funniest fucking thing was when i thought i was just into some really freaky shit because regular nudity and sex didn't turn me on
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BARBIE. THAT SCENE.
i like that its a joke and all but I can't help but genuinely route for the Barbie to be Asexual.
and I KNOW its a long shot or whatever but, it'll mean so much to my personal experience with barbie if she does end up ace.
to see every girl's (me included) childhood role model, the utter epitomy of hetero-normatovity in its history, become an asexual baddie with thousands of careers and achievement, with charm, wit, and grace.
And to know that little me was more similar to barbie than she thought.
You have to realize just how monumental that would feel.
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listen im ace and im pro kink at pride and whatever, but the way some of yall are wording your posts in response to the backlash against it is uh. really taking me back to the ace shitcourse era.
yall know theres nothing wrong with being a "virgin", right? that its not inherently shameful to have not had sex, to never have sex, even if youre not ace, even if you do want to have sex someday, like, its fine that you haven't had sex?
maybe if your problem is that theyre trying to police your behavior and shame you for expressing your sexuality, you can say that? instead of resorting to "haha stupid virgin gets no bitches" like my god. do you not hear how fucking regressive that attitude is? i know, i know, youre "joking".
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get a better joke
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You'd think I have it easier than most people, being aroace. No fluster no sleep lost over the fear of rejection, right?
I wouldn't know. I haven't gone through what you have. I don't know if I'm fortunate or not. Regardless of the people out there, somewhere, celebrating their aromantism, 'romance isn't what makes us human', I don't know. There's a piece of life other people have that I won't ever go through. I won't ever have that feeling in your chest for that person, that indescribable feeling. I'm the odd one out. I'm the one without.
What I know, let me tell you, is running into a wall, over and over again and times where maybe I would've liked her if I weren't aroace. It's unlearning everything everyone taught me since forever. It's undoing the wiring I twisted together, taking apart the lies I convinced myself of. It's confusing, it's infuriating, it's difficult.
And just when- a moment, two blinks, three breaths after I thought I sorted everything out, when I thought I finally unraveled the multitude of fiction, something happens and a part of the made-up facts weaves itself back together. The cycle continues.
So- so you tell me. Tell me when your hand is in hers what I'm doing wrong. Tell me where's my right person at the right time. Tell me I'm too young to decide, tell me my mindset is a tragedy, tell me I'm confused. Tell me with a ring on your finger a story that will never be mine.
Tell me. I will take your puzzle pieces, and construct a picture of delusions and take it apart, over and over again.
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tbh other than pretending to have crushes on kids in elementary school, the first hint that I was aromantic should have been that time I showed my bf When He Sees Me and he jokingly said “is that how you felt when you met me?” and my immediate first reaction was to be uncomfortable before I just went “psh, no.”
and then I never questioned why that would make me uncomfortable
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