a thing.
it’s mostly seen in queer communities, people cutting hairs over who is and isn’t “actually” gay. the politicians don’t care who is more gay. they will not care.
i think the same idea of “screw identity policing” can apply to systemhood. i don’t think its fair for anyone to tell anyone how to feel/what they’re experiencing. i don’t think it’s a productive use of energy or time to split hairs over whether someone is “faking or not”
brains are very weird. i don’t think we know enough about brains to fully know if someone could be born with multiple consciousnesses without trauma. i do think people can experience being plural from different causes, and it’s not my job to judge them based on where they “became” plural from.
i guess im pro-endo now?
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neurotheascars · 1 month
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I see a lot of need for this, so I'm throwing my voice in too.
If you are plural you are real. I care about you, I see you, I recognize and respect you. No matter how you present, trauma or otherwise. whatever stage in your self understanding you are at, I wish you peace and fellowship. I am a safe friend to all systems who love all systems. I wish healing on all humans I meet. I believe the human race has not a single unharmed individual. We must all respect the existence of one another as it unfolds, however it may unfold.
If you are anti endo, please just stop talking to endogenic systems about it. Talk to your therapist about it. Show them your anger because they are paid to handle it. If they can't, then get a new one. If you can't do therapy, then I really wouldn't comment on the status of someone else's psychological state and the validity of whatever it is they're going through. I also don't think it's healthy to take your anger out on other people. Go journal if you have nothing else, I know it helped me.
I'm a member of a traumagenic system of mixed origin. I am an created alter. I am real. I am validated by a licensed professional, not that it should even matter! You can keep your opinion, but just stop inflicting it on other people. stop spreading your hate and anger around. I am a reformed persecutor and I am fucking sick of seeing you guys wallow in enjoying your anger at the expense of someone else. I've been there, I know what it feels like and your pain won't ever get better if you keep spilling anger on unrelated people. Figure your nasty angry trauma shit out safely and privately ok? This ain't it.
Also I'm in a blocky mood, it might be better to go drink a glass of delicious cold water and talk to a plant and have a snacky snack than it would be to argue with me. Have a great day. Love you all 🦘⚔️
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fortheloveofpiggy · 1 month
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I love you endogenics and non disordered systems/plural people! You are great
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system-of-a-feather · 1 month
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Hi, I was wondering (from your post about questions going from anti-endo to pro-endo),
Did your entire system become pro-endo? We've been slowly going down the pro-endo path, but we still have a handful of anti-endo parts who don't seem to be changing their views at all.
How did that go for you all?
Yeah our whole system is pro-endo at this point but a lot of us swapped sides on our own time and terms. A lot of our parts were very "I really dont care and dont want to engage" or just relatively uninterested with a lean so those guys kinda just changed opinion as the more opinionated parts changed opinion
I (Riku dominant part of the brain) was one of the last parts to genuinely change our opinions cause I honestly had some pretty bad experiences with endo-adjacent communities (and felt it might be dangerous to suggest that there was value in that community which was a trauma response that is valid but harmful and I had to work through that) and am the most research loving part so it took a lot more understanding into the depth of how research works for me to look at the theory of structural dissociation properly and with nuance. Plus I was / still probably am the part that has the most catching up to do on processing the fact we are POC and our experiences with it, so going further into Buddhist practice and integration and chatting with other parts made me get a larger fuller image and that changed my view a lot
But unironically, the main thing that really pushed a lot of the system as a whole from endo-neutral (which we were for a hot minute) to loud and proud pro-endo was the good faith the endo community gave us regarding the tulpacourse topic and the genuine sway that we saw in regards to taking criticism from POC. Cause I forget who it was, I think maybe @/artisticdysfunction (I could be entirely wrong so Im not @) that commented something along the lines of "hey if we can agree and acknowledge thst its appropriative can we agree willowgenic are actually a thing" or something and XIV went "Ya know what deal, I will fully change from neutral to pro if the endogenic community can show that it can take criticism and Ill push to humor it more"
Which I (Riku dominant brain) was SUPER hesitsnt to follow along with and so I made some boundaries of not going too ham on our system account for my own comfort and in exchange Ill humor and think about the topic more but like, it was honestly really hard and uncomfortable for me at first but honestly, XIV was right and so while it was originally somewhat a transactional alliance, its very much genuine at this point
But yeah tldr it took time and each part changed views over time. Its been like a few year thing
(And to be fair, our system used to also be relatively right wing anti-SJW Shapiro fans like AGES ago so this wasnt our first team switch over time)
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thescarletwitchirl · 1 year
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okay, for once in my life, im willing to have an open mind. /st
endos, and endo supporters, tell me anything about endos.
literally anything.
i have a very anti-endo point of view, but today for some reason, i realized, ‘i’ve never actually interacted with an endo before.’ and it made me want to like, hear you guys out ig? if that makes sense?
so. idk. tell me abt ur experiences, leave links to things abt endos (like, actual articles made by doctors if there are any, i dont mean carrds and tumblr blogs as they arent reliable /nm), just tell me abt ur experiences as endo system.
and endo supporters, idk, just tell me why u support endos, bc tbh i want to have a more open mind, so yeah. <3
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Oh my gosh such an nice character i love them <3 *puts them through the horrors* *puts them through the horrors* *puts them through the horrors* *puts them thro-
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mechagic · 2 years
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Pro endos and anti endos interact and debate with this post and inform me please! I want to know both side's opinions!
No threats or bigotry, those are the only rules
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proship-paci · 2 years
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I hope all Proship Endogenics and supporters of all system origins have a fantastic day!!
I hope you get to have your favourite snacks and get to play your favourite games !!
 You deserve the world, you deserve to be validated, and you deserve a safe space!!
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theconstellarium · 2 years
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Just had an anti-endo reblog from us...I went & checked out their blog (which is how I found out they're anti-endo), & they said they didn't have time or energy to debate so they didn't really participate in syscourse - which is fair.
However, they evidently DO have the time & energy to make posts about what they felt was impossible within others' systems. Which is just baffling to me lol.
A huge part of why we're pro-endo is because we just don't have the audacity to think we know everything - especially about anyone else's subjective internal experiences. We don't have any sort of degree in psychology or spirituality or anything else plurality can fall under. Let alone a degree in anyone's experiences other than our own.
(Spoiler: no one has any sort of expertise on anyone else's subjective internal experience. Period.)
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empty-coiners · 1 year
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ROLE: UNFILTERER
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( flag by us! )
unfilterer -
a headmate who isn't easily triggered and may expose the body to perhaps triggering media or events, especially within the presence of other headmates. these headmates may not easily emotionally either, or simply don't find themselves bothered.
the greys represent the dull feeling they may experience, or represent a somewhat unbreakable wall, while the pop of blues and oranges in the middle may represent how most people feel triggered negatively, experiencing fear, anger and uncomfortability.
colors picked from the 📸 emoji!
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yeewhoreeeeee · 2 years
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heyo! are you alterhuman, otherkin, otherhearted, therian, fictionkin, or anything like that, and looking to make friends in a small community! well, look no further. you’re allowed to join if you are 13+, ( do not allow anti endos ) are a positive, friendly community of likeminded entities!! https://discord.gg/dp7SP9UU <- heres the server link on discord! thank you!!
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heretherebewolves · 2 years
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Guess which (group of) bitch(es) got Officially Diagnosed™️
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:} hello stranger and welcome to my domain where I do basically whatever I want
I’m Anonymous or Anon, yes that is actually my name.
I am edgy as fuck and will not apologize for it.
I am traumagenic but hate sysmeds with a burning passion, my system has chosen to remain unknown due to not wanting to get into discourse, we’ll love to give you our discord if you seem cool and ask.
If you're okay with coping with violence in fiction but not coping with sexual stuff in fiction, Fuck Off, Really if you have a problem with me at all. I will not hesitate to block you.
I’m proship as fuck :}
Also I will try to tag as much stuff as I can, but I’m a forgetful bastard and probably will forget to tag “obvious stuff” I will tag if you ask nicely but please don’t expect me to constantly tag it.
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curseofdarkness · 2 years
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Quickly redoing this post, that's why you see this again.
Source call for Castlevania fictives from both the show and games. Doesn't matter who you are for the most part so long as you respect the dni, we'd like to interact. We're mostly fine talking about our sources as well.
We mean fictives from systems (pro-endo), to make that a tad more clear.
We are fine with doubles. We have a majority of the protagonists and a few antagonists from the games, though only a few from the show. Though it's mostly us Belmonts outright looking for sourcemates.
Only fictives we wouldn't like to interact are those of Shaft, Sumi, Taka, or Lenore.
Body is a minor. Please no one under 15 interact.
*Reply* to this post or just dm us (and explain why you have - we may forget about this rather quickly) if you want to talk.
Refer to our DNI in our pinned before doing so.
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king-of-thracia · 1 year
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N now Steven's at the stage of 'kill bite maim' until we find pokemon fictives to talk with or they get over it. I don't know why this happens. Uh. If anyone wants to talk just mind our dni.
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