#that theyre taking care of and feeding

[panicbones]

old orb drawings

#ultraman orb #ultraman #gai kurenai #ultraman ssp #orb is very hilarious when you consider that the ssp doesnt find out till the end (or rly fully at all besides naomi?) that gai is ultraman #so gai is just some hot guy that freeloads #that theyre taking care of and feeding #vs gai who literally DOES have to keep them safe bcuz theyre insane cryptid hunters going after kaiju #but the discrepancy in this understanding makes for a fantastic comedy #ur so useless... if u didnt have me u would die... #also. the fuwa. HRREGGhgg #toku #shinyart

[lucksea]

havent decided how i want the introduction to go yet but i imagine it would roughly be one of these two

#null havoc damage #cult of the lamb #i just havent decided what baal and ayms relation to narinder is. i like both main ideas for them #like its very fun and sweet to imagine that he sees them as his sons. but it makes more sense to me that he was more distant #i just dont see narinder as a father. i think he would take care of them but i dont think he would be affectionate at all #like genuinely. 'guardian' is the best term you could give him. they are his apprentices #he taught them magic and combat and they probably guided souls in his stead. but they arent family. to me #i think its possible in this au that once they all got free THEN they started bonding more #like baal and aym would have spent a long time with their mother but given their immortality from having some of the crowns powers #they would eventually return out of a sense of duty that they were raised with. which would lead to more genuine interaction #i think narinder could have a habit of taking in strays but i dont think he would be their dad. just someone to feed and protect them #until theyre old enough to leave. yknow #but i LIKE the idea of him being nice. because i am a sap. i think its sweet when people draw them getting along

[cursedzucchini]

DC x DP prompt #5

This is so dumb but Danny is Bruce's uncle.

And not in the Danny is old or whatever, no, my dude is 15 looks like he's 13 and when he was running away from home, he met this really really old lady which looked at him, looked at his wounds and went "aight I'm adopting u"

Danny thought she was a ghost and this was her obsession, so imagine his surprise when it turned out that not only this lady was alive, but also supposedly from very influential family??? Danny wasn't sure Abt that one, bc he himself never heard abt these "Waynes" like that just sounds weird, but hey. It made the lady happy so.

Anyway they part ways, bc the lady only wanted to adopt not care, and Danny decides, hey now that I have a new fam, maybe i should get to know them or something?

Well imagine his surprise when he found out some guy in his fifties is supposedly his nephew and has like bazillion kids.

Idk what happens next yada yada sheniganas happen and than Danny ends up in Gotham. And meets Bruce Wayne. Who obviously sees young child w si gns of abuse, black hair, blue eyes and is immidietly like "aight I'm adopting u" (like grandma like grandson huh)

Only this time, Danny is sure he isn't a ghost, and has a counter argument "u can't adopt me I'm ur uncle" and immidietly flees bc dealing w his problems isn't something he does.

Cue confused batfam or stuff idk, I'm so tired and this is just an excuse for crack

#they should maybe work out w Danny #dc x dp #dp x dc #dp x dc crossover #crossover #dcxdp #dp x dc writing prompt #danny fenton #bruce wayne #the batkids think this is absolutely fucking hilarious just until he turns his eyes on them and starts agressively taking care of them #bruce theyre sorry they laighed can u pls tell ur uncle to stop grabbing them by their necks and carrying them around like kittens??? #bruce does not see until danny does this to him #than it becomes something #danny is feral #also jason gets special treatment bc hes obviously sick and starved >:((( why arent u feeding him bruve >:(((((((( #i feel like someone mentions joker killed jason ajd danny goes very still #the discussion stops for a moment before they all try and stop danny from beating joker to death (danny wouldnt kill.him just...... #nah he totally would) #anyway personally i dont like children killing anyone bc its traumatizing so i think itd be pretty cool for jason to see this #bc like someone finally wants to kill the joker for him #but its 15 yo abused fetus and killing anyone wont help him get better #i might even argue itd make everything worse #and maybe hed kinda see stuff from bruces perspective?? tho the last few tags r just my personal stuff so feel free to ignore it lol #uncle danny >:)))

[the-nihilistic-rhapsodaire]

Ok so, can we talk about how Buddy Daddies episode 7 made me cry so much?

First of all, Kazuki was very relatable this episode because watching him, I remember my mom doing all the chores in our house- and sometimes I couldn't or just didn't want to help her, and seeing Kazuki go through the same thing kind of made me realize how I often underapprecaited my mom's efforts.

Second of all, I love that we see Rei sort of grow as a person this episode. In the beginning he kind of pissed me off a bit because he didn't really want to help Kazuki with the house or properly taking care of Miri at all, but I understand this might be because he hasn't had the chance to develop emotionally

But then, after Kazuki left, we see Rei trying his best to care for Miri and we see that he genuinely loves this kid- His daughter. He might not know much about housekeeping and general childcare, but Rei has his own strengths. And, as we see in the last minutes of the episode, Rei is trying to do better and help Kazuki with chores and cooking with Miri trying to help as well!

This episode made me cry because even though their family gives us cute, wholesome, and funny vibes every week, they also show the realistic, and serious side of having a family.

Families need teamwork- it isn't up to one person only to do all the work, and I love that!

I love Rei and Kazuki so much this episode because they know now that they can rely on each other and take care of their daughter together.

That they can help each other achieve their best selves and that both of them are very important to Miri. Rei and Kazuki are both Miri's papas- it takes work to be a family, but at the end of the day:

They are family

#buddy daddies #found family #Omg #long post btw #I LOVE FOUND FAMILY SO MUCH #this episode is probably my fav so far #The fact that rei shows just how much he cares by doing his best to at least feed and clothe Miri and take her to daycare #even tho its sunday lol #THEYRE SO WHOLESOME MY POOR HEART CANT TAKE IT #thank u for coming to my ted talk #Sponsored by my tears #Anyways time for the actual tags lol #suwa rei #rei suwa #kurusu kazuki #kazuki kurusu #miri unasaka #unasaka miri #buddy daddies episode 7 #Buddy Daddies epiosde 7 spoilers #BD Spoilers #BD ep 7 spoilers #kazurei #reikazu

[aceyanaheim]

it’s baked into my understanding of kakashi hatake that he has absolutely no clue how children work and thats just part of team 7s dysfunction listen.

#this man was all of 14 when his only support system died and hten went to work for Black Ops With Masks #like do you think that man knows Anything about how to human he was on the field while he still had milk teeth #when Minato got him he was legit 'this child the size of half my arm' #i cannot speify enough how much that warps what 'being a functioning peson' is #team sevens lucky he had dogs he went 'okay feed positive reinforcement make sure they dont trip over their own ambition to walk' and just #Went From There #like he'll show up with vegetables for naruto but also 'i was on my own by 8 bc my dad yknow Died so hes probably??? #fine??' #this man looks at Sasuke and thinks back when he was 12 and his best friend had just died and he saw his eye in the mirror nad lowkey the #dogs were taking care of Him and goes 'hn he's probably good right? I'll just teach him something i always cried less when i learned #something ' #'how am i supposed to know how kids work i dont even know how 'I' work doesnt even begin to fucking cover it Why Is This So Funny #everyone: poor kakashi he got the biggest gremlim kids with more issues than vogue #babes kakashi was the og he and the kids are just one big ball of what pray tell the fuck lilke hes Part of it he needs an adult #preferably one that didnt need a booster seat for his own chunnin exam #okay im done #just..its unhinged theyre All unhinged i love it #wtf i cant stop laughing #honestly Everything makes so much more sense

[fairy-made]

I love it when someone tells me they have indoor/outdoor cats because “they just need to be outside sometimes! its not fair to keep them locked up” and then in the next sentence “yeah I had another one a month ago but it got ran over” or “I have this other cat but I haven’t seen it in months” like.…….. are we not able to connect the dots orr…..

#and then they treat cats as though theyre SUPPOSED to come and go out of our lives like that #like WHY are you ok with saying you had 32 cats in your lifetime and most of them got killed sick or went missing forever??????? #like you DO know cats can live longer than 2-3yrs right???? like theyre not just disposable pets????? #its one thing if youre just trying to take care of strays and you cant home them #but another to claim youre a cats owner and you just…. dont see it except for feeding time lmao

[optimisticrunawaygalaxy]

soo tempted to add hyper specific shit to DNI lists honestly

#dni if you think spider morphs in balls or any breed is ethical/okay to breed #dni if you think live feeding is ethical/the right choice (unless they wont take anything but live) #those two are genuine btw. go fuck yourself if you think live feeding or spider morphs are okay to do #Oh But Theyre So Pretty :( DO I LOOK LIKE I GIVE A SINGLEEEEEE FUCK #I DO NOT. I dont care how pretty there are. there are other BEAUTIFUL morphs out there that dont cause horrendous neurological #issues you BITCH. god.

[landlordevil]

This has been eye opening for my real life contacts, like who is speaking up and sharing information and who won't stop fucking travel blogging for five minutes to say something, anything. I feel equally heartened by the many people I know who are fighting and equally disheartened by all the people I know who are intentionally looking the other way

#i havent used insta in ages but opening it up and using it as yet another live feed on the continued genocide was a good decision. #not just to hear people's stories and watch what theyre risking their lives to say #but to see the people in my life- most of them people i havent talked to in years and years- either stand up or stay silent #someone i was friends w in hs actually reached out to me after i posted on my story about a protest coming up #so i am not the only one taking notes on who cares. #i know social media doesn't equal real life engagement- #there r countless things in my life i don't talk about on here and this blog is the closest thing i have to a diary (sad!) #but if you are actively posting about your backpacking trip to europe and you're actively ignoring #all of the people in your life who are begging anyone to listen? #no more respect for you. if i had any to begin with

[orcelito]

Lately, I've been learning to not take things for granted. I've been taking videos of my cats a bit more. Got a video today of me feeding June Bug and Tally, including bits of their meows

I deeply regret not having any record of the sound of Cassy's meow. I'm trying to make up for it with my girls, though.

#speculation nation #animal death ment/ #i do have a video of me feeding Sammy. so i have at least one sample of his meow. #i just... never expected Cassy to die so young. not even 2 years old... #this summer has taught me not to take anything for granted #& that someone can go from a pillar in your life to dead in 6 weeks. #ive been awfully paranoid about everyone i care about dying. including my cats. #nothing is guaranteed. your cat can die with as little as an hour of warning. #you can see your uncle one day and then he's dead the next. #you said goodbye but you didnt know it was the last time. #and i keep thinking about whether each goodbye is my last one. every single goodbye could be the last one. #after 5 deaths in 5 years i just really do not have a good relationship with permanence. #or rather. trust in permanence. i do not trust it. because it's clear that it does not exist. #but it'd be nice if i could look at my cats without wondering which one's gonna be next. #trying to enjoy my time with them to the fullest. appreciate them while theyre here. #and not think about how id need a new memorial shelf for their ashes bc my current one is full. #.....ok maybe i am still a lil fucked up about it all. can u blame me tho. shit's been rough lmaot #negative/ #yea. this accidentally turned into a vent. whoops.

[skrunksthatwunk]

not rascal's deadbeat owner coming around when im not home and telling my roommate she's taking him for a week (our break is 4 weeks or so, implying he's gonna be back here even though That's Her Cat Not Ours) and then just picking up the new toys i bought for him and taking them with her without even asking. hey. hi. those are mine

#like yes i want rascal to use them so he can be happy and fulfilled but also i dont fucking trust you #she didnt even ask. i wasnt even AROUND and she just yoinked them #she also took the new litter box my roomie got for him bc the old one was so caked in shit that 20 mins in a powerful sink didnt even #change it. like bedrock-hard cat shit. who fucking knows how old that was bc they never clean or empty it. fucks sake #and obv he needs a litter box and my roomie threw the old one away bc again it was Unsalvageably And Hazardously Filthy #like we could get sick he could get sick. get a grip #but like i dont wanna be feeding her replacements for her stuff she doesn't take care of over and over #just burning money trying to make rascal's life a Little better bc again our control over his situation is limited bc hes literally her cat #it's so frustrating. like i waited a full month to get him new toys bc i didn't know how long this situation was gonna last and i dont have #cats and cant have them for a while (not that this is stopping me oops) so it's not like the toys'll be used w me #like if she decided to up and drop him at a shelter like she'd planned less than a couple months ago I'd be sittjng in a pile of cat stuff #but he needs more stuff yknow. theyre not providing for him and i have the means to atm. and just when i bite the bullet and surprise him #with a bunch of new things he was SO excited about she swoops in without warning and takes him #god. my roommate told me he just froze up when his owner came in..and he looked so pissed about it #having to go back and leave us and leave all his fun new stuff to go back to the room where they cant even bother to feed him regularly #much less play with him or take care of him #it's heartbreaking. it's such a delicate situation im trying to move carefully so we don't lose him completely but it's so frustrating going #slow. ughhghhgh AND THEYRE ALWAYS LIKE man he's so much nicer to y'all. MAYBE IT'S BC WE TREAT HIM WELL. CRAZY THOUGHT I KNOW #fucking. i love that little man this sucks for him so bad. trying to get him back for a couple days while im here but no response yet #and my roommate's staying on campus over break so she's gonna show up as soon as that week's over like I'm Here For Rascal. Your Time Is Up. #rauguhhhhh sorry if these rascal vent posts are a downer guys. it's just. god dude. fucking hell #i know this is a stupid situation i have gotten myself into i know it's stupid to try and finagle someone's pet from them BUT SHES ABUSIVE #AND SUPER LIKE. INDIFFERENT?? AND APATHETIC ABOUT WHETHER OR NOT THE PPL SHE DUMPS HIM ON CARE FOR HIM WELL OR NOT. AGH #sighhhh. whatever. gotta focus on tmr's exam and then i can complain about rascal some more. #i get she prolly thinks it's a team effort but the only reason we take her stuff is bc we didn't have a cat and werent planning on it #ggggghhzgzzjzjkkzkzkkzkk. grinding my teeth

[theygender]

I'm reading up about hognose snakes rn and I want one SO BAD but I can't have one both bc my gf has a phobia of snakes and also bc I don't think I have the heart to feed it mice 😭

#i dont think ill ever really have the opportunity to get a snake with my gf's phobia #but if i did it would need to be an insectivore #apparently hognose snakes can also eat eggs but id imagine an egg only diet wouldnt be very nutritionally balanced for them #and im not about to buy an animal just to neglect it #(they can also eat amphibians and lizards but that can introduce parasites to them AND i still dont think id have the heart for it) #theyre so cute tho omg. they crawl in between your fingers and take little sippy sips from water #ideally their startle responses wouldnt be something id ever see bc i wouldnt want them to get stressed out but even THOSE are cute #they flatten themselves to the ground like a pancake to make themselves look Bigger but they actually just look cute #they flare their neck out to pretend to be a cobra but when baby snakes do it its adorable #instead of biting to ward off predators they hit them with their noses #and if that doesnt work they full on play dead. LITERALLY roll onto their backs and loll their tongues out #and if someone flips them back over when theyre doing that theyll roll back onto their backs again like noooo dont look at me im deeaaad #they get really excited about feeding time too and apparently some of them will open their little mouths like a baby bird #mice are one of their main prey sources in the wild and to my knowledge they don't eat fish #but when they're babies you gotta teach them to eat frozen/thawed mice by putting juice from a tuna can on it like you're weaning a kitten #once they get past their picky toddler stage tho they'll come up to the front of the cage and beg for food #i want a snek so bad 😭 #someone who can take really good care of a snake without getting in their feels about feeder mice please get one so i can hang out with it #rambling

[em-bandaid-boy]

Feeling mentally unwell this fine 3 am. Have some doodles

GIRL I did it I reached the tag limit holy shit

#ocs #my ocs #my original characters #original character #my art #lgbt ocs #i happened to think about when teachers give highschoolers eggs and are like. go. take care of this. #except bird people exist in this universe and idk if i want them to like. lay. eggs. #although that is a prime avenue for comedy in which alex thinks all babies come from eggs for a bit #he like. sees a pic of his brother as an egg or some shit and hes like. oh okay cool i wonder what my egg looked like #and he draws a picture of it and its like. an easter egg. which is funny bc hes a rabbit #anyways. i gave them a bag of flour instead. #they have vastly different approaches to this #alex sees it as like. a cute relationship thing where theyre caring for a 'baby' together and melody just. doesnt get it #like. mel thinks they could just put it somewhere safe and not have to do anything but alex wants to like. hold it and pretend to feed it #but mel would end up like sitting on the couch watching a movie with a bag of flour bc it makes alex happy for him to spend time with it #and they intend for the new bag to be a helpful gift to alex and not like. a replacement for thier dead flour child #see and at the same time alex doesnt pressure mel to fully pretend with him bc he can tell they really dont understand the emotional aspect #like. he doesnt make mel carry the flour exactly like a baby but at least comprises and gets him to hold it less precariously #and he doesnt complain about what movies mel watches with it bc at the end of the day the flour bag isnt gonna have horror movie nightmares #do you guys remember that mel is autistic. does any of this make sense #solving my mental crisis by rambling about gays and thier highschool projects #BRO I Want cheerios. not sponsored. imaging if cheerios sponsored me??? why #anyways back to the flour bag #when its in mels house its just hanging around with them or in random places and mels parents are like ah yes. our son and his bag of flour #meanwhile in alexs house itd get accidentally swept up with groceries one day thus causing the cookie incident #they would get a second try at it bc alexs mom would send in a letter explaining what happened #oh btw i think alex would try to be cute and call it like melody jr. or something and mel is like. okay ig. flour bag #also btw i know an entire bag of flour would make an intense amount of cookies.. uhh yeah i BAKE things im gay #its been an hour

[cosmik-homo]

honestly i was Jesting about it at first but no the birdfey and the goblin are kinda femme4butch for real. its magic its so much

#acofaf #me and rue tugging at hob simoltenously: i see your loyalty and protective tedencies and everything. magnificent. makes my <3 go loopdyloop #have you CONSIDERED. um. letting yourself also have light. who is taking care of YOU. what about YOUR emotions. #and theyre the same! the root that was meant to feed them is not! and they see each other and theyre so different and so the same!

[lesbiten]

literally so excited to see my birds tomorrow

#i dont think my brother has been letting them out of the cage (which is completely fair and i dont blame him bc he. works for Most of TheDay #and sometimes they are motherfuckers about getting back into the cage but he is feeding and watering them so theyre okay) #so when i get there and let them out for the first time in a week. acacia probably wont care but i think juniper is going to Attack Me. #because he knows im the Cage Opener hes going to want me to pay for leaving him #any other time ive had to leave for a week or so and come back and let the birds out acacia has alwyas been like. Yeah Whatever #but oasis was always SO EAGER to get the fuck out of there. and i just know junipers going to be the exact same #i just would not put it past him to Actually Attack Me. i love him but he is so confident in his ability to fuck you up even though he #weighs less than a pound probably #i have been having him take precautions in case juniper flies out while hes feeding and watering them and i have a hard time believing #he hasnt tried to fly out. because hes done that to me many times already #maybe he has just been leaving the cage door open for them. idk. you would think id text him to ask but i suppose ill just find out tomorrow #simon says

[byrdblood]

btw i have reached the point of recovery where i still feel too bad to move, get out of bed, play games or draw, but i have become Aware enough to be violently bored

if anyone else is awake can u send me pictures of ur pets or somehting. preferably cats. or reptiles. bonus points for axolotls or leeches. 

#keegan talks #im so tired but i cant sleep sglkhslag #why body ow tan mucho #fun fact: my boyfriend had a pet leech for a while #it was a wild one he rescued so sadly not a super long life span and she passed away after a few months #but she had lots of fun in her big ass enclosure i'll tell u that #he named her zuccerberg mayonaise #deadass not joking #and none of us have ever had a reptile (not enough money for care that complex) but someday i would love to have an axolotl #and my boyfriend wants a bearded dragon #but yeah i fukcing love leeches #theyre so cute #lil nibble worms! #they dont hurt you or nothin #i mean i wouldnt go out of my way to let a wild leech feed on me cuz u dont know where its mouth has been but medical leeches are cool #they just do a lil nibble and a lil suck and then they get sleepy and take a nap #what a life! #oh to be a big fat leech with a cute orange tummy...

[snekdood]

😬

the "leader" is more like "leaders". normally one might think of stalin or something, but hes just a blueprint, the actual leaders are the ones at the top of the social pyramid within these spaces, such as popular tankie blogs

this ones obvious. i dont feel like i need to say anything. we've all seen how ppl act on here when you question any of their beliefs or the effectiveness of them, etc. and if you challenge them at all or say you dont agree, suddenly you're a horrible person or even a bigot of some form

i underlined "denunciation sessions" bc theres a big emphasis on here to denounce the old "unwoke" parts of your life. not so that ppl should change for the better, but because there's a pressure to change immediately and throw all your old beliefs out the window without even really unpacking them. its their way or the highway and you have to choose right now and its not a multiple choice test. i also underlined "debilitating work" bc theres an emphasis on reblogging things to "spread awareness" or whatever as soon as it pops up on your dash, and if you dont, you're a horrible person, etc.

while i dont really think many of the options given necessarily apply, they sort of do. you dont need "permission" to date, but you'll be berated for dating the "wrong type of person". you'll be told to change or quit jobs if the job does something tumblr communities dont agree with, even if you need the job, and usually they'll call it "boycotting" to make it seem more legit. they'll discourage you from moving to any state or country that they deem isnt progressive enough.

this one goes without saying. instead of it being some random air of superiority, it's "we're the most moral, correct and progressive people" superiority

this one also goes w/o saying, people on here think incredibly black and white all the time, its definitely encouraged.

this one ALSO goes without saying

this one is obvious as evidenced the past two months. everyone saying "believe victims" and that "rape is always bad" in the past but then coming in to defend hamas' actions at every turn and deny the rape or even say that "if it did happen it was justified". which is a fucking wild way to think about the world and you should be locked up.

also obvious. tankies love to guilt trip. nevermind if it backfires on them and makes ppl resent them and move to the right after. i mean, after all, all they cared about was the power they had in telling ppl what to do, not actually giving a fuck about anything or having any convictions.

yes bc if you interact with anyone ppl on tumblr generally dont like, you'll also be shunned. if you have family members who aren't "progressive" enough and you still accept them into your life and hang out with them, even if you dont necessarily want to or dont necessarily like them fully, the fact you still interact with them at all is bad, apparently.

obviously, bc who would want to stick around a place like this once they realize whats really going on. its why they demonize ppl like me or anyone who questions them too much and pushes us to side, to use us as examples for the new, younger people coming in that they get to manipulate and tell them to avoid you and avoid being like you, since you ever dared to question them. they'll call you whatever they need to, make bullshit up about you, JUST to lure ppl in and tell them how much better they are than you, or that if you listen to them they can avoid being like you.

i mean. yeah? maybe it doesnt seem that way but. ppl asking for money all the time through paypal or whatever? or the overall goal of "taking the billionaires wealth and redistributing it", while its a statement i generally agree with, i dont trust that the people saying it will be that responsible, and would probably just hoard money for themselves, and deprive it from people they "dont like" on purpose, almost as revenge for a real or perceived slight, or just bc they dont like someones "bad vibes".

yeah you're apparently supposed to take having tumblr mutuals very seriously, treat them like best buds even though you've probably never messaged eachother or messaged eachother twice about inane things you saw on tumblr. its not a total stranger bc its someone on tumblr so its fine actually! see, they say they're queer and a leftist in their bio, totally safe! thats all it takes! also activism is reblogging or something ig

if you go to other sites, you're looked down upon. if you make friends outside of tumblr communities, you're looked down upon.

people feel like w/o the communities they've built on tumblr, they have no safety net elsewhere, probably bc they've cut contact with WAY too many people, probably plenty of people who didnt even deserve to be, and probably bc they disagreed on like 1 or 2 things. regardless, they cling to the tumblr "safety" net for dear life. "if no one else got me, i know tumblr got me, heres my paypal" essentially. you cant trust the world outside of tumblr to take care of you never of course, its all bad and horrible and can never be fixed or useful in any capacity, etc. burn it all down and start it again with tumblr users in charge and then it'll be perfect, or so they think.

#cults #ex cult #tankies #yall make progressives look so so bad. #yall actively hurt leftism at every angle. #the way ppl on this website act is no joke part of the reason why conservatives think leftists are in a cult. #its bc the more extreme of leftists kinda fuckin are #sure conservatives make shit up about us too like the whole 'child grooming' shit but they're still not exactly wrong for seeing #some of yall as culty. idk what to tell you. they just take advantage of the perception of the culty part of the left to push a narrative #about leftists in general and sprinkle in conspiracy theories for THEIR own rw cult to keep them in check and to maybe lure in #people who are paranoid- bc ppl have every reason to be paranoid of the culty parts of the left- but conservatives take that and then also #add in a couple lies for their own agenda and benefit. a mom could be concerned about drag queens talking to kids and maybe stumbled #upon kink discourse- maybe even possibly on here- and found minors interacting with the discourse and then goes to the right and they #say that 'yes the left wants to groom your kid into becoming gay and doing 'HEINOUS' 'brutal' kinks! and drag queens are part of it!' #or whatever tf along those lines. and then maybe shes still on the fence about it but some extremist on the left being ironic #embraces all these accusations and shitty perceptions and says they're true to- in their minds- push the right ppl away #even though theyre also pushing ppl on the fence to the right. maybe they do it out of irony or bc theyre just tired of the bs but either #way feeding into it actually doesnt help- not to surprise you! gotta be more careful around paranoid ppl. #your apathy about how you come off isnt always a good thing. #a better example might be when conservatives go 'oh the left is so horrible and violent' and ppl in the middle are like 'really?' and look #over to us for a moment and see the assholes in the back going on about gulags n shit along those lines- only confirming the bias #made against them.