#take the stick out of your ass

[spicymeatball1992]

Seeing some hate on the AI convo stuff. Don’t look at it and scroll on if you hate it that much, damn lol no one is trying to replace fan-fiction with it. I said it as a joke- chill. I’m having fun, which is the whole point of this site. No one is trying to belittle the skills that go into actual writing, it’s just a fun trend. I don’t get why people have to be so hostile over this stuff man, I really don’t 😅

#damn daddy chill #take the stick out of your ass #I do what I want with my blog #block me and move on #shigaraki tomura #shigaraki #mha shigaraki #my hero acedamia #shigaraki x reader #shigaraki x you #reblog #shigaraki x y/n #shigaraki imagine #shigaraki smut #shiggy #boku no hero academia #shigaraki fanfiction #league of villains #tomura shigaraki #bnha shigaraki #shigaraki spicy #shigaraki tomura x reader #bnha

[actualsunflower]

no offense if I see any more bullshit Jurassic world/park over hatred I'll straight up block idgaf. Grow up

#i am a massive fan and advocate for accurate dinosaurs in media. paleontology is a serious special interest for me #but seriously fucking chill out you whiny ass fucking babies. Jesus christ. #take the stick out of your ASS #sunflower posts #not fallout

[taylortruther]

No like every time there’s something new in the Taylor and Joe timeline/story I’m literally like “yup, it be like that”

literally me!! also we really are like the friends who knew or inferred what happened, but now that the friend can be more honest and is sharing more details, we're like UGH

#also anyone who's gonna call this post parasocial: #take the stick out of your ass i beg you

[dayurno]

#i will warn you only once: tsc spoilers #literally just finished it as i am drafting this its 5am where i live #so you may be subjected to some nonsense #that all being said i have thoughts.and feelings #the kevin was lovely and tasted delicious! jean defending him at every turn even when he swears to hell and back he'll kick his ass #the kevjean was surprising i was only half expecting that #the dog metaphors i have to say i need this one cashed in. nora run me my check #im joking of course dont quote me on it #jean taking kevins promise to the end and living on it is seriously so. well. #'be careful with him' 'take kevin's name out of your ignorant mouth' 'you promised me' #also kevin getting called the court's queen had me tender and on my back oml #jean's relationship with the trojans is sweet and he is very interesting and complicated #a character with many moving parts im sure #there were a few things i did not care for #namely jeremy and the trojans felt remarkably flat to me bar lucas (by far the most interesting) and catalina on occasion #i didnt quite enjoy jeremy's pov and felt like he spent perhaps way too much time worrying over jean? if that makes sense #i wish he had some more complexity to him or really anything to catch a hook on #all we know is hes attractive and smiley and gets along terribly with his family #so much of his character is sucked out by jean he didnt feel like much more than a plot device to me #which i wouldnt mind if jeremy wasnt the literal main character alongside jean #i was living for everything jean thought but had to drag myself through jeremy's pov if im honest #uuuuh what else. neil! funny. deranged. i have to love him #andrew couldnt give less of a fuck about jean which is funny as all fuck #two bugs placed in the same habitat ignoring each other #the thing with elodie i thought was complicated. i wish we knew some more about her or that shed been mentioned a little earlier #but im assuming thats a topic to be revisited #uuuuuuuh yeah so thats most of it. i think my first thought and the one that sticked out the most to me is that the book felt remarkably #pedestrian #not necessarily in a bad way #it lacked to me one of the main appeals of aftg which were the numerous interesting side characters

[howlingdemon13]

deep in brainrot

I need these two to interact...

I need them to have a verbal altercation about how one is a frivolous idiot with no respect for his own power and how the other is a shell of her former glory and bows to the very system that broke her.

#primordial hardass vs slightly less ancient recusant #your honor they would hate each other #peviahe would secretly be jealous of beej's freedom despite his curse #and beej just wants her to take the stick out of her ass and live for once #something something unstoppable force vs immovable object #i need him to interact with other demons and i guess i have to be the one to do it via my oc

[im-smart-i-swear]

guy trapped in a hell of his own creation: haha ive never done anything wrong in my entire life. and im always right:] anyway. why did my little brother move out:(

its so funny to me that at first glance tashi seems like hed be the most 'normal' out of all the clones but at least all the others are slowly healing n shit while hes just getting more and more insane each day and one day hell snap and explode and maim someone

#my art #my funky guys #HES SO FUCKING STUPID. #tashi im sorry ily but youre literally the dumbes fucking motherfucker ive ever seen. and a cringe loser. never change king<3 #like. this guy realised he was a clone when he was a month old and decided to base his new personality entirely #on the idealised version of the original he made up in his head. #like he did this to himself!!! he chose to revolve his entire personality around being a 'perfect flawless mom friend'!!!!!!! #in his head hes like the most selfless & altruistic person to ever walk the earth but in reality hes a sad selfish mess who just wants to #be loved. #he started out as a pretty nice and level headed guy who wanted to help ppl but then it just spiraled when he made that his entire #personality bc of his inability to move on from a lie he really wanted to be true. #he percieves shiro as this perfect flawless leader figure and he wants DESPERATELY to imitate that. deep down its not enough for him to #simply coparent and share responsibility w the others. no no no he has to be The Leader and do everything himself! #this mindset results in him later on starting to dismiss and undervalue his familys work and commitment to keeping them all alive- #esp soup. like sHE WAS THERE W HIM FROM THE VERY BEGINNING THEY ARE EQUALS THEY ARE BOTH EQUALLY IMPORTRANT #AND HES SO FAR UP HIS ASS HE FORGOT. somewhere along the line he forgot. he missed the point. he spiraled too deep. #and he knows. he knows but hes so terrified of change and growth and admitting he CANT do this alone. #he wants to be a cool epic capable solo leader AND he craves family and connection soooo badly he cant live w/o his loved ones. #so yeah. hes an angry little pathetic freak<3 i love him #despite all that hes not a bad person. just a flawed guy thrown into a situation so stressful and traumatising that he clinged to the only #coping mechanism he had at the time and just sorta. ran with it. #dw he gets better tho! it takes a lot and his and sticks relationship is strained for a LONG time but he slowly gets better. good for him

[ghostoffuturespast]

For the longest time, I always thought I wanted to be an artist.

#and in a roundabout sort of way i am #and i doubt i'll ever make anything that's “worthy” enough to hang in a museum or gallery #but sometimes it's a lot more gratifying inspiring other people and helping them make stuff #helped a kid in my class today who didn't have a parent with them make a flower and a bat and a butterfly #they just needed a lot of help but they were so proud of that flower they made and were so excited they could take it home #another kid made the cutest bunny and a little diorama for it out of a piece of bark and literal trash we picked up on the trail #even made a little tail out of a gold sequin that they magically collected from somewhere #had another kid bring back a whole ass tumbleweed with grand ambitions to decorate it but then had a sudden change of plans #so sure you can draw a cat on your piece of origami paper with the hot glue gun kid just don't burn yourself or use all the glue sticks #i don't know what the moral of this story is but look i just had a nice day okay #some days i'm out there attempting to save a whole ass ecosystem and trying to convince people to give a shit #other days hanging out with kids and gluing bits of nicely folded paper to a twig #rambling into the void #little ghost on the prairie #tag essay

[savetheghost]

save do you have any tips for managing migraines

uhhhhhh lessee

personally i have prescriptions for it cause mine screwed my brain up but obvious ones like proper rest + maybe log what you eat and see if theres any correlation + general put nutrients in your body stuff which is actually kind of hard to keep track of

i have some REALLY WEIRD scent based triggers so i have to stay away from ammonia-like scents and eucalyptus cause those will put my ass out flat IMMEDIATELY, thats not an everyone thing but maybe note if theres sensory stuff around you that might be a trigger

for me warm toned lights and screen tints are way better than cool tones/white light and if youve got light colored eyes wear amber tinted sunglasses outdoors

water + salty snack > pedialite > gatorade and depending on caffeine sensitivity maybe moderate that cause it can either help or hurt, kinda depends on the person, but water and saltines will get you electrolytes and its cheap as fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck even if it doesnt taste as great as gatorade

sunlight on your skin and not in your eyeballs

also vitamin d just in general helps but its way better to actually use the sun for that than trying to digest it so like just 10ish minutes in the sun is what my neurologist recommended on top of taking 2000mg tablets

thats what ive got off the top of my head

#im not a neurologist but i dont get them as bad anymore at least #also if learning what you feel like beforehand so you can nip it before it starts helps a LOT #if you can take a painkiller before it starts itll do way more for you #but also dont undertreat it like dont stick it out thats what fucked me up hardcore just take the painkiller #i have to take at least 800mg of ibuprofen if i even sniff a migraine coming on but check with a doc before you do that #i also gotta pair it with sumatriptan and i can only do that 3 times a month Or Else #if ibuprofen doesnt knock it outta me its an er trip and they stuff an iv in me and pump my ass so full of drugs #oh also too much water can also cause migraines #best to stick with the 8 8oz a day thing and not go too far over #but yeah being proactive and preventative is better than coasting and treating them when they come #sometimes ill sip a little pickle juice causenits got magnesium and potassium on top of the sodium for electrolytes #i know food logs arent GREAT but they can help with stuff like this even just kinda checking in on if youre getting everything you need #i go sorta peasant with it like as long as ive had a couple greens in a week i should be good to go #snap peas or artichoke hearts or other really solid veggables #or #god bless #The Cucumber #cucumbers are the powerhouse of the vegatable

[knaveofmogadore]

Pretty much all of my advice from years of tutoring, working with foster kids, and helping raise half a dozen toddlers is two questions and an answer:

1) Is there a developmental or medical reason the kid is doing [behavior], or is it a control thing?

2) If it is a control thing, what will I gain from tackling it head on that I wouldn't gain from alternate solutions or by giving up entirely?

And the answer is almost ALWAYS "No one wins when you initiate combat with a toddler, because you're an adult with a million responsibilities, and that kid ain't got nothing else to do. You might get what you wanted, but you'll both still lose"

#messages from knave #watched a video about kids on planes and the comments were garbage because the mom MENTIONED #NOT EVEN THE POINT OF THE VIDEO #that her kid was going through a picky eater phase #and yeah sometimes it is just a phase and its not medical or sensory but like. who cares #yeah some kids come out of potty training with control issues but who wins if you spend two hours arguing with a 4 year old? #no one #but the adult always loses #and what would the kid gain sitting there being more stubborn than you? because they're not gonna remember anything about food #they're gonna remember how frustrated they were and how good it felt to stick it tk your ass #kids don't know how much food costs or about the food pyramid or that your mil is judging you because they didn't #touch her broccoli brussel sprout casserole or w/e #but they DO know when you're being a dick to them and lack the social experience to not take that shit personally #so do you wanna get into a grudge match with a toddler or do you wanna watch a soap opera and put them to bed at 8pm?

[mantisgodiveblog]

"Is it somehow satisfying for you to beat yourself up for things you couldn't be blamed for missing? It's not as though it's obvious - anyone could have missed it. Why do you assume that something like this is a flaw of the self?" I think it's a preference thing, honestly. Sometimes it's more comforting to believe that you are the problem (so it's in control), while sometimes it's more comforting to believe the world is the problem (so it isn't your fault). Sif takes the former to an extreme. Plus the low self esteem.

We know the psychology, in theory, but it's... hmm. Frustrating, we suppose? We've been there, we know how it is to be hurting for control so badly you'll shred yourself to ribbons for a single piece of it, but it's partially that that makes the thought process so damn irritating when it turns up, especially when we sometimes have to play whack-a-mole with it in ourself.

It's a theatre of destruction for no audience. Ripping yourself to shreds in a way that benefits no one and will only hamper you later down the road. You attack your every flaw, and for what? Making yourself fear to try new things for fear of the repercussions that you yourself placed. Making yourself believe you are worse. Sabotaging your own chances just to pretend that you call the shots in a world that never worked in the way you pretend it does.

The more that you do anything, the more it becomes a habit, the more you take the cart down a road that wears and wears until the wheel-ruts are too deep to get out of, and when that habit is something that actively sabotages your chance to get things right, it does nothing but harm you.

Yelling at it isn't productive, either, it gets nothing done, but it is immensely frustrating to watch that go down, because it's an endless mud pit of feeling bad that doesn't even accomplish anything but making everyone in the area feel worse. It's the particular flavor of poor mental health where having experienced it ourself makes us a bit worse at dealing with it, because - well, we've experienced it ourself, and now we have to deal with watching someone dig a pit for themself and we can't even do anything about it because it's the sort of thing that they actuvely have to figure out and take action to handle themself.

#asks #we speak #not liveblog #lukiyu #every time we see someone talking shit about themself on the internet we desperately want to sit them down #and say to them “jesus fucking christ you KNOW that feeling bad about something makes you ACTIVELY WORSE at doing it right” #like. theres a reason morale is so damn important. when you feel worse about something then you will actively DO worse #because of this exact spiral that eats your mind and body whole and sticks you in the bog til you cant do anything but #even if you are doing the thing bad. there is a solid chance youre only doing it badly because youre beating your own ass about it #aimless negative reinforcement accomplishes nothing and only makes you worse as you dedicate more brainspace to beating yourself up #personally we think that being imperfect and bad at things sometimes makes us hotter. tbh #we've seen enough of those like super flat “mary sue” caricatures to know that we hate wrangling those flat pictures of perfection #we have texture we have flavor we have variability and range and that makes us better than trying to be Good At Everything #we're deeply corrupted and immoral and et cetera and that makes us very hot and sexy #as it turns out nothing is perfect or without flaw. get used to it bitch. you have to practice with fucking anything if you want it to Work #and keeping your brainspace even reasonably healthy will always take WORK. #funneling your energy into punishing yourself just sets you back and makes it so you have less of You to do anything with

[margaritalaux-antille]

that awful stupid glass onion post that goes "uMm actually the mona lisa is painted on wood they gave him a fake!!" and the way it's been quickly taken up as canonical fact is actually going to make me scream. the entire catharsis of the end sequence hinges on the fact that it was the real mona lisa what the fuck are you people talking about.

#kit speaks #call it artistic license or whatever it doesn't matter it was a two second shot of canvas burning #total non sequitur but it's the same stupid overthinking shit that drove me nuts with the last of us fandom #'um actually you can't make a vaccine for a fungus so it was always going to be for nothing!!' #when a piece of media is saying 'hey this thing is real' i think you should take the stick out of your ass and play along idk #like it's called suspension of disbelief please look it up #glass onion spoilers

[autistic-sidon]

Wow I fucking HATE when romantic partners call each other "my love" and "darling" how cringe and forced yet another NoA translation L (I am being sarcastic)

#NoA has made a lot of poor translation choices #but having Yona and Sidon be more affectionate with each other isn't one of them? #like c'mon take that yaoi shaped stick out of your ass and let them be cute #Besides y'all always write Sidon saying 'darling' and 'pearl' everh sentence #but the moment he calls his actual wife an affectionate name it's forced and rediculous #and vice versa for Yona #and they switch between pet names to 'lady yona' and 'prince sidon' respectively #like they just switch between being affectionate and professional #c'mon now #and if the other languages don't have it...okay? I played the game too it wasn't annoying at all #stop pretending it is #sorry guys. slander on my favorite couple once again and I have to defend them.

[vouseofwolves]

i think those ferocious fall out boy haters have never felt any whimsical joy of silliness in their life.

#take the stick out of your ass for once i dunno #fall out boy #fob

[astriwilt]

I hate that people are trying to take all of the fun out of fandom. “The media isn’t about shipping” yeah no shit it isn’t about shipping but people are just having fun. I’m gonna read so many fanfics about this media it’s gonna make your head spin. I like in depth analysis about the media I enjoy as much as the next person, but I also like goofy little head canons too. I will enjoy my media how I please and you can’t stop me

#fandom #i like fun #take that stick all the way out of your ass

[necromancy-savant]

Sometimes I worry that I haven't taken good enough care of my ears, but then I'm in physical pain from how loud not only friends and coworkers in the same room keep their music but how loud my neighbors and the people in the parking lot blast it

#I'm convinced that both temperature and volume are things I perceive extremely differently from every other human ever to exist #I can hear snoring beneath me at night #I put in my earplugs but I can still feel the vibrations #through the fucking floor and through the walls #go to a doctor before you die in your sleep ffs tbh #but at least that person takes care of their baby unlike my last neighbors #I hear crying every once in a blue moon and it sucks but it stops within minutes bc they promptly meet their baby's needs #at my old place it would be 12 hours a night of screaming and screaming and no sleep bc they ignored it #and in the day it would be boom boom boom crash crash glass breaking everywhere cry oh what happened #you left your baby unattended and she got injured for the fifth time today bc you just leave her alone in the house all the time #you let your 1 year old to stomp around and break things and injure herself every 15 minutes #while you laze around just admit you never wanted children and give her to someone who will take care of her ffs #that kid is going to be suicidal by first grade due to lack of attention to her basic survival needs and I feel horrible for her already #I also saw two very young boys on that porch one time #with no shirts and with just shorts on in the snow just bashing the porch with sticks out of sheer boredom #I was considering intervening bc my paranoid ass thought they must already have frostbite

[bleuberrygliscor]

honestly if you sincerely think that any humor that is even slightly crass, but is aimed at an adult audience, is "problematic", you need to go back into the locker for a bit. youre not done cooking.

#rem rambles #''actually panty and stocking is just south park for weebs. and i dont like hazbin hotel either.'' *incredibly loud incorrect buzzer* #crassness is not why south park is bad oh my god i am begging you to take the stick out of your ass. #you are not ready to have an intellectual conversation about south park. not even close. go away. #and truth be told??? i dont even like south park. i think it leans too far into parody that it wraps back to sincerity. THATS the problem. #pswg? youre mad that there are women who fuck. thats it. thats all. i am willing to bet my life its because Panty fucks and isnt ashamed. #and i know why you dont like hazbin and im not going to rehash years old drama about it. like years. like you were still in elementary #school when it happened. i was here when the old text was created and apologized for. twice. #dear god i hate to remind yall that youre on the gay sex site. go please advertisers on twitter or something.