#about kit

[kit-just-kit]

COMMON MISCONCEPTIONS

*That Kit, as a therapist, has her shit together. She does not lol. Yes she outwardly appears confident, calm, collected but, it only takes a small scratch at the surface to reveal the mess underneath. She's very unconfident concerning her appearance and so, is doing everything she can to stay physically fit and healthy. However, that has not resulted in any kind of 'surgical' or 'aesthetical' help as yet. Also, and this is the bigger issue, she very much suffers from self-doubt about her abilities as a therapist due to how badly the Sebastian debacle reduced her to a shadow of her former self. She tries so hard to get back to where she was, mentally and professionally speaking. But it is a long road*

AN IMPORTANT HEADCANON

*Oooooh I would say that the HC I created around her current aversion to marriage and commitment is one of my favourites. Basically, Kit does not thing this is for her, given that she's done it twice and both ended. She figues that she is the common denominator in both failed marriages and so, she should probably stay away from it. It's important especially to any ship-partners to know this because should the subject of getting wed arise, she'll most likely try and wheedle her way away from it. This is NOT an indication that she does not love the other muse, only that she doesn't want to lose them as she did her two previous husbands*

A USELESS HEADCANON

*The one that while Kit is an excellent cook, she can't bake for toffee. Admittedly a complete self-insert because that is, in fact, the case with me and people always comment that someone who can master most cuisines yet can't handle even something as simple as an apple crumble, is apparently hilarious! Useless but I think it's kinda funny too so, there it is!*

POTENTIAL TRIGGERS

*Hmmmm....... for Kit it would be controlling behaviour in a partner, being taken for granted, disrespect, rudeness.

For me......people trying to convince me to change aspects of Kit to fit what they want from her/the writing. The way this usually presents itself is suggestions that Kit suddenly become bi-curious or attracted to a particular female. Kit loves and adores her female friends whole-heartedly, she is their greatest defender and promoter but, she doesn't harbour any latent romantic or sexual feelings for them. End of story. Those who push this matter with me, or worse try to insinuate that my non-negiotiable stance on it is akin to some form of homophobia, will be blocked sharpish, okay?*

SOMETHING YOU ENJOY ABOUT (WRITING) THEM

*Her sarcasm, wit and overall lovely demeanour. Though at the same time writing EvilKit gives me the opportunity to portray her as an exact opposite while still keeping her sarky and witty lol*

SOMETHING YOU WANT OTHERS TO KNOW BEFORE WRITING WITH THEM

*Chances are I'm gonna love deep and hard on your muse, even if they are completely horrid and morally reprehensible. That being the case, Kit or EvilKit probably will too lol*

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#about kit #about mun #rp stuff

[ginevrastilinski-ocs]

How they’d get along: Kit & Tyler?

Kit is technically his uncle but he would totally be his big brother.

Also checked out his intro post (and also the fucked up mcu timeline lol) and if you stick with the 18 years old during Black Widow they would be only 2 years apart?! Like Kit should be 20 so, this is kind of insane?! Kit being a kid when Tyler "dies" is just... 😭

But I also feel like Kit at first "too much"? Like, he just got his baby brother back so he's all emotional and all but also Tyler just find out he has a family like five minutes ago, you should give him some space dear.

They would be the sweetest after the first "walking on glass" time tho

#answered #oc related ask #kit barton #about kit #kit & tyler #crossover ship #randomestfandoms

[indoraptorgirlwind]

((I'm sorry if this is a sudden change, it's just i have been feeling really insecure about my worth, questioning if i even deserve acceptance, and my negative feelings are trolling me again. My current feelings will be mirrowing on Kit's, affecting her mood and personality for now. She will be back to being cheery for sure, but right now it isn't her time))

#indora talks #About kit #Kit #Kit cortes #Celest quetzal

[willow-schmillow]

Feeling particularly sad and off lately. It's like my body is shutting down in preparation for the upcoming holiday: I will be spending it with my parents, after all, and that brings up a lot of difficult emotions.

I'm of the group of us that loves our parents, but I know they did me wrong. Reconciling that within myself is easy enough at this point: reconciling that between the other parts is a lot harder. I think about them and sometimes, inside, all I hear is sobbing. There used to be a whole lot more swearing and yelling, but Kit is dormant and may be for the foreseeable future.

I think there are two heartbreaking things I must prepare for. First, the kids will all be wrecks. I can hear wails of "but why did they hurt me" every now and then. Second, Cal will likely be the one to handle this, and he doesn't know anything's wrong at all. Since the breakdown last winter, someone always monitors what he's up to. Usually, that's Kit. I'm not sure who that job is going to fall to this time.

Ugh. I'm looking forward to seeing my parents, but it would be a lot easier had they been good.

#dissociative identity disorder #osddid #actually dissociative #did osdd #did system #actually cptsd #by kylee #about kit #about cal

[inkskinned]

you're in the habit of denying yourself things.

if someone asked you directly, you would say that you love a little treat. you like iced coffee and getting the cookie. you drink juice out of a fancy cup sometimes, and often do use your candles until they gutter out helplessly.

but you hesitate about buying the 20 dollar hand mixer because, like. you could just use your arms. you weren't raised rich. you don't get to just spend the 20 dollars (remember when that could cover lunch?), at least - you don't spend that without agonizing over it first, trying to figure out the cost-benefits like you are defending yourself in front of a jury. yes, this rice cooker could seriously help you. but you do know how to make stovetop rice and it really isn't that hard. how many pies or brownies would you actually make, in order to make that hand mixer worthwhile?

what's wild is that if the money was for a friend, it would already be spent. you'd fork over 40 without blinking an eye, just to make them happy. the difference is that it's for you, so you need to justify it.

and it sneaks in. you ration yourself without meaning to - you don't finish the pint of ice cream, even though you want to. the next time you go to the store, you say ah, i really shouldn't, and then you walk away. you save little bits of your precious things - just in case. sometimes you even go so far as putting that one thing in your shopping cart. and then just leaving it there, because maybe-one-day, but not right now, there's other stuff going on.

you do self-care, of course. but you don't do it more than like, 3 days in a row. after that it just feels a little bit over-the-edge. like. you can't live in decadence, the economy is so bad right now, kid.

so you don't buy the rice cooker. you can-and-will spend the time over the stove. you can withstand the little sorrows. denial and discipline are practically synonyms. and you're not spoiled.

it's just - it's not always a rice cooker. sometimes it is a person or a job or a hug. sometimes it is asking for help. sometimes it is the summer and your college degree. sometimes it is looking down at scabbed knees and feeling a strange kind of falling, like you can't even recognize the girl you used to be. sometimes it is your handprint looking unsteady.

sometimes it is tuesday, and you didn't get fired, and you want to celebrate. but what is it you like, even? you search around your little heart and come up empty. you're so used to denying that all your desires draw a blank.

oh fuck. see, this is the perfect opportunity. if you had a mixer, you'd make a cake.

#warm up #this isn't good #writeblr #this is complicated by the fact i can't stand up too long or i fuckken pass out and <3 hit my damn head <3 #but i did take a deep breath and buy myself the stupid rice cooker #and!!! a very cheap sushi kit!!! i have been wanting to try making sushi for literally YEARS #the kit was only like 15 dollars!!!! and i haven't purchased it bc?!!??!?!?!?!!? #..... i didn't get the mixer tho that felt. like a lot. like too much. #on my list is a kitchenaid. one day when i get a check and i have paid off my student debt #and medical debt #i will put that first little bit of cash #into a kitchenaid 5qt stand mixer (with attachments) #i really do just go into their refurbished section and stare lustily at each option #but yeah i feel guilty about the rice cooker even tho i know for a fact this damn thing is gonna be a lifesaver #oh shit also fuck i forgot to mention . poached eggs

[priceforrottenjudgement]

Ppl dont seem to realise that "only perceivably queer people should have access to queer spaces and support" and "nobody is obligated to out themselves to you and nobody needs to provide proof of their sexuality/identity" CANNOT coexist.

People are very quick to say "nobody should ever be forced out of the closet, there is no one way to be queer" but then throw a fit when someone who isnt visibly gay plays a gay character or when someone who isnt officially out acts in a ~queer way~.

Edit: Yes ofc its frustrating to see straight people get applauded for portraying queer characters and queer people should have more control about queer narratives that straight people do, but yall have to let go of the idea that "sexuality unknown" automatically means "straight by default". Thats literally heteronormativity.

Yes, harmful and stereotypical portrayals should be examined, but some of yall start frothing at the mouth over the possibility that the person delivering a perfectly harmless portrayal of a queer person might not be queer themselves.

Its also telling how yall will usually only go after the 'easier' targets. You bullied kit connor into outing himself bc he dared to play a bisexual boy while keeping his own identity private, but i have yet to see the same energy for cate blanchett, taika waititi, etc who have also played queer characters despite not being openly queer. Bc its not really about keeping the community safe, is it? Youre doing shit like this bc it makes you feel powerful and righteous.

If you care about all queer stories being "own voices" stories, thats your decision and a valid way to feel. But dont kid yourself into thinking youre making the lgbt community safer by forcing actors to out themselves.

#m #yes this is about kit connor #and also many others who were forced to out themselves #by 'concerned' queer ppl #kit connor

[the-geeky-fangirl]

yes i know heartstopper is "cringe" and yes I know you think it's not that deep but you've endured years of cringe oversexualized shows about high schoolers where the gays are delegated to sub plots I'm sure a few hours of queer people being safe and happy and loved won't kill you so please shut the fuck up

#im so fucking TIRED of people acting like heartstopper is a new brand of cringe #they're literal 15/16 year olds what the fuck do you wqnt from them #imagine letting the vampire diaries and teen wolf run for as long as they did and then complaining about this #just say you hate queer joy and leave #heartstopper #heartstopper season 2 #nick and charlie #tao xu #elle argent #tara jones #darcy olsson #tara and darcy #tao and elle #isaac henderson #alice oseman #kit connor #joe locke #for those aaking yea i did come across a bunch of people calling it cringe and i took it personally

[grelliam]

To this day I still think "I wish squids were real" is the funniest example of ascended canon ever. Like, the first Splatoon game comes out, someone makes a Miiverse post just saying "I wish squids were real" (already peak comedy), "I wish X was real" becomes a meme in the Splatoon community and gets reposted everywhere.

Then two years later Splatoon 2 comes out and

Literally iconic

#Splatoon #Kit says things #... to anyone who doesn't know Splatoon lore I apologize the human bones thing probably sounds so ominous out of context sdkhfg #but yeah they really just did this and I'll never stop thinking about it

[alltimefail-sims]

ATTN: Just popping by to say that if you are purchasing the new kits today - particularly the Urban Homage kit - be sure to use the creator code "EBONIX" at checkout!

Collab creators do not make any percentage of the revenue after release, they're just paid a flat rate up front, so if you want a little of the proceeds to go to the creator, use code "EBONIX" at checkout (it costs you nothing!!!). Also worth noting that because they had some issues with codes in the app today, creators will apparently receive 10% commission instead of 5% commission the next 48 hrs. (LilSimsie shared this in her overview video!)

Again, code "EBONIX" at checkout. Support black creators!

#idc about the party kit from what I've seen so far but I like a lot of the stuff in the Urban Homage kit #Ebonix is hands down one of the best cc makers in this community and deserves nothing but love #support black creators #support black simmers #ts4 #simblr #simblr PSA #the sims 4 #sims 4 #ts4 urban homage #ts4 kits #the sims community

[naboosands]

Every now and then Master Fisto *accidentally* lands on the Vogue Coruscant cover and the rest of the Council lose their minds

Bonus:

#i can't stick to an art style to save my life #i guess this is more comic-like #if anyone’s wondering about the aurebesh translation: #on the right: ‘kit fisto: suffering from success’ #on the left: ‘exclusive! prince lee char on the hero of mon cala: #‘he needs to drop his workout routine asap’ #kit fisto #kit fisto art #mace windu #master yoda #yoda #jedi council #star wars #sw fanart #star wars the clone wars #tcw #tcw fanart #myart

[love-that-we-were-in]

#i am so fucking mad about this actually #kit connor #heartstopper #nick nelson #he is an 18year old boy. he doesn’t owe you shit

[kit-just-kit]

what's in my bag

Contents:

Work phone

Personal phone (with earbuds)

Purse

Carkey

Vintage lace handkerchief (a childhood gift from her Bubbe)

Espresso candies

Cigarettes (tut tut!)

Small make up bag with lipstick, compact, hairbrush and perfume in

Cranberry juice container

Glasses and case

Laptop

Fountain pen (last years Christmas gift from her son Jack)

Black leather gloves (last years Christmas gift from her daughter Poppy)

Diary

Envelope containing tickets for the cinema, theatre, opera or ballet depending on what day/week it is

tagged by: @libdemdisaster (thanks lovely!)

tagging: EVERYONE!

#about kit

[ginevrastilinski-ocs]

Headcanons for Kit & Kat? 🥺 

Silly little thing that I adore: the first time they met, Kit tried to win Kat's sympathy with a KitKat. He just sat next to her with a KitKat in his hand and said "Hi, I'm Kit! Do you like this? Here, have a piece"

Kit blaming himself fo not being able to save her from Killian and then again from the Snap 😭 Especially for the Snap bc he hadn't seen her for at least a couple of weeks and he really wishes he could had talk with her and especially hug her 😭

The reunion on the battlefield pls pls I love them so much 😭

Let's go back to soft and nice things bc I can't stand the angst for them! Imagine this two sweethearts hanging out (and bringing chaos, especially Kit, let's be honest) in Tony's lab. I just need this.

I know that in her canon is Clint that does it, but... Kit teaching Kat archery 🥺

#answered #oc related ask #kit barton #about kit #kit & kat #crossover ship #randomestfandoms

[indoraptorgirlwind]

KIT RP HEADS UP!

I finally gave Kit a face. From now on, i might answer and make asks with Allison Williams as Kit (not to confuse with Kit snicket, i'm talking about my oc: Kit Cortes)

#indora talks #About kit #Kit #Kit cortes #Celest quetzal #Rp

[willow-schmillow]

One of our guys, Kit, is someone I think is coming out of dormancy. He had a particularly hard time in August, with the sudden distrust in our therapist - things are better now, but I fear that he's coming back in a way that's not entirely positive for him.

Either I'm thinking about this so hard that it's manifesting in my dreams, or his coming back is influencing my dreams - there's been a major uptick in nightmares (daily, when at most I had one a week when we were sure he was dormant), and the contents of those dreams are very much his domain of trauma. It kind of sucks. Ugh.

#dissociative identity disorder #osddid #about kit #by kylee

[nicholasnelsons]

if you think that you are entitled to know a celebrity’s sexuality, block me. if you think you are entitled to know anyone’s sexuality, block me. if you constantly throw around the word queerbait when you don’t even know what that word is, block me. if you think real people with real lives and real feelings are capable of queerbaiting, block me. if you think that you are owed something just because you are a fan of a certain piece of media or actor in the spotlight, block me. and also fuck you

#yeah this is about kit connor yeah i just heard yeah i’m absolutely heartbroken #the fact that it got to this point ??? i have nothing else to say really but the people that bullied him truly should be ashamed #idk anymore i’m literally trying to process and having such a difficult time with this one #heartstopper #kit connor