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limitlessend · 1 year

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You don’t love someone unless you accept them wholly, in the NOW. If there is any part of them that you would like to change, fix or control then you’re using them to fill a void within you. It’s an escape, control mechanism— a distraction from yourself. This is not to say that evolution and growth shouldn’t be a focus in a relationship. In fact if evolution and growth is a priority, then it will and can ONLY stem from love. Without love, there can be no growth or evolution. There can only be the ego’s domination, in the name of love— the root of ALL relationship problems.

—L.A.M.P

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aoun101 · 11 months

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His Secret Obsession - Unveiling the Power of Emotional Connection

Introduction: In the world of relationships, understanding the intricacies of human emotions and establishing a deep connection with your partner is crucial. His Secret Obsession, a relationship program designed by James Bauer, claims to unlock the secrets to building a profound emotional bond with your man. With promises of "insane conversions" and a success rate of 90%, this program has garnered considerable attention. In this article, we will explore the pros and cons of His Secret Obsession, its potential benefits, and provide an unbiased review.

Pros of His Secret Obsession:

Emotional Insight: His Secret Obsession delves into the psychology of men, providing valuable insights into their desires, needs, and emotional triggers. By understanding these aspects, you can gain a deeper understanding of your partner and strengthen your connection.

Practical Techniques: The program offers practical techniques and strategies to enhance communication, spark attraction, and promote a healthier relationship. It provides step-by-step guidance, making it easier to implement the concepts in real-life scenarios.

Versatility: His Secret Obsession is designed for women in various relationship stages, whether you are in a committed relationship, dating, or seeking to reignite the spark in a long-term partnership. The program claims to be effective regardless of age, background, or relationship history.

User-Friendly Format: The program is available in an accessible digital format, including e-books and audio recordings. This allows users to access the content at their convenience and learn at their own pace.

Cons of His Secret Obsession:

Subjective Results: While the program boasts a high success rate, individual results may vary. The effectiveness of His Secret Obsession largely depends on the specific circumstances, dynamics, and compatibility within each relationship.

Unrealistic Expectations: The program's marketing emphasizes "insane conversions," which may create unrealistic expectations. It's important to approach the program with an open mind, understanding that building a strong emotional connection takes time and effort.

Limited Gender Focus: His Secret Obsession is primarily tailored for women seeking to strengthen their relationships with men. It may not provide the same level of guidance or relevance for same-sex couples or women in relationships with non-binary individuals.

Benefits of His Secret Obsession:

Enhanced Emotional Connection: The program's core objective is to help you establish a profound emotional bond with your partner. By applying the techniques and strategies taught in His Secret Obsession, you can create a deeper level of intimacy and understanding within your relationship.

Improved Communication: Effective communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. His Secret Obsession offers valuable insights and practical tips on how to communicate more effectively with your partner, leading to greater harmony and mutual understanding.

Heightened Attraction: The program explores the concept of "hero instinct" and reveals ways to trigger a man's natural instincts to protect and provide for his partner. By tapping into these primal desires, His Secret Obsession claims to help reignite attraction and passion within the relationship.

Review: His Secret Obsession offers a comprehensive approach to understanding and strengthening the emotional connection in relationships. While the program provides valuable insights and practical techniques, it is important to approach it with realistic expectations. Results may vary depending on individual circumstances, and it is crucial to consider the uniqueness of each relationship. However, for those willing to invest time and effort into implementing the strategies, His Secret Obsession may provide a valuable resource for building a deeper and more fulfilling connection with their partner.

Remember, building a strong and lasting relationship requires mutual effort, open communication, and a genuine desire to understand and support each other. His Secret Obsession can be a helpful tool, but it should be seen as a complementary resource rather than a magical solution.

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nellasbookplanet · 9 months

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Of all the Bell's Hells, the character I think would be most interesting to see having to personally deal with direct mortal-god interactions is Laudna. (that's a lie, I want to see ashton get into contact with the luxon so bad, but the luxon isn’t part of the established pantheon and might not even be a god so that is a discussion for another post)

Mostly, the group seems pretty ambivalent on the gods, but ever since her experiences during the solstice and the party split Laudna has veered from 'neutral' to 'actively negative'. I think it's all her previous compartmentalization being forced to a screeching halt from dealing with so much bad shit at once and she does not like dealing with her emotions, and it's making her lash out at the perceived cause of said emotions: the gods. Were the gods, and in extension all of Exandria, not in danger she and the party wouldn’t be going through hell right now trying to save them. Obviously this isn’t entirely rational and veers on victim blaiming, but characters under a lot of stress and going through dark shit aren’t always logical, and either way Laudna is still working to stop Ludinus regardless of her feelings so I'm not holding it against her.

She's also a pretty isolated and 'me and mine' type character who’s been dealt a very bad hand for most of her life. Prior to meeting the hells, the only person she really cared about was Imogen because Imogen was the only one who cared about her. She doesn’t see 'a god resurrected me', she sees 'Imogen and the hells resurrected me'; she doesn’t see 'the gods, who have done much good in the world, need help', she sees 'the entire world (and especially Imogen), is in danger because the gods, who I've never seen neither hide nor hair of, can’t handle their own shit'. It’s leading to a lot of messy emotions where she has to involve herself in a conflict she doesn’t care about, because the core victims of said conflict (the gods) are people she has zero relationship and connection to.

Having Laudna, through her connection to the Sun Tree, come into contact with Pelor would be such an interesting and challenging route to take. Be it simple visons/dreams, as an extended sort of patron, or fully becoming a champion, either would be cool, but the point is that it would allow Laudna an avenue to work through and come to terms with her conflicted feelings regarding the gods and her own trauma as having nothing to do with them instead of viewing them as borderline scapegoats. It would challenge growth in her as a character, but it would also challenge growth in Pelor, as some of her critiques of him are entirely valid (coughhearthdellcough). It’s good for there to be followers who aren't blindly obedient but who question and challenge.

Also, there’s the fact that Marisha-as-Keyleth, another character who was at best ambivalent about the gods, offered to be Pelor's champion in c1 before Vex stepped up. It'd be cool to finally get to see Marisha truly play out the dynamic of 'jaded mortal forced by circumstance to ally with a god and using it to work through her own feelings of trauma'.

#critical role meta #critical role #cr3 #laudna #this campaign has the opportunity to do some really unique (for critrole) things with god-follower relationships!#already we have fcg fumbling his way as a follower who used to think himself soulless and not alive #now coming to terms with faith entirely without outside guidance and learning personhood through it #we could have ashton fostering a relationship with the luxon in the future #and fearne with a LITERAL BETRAYER GOD #and having laudna‚ a character entirely uninterested in faith and godliness‚ be forced to deal with the gods as people and patrons #would be another really cool and unique route to take #nella talks cr

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marvelling-at-marvel-blog · 3 months

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The thing about S1 Jamie that I think is interesting is I think on rewatch there is some insight as to why Jamie went so hard on the bullying of Sam. (Not gonna be defending Jamie's treatment of Sam just looking into maybe why). Because out of all of the things Jamie did is season one. The one that seems hardest to understand or really forgive is his treatment of Sam. The first time around, you couldn't understand it. Sam is legitimately the kindest man in existence. (I know as a stroyteller it was the easiest way to really get us to dislike Jamie and really make us more understanding of Roy's treatment of Jamie which to be frank is not great and understand Ted's fruatrations with him) and Sam just keeps trying with Jamie.

But know I think it far to say thay S1 Jamie was jealous of Sam and his easy going, happy, postive nature. I dont think he was aware of it though.

Season 1 Jamie is so interesting because on paper, he had everything he thought he wanted. But I dint think he was overally happy. But yeah it seemed to be all his way

1. He played for the team he grew up supporting and dreamed of playing for. I imagine his first time stepping on that fiels in that uniform would have been monumental. Sure, maybe he wasn't a starter, but he got some minutes and the unspken agreement that in a few years, he would be a star.

2. I imagine he was initially disappointed to be loaned out, but then he learns he is being loaned to Richmond. Yeah they suck, but he gets to play a full 90 minutes, is basically going to be the best player, kick most of thier goals and he gets to be team mates with Roy Kent (he dreamed of playing against him one day, with him is a dream come true, I really think pre show Jamie would have been so excited to play with Roy Kent and was so disappointed in how it turned out). Plus, it has the added advantage of getting him away from his dad. And once his done his loan, he can come back to Manchester. This is his chance to get away from it for a while and be the star

3. He meets and gets to date Keely Jones who his always had a crush on. Dhe is literally a dream girl for him

So he should be happy right. His got everything he wanted, but it's not going the way he expected because.....

1. Roy Kent hates him (in my mind Roy was standoffish from the start, heres come this whizkid who was everything he used to be and slowly losing. I think Jamie came in at 100% and immediatley put Roy on the back foot). Jamie tries with Roy but the more it doesnt work the more Jamie goes OK, if I cant make him like me I will show him I am better than him. Hence the beginning of that relationship.

2. Yeah his away from his dad and his killing it at Richmond, scoring their goals, winning them matches but it only seems to be winning over half the team (he can't see yet his attitude is what is stopping the other guys from liking him). And the team still isn't doing great even with him. Plus he may be away from his Dad but his relationship with his mum feels like it in a werid place which sucks cause she is his favourite person ever.

3. And Keeley seems to be where its going right but sometimes it feels like his a bit of a project for her. And I think he has heard people (like Roy) question why she is with him.

And let's face it, he is still likely hearing from his dad when he doesn't perform up to his standards.

And then heres Sam. Who (at this point in time) isn't playing well, isn't scoring goals, not massively contributing to thier wins and yet he seems so genuinely happy all the time and everyone loves him, Roy Kent seems to like him and is friendly with him, complimenting him (which he has never done to Jamie). Sam is so open and kind he has probably talked about his dad in the locker room, and his relationship with his family seems perfect and that must gnaw at Jamie because all he ever wanted is to make his dad proud and his pretty sure he will never achieve it because the man is a d***k who is impossoble to please, yet Jamie never stops trying and things are werid with his mum which he hates. But all he hears when its brought up from Sam is how great his family is.

Then along comes the new gaffer who Jamie can't even understand why he is coaching, but he also seems to love Sam and wants him to be the decoy so Sam can kick the goal. Even though Jamie knows if he kicks it, it will go in.

Now we all know the reason Sam is liked is because he is an amazing, kind hearted, dedicated person, but I think S1 Jamie is so jealous and does not even know it.

Because S1 Jamie is still living with the notion that being the best in the most important thing ( thank you James Tartt Sr) so to Jamie he is out here busting his ass at training to be the best, scoring all the goals yet Sam seems to be the one who is living what he thought his dream time at Richmond was going to be. And I know I mention it but I think it is a big thing for Jamie, the harder he tries the more Roy seems to despise him, and take enjoyment in his embarrassment.

And S1 Jamie in all maturity handles his jealously by trying to make Sam feel as bad as he is feeling. Which Jamie, baby. That's kindergarten mentality. And poor Sam actually thinks Jamie is a great player and would love to learn from him in the beginning and isnt having a great time either.

But yeah. I dont think Jamie ever disliked Sam. I think he was insanly jealous of him all the time and didn't know how to handle that or even admit it himself.

Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk. Apologies for my rambles.

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wavymoneyrecords · 2 years

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Humbled

I’m humbled in the name of Jesus.

I now truly understand what it means to keep quiet, until God says to speak.

I give up on my own understanding.

From now on, I shall only use The Lords discernment.

I’m ashamed and tired of my own judgement.

We’re all human. We make mistakes, at some point God will call us to stop wasting time.

Gods kingdom needs people who are dedicated to HIS will & not our own.

We’re given free will as a test to see where our heart lies.

My heart is tired of fighting the Truth.

I give up, not on life. I give up on trying to know it all. God show me the way. Without you I am nothing.

Written by T.K ✍🏽

#godislove #discernment #poetry #gospel #humble #strength #guidance #relationship with God

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zibethrose · 4 months

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Know that when you are emotionally entangled you have difficulty in discerning the blind spots marring your belief system which dictate the way you move through the world. Expose your mind to the possibilities out there to attract the desirable and delightful into your sphere.

Know your intuition stems from the sacred that gives you the knowledge of right action and divine timing, what to do and when to do it, gifted to you to attain self-mastery to live your best life.Discover the sacredness of existence itself and use it to fuel your life in accordance with the love-centric blueprint of your divinity. Know that Love is life, infuse your life with love.

Transcend fear to Seize opportunities that speak to your soul.Know that the magic you seek is inside of you, unleash it by removing the barriers of doubt Preventing you from living fully.Don't let anyone dull your shine.Get up, again and again, keep going despite challenging time.

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thewonderfulwaleses · 2 years

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“She's been very generous and not sort of being forceful at all in any of her views. I feel she's been sort of a gentle guidance, really, for me.”

The Princess of Wales on Her Majesty The Queen

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breezy-pup · 2 years

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Thinking abt how both Atsushi and Dazai fail to understand how important they are in eachother’s journey towards the light but especially dazai.

Dazai doesn’t understand that without his guidance and invitation to the ADA Atsushi would have ended up as a criminal or dead. Dazai doesn’t understand that Atsushi goodness doesn’t come from learning to empathize with pain due to his abuse but instead comes from waiting to help other people just like he was helped.

#when dazai said that hell raised Atsushi right in that one chapter that’s dazai misunderstanding his importance to atsushi #beast literally shows that the headmasters abuse did not raise Atsushi right #and that without the proper guidance would have ended up as nothing more than a killing machine #they make me so weak #they are not just mento and subordinate they are best friends and you cannot tell me otherwise #dazatsu #dazushi #dazai x atsushi #Bungo stray dogs #bsd #i would make a whole post analyzing thier relationship but idk #atsushi nakajima #dazai osamu

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tarotnoob · 2 years

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PAC: Advice from spirit about what's coming up for you

Please choose a pile(s) and scroll for your message.

1. Aditi

2. Amaterasu

3. Kali

Pile 1

More than anything, I feel like a lot of your focus right now will be on career and finances. It's definitely possible that with this five of pentacles, you have not had a recent or past history with stable income or a stable career.

But, I do see that changing because I feel like you are ready to try something new or there will be new opportunities coming in for you that involves some element of risk. The risk can be that it's a new job or a new field or involves a relocation. It's definitely going to be a situation that pulls you out of your comfort zone.

I do think that even though there's an element of risk involved, if you are offered something, I don't see anything shady about the opportunity. I also feel like if you have weighed all of the information and decide to go for it, then you should trust that.

It seems to me that there is a time of abundance coming for you. For some of you it could have even been that you were creatively blocked for a time or you were doing projects but nothing was really panning out. Because there is an element of creativity here. Granted, it's also abundance but there is inspiration or creativity for a spark here. There's some excitement about a new beginning. Definitely opportunity to travel or relocate for some of you. I see you as going from instability to more financial independence. And it feels like a very fresh start. So something new will be coming in.

There might be some issues around time. You might have a short amount of time to make a decision or you feel pressured to do something quickly. It could be that you need money so you need to decide on something fast.

Whatever it is, it does seem like it's time for a change, it's time for more stability, it's time for you to feel confident and excited again about something that you're doing. I think it's a good time to use any of your creative abilities, so if there's a job out there that acknowledges your creative talents.

I'm really feeling the pressure of time here, but I also have cards that indicate you should feel confident about this change, that it's a change for the better, that it's a change that's good for your career and finances. That the information as you look at it should be correct or make sure to weigh all of the information that you have available and go with that. Or it could just be in general that you do have an opportunity that comes to you that will involve careers stability or income, but you have to make the choice in a short amount of time if you want to go with it or not.

If that's the case, I look at this justice card that was at the back of the deck and I want to tell you to make sure you weigh all the information and choices carefully. A risk is good in the sense that starting something new can be a risk for you, but you don't want to jump into something that won't make you happy.

Still, as long as you take that into consideration, even if there's an element of the unknown, I still see this as leading toward abundance in terms of material. Will it make you happy? That kind of depends on you. You know if you go into a situation with a pessimistic or cynical attitude, you might attract exactly what you don't want to happen. But if you go into a situation and you remain optimistic that it can work out for the better or you can always change this and that and have flexibility to make it what you want, then of course any opportunity can be turned into something that can make you happy.

It does feel like it's been a bit of a long road in terms of career. With the 9 of Wands at the back and the two of ones behind it, it's like okay well you've been at this for a long time and it's been difficult or discouraging or you've just had to push through. But with the two of wands behind it it again feels like there's a new pathway or even a couple of pathways that will be opening up to you that lead to something a bit more easy. And it is especially geared toward finances and career. Which I already felt before I even pulled that romantic Oracle card. I was actually going to use those as a way to tell you what could be happening with your love life as well but instead finances and career card came out lol. So I think rather than being focused on anything with relationships at this time, there's a real focus on your career and money.

I do see confidence though. So either this opportunity will make you feel more confident because it will provide you with stability you haven't had in a while or it's that you feel more confident and now you are attracting this awesome opportunity for yourself. Don't let the time crunch kind of pressure you into making a decision. But there are a couple of cards that really indicate okay it's time for this to happen now. Even the justice card can be looked at as divine timing. So this opportunity is probably coming to you for a reason. Or multiple opportunities. But remember you always have free will, you can do whatever you want. You might have issues with making decisions because I'm seeing the devil at the back of the deck. So a couple of conditions as I said could be that you have a tough time making decisions in general or you might rush into making decisions without weighing out all of the information, so just take whatever resonates if it resonates. I always think that if something feels rushed or if someone is rushing you, that could be a red flag. But, you also can't sit and do nothing for a long period of time and expect something to change.

So, if you want more stability in career and money, you're going to have to take some risks, you're going to have to go into it with confidence, and you're going to have to be aware of anything regarding time pressure.

And it also indicates to me that this opportunity if it hasn't already hit you is coming soon and that's why the clock is like now now now now.

I read Aditi as abundance as well as creativity. She reminds me of the empress. And it could also speak to you being a creative person or this being a creative job in some sense.

Once you get past the decision part of this I do see you as being pretty excited about it and feeling really good about yourself or even having more confidence because somebody wants you to work for them. And it feels like besides this happening quickly or you needing to make a quick decision, that you would start pretty quickly relative to an offer or have to move pretty quickly after this.

Let me just flip the card for will this make you happy or you know something to do with time after you accept an offer or whatever is happening.

So I asked if they take this offer or say yes to whatever, how will they feel 3 months from now about it?

I got strength, chariot, hanged man, three of pentacles.

So that definitely indicates momentum in career, collaboration with other people, a lot of determination, and going with the flow.

I'm seeing it as good. It feels very career focused. You seem very determined. I also see again with the hanged man that it's all about perspective. If you go in with an optimistic attitude about the job and the people and feeling confident in yourself to do whatever task it is, I don't see any issues. And with three majors coming out, there is some element of this could be a destiny thing that puts you on a path toward an important goal. I also see timing of cancer season to Leo season. I mean Pisces is showing up so maybe something in Pisces will also be happening during that time. So maybe from end of June to end of August, you can expect this opportunity or even expect the transition into whatever after you've taken the offer.

And then for those of you who read this at a different time, perhaps Pisces season will be of relevance to you as well. Or you might encounter someone who is a Leo, Cancer, or Pisces or those could be some of your big three.

Personally, I also see this as something you've been trying to manifest. What I've learned is that manifestations don't always come in a perfect package, but they will come. And your intuition and free will is what determines whether you take it or not or what you make of it.

So, you definitely want to go in with a sense of courage, of determination, keep them momentum going, be ready for a collaboration, go with the flow, and keep your perspective on the higher end of the spectrum. Don't put any doubts in your head, just kind of push through it. Go with it. Don't look back.

And again, I see you as working with someone on this project or within this new job. I know that's obvious but I feel like somebody closer to you or even two people will be closer to you with this job or project. Not necessarily a romantic person because I don't see that, but you could make new friends pretty quickly. Especially a Leo I guess. And that Pisces energy with the hanged man might also be speaking to again, this being more of a creative collaboration or project. Especially one that could be published online or have something to do with being online or some sense of public recognition for the project. Something that could really push your career forward. Either way, I definitely see this as a really big and important advancement when it comes to your career whatever it is.

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Pile 2

So, there are a couple of messages coming through. There's definitely a spiritual message in terms of remembering where you came from as well as remembering to be humble and act with humility. This might also not be a time to focus on the bigger picture, but to reflect on other things happening in your life. It could be daily tasks or it could be the relationships in your life.

There is a sense of being who you are and recognizing that that version of yourself is lovable. There's also a message of allowing others to provide support. It could be that maybe you're trying to take on a lot by yourself, so you might in work or relationships need to make sure that everything is going both ways. Like you want to be there for your friend and you also want a friend who's going to be there for you. So if you felt like you have been neglecting certain relationships, now would be a good time to check in with them or vice versa. The queen of pentacles can certainly be somebody who builds a lot of things on her own. But I see with this next to two of cups as not always doing it on your own but building it with other people who are close to you. And when you have a decision to make, you also have people you can rely on for support and advice.

I do see that probably you have spent some time recently reflecting. Specifically about life or spiritual progress or the state of relationships. I see you also receiving some type of information in the near future. I wonder if it will be an offer to help you with something or it's going to be an important conversation that you have with someone.

Mostly I see you going through some type of spiritual or energetic transformation. I'm kind of getting hermit vibes I guess. Chop wood as a card is actually about humility and paying attention to the smaller tasks in life as opposed to focusing on the big dreams at this time. But when you look at it, it can also be about cleaning up details in your life. Maybe focusing on things that you have neglected for some reason. Or while you're waiting on something to do with the bigger picture, this is a good time to look at the relationships in your life or what needs to be cleaned up.

Almost like there could be some spiritual loose ends. There's a lot of thinking going on. There's a lot of inner reflection. There's a lot of emphasis on being yourself as you are and that drawing the people to you that you want as well as work opportunities.

Mostly I want to say this is about being true to yourself and expressing that.

I feel like when you do that, and you also remain humble, you will attract the right people to you if that's something that you are worried about. Because maybe you have felt lonely or maybe you have felt doubtful about relationships, whether that's platonic or romantic lately. Maybe feeling like you're unworthy.

But I feel like that's more in your head. You are a cool person, you deserve to be loved, you deserve equal and respectful relationships and what you are heard but you also are a person that allows the other person to be heard and loved.

You might feel kind of stuck in between something right now. But maybe that's you trying to figure out something and waiting for an answer. But just like with the you deserve love and the eight of Wands, it gives me the sense of information will be coming to you very quickly. Maybe this will answer some of your questions about a person or a situation.

It's interesting that the inner beauty card and the you deserve love are both kind of pointing in the forward direction. Ascension is also about going up or moving forward. So there's a strong sense of ascension here or spiritual elevation or energetic elevation.

Ironically, if you watch Naruto, you know that to gain amaterasu, you have to basically kill your closest friend lol.

Well that's not really funny but considering the cards that are coming up, there is actually an element of friendship appearing here or relationships. More platonic or acquaintance than romantic.

I guess it could even be to let you know that there could be people coming into your life soon. Or expect to transformation with relationships, whether that includes a deep talk about feelings or something or asking them for support and receiving it.

For me, so far spiritual ascension and friendships will be really relevant to you at this time.

I think for this pile I want to clarify exactly what it's talking about though.

Okay for sure, it does seem like that there is definitely a decision happening. It could be that you received some type of communication, and you're being asked to make a decision. It could also be about learning to follow your intuition here too.

And two of cups is clarified by three of cups so clearly this is about friendships like we already determined. It could be something as simple as deciding on an invitation to hang out with some friends or in general just some thinking about relationships and friendships. And communication with those friends.

The queen of pentacles is clarified by emperor, so it does give off career vibes or taking control or creating foundations or building something up.

Then we have eight of Wands clarified by the lovers. So this is very similar to the page of swords thing in that this combination can mean the following: information that's coming in very quickly, especially if it happens during Gemini season; it can be about a choice that you'll have to make about some type of information you receive or some type of message; it can also be that there is a special relationship that will be coming into your life very quickly. In particular, you could be meeting them through other friends or even through work friends or through work.

So, what I can say for sure after looking at that is kind of what I already pointed out. There is a lot of emphasis now about communication and relationships. Whether it's current relationships that you already have and having some type of discussions about feelings or just how important those relationships are to you now if there people you can lean on. If they are people who are telling you you know you deserve the best and you deserve love. And also that it's a reciprocal type of relationship.

If that's not the case, for sure this could mean that you might be meeting some people very soon. People through work or meeting important people through the friend and network you already have.

Because I see you building something. I see you building relationships. I see communication being a big part of that.

I really feel like you are solidifying something here. So I would really expect that relationships you already have are going to be getting stronger. And I also think that there could be relationships coming in very soon that will be long lasting. Right now it's coming across as platonic, but with the lovers here, there is the potential for some of these to turn romantic or just to let you know that these people could be soulmate level friends.

But I also want to say again that there is a message of being true to yourself and showing that and that probably attracting the right people to you. I also want to say it's a very important to remain humble. I don't know what specifically that is about. If it's about being authentic and yourself as opposed to putting on a mask and trying to impress people. I just know that I want to say that you are lovable and will attract the right people the way you are. You don't have to put on any type of act.

I also feel like it's a good time to open yourself up to people and be vulnerable, talk to them, and rely on other people for support.

There does seem to be some thinking or debating or deciding around all of this. So there could be some level of decision making or conversation or reflection that is happening as well. But overall, whatever it is seems to be at the point of wanting to elevate you. If it's elevating your thought process by humbling yourself more or coming more into line with the authentic version of you or elevating your relationships.

My sense is that thinking about it is maybe a block in some way. As in like telling yourself that you keep attracting the wrong people or is it something about you that's attracting these people or situations that you see as negative or not mutual. And I think it's trying to simplify the way you think and just say, as long as you are yourself. That's all you have to worry about. Don't overthink it.

Along the way, you might have to cut cords as you grow and maybe that's something you think about like was it right to let go of this person or am I being too harsh.

I also see some resemblance to pile one in that I thought they would pretty quickly have to make a decision about something.

There is some element of that here as in something quickly being given to you in terms of information and perhaps there's a decision around that that you have to make. But that seems small in comparison to the message about your relationships, having open communication, and the potential for more solid relationships coming to you in a very quick time.

It feels a little mixed and sporadic to me but that's probably because there are multiple layers to whatever this thing is that's happening. You're being elevated, you have new relationships coming in, or there's reflection about current relationships and how to make them stronger. Well you can make them stronger by being yourself and being open with communication when necessary and relying on other people.

Also I got nosy and clarified your higher power card and got 10 of cups, six of cups, two of Wands. So I feel like this is building up your soul family. Some of them are differently soulmates. There's a lot of emphasis on family here and relationships. And there's an emphasis on a new start or a new pathways that would lead you toward these people or expect a new path with the relationships you already have or even having to make decisions around current relationships. Like what direction are we headed with this and do I envision happiness.

For some of you, a specific message might be related to building a family. Or children. For some of you, I feel like that might be a path you're headed down is guess what you're going to have children or start building a family or you're thinking about that and need to have that conversation with a partner or if you don't want a partner but you want to have kids, leaning on friends for support.

It's normal. I think you're thinking about the future. You're thinking about relationships. You're thinking about long-lasting, long-term stability around relationships. I feel like those relationships will be elevated, I feel like you're going to feel better about yourself and feel more comfortable being yourself in the near future. But I really see you contemplating things around relationships and progress and stability.

I hope that generally can kind of assist you in knowing that it's a good time to focus on the relationships in your life and what you want and what it will take to make them last or having hope that new relationships will come in that are going to last a lot longer than previous ones. But you have to stay true to yourself and keep humble. I don't know who needs to hear that about keep humble and why that could be important in relationships but that's a message that is there for some of you. Personally, I think that's more about authenticity. Don't try to be anything but yourself and these people will come.

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Pile 3

Some similar cards coming out pile 2.

So, there is definitely some momentum around a goal. I feel like you are strategizing or trying to come up with a plan for the future. It looks to me like it's more pointed toward study or career. In fact all of the piles have been more geared toward career. Pile 2 had that additional level of relationships being significant and creating stronger foundations with relationships.

There could be some aspect that's unknown to you. Just like with pile too and I said potentially somebody could be coming in to assist you, there is an element of that message here as well with this seven of swords. It's clarified by three of Wands and Queen of pentacles. So three of Wands is definitely progress but it can be about waiting for somebody to come in and assist you, queen of pentacles is building something or work-related or some type of nurturing relationship.

So, it's definitely either about gathering resources toward a future goal or it's there's a level of something that's hidden still. With how you're going to get to a certain point regarding a career or financial goal. If it's the hidden aspect, I think it just means that there's somebody who will come in to help you. Otherwise it's simply about gathering the resources necessary to keep moving forward on this journey. To keep the momentum up like with the chariot. Nine of cups, emotional satisfaction or goals usually. So I just see this as progress and forward momentum toward career things and then another component of perhaps someone unexpectedly coming into help you or offer advice about this or even after you start a new job or whatever, then you might unexpectedly meet somebody who's going to help you with something. It could be a friend or a co-worker. But that's a possibility for sure.

Back of deck with emperor and four of wands again indicates building a strong foundation. It could be building a strong foundation with family members or creating a stronger home life. But essentially there's something here that is being built up and solidified. If you have a question of okay how is this going to happen, perhaps it's a person that's going to come into assist you.

I would also expect there to be happiness with the four of Wands. If you're not used to being regularly emotionally stable in a positive way like being happy or joyful, I think this will assist you with that.

Higher power also indicates that there's a bit of divine organizing happening here. Like the universe does seem to be conspiring to put you in a forward direction. I also see you know things in your life being elevated, and again it seems to be focused on career but it could be career and relationships. And creating more stability around those areas.

We also have cards that literally say creation, balance, shadow.

So, there is some type of abundance or something being created or built here. There's also achieving some type of balance which I think corresponds to that foundation as well as possibly balancing feminine and masculine energies. I have yang at the back of the deck. Typically that's the action oriented energy. The emperor is also action oriented.

So there could be some balance that's working out in terms of when to receive and wait and when to take action. I'm seeing a lot more taking action happening, but then I'm seeing cards that make me think of feminine and creation energies.

In terms of romance, the cards that are popping up are getting to know each other. And playfulness.

So, I'm seeing remaining more casual or light in relationships and taking the time to get to know one another or to have open communication. It also talks about revealing your innermost cells to each other can result in deepened bonds. So again there's something that's being built here.

You could also be going through a phase where more solid relationships are going to be created as long as you remain true to yourself. Whether you're calling them in or it's deepening bonds that you already have.

It could even be that besides friendships and incoming relationships, deepening bonds with family at this time as well.

Going back to the seven of swords which can be something that's hidden. The shadow card in this book says the following: goddess of destruction kali calls for you to face your shadow self - things lurking underneath may be disrupting what you're trying to achieve on the surface. Facing those aspects of yourself is the only way forward. Kali helps you embrace them so you can truly be free from fear.

So, the seven of swords could be representing self-sabotage for some of you. Like a fear of moving forward or a fear of leaning on other people for support.

It could even be you know a fear of getting to know someone since we're talking about deeper bonds and opening up.

I think you want to or want something to happen but there's like a hesitation. You see it happening, you want it, but there's like a hidden issue going on that has to be worked through.

So the issues could be about opening up, it could be about taking things too seriously, it could be about being afraid to ask for help or rely on others and thinking you have to do everything on your own. It could just be a fear of the unknown and change. I mean I still sense excitement but even if we're excited about a change, we can have some hesitations. You'll have to look into yourself and see where those hesitations lie. I'm getting more of like with the previous pile this could potentially be about opening up or leaning on others. Sometimes when I look at the seven of swords I associate it with someone who feels like they need to do everything on their own. Whether that's a perfectionist issue or just a trust issue.

So, I would be looking at doing whatever you can to make you feel like you can rely on other people or whatever it takes to create a more concrete bond that you can rely upon. Maybe that's the area of shadow work you need to do or maybe that's a situation that's been coming up for you.

For some of you since the shadow is sitting next to the creation card. Which creation came up for pile one, this could be about fear around the start of something new. Creation is definitely that new energy of something beginning and it's sitting next to shadow. So what's getting in the way of creating something new.

And balance which also came out for pile one, makes me think of someone having to balance the masculine and feminine or balance the light and shadow.

Something about that lack of balance could be resulting in misplaced fear or sabotaging.

I guess I just see someone as looking for stability but then like either being afraid of having that or being too cozy where they are. And that six of cups energy is coming in with the playfulness at the back of the deck. It says to recapture romance, allow your inner youthful spirit of fun to shine. Which like I said makes me think of six of cups or full. So being a bit more open-minded or optimistic. Being open to change or communication or strengthening bonds and being vulnerable or leaning on other people.

Or even just feeling like you can show your inner self or your sensitive side. Some of you might be putting out a really tough exterior of having everything under control or not needing help. But I feel like the cards would be pushing you more toward exposing that side of yourself to people even if you're scared of it. And you don't have to apply it to relationships, this can be about any new situation that's coming into your life where it's scary to feel exposed in this way because it's new.

So really just do whatever feels right for you in terms of creating stability in all areas of your life. Or it could even be that some things are a bit too rigid and there needs to be a bit more of a balance in terms of flexibility. You know if you've built up certain defenses and now it's time to let them down because that period of self-preservation is over.

This creation card says goddess of creation nuwa is signaling to use the raw material of your life to create something meaningful - perhaps to find your very purpose

So more of that four of Wands emperor message about creating something meaningful or building something. So you could be in the process of building your future or your career or even relationships.

So whatever it is that's new for you, it's time to put energy into creating strong foundations around that. Which seems to me to be a lot about being able to open up and lean on other people.

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