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urbonline-blog · 6 years

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What Do You Want?

Good question huh!? 🤔

Well, I want to be me... 👑 unapologetically. In college I was so me it was AWESOME and it went very, very well! I kind of let it go in 2014 after some family disappointment. Mild situations led to full depression. The blessing being that I trimmed my christmas list way down, while realizing that I have made very few mistakes in life.

Even the "lefts" had a good lesson while still keeping me close t78o my path. I AM very well rewarded for just being Myself. I can see that life is free and clear for my next ideas and creations. 😎 I am so excited for the next phase of my life.

What I want to do is actually what I'm doing. I live in peace eating well and celebrating amazing days with my family as a free spirited mystical writer. 🍃

💁🏽‍♀️My purpose in life is to break old family pathologies/curses in order to build prosperous foundation for my little ones. I build up my vibe so I can shine brighter than before. When you do this others can see clearly when they hit darkness. I'm like a solar panel lighting your dinner party in the garden. Just by being myself, I not only build ☄ light for myself but for all those around me even if it's just my family.

I AM here to be a blessing to others with my writings and well kept family. We are a place to heal, relax and celebrate the day! 🌞

Thank you for dealing with my dualities and confusion during my recent chryalisis. I emerge better before and ready to find my tribe... The Urban Ladies! 🦋

✌🏽Peace & 💖 Blessings

#219 #oasis #urbonline #miller beach #writer #urbstyle living #nwi #gary #the region #steel city #magic city

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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A mini episode to explain my most asked question... What are you doing? . . . #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #GaryIndiana #Woman #AlongTheShore #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Magick #MillerBeach #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #Gary #Miller #CityOfGary #ig_indiana #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzazpdoAU_D/?igshid=l2i0mgwg9mnl

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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Review Of Miller Woods From Bill Cawley (August 1, 2017, 12:02 am) Beautiful walk, hike any time of the year. Park at the Paul Douglas Center, for more parking, though there is a small lot directly at the Woods on Lake Street, Miller Ind. Trail is easy to moderate with a few sand hills to cross but even mid-summer, not enough to get you winded. Beautiful scenery everywhere, from lush trees to a vast array of seasonal wildflowers. Lots of birds, not unusual to see a variety of Herons and Ducks.Trail winds through dunes to a lagoon and eventually to Lake Street on the shores of Lake Michigan. Need some quiet, alone time? Some family together time? Or a walk with your special someone, Miller Woods is the place. 📷 By Bill Cawley . . . #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #GaryIndiana #Woman #AlongTheShore #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Magick #MillerBeach #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #Gary #Miller #CityOfGary #ig_indiana #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Miller Beach Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzYMQz4g1qg/?igshid=6wg6l7jwrp2c

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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#TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #GaryIndiana #Woman #AlongTheShore #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #Blessings #Magick #MillerBeach #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #Gary #Miller #CityOfGary #ig_indiana #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BzUCLmqgtP1/?igshid=azci71vawdgd

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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#queen #married #loveofmylife #lovemyking #urbonline #urbanlady #marriedlife #marriedcouple #marriedmybestfriend #marriedcouples #MarriedWithChildren #marriedgoals #MarriedLifeRocks #marriedaf #marriedtomybestfriend #marriedup #marriedwoman #MarriedForLife #marriedwithkids #marriedtoNarada (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxepTw8F-C4/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=hy0hx3nheidr

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📷By lonerwolf . . . #Healing #healingjourney #healingpower #healinghearts #healingvibes #HealingTools #healingprocess #healingtime #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #Woman #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #CityOfGary #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0BlRhjAzby/?igshid=iwlrgg1ky3wq

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urbonline-blog · 6 years

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I Am asking and listening from the level of the heart. 💚

In conversation, I am showing up with full presence. I bring no judgment and no expectations. I am listening not to respond, but simply to hear and see completely before I speak.

The Urban Lady

#219 #urbstyle #living #gary #millerbeach #indiana #steelcity #life #nwi #urbonline #urban #lady #urb #love #urbstyle living

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urbonline-blog · 6 years

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Wednesday May 23

Correspondence, Brainstorming

and Check Self Alignment

#urbstyle #days #219 #nwi #oasis #miller beach #writer #urbonline #urbstyle living

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urbonline-blog · 6 years

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Sooooo 2017 was awesome! We learned a lot, one of the more important things being that we have got to post more often! There are some cool projects being prepped for next season.There is an online community center, immersion learning curriculum and the tastiest menu plans the kids could think of. Join us December 22nd for the unveiling of our new magazine cover and website.

#urban #lady #magazine #website #nwi #gary #219 #urbonline #ladies #league #selfsustainable #transformation #love #happiness

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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📷 By Rita Loud Nurture Yourself Nurture yourself as you begin to uncover your shadow and open up. Give yourself permission to process emotions freely. You may notice that it gets harder before it gets easier. You are bringing up unprocessed, repressed material. As your shadow rises, cummulative feelings of shame, sadness, anger and frustration may surface. The irony (and beauty) is — you can turn this energy into fuel to fire for your passion and creativity. The energy you used to hold up a false self or hide out is now available to redirect. Our vulnerability is the tender place where we have the most opportunity to crack open and experience deep unconditional love and authentic connection What are your shadow qualities? Please leave a comment below with a few of the shadow qualities you’ve identified. Mine: being late being competitive and jealous perfectionism leading to procrastination that holds me (and those around me) prisoner Follow Ashley Turner on Twitter:www.twitter.com/AshleyTurner1 . . . #Healing #healingjourney #healingpower #healinghearts #healingvibes #HealingTools #healingprocess #healingtime #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #Woman #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #CityOfGary #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0Bkcs2ggt0/?igshid=15sl4jhsighk7

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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📷By Unknown Practice Radical Self Forgiveness Once you identify your Shadow, you can move from judgment to understanding by practicing forgiving yourself. Allow yourself to be human and experience the full spectrum of emotions. In yoga and Buddhism, this is known as karuna or compassion and is the foundation of self love and freedom. Soften your perception. Breathe deeply into the sides of your heart to expand. Consider how such unsavory traits were necessary in the past as a coping or defensive mechanism. Be kind and generous of Spirit. Compassion for yourself blossoms, breeding compassion for others. Everyone wins. Only when my client released her perfectionism and forgave herself could she turn her full attention to cleaning up her financial house. She was no longer at war within. She got honest with her boyfriend about her credit card debt and quit feeling like a fraud. The bridge between our inner and outer worlds leads to an unshakeable confidence. We actually like who we are when we know we can trust ourselves to keep it real. From Shadow Work: The Beauty of Darkness By Ashley Turner . . . #Healing #healingjourney #healingpower #healinghearts #healingvibes #HealingTools #healingprocess #healingtime #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #Woman #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #CityOfGary #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0BjlvAAx1g/?igshid=13owf26rtv9pt

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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📷 By Blipfuzz Shadow Work: The ‘F*** You’ Letter “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.” — Carl Jung The quickest way to see your shadow is to notice what qualities you tend to criticize or gossip about in other people. Look carefully as these aren’t necessarily “bad” qualities, but often masquerade as traits that society applauds such as the tendency to overachieve, project positivity or be a “Supermom.” Once you recognize the qualities you criticize in others, flip it to see how they show up in you. A great way to start to own these qualities in yourself is to write an “F*** You” letter. If you have someone you’re angry at or harboring resentment towards, write a letter addressed to this person and tell them what pisses you off and why. “Dear ..., F*** you for... F*** you for...” Be as specific, graphic and thorough as possible. List out the exact qualities or incidents that irritate you. Caveat: This language is strong. I have found that it is useful to get this raw to access the primal, emotional core that is hurt or afraid. If you resist writing such a strong letter to someone you love (your lover, parent or child) — know that this is only 1 voice of your psyche — not the whole story, but one that needs to be heard. Once the letter is complete, go back to the beginning and replace their name with your name. As you read through your letter recognize where these qualities show up in yourself, even if to a lessor degree. . . . #Healing #healingjourney #healingpower #healinghearts #healingvibes #HealingTools #healingprocess #healingtime #TheUrbanLady #219 #URBstyle #Living #FromGaryWithLove #Woman #TheRegion #BlackGirlMagic #Spirit #Spirituality #Peace #TheSteelCity #Life #UrbOnline #BlackWoman #CityOfGary #UrbanWellness #MomLife #NWI #MommyLifeNWI #Pride #IAmAmerica (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/B0BiUsLgOkc/?igshid=cmgic57jwbl9

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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🌟🌝Happy Full Moon🌕⭐ . . . #moon #moonlight #Moonchild #moonstone #moonshine #spirit #moonrock #moonlovers #moonwalk #moonrise #saturday #blackgi#blackgirlmagick #chakrahealing #chakra #moonphase #moonma #solarplexus #throatchakra #moonwatch #heartchakra #moongoddess #prettybosstv #theremixradio #urbstyle #altar #urbonline #msblue (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxoOfLuAph2/?igshid=9p15wi6aohgb

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urbonline-blog · 5 years

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🌕Full Moon Ritual🌟 🤔Release In Order To Build😏 🌻Solar Plexus Healing🍋 . . . #moon #moonlight #Moonchild #moonstone #moonshine #spirit #moonrock #moonlovers #moonwalk #moonrise #saturday #blackgi#blackgirlmagick #chakrahealing #chakra #moonphase #healing #solarplexus #throatchakra #moonwatch #heartchakra #moongoddess #prettybosstv #theremixradio #urbstyle #altar #urbonline #msblue (at Gary, Indiana) https://www.instagram.com/p/BxoaITwACcN/?igshid=apiuzaacekw3

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urbonline-blog · 6 years

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Its...

Tie loose ends, pamper self, fun with family

Most importantly work on self as you wind down the week! So celebrate like you live on...

#urbonline #219 #northwest #indiana

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