So my conure and my baby quaker keep fighting on the top of the quakers cage but they tend to fight less anywhere else. It’s usually the quaker that I think gets territorial of the top of her cage. What can I do to fix this?
It's pretty common for Quakers, or most parrots for that matter, to exhibit territorial mannerisms and honestly there's nothing wrong with those behaviours. Being protective of their territory, resources, and home are survival skills that are present on a genetic level. Instead of aiming to resolve all the resource guarding behaviour I would instead aim to help the conure realize that isn't an okay place to land and help your quaker learn that if they do land there you will help resolve the issue and they don't need to escalate things.
You can place barriers to make the cage not have any direct flight paths which will deter the conure from landing while you work on creating more positive associations with appropriate landing zones. Over time interest in landing on the cage will dissipate as it lacks value and the barriers can be removed as they favour new more enjoyable landing spaces. You can help this along by treating them for landing in appropriate spaces, setting up foraging activities or play sets with toys to encourage fun activities in these other spaces.
From the Quaker's side of things I would have the conure on your hand or in a carrier if they're likely to jump off, and give the quaker a treat as you approach with the conure, immediately leaving afterwards. Each rep you bring the conure a little bit closer provided the Quaker is comfortable with them at that distance. The goal being to have the presence of the conure near the cage being a cue that treats and good experiences are to follow which can help reduce the severity of the aggression and encourage more calm behaviours with the conure near the cage.
Throughout this process if the conure ever does land on the cage I would immediately remove them, give the Quaker a treat for tolerating that situation, and set the conure up with a different activity to do. This way the Quaker learns that you will help and he doesn't need to aggress to have the conure leave his zone and the conure can learn that being on the cage doesn't yield any fun but there's different places that can.
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Idk how, idk where, but I'll create a whole new fic if it means I can put Rhaena in a shimmering water-like sheer dress!!!
JUST LIKEE... SHE'D LOOK SO GOOD IN SOMETHING LIKE THIS, ESPECIALLY THE 1st ONE!! LIKE I'm blinded by the beauty of the first ONEEEE
Like there's certainly modern au potential, and maybe I'll squeeze it in somehow 🤔🤔
BUT ALSO, I have the vaguest idea for a dark au where Aemond has won the Dance, everyone else is dead, but he's specifically spared Rhaena to be his Valyrian Queen (like a real Henry VI situation where he needs to marry Elizabeth of York because he needs legitimatize his own claim as well as sure up his line with the blood/relations to the last dynasty blah blah). BUT OF COURSE, this is less of a chore for him, because he absolutely WANTS to marry her, but he's still the guy who helped kill her entire family, so she absolutely hates him with the hot intensity of a thousand suns 😂😂
I imagine for his faction of fucked up Lords and Knights who rallied for him, he keeps Rhaena safely locked away in a tower or special chambers 🤔🤔
This wedding is being forced upon her, it's her safest option, but she's still marrying a mad man who lusts for her, AND THIS SHEER VELVETY IRIDESCENT DRESS IS THE WEDDING DRESS 😳😳
Please that's all I have for this 🤣🤣
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Does anyone else have issues with people touching your stuff?
Like. Whenever my dad or younger brother come into my room they like to grab something and fidget with it and it makes me really physically uncomfortable for some reason.
I just. Really hate it when people touch my stuff. Like. Plz don't.
Whenever someone does that I'm all like
internally. But I feel like I can't show my irritation externally and it's really frustrating.
An example is When people ask if they can use/see/hold my phone for a bit, I feel really irritated for no reason. Like, no. Don't touch my stuff.
It's just a really animalistic reaction. like those videos of people trying to grab something from their dog and the dog just growls and bites at them to scare them away.
I'm honestly thinking about making a sign for my door that says something like "DO NOT TOUCH ANYTHING (without asking first)." Because I'm getting really fed up with it all.
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I know I might be in the minority here, but I didn't find anything offensive in that Daniel video. Like those formats are built to be on the borderline offensive style and at least for me Daniels answers were not bad or offensive.
I might be a bad feminist idk but I was enjoying him laughing the whole time, like that man can't keep a straight face to save his life.
I dont think it makes you a bad feminist bb but you're allowed to not be offended by things just as people reserve the right to be offended as well
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Lucien did not pull his punches holy fuck. Free my boy Faber he did nothing wrong!!! Poor guy :(
Lucien has issues with Faber from the first moment that he (accurately) realises that Faber is in love with Caleb.
Tbh, while Lucien is horrible about it, it's also really unprofessional of Faber to stay working at Hillview while this is happening.
The priority of omegas and their welfare at Hillview comes first, and they are vulnerable, insecure, and often very jealous, and also not stupid, and being literally trapped/imprisoned on a property where you have to worry that your companion that you're forced to bond with might secretly be in love with someone else, or alternatively, that someone else might try and secretly bond with them (and like, your family or spouse are paying tens of thousands of dollars for you to stay there, sometimes close to 6 figures depending on the length of stay), is actually wildly inappropriate.
Faber's definitely in a difficult situation, but the reason he won't report what's happened, is that he knows he could get fired for not disclosing the situation to Dr Gary in the first place!
Which means Lucien solidly hates Faber for about two years, and Faber has to go out of his way to avoid Lucien (and Caleb) and sends other betas to deal with them instead (which makes Caleb think that Faber hates him, lol).
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kind of ironic that mclaren keeps bringing up how important mental health is to the team whilst using daniel as an emotional punching bag
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