Revisiting my Super Lesbian Animal RPG fan character, Valencia. She's a martial artist and she can't use spells, so I positioned her as kind of the Rock Lee/Might Guy of SLARPG's setting. Here, she is showing Melody a basic Judo grip.
if your headmate finds a way to manifest a body then why not enjoy some of those early morning cuddles?
(and if your girlfriend gets caught in the middle then so be it)