#ramcoa mention

[sysboxes]

Hello! I hope you don't mind me asking, but what is pg-did? I've never heard of it before ^-^; if you don't want to answer, that's alright.

It means Programmed DID

basically its a DID system who went through RAMCOA and has programmed alters

We used to use HC-DID (highly complex) which meant basically the same thing, but there was issues surrounding the coiner or something (I don’t remember), so now we use PG-DID or EC-DID (extremely complex).

EC-DID can also stand for Externally Coerced, Controlled, Created, Constrained, or Changed. They’re all the same thing just different names

#ramcoa mention #tw ramcoa #not a userbox #mod weeping ❤️ #ramcoa #ask to tag

[transillusionisms]

guys i would like to say: im transramcoa. it feels like the world fucked up by not having that happen to me. not because it should happen to other people: antis love saying "oh that means you think it should happen to other people by saying it should've happened to you" no. if i & other transramcoa folks were the only ones to go through it i'd be perfectly happy! but you can't un-past the past, unfortunately

#pine speaks #radqueer #transramcoa #ramcoa mention #? that feels like the right tag for this? #if the raiders decide to send me asks about their trauma i will hoard them #seeing the asks about it is just making me more certain

[polyfragcultureis]

i hope all polyfrag system who are RAMCOA survivors and all polyfrag systems who aren't RAMCOA survivors and polyfrag systems who aren't sure wether or not they're RAMCOA survivors have a good day and know they're all equally as valid

#not culture #c did #cdd #cdid #complex dissociative disorder #complex dissociative identity disorder #did #dissociative identity disorder #polyfrag #polyfrag system #polyfragmented #polyfragmented system #polyfragmented did #osdd did #osddid #did osdd #ramcoa mention #❓

[sys-polls]

*sidesystem: a term related to system structure that refers to a separated group of alters that exists independently from the main system, & may have any number of alters within it. this is *not* the same as a subsystem. this term/structure is exclusive to survivors of RAMCOA.

- finn.

#finn🍄.txt #• [system polls] • #( #ramcoa #ramcoa mention #endos dni #sys polls #system stuff #traumagenic system #tulpas dni #did system #system #sysblr #)

[sophieinwonderland]

Anyone else find it weird how False Memory Syndrome advocates claim mind control isn't a thing while their whole platform is just advocating a different mind control conspiracy?

It's always "RAMCOA can't exist because it was invented by a group of shady psychiatrists implanting memories into patients that change their entire personality and worldview."

Hun... I hate to break it to you... but that's mind control.

Implanting memories to change somebody is mind control.

And if you're accepting that psychiatrists can mind control people to change their behavior... you know who else probably could??? Cults...

It's just funny how the people saying mind control doesn't exist are still pushing a different version of mind control.

#syscourse #ramcoa mention

[fireflies-positivity]

To Our RAMCOA Survivor Neighbors:

Your trauma is Not too severe! Your Existence is Not triggering or scary!

You are Not making it up, and it is Not just false memories!

You deserve Love, Care, and a place to vent and Heal!

We Love You, Friend!!

~Wally🎨🍎

#ramcoa mention #cw ramcoa mention #positivity #ramcoa #ramcoa survivor #survivor positivity #ramcoa survivor positivity #positive affirmations #ramcoa affirmations #survivor

[pawphobia]

I’m confused and needs some systems help.

Recently something similar to a system reset (ramcoa) happened to us. But we are not ramcoa survivors, what is this? Everyone from our system went into a side system and now we have a new main system. What happened? Does anyone know?

#ramcoa #ramcoa mention #anti endo #did system #endos dni #osdd system #traumagenic #traumagenic system #did alter #dissociative system #pdid system #system #sys help

[rubys-delusions]

polyfragmentation is not just having 100+ alters (there is no minimum number you need to have), and you dont need to be a ramcoa survivor to have polyfragmented DID.

ramcoa is mentioned a lot in PF spaces because many survivors end up polyfragmented due to the nature of the abuse- but not every PF system experienced ramcoa.

your trauma may not feel severe enough to you to cause polyfragmentation, but just like with DID theres no set bar for what "counts" as traumatizing and what doesnt, especially to the mind of a 0-4 year old.

#i know this seems like basic info but i see a lot of misconceptions from time to time #also hoping to cover osdd and pfdid in another post because its really really interesting how much they overlap in action #dissociative identity disorder #polyfragmented #pfdid #polyfrag #polyfrag system #did #ramcoa mention #tw ramcoa

[radqueer-takes]

WHAT DOES PROGRAMMING MEAN I'VE BEEN HERE FOR 3 MONTHS AND STILL DON'T KNOW 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I AM SUFFERING. I GENUINELY AT FIRST THOUGHT IT MEANT COMPUTER PROGRAMMING OR SOMETHING BUT I THINK I'M JUST DUMB. /lh /nm /genq

Programming is a part of RAMCOA. I would suggest doing your own research into that as I do not think this blog is the right place for this to be explained. /lh

Others are free to explain in reblogs and provide resources if they please.

#<🪲> the entomologist #tw ramcoa #ramcoa mention #pro radqueer #pro rq 🌈🍓 #radqueer #radqueer community #radqueer safe #rq community #rq safe #rq 🌈🍓 #rqc🌈🍓

[shining-star-system]

Gonna be dead honest.

We fear using any sort of label for RAMCOA/OEA not only because of discourse surrounding it, but also due to issues of believing what we’ve gone through is actually real despise the signs that it is.

We’re worried that we’ll use the term and someone will point at us and say “You’re slandering the term and you’re faking this!”

We’re paranoid that the label will instantly make us a target to so much more, but we enjoy having labels to help us out more.

Just eats at us sometimes.

#did #system #did system #plurality #osddid #endos dni #dni endos #ramcoa #ramcoa mention #transramcoa dni #transramcoa shouldn’t exist ngl #OEA mentions #transOEA shouldn’t be a thing either but endos and their supporters might hop on that if they haven’t already

[polyfragcultureis]

C-DID culture is switching back and forth between believing your abuse was vicious/sadistic and believing it was torture and TBMC, and not knowing which one of the two is what actually happened because you can't make sense of your memories. it also doesn't help that there are so little resources on TBMC, RAMCOA and HC-DID systems

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#yeahhh mood #polyfrag culture is #c did #cdd #cdid #complex dissociative disorder #complex dissociative identity disorder #did #dissociative identity disorder #polyfrag #polyfrag system #polyfragmented #polyfragmented system #polyfragmented did #osdd did #osddid #did osdd #complex did #hc-did #ramcoa mention #tbmc mention #torture mention

[abeastfrombelow]

On one hand, I definitely understand all the trauma survivors who do not want to see or engage with any kind of media or romantic story that remotely could be traumatic to anyone involved. After all, one of the symptoms of PTSD is avoidance.

But at the same time, even ignoring all the kinks/fetishes one can acquire through going through traumatic experiences (of which I have many!), there's also the fact that people who have gone through abuse can feel most comfortable in those experiences. That's how a lot of childhood trauma survivors can end up in abusive relationships down the road, it's a documented phenomenon. And when you've been subjected to extreme abuse (RAMCOA specifically, but it could apply to any number of abusive scenarios) sometimes it can be helpful to reclaim certain painful scenarios and change them to be pleasurable ones.

For me, I know many parts of myself would desire to return to my abusers if they didn't have the outlets of putting their desires into fiction, into stories and drawings and private scenarios. They feel inherently broken for having desires, feel like they are destined to repeat what has been done to them onto others because of their desires or intrusive thoughts, feel like our abusers are the only ones who will accept them and understand them. By putting it on the page, they have an alternative. They can grow past feeling broken and like they have no future outside of what the people who hurt us dictated, because they have hobbies and outlets they enjoy. Making disturbing media is an effective coping mechanism for them!

I don't claim to have all the answers for the differing needs in the community of people who have survived trauma. I don't know the most effective way to separate myself from other people who want to avoid what I create, nor do I know how much should be my responsibility (should I preemptively block people who don't share my views? Should I just wait until they block me?) but I do know that we should all try to have compassion for the people on both sides. People who are repulsed by disturbing media should have compassion for those who find freedom in producing it, and vice versa.

As for me personally? I'll just continue tagging things appropriately and thoroughly, allowing others to decide for themselves if it is safe for them to interact with me and to what level is safe for them, and respecting when people block me or don't desire for me to interact with them because of the things I create. I'll continue coping as best as I can, and I dearly hope others can do the same based on what is best for them

#proship #ramcoa mention #im feeling very chatty and philosophical tonight #I'll never take it personally if someone blocks me as well #please dont feel bad about blocking me and use the block button liberally! #i just figured it'd be more visible to people if i made a post like this #i don't really care about being harassed but i hope no one feels the need to #ramcoa

[sophieinwonderland]

also do they expect programmed systems to like, never recover? or that their all naive people who cant do anything 💀.

This is exactly how they think!

Actually, in this same thread, u/NonamesNolies describes the only "believable" RAMCOA system they ever saw.

Remember, this is the same mind who called Distinguished Fellow of the APA Eric Yarbrough a grifter for having the audacity to support endogenic systems. 🙄

Now, what they describe of that survivor is awful and tragic. So tragic, in fact, that it can be easy for the casual observer to get sucked into it before realizing u/NonamesNolies is using this survivor as a pawn to fakeclaim other survivors.

They've essentially dehumanized this person to turn them into a stereotype, where this is how all RAMCOA survivors must behave to be believable.

If people veer away from this, they must be lying.

So what is the stereotype they've established?

Apparently, you need to experience constant dissociation. Every minute of every day. You can't possibly mask or hide that either, even for the duration of a short TikTok video.

A rational person might recall how DID is often described by psychiatrists as a covert disorder due to how hard it is to recognize when people have it. (Which itself, to be fair, is another stereotype.) But to this, I'm sure u/NonamesNolies would call those psychiatrists grifters.

What else?

Amnesia is also not just present, but overwhelming and constant.

You can never talk about your system.

There's even an implication there that naming your abusers indicates that you're faking, which is so terrifying and problematic for so many reasons.

Something else the rational observer may conclude from that story is that the reasons they were like that all the time was because they were still being traumatized. They couldn't have a chance to recover.

But no, apparently, RAMCOA survivors are all like that, will always be like that. They aren't unique human beings capable of independent thought, but are stereotypes packaged inside a skinsuit. /s 🙄

To any RAMCOA survivors who might be reading this, first, sorry.

Second, please know that you're valid. You're your own individuals, and you never need to be defined by the stereotypes others prescribe to you.

#syscourse #sysblr #multiplicity #systems #system #suicide mention #ramcoa mention #tw abuse #actually plural #actually a system

[plural-affirmations]

Ok ok ok ok, Bug and Co. again

Another idea plus my reason for it

I see alot of systems talking about architecture, levels, structure, etc

We've never been able to distinguish all those things or discuss then because of poor communication so maybe some positivity for systems who don't know those things?

I don't think I'd be able to make a post this specific, but I can definitely define the terms you mentioned instead! /pos

Structure

A broad umbrella term which covers the relationships between system groups and/or the innerworld(s); the overarching definition for concepts such as "architecture", or the kind of subsystem(s)/sidesystem(s) you have.

Architecture

In this context, it's where you fall on the singlet-plural scale; ranges from "singular", to "median", to "plural", then lastly "complex". You might also see the term "highly complex" or "HC-DID" floating around, which typically refers to programmed systems/systems that survived extensive RAMCOA.

Layer/Level

A structure that is a division of space in the innerworld. This is more than just "an area in headspace" though. They typically change the communication and/or overall function of the members that reside inside.*

*For example, we personally have a Graveyard layer where certain members live, and it is very hard to access for most of us. It's also harder for these members to front.

I hope this helped!

🖤💜💙💚💛

#answered #plural advice #bug and co. anon #plural definitions #ramcoa mention #ramcoa #tw ramcoa #tw ramcoa mention

[the-sunroom-system]

wait so if hcdid is ramcoa survivor exclusive, can u use cdid (complex did) if ur not a ramcoa survivor? i prefer it to pfdid.

#equilibrium.txt #actuallydid #ramcoa mention

[paranoia-culture-is]

Ramcoa Paranoid culture is a well known ish account on here vagueing about a vent we posted and then we couldn't sleep until 2 am

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:(

#paranoia culture is #paranoia #ask #culture is #paranoia queue #ramcoa mention #-🪽