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This is the kind of book that I don't really wanna put down. It's so inviting; I could finish it in one sitting but I don't want to at the same time. LOL! 🤣

But my heart goes out to Britney for going through so much since she's at the age where she should've just enjoying her youth up to this day. May she truly find her inner peace and genuine happiness. xx

#britney spears #the woman in me #books to read #books #bookish #tbr #book recommendations #for you

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Privacy is so precious; it's like a piece of gold or diamond that you just can't give to anyone and everyone.

Staying private and why it's important

People are sooo nosy, it's human nature to know what everyone is doing at all times. but you don't know what the person you're telling something to is going to do with that information, which is why it's better to stay private.

WHEN to stay private:

- plans you have in regards to your future

- how far along you are in an assignment or how well you did on something

- any ideas you have regarding business or creative assignments

WHY stay private:

- people might steal your ideas or use your words against you

- make you feel bad about your ideas or thoughts

- does not give anyone who is not close to you any unnecessary insight into your life

- protects your peace

HOW to stay private:

- think before you speak and think about who you're speaking to

- stray away from any topics regarding yourself unless necessary, people love talking about themselves

- write down your ideas or thoughts if you really wanna tell someone

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Small ways to activate your "happiness" chemicals

DOPAMINE: the reward chemical

• Complete a task

• Doing self care activites

• Eating some food

• Celebrating your little wins.

OXYTOCIN: the love hormones

• Playing with a dog

• Playing with a baby

• Holding hands

• Hugging someone

• Giving someone else a compliment

SEROTONIN: the mood stabiliser

• Meditating

• Running

• Be in the sun

• Walk in nature

• Swimming

ENDORPHIN: the pain relief

• Laughing exercises

• Essential oils

• Eating dark chocolate

• Running

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I've posted something about my Mom on reddit and it gained so much attention.. which I don't want to happen again, that's why I'm going to post another one BUT here, so it'll be just low-key.

My Mom is still at the hospital, specifically ICU because she's still not stable and now still unconscious. It's already been a month since she got admitted, then 3 weeks now in the ICU.

It's been bothering me for weeks now also, that's why I keep praying for at least good results. No matter where I go and whatever I do, I'm constantly praying that she'll be able to get through it.

Although my siblings and I know how much she's getting tired and could barely breathe, we still want to keep her. She's all we have now since my father passed away in 2019. And although my mom always wanted and so ready to be with my dad, we're still rooting and fighting for her.

Lord, please, just let us keep her one more time. Please wake her up. Please.

#prayer

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Been MIA here for quite some time due to my obsessions with a mobile game, tiktok, and reddit. Hehehehe.

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It's okay if you don't feel like making or adding new people to your circle. Keeping your circle smaller is the best way to keep your life peaceful. Stick to the people who stayed with you through ups and downs. No judgements, no toxicity, no pressure.

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"I Decided to Live as Me" by Soo-hyun Kim

#books to read #books and reading #bookish #book excerpt #self help #self care #self reflection #self improvement #self love #goals #growth #inner peace #self healing #peace of mind #food for the soul #food for the mind #independent woman #stay focused #adulthood #womanhood

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Book excerpts dump 2023

Guess I need to make more space for my readings this year. So, I need to clean up my gallery. Ehe.

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"I Decided to Live as Me" by Soo-hyun Kim

#books #books to read #self reflection #self care #self help #self improvement #self love #self healing #goals #growth #adulthood #mental health awareness #food for the soul #food for the mind #stay focused #inner peace #peace of mind

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It's been awhile since I've been here.

I hope y'all are having a great time.

Don't forget to take care of yourself.

Xx

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My 2024 Goals

1. Read more books.

2. Travel abroad and out of town more often.

3. Try more new cafés and restos.

4. Make more informative social media content.

5. Attend more concerts/gigs.

6. Dress up and wear make up more often.

7. Cook new dishes.

8. Workout/Lose weight.

9. Get enough sleep.

10. Get more physical care.

I've done some of these back when the 1st season of pandemic hits--when I was just at home for 2 years (going out when needed) and nothing else to do after work. I just feel like doing it all again this year. Back in my peaceful era. HNY, y'all. Xx

#goals #self improvement #self love #growth #independent woman #self care #stay focused #adulthood #quality time #peace of mind #inner peace #peace of soul #food for the mind #food for the soul

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Trying my best to live in every moment. No more rushing and overthinking. Just doing things one day at a time. Enjoying every moment. Appreciating what's in front of me and blessings that kept on pouring. No more stepping back, just moving forward. Ignoring the people that no longer serving me love and respect. No more holding back. No more regrets (big or small). No more holding grudges.

Will continue to live like this as much as I could.

#peace of mind #inner peace #self love #goals #growth #independent woman #self improvement #self care #self healing #stay focused #self help #womanhood

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Walking away from toxic people 'til next life. LOL!

Couldn't be more proud of myself for doing it for years.

My life is getting more peaceful each time I do it.

I don't mind people calling me snob or mean or heartless.. if it's for my peace of mind, I'LL DO IT. I won't ever take it for granted. My peace of mind should always comes first.

#peace #peaceful #inner peace #peace of mind #peace of soul #healthy mind #healthy spirit #healthy soul #self care #self love #self improvement #growth #independent woman #womanhood #adulthood

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'Tis the season to be merry, but also the season of self-reflection.

What have you accomplished this year?

Can you say you've grown in all aspects?

Do you have unfinished goals?

Did you reconnect and cut-off some people?

Do you have any regrets this year?

There are so much to look back and think about this 2023, but I hope you're happy and ready to move forward. After all, we're just changing the year. Keeping yourself stuck into it won't make any changes. So just keep going!

Do whatever your heart desires and more.

#self reflection #self improvement #goals #self love #stay focused #self care #self healing #growth #plans #dreams #keep going #becoming that girl #that girl #independent woman #womanhood

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meat-free meals 🌸

(this is your reminder that fries are vegan!)

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Managing multiple social media accounts is really hard, but I'd like to keep it that way, especially here in tumblr; where I get to be extra personal without someone or some people personally know me. It's liberating but peaceful.

Edit: Will try to lessen adding hashtags so non of the peeps I know could find me easily. Hehehe.

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Genuine friends are indeed super hard to find. So once you found some, I hope you're able to keep them as much as you could. Treat them also like a family, because at the end of the day, when you don't have a family anymore, you know there are still some that you could call home.

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Real-life Friends vs. Office Friends

Real-life friends could be like family, but could also be your worse enemies.

Office friends are just acquaintances, but could also be your family.