#actually looking at the criteria

[autisticlassiedog]

Well, fellas.... Not to self dx, but I'm reading the criteria for autism and like.... things are making a littleeee too much sense

#collie speaks #I've taken some of the clinical tests I found online before #I got lowish scores but most of them were high enough to be considered further if autism might be a possibility #and the one that didn't was a borderline score #if I'm autistic it's def mild/level 1 #but like #actually looking at the criteria #esp with specific examples like this one pdf has #my life kinda makes sense #I def meet the behaviors criteria and probably meet the social criteria #likeeee #I've always been socially awkward #and I've even had people ASK me if I'm on the spectrum or if i've ever been evaluated #all that said #my ADHD my anxiety and stuff #those things can also cause social difficulties #so it's hard to say for certain without going into details #lots of details #dunno if I want to bring this up to my therapist or not tbh

[bananonbinary]

saw a post like "you gotta respect trans women that look like men" (actually it was vaguing about ANOTHER post about that but here we are)

and like. on some level i agree, but also you shouldnt really stop there, and maybe need to actually unpack why you think those women "look like men" at all. like. most features really genuinely are gender neutral (and have a ton of variation even in cis bodies) and if you see being fat or having body hair or a flat chest or w/e as "manish" then maybe....dont do that. stop watching tv and go to your local walmart or city bus to recalibrate your expectations for what humans look like.

#the reason im not reblogging the post is it described some trans women as looking like 'schlubby men' #and im assuming it was being self-deprecating but it still rubs me wrong #because that implies to me that the criteria for 'men' isnt like...your actual presentation #but just being fat or not wearing the hottest fashion or being socially awkward #and that...sucks

[front-facing-pokemon]

#kricketot #they kinda look like an enemy in a mario game. with the nose shape and the eyes. they're cute. they look like a guy whom mario could stomp #on their head and they would like. squish down and then disappear and drop a coin. does this make any sense #i guess so. actually i got a random shiny kricketot in my first playthrough of legends arceus. came right after the shiny luxio i got #both of which were like. my first “full-odds” shinies though some would argue they don't count bc they make a loud sound when they spawn #and it's not like. a “Real” pokémon game. which. is fair. i also got a lot of shinies in scarlet/violet but you can see those in the overwo #ld too so maybe those don't count either? if those are our criteria then i have never gotten a full-odds random shiny before. in a pokémon #game where you can't see shinies in the overworld. but i'll still always remember kricketot as one of the ones that i did get #i was like. climbing up the mountain behind the second camp in obsidian fieldlands. the one where you get wyrdeer and fight kricketune #and one just fucking. spawned. in the grass. i heard the sound effect and just Turned. and there it was. threw a jet ball at it or w/e they #'re called and got it. and i can't remember what i named her but i do remember she was female

[comradekatara]

you have the best atla takes

thank you i think the secret to having good atla takes is watching the show as a kid and becoming so obsessed with katara (and azula and toph, but mostly katara tbh) that the narrative ferments in your brain for years until all your opinions about the show have developed like a fine wine with subtle flavors and undertones or whatever wine people say. and also—and this part is very important—you must vehemently hate the united states of america.

#u can’t be a real atla fan until u hate the usa. it’s the rules #fade into dawn #asks #to be fair i know ppl who fit that criteria who still have dogshit atla takes #and ppl who just watched it in the past couple years who have good opinions #but i think this is why EYE do . at least #and also why i don’t rly follow any other atla blogs #bc no one but like 5 other people actually get it #despite it being such a wildly popular show lmfao #even the writers didn’t get it! just look at lok!!!!

[kaeyachi]

on a bsd spiral currently and i swear i still have a specific requirement for a character to become my pookie

#whats the correlation here folks #what exactly am i looking for #kaeyachi randoms #i actually know what the criteria is and im not telling

[soracities]

i truly don’t think highrise will ever be out of fashion bc it’s both a fashion style and also seems to be a cultural like statement piece for this current generation ( no clue if that wording makes sense but i mean like . the previous gen had the low rise so now this gen has the high rise ) BUT!!! ive noticed way more people are shifting to mid and low rise over high rise so it seems the future fashion trends will basically incorporate all three of the rise styles ( stores currently are selling mid and low rise when before i only used to see highrise) honestly, though, if you like mid rise def go for it ! i prefer that and low rise alot more bc highrise just doesn’t look great on me imoo

finally, stores selling all the rise ranges is literally ALL i want bc trends mean nothing to me! i just want to like what i like in peace lol. i do love the high-rise look ngl bc it IS comfortable but so much of what i wear is based on versatility and mid-rise was THE girl for me

#tbh i dont want high-rise to go out of style i want the notion of “in style” to go out of style bc im tired of what is actually available #to me being offered on the whim of whoever decides these things 2 years in advance #also i do have a pair of high rise jeans and i love them bc they are the most comfortable things on earth but there's a limit to what i can #wear with them. or feel good wearing which is my only criteria. not that its bad per se bc on the whole i have like...4 looks that i wear #in general anyway and thats about it #but im a profoundly lazy person at heart and i did not have to think with my old mid-rise pair rip billy jean u will be missed #ask #anonymous

[airenyah]

this might be a very austrian thing for me to say but uh. not pran nearly dying on a strip of path that actually looks fairly flat

#dgmw i hate hiking and my stamina is terrible #but yeah that area right here just looks like a sonntagsspaziergang (sunday walk) to me dfjkgjkdf #like!! these are the strips on a hike that i'm actually looking forward to!!! when i'm being dragged up a mountain!!! #those are the opposite of the Death Zones™ #our skyy 2 #os2: aofverse ep1 #adrm #atots x bbs #os2: aofverse #airenyah plappert #suddenly having a flashback to that one time a few weeks ago when i was videochatting with my thai friend #and we were talking about the topic of hiking in austria bc he wants to travel to europe next year #and i told him i'd ask my hiking loving friends for recommendations where to hike in austria #and at the end my thai friend awkwardly went #''uhhh.. just so we're on the same page.... not AUSTRIAN hiking yeah? alright?'' #''nothing too challenging. please?'' #it amused me very much #and i was like yeah obviously i would have asked my friends for hiking recs that even i could easily do without dying #BUT UH. IF THE ABOVE ALREADY KILLS A THAI MAN THAN MAYBE I NEED TO RECONSIDER THIS CRITERIA AHAHAHAH

[arytha]

[ID copied from ALT: A digital fullbody drawing of @hunterofthehunters OC Ash standing with my OC, Balance. Ash is relaxed, her hand on her hip under her sword sheathe with said sword in her other hand, pointed towards the ground. She is looking at Balance with a neutral expression. Balance is slightly behind Ash, her hands clasped to her chest and looking up at Ashe with worry. Ash's sword is detailed to look like a blue dragon, with fire running down the blade. Balance's eye contains a compass beam, the red side pointing up in a diagonal. End ID]

Advent of Consequence

#Mara's Art #Balance #Ash #aah's skirt is based off a mamianqun btw :3c i think they're pretty. and practical #ash is asian~ but also insert a few thousand years since earth and not even on earth anymore bg #balance! is actually incarnated on the planet! so she's not a vague concept to ash she's an actual #person that ash has to live with but also ash can now see future 'branches' because of balance #xena over here like tailsgetstrolled.jpg because the last time she saw Balance. balance died. lol #balance's current design concept is based on 'oracle' or 'guideance' which means she looks completely different from before #also the balance beam in her eyes changes based off of criteria only she knows #and her hair will normally hide her eyes! but i wanted to show the beam off for this one ! #this entire art took forever but im happy with how it came out!!! #stuck with a simpler id this time i hope thats ok

[obstinaterixatrix]

Ugh I’ve been thinking forever about getting a specific skirt from thief and bandit (don’t look up the prices) but since it’s pretty expensive (don’t look) I just kind of filed it away as a Maybe Someday thing because it was high waisted AND basically floor length AND had pockets AND had a purple floral design, but I just looked at their site and practically everything’s gone 😔 so long dream skirt it was never meant to be

#my ramblings #if anyone knows of reputable brands that meet this criteria. let me know. #I am SICK of cheap ass online shopping bullshit where no product image looks like what they’re actually selling

[todayisafridaynight]

One of my fave jackets is this green jacket with a fur hood im wearin rn because 1.) its green 2.) my dad gave it to me 3.) it reminds me of saejima. Who also reminds me of my dad

#snap chats #p sure i talked bout this jacket before but idc read my diary #sorry that every other middle aged man i see i say reminds me of my dad its a compliment #tbh love how i clowned on ichi for being on premium copium bout arakawa but highkey i woulda done the same bout my dad.. i get it ichi.. #anyway :) i legally get to talk about my day with him now :)) HE SAID THE FUNNIEST SHIT UPON SEEING ME #HE SAID ‘oh wow we dress similar :)’ and keep in mind. he was wearing a latte brown coat with a black turtleneck and pants and shoes #meanwhile. i approach With Black Pants And Shoes Admittedly but then im in this goofy old ass jacket with a red scarf #and a crane-decorated dress shirt that i got two buttons undone on like DAAD you are senile. hes so funny #so fun my dad actually recognized this was the jacket he got me- it was one of the first things he bought for me after i told My Secret 🙈 #also i finally asked how tall he was and i can’t believe my dad matches the criteria to be an rgg character he’s fuckin 6’1 like i thought #AH but today was really nice- i got to hang with my sis and her husband as well as my dad’s wife :) #it was awful tho cause the second my sis saw my dad’s outfit she’s just like ‘it’s so kdramacore’ AND SHES RIIIGHT 😭😭 #we later found out dad’s wife loves kpop…. and she bought him his new clothes…. so we are no longer surprised….. AWFUL. #honestly i could write a drama based off my dad’s life i really could it has elements for it. i mean ig i kinda do that already dont i #i borrow. anyways. today was fun :) even if i almost lost my mind trying to take the train the first time #this train system was weird… it wa worth tho it was great seein popop again #yeah….. ugh i have to still drive home from the station. and hope my car is still there #i get very paranoid leaving my car alone so openly i dont like it… #anyways. bye bye :) i might nap til my stop or work on a fic i started #‘snap what happened to’ dont worry about it i need to look at something else or ill scream #ok bye 👋

[etho-slabbers]

I did some character design for chaos gods au :3

Zam

Spoke

anything seen on the spoke page is not final and will most likely be changed.

#chaos gods au #lifesteal #princezam #spokeishere #spoke's oufit is not final #ill come up with a final one at some point #havoc is permanent thought #just not spoke hes too simple and doesnf meet 1 bit of criteria #actually havoc and spoke look to similar #havoc isnt final either #q

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Aspd culture is your favored person telling you you can't have it because you're too loving

(Like yes i am but only with you)

.

#cluster b culture is #aspd culture is #cluster b #aspd #Mod Reef #anonymous #OH MY GOD that's fuckin. what #similar thing: when people say you can't have ASPD because you're ''not manipulative'' when. half the point of manipulating is-- #--making sure they don't know they're being manipulated #also if you look at the DSM-V (and yes i DO have the diagnostic criteria from the DSM-V pulled up right now) manipulativeness isn't even-- #--mentioned as a symptom? like it's not mentioned anywhere unless you count it under deceitfulness or reckless disregard for self/others #i was ORIGINALLY gonna say that it was only one out of many symptoms you could have but then i actually looked at the criteria and #it might mentioned be in the diagnostic features section but i don't wanna read through that big block of text with a headache lmao #and that also isn't part of the actual required criteria it's just talking about how it might present. so

[kumeko]

A/N: For the Oasis Rarepair zine! Well, this ship was a rarepair when I first wrote this fic XD Which tells you just long this has been buried in my to post folder.

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Jean was heavy. Not in the way a real person was, all bones and flesh and sinew, but in the way a rock was, a concentrated gravity that sank to the bottom of a lake. Diluc adjusted his grip on her legs, keeping his back angled so she wouldn’t slip off and fall. Her arms were looped too loosely over his shoulders to be of any help if she tipped over.

He wasn’t sure what he’d call their relationship. They had too much history to be mere acquaintances and too much distance to be good friends. Whatever word fit, it certainly wasn’t one where he expected to carry her across Mondstadt in the dusk.

Jean’s head lolled, her soft hair brushing his neck, and Diluc fought the urge to stiffen. They had never been this close, not even before. He had never let it happen. He certainly would never let it happen again, not when it sent a shiver down his spine, not when his neck still tingled from the contact.

As though sensing his discomfort, Jean stirred. Her head slowly rose, her hands weakly grasping his shoulders. “Master Diluc?” she murmured, voice still husky from sleep.

She was too close to his ear. Diluc tightened his grip in anticipation. “Yes?”

“You’re—” Her breath hitched, and Jean jolted straight up as she realized her position. For a precarious moment, he wasn’t sure if they could both stay upright, but then her training kicked in and she leaned forward before they fell. Her nails dug into his shoulder like little daggers as she quickly took in the situation. “What—where—how—?”

“You collapsed on patrol,” Diluc answered slowly, plodding forward now that she’d regained her balance. A cool evening breeze blew, ruffling his hair. Small lights lit up the path to Mondstadt, their glow only getting brighter as the sun slowly set. “Again.”

“That…” He didn’t have to look to know that she was chewing her lip, her expression a cross between embarrassed and ashamed. “Sorry.”

Diluc shrugged. At least they weren’t far from the city. He could just make out the bridge’s outline from where they were. “It’s fine.”

“It’s not.” Jean wiggled, pulling back. With her sense of decorum and pride, he wasn’t surprised her first instinct was to hop off. “I’m sorry for the trouble. I can walk the rest of the way.”

He tightened his grip in response, forcing her to hold his shoulders lest she fell off. “It’s fine,” Diluc repeated.

“But—”

Forgetting how close they were, he shot her a sharp look over his shoulder. Even in the late light, the sun’s rays painting the sky a soft purple, he could make out the bags under her eyes, the tired droop of her smile, the soft red blush of her fever. Her eyes met his and Diluc quickly turned back. “You’re sick. I’ll carry you the rest of the way.” Sensing she was about to argue, he added, “Jean.”

She stiffened. It was unfair, he knew. Diluc had seen the way Jean looked at him when she thought nobody was looking, the way she said his name, the way she leaned closer when he spoke. He was many things, but blind wasn’t one of them.

But if saying her name was enough to make her listen, to make her stay still, then he didn’t mind playing dirty.

Jean sighed. She leaned forward, pressing her forehead against his back. Even through the thick material, he could feel her heat, as though her vision was pyro and not his. Softly, she uttered, “Sorry. Thank you.”

He kept his gaze firmly on the path. “No need.”

“Still.” She sighed again, her breath tickling his neck. “Sorry.”

Diluc clicked his tongue. “If you’re really sorry, you’ll stop working so hard you faint.”

By now, it was common knowledge in Mondstadt. Jean was a great fighter. Jean was the acting grand master. Jean overworked herself on a daily basis. Kaeya would sometimes drop into the bar and leave hints about Jean’s well-being, his sharp eye on Diluc’s the entire time.

Knowing his former friend, this was yet another one of Kaeya’s games. The worst part was how it worked every time—no matter how composed Diluc forced himself to stay, no matter how blank his poker face, Kaeya’s eye would crinkle, his lips pulling back into a sly smirk, and he’d leave looking like a cat that caught the canary.

Perhaps he should look into putting a ‘no Kaeya’ sign on his door.

Jean chuckled, light and airy and utterly oblivious to his thoughts. Wryly, she asked, “Are you sure you should say that?”

He grunted, not arguing the point. “I’ve never fainted.”

“No, I suppose you haven’t.” There was a soft rustle as she shifted on his back, her hands still gripping his shoulders lightly. “Barbara says the same thing.”

Considering how much her sister loved her, Diluc wasn’t surprised. The deaconess always looked worried whenever she left the Knights’ headquarters. “Then listen to her.”

“I’ll try, but…” Jean’s fingers dug into his skin. “No promises.”

He stopped walking. Ignoring their proximity, he looked over his shoulder. “Why?”

Jean smiled tiredly. “You remember how it is. There’s too much work and not enough hands. I…I can’t let our people down. Not when they trust us so much. I can’t…”

Let their faith shatter like yours did. Diluc could hear the unspoken words, feel them curl around him like a familiar cat. No wonder Jean was so heavy, he was feeling the weight of all of her expectations, of all the dreams and hopes pinned on her.

“You’re just one person,” he replied. That had nothing to do with you.

Jean hadn’t covered up his father’s death. Jean hadn’t clogged up the requests, delaying even the smallest task behind a mountain of red tape and paperwork. Jean hadn’t accepted loss as an acceptable result to a mission.

If there had been any reason to stay with the knights, it would have been her. But a single person wasn’t enough to stay and fight the corruption. Not even one he used to watch from the corner of his eye.

“I know. But…I thought…” Her voice grew softer, fainter. Diluc strained to hear it. “If I work hard enough, maybe you can rely on us again.”

His breath hitched. No matter how hard he craned, he couldn’t see Jean’s expression properly. And he wanted to, needed to—she had never been good at hiding her emotions. Even without asking a question, he’d find the answer on her face.

“It won’t make up for what happened but…” She closed her eyes, slumping forward. Her chin rested on his shoulder, her cheek brushing his neck. “I want to ease your mind. If only a little.”

Her breathing evened out, her fever finally forcing her aching body to rest. Diluc, however, couldn’t move, still frozen by the sudden confession.

Jean had been a workaholic since they were kids. Whether it had been training, schoolwork, or even just a children’s game, she had always put in more effort than was necessary. When Diluc had seen how seriously she’d taken her position as Acting Grand Master, he hadn’t thought of it beyond her usual behaviour.

But the woman collapsed on his back wasn’t pushing herself for any of her usual reasons. No, it had been out of an unwarranted guilt. A sense of duty.

And now that he had heard it, he couldn’t unhear it. Diluc gritted his teeth. “Why are you always like this?”

There was no response. Her hair tickled his skin as she slept. Diluc sighed as he glanced up at the starry sky—the night had finally fallen, leaving behind only the darkness of the universe.

Leaving behind only the light of the universe, the millions of stars and galaxies twinkling down on him.

Diluc couldn’t return to the knights. That was beyond him now. But he could do other, smaller things. Ease her burden, if only a little—make it so she didn’t have to patrol as much as she did, make it so that when she did, there was no reason for her to collapse.

Perhaps he could talk to Rosaria about it later. And Kaeya. As loath as he was to admit it, they had a good scope of the problems in Mondstadt.

For now, though, he continued to plod home, Jean nestled safely on his back. They hadn’t been this close in ages. Diluc wasn’t sure if they’d ever be this close again. His pace slowed slightly as he shifted her to a more secure position.

Maybe tonight he’d take the long route home. Just this once.

#jealuc #genshin impact #jean gunnhildr #diluc ragnvindr #jean x diluc #fanfic #no seriously it is funny how two years ago this actually fit the rarepair criteria #and now when I'm posting it an eon later #it is not #i really need to post things in a timely manner #actually the zine is full of funny ships like this #where at the time it was rare #and looking at it now it's just wow #look how far you've come ship!

[keelanrosa]

terfs when a study shows literally anything positive about trans people/transitioning: 'hm i think this requires some fact-checking. Were those researchers REALLY unbiased? Because if they were biased this doesn't count and if they weren't knowingly biased they probably were unconsciously biased, woke media affects so much these days. Have there been any other studies on this? Because if there haven't been this could be an outlier and if there have been and they all agree that's a bit odd, why aren't there any outliers, and if there have been and any disagree we really won't know the truth until we very thoroughly analyze them all, will we? Were there enough subjects for a good sample size? Did every single subject involved stay involved through the whole study because if they didn't we should be sure nothing shady was going on resulting in people dropping out. Are we 110% sure all the subjects were fully honest and at no point were embarrassed or afraid to admit they didn't love transitioning to the people in charge of their transition? Are we 110% sure none of the subjects were manipulated into thinking they were happy with their transition? In fact we should double-check what they think with their parents, because if the subjects and their parents disagree it's probably because they've been manipulated but their cis parents have not and are very unbiased. How many autistic subjects were there because if there weren't enough then this doesn't really study the overlap between autistic and trans and if there were too many then we just don't know enough about what causes that overlap to be sure this study really explains being trans and isn't just about being autistic. How many AFAB subjects were there because if there weren't enough this is just another example of prioritizing AMAB people and ignoring the different struggles of girls and women and if there were too many how do we know sexism didn't affect the results. Was the study double-blinded? We all know double-blinded is the most reliable so if this one wasn't that's a point against it even if the thesis literally physically could not be double-blinded. Look i'm not being transphobic, i want what's best for trans people! Really! But as a person who is not trans and therefore objective in a way they cannot possibly be, i just think we should only take into account Good Science here. You want to be following science and not being manipulated or experimented upon by something unscientific, right?'

terfs when they see a study of 45 subjects so old it predates modern criteria for gender dysphoria and basically uses 'idk her parents think she's too butch', run by a guy who practiced conversion therapy, 'confirmed' by a guy who treated the significant portion of subjects who didn't follow up as all desisting, definitely in the category of 'physically cannot double-blind this', completely contradicted by multiple other studies done on actual transgender subjects, but can be kinda cited as evidence against transitioning if you ignore everything else about it: 'oOOH SEE THIS IS WHAT WE'RE TALKIN BOUT. SCIENCE. Just good ol' unbiased thorough analysis. I see absolutely no reason to dig any deeper on this and if you think it's wrong you're the one being unscientific. It's really a shame you've been so thoroughly brainwashed by the trans agenda and can't even accept science when you see it. Maybe now that someone has finally uncovered this long-lost study from 1985, we can make some actual progress on the whole trans problem.'

#science #transphobia #cass review #less 'cass review' generally more 'zucker specifically' because this same problem exists outside cass #have lost count of the number of times i've seen 'well THAT study may have said most trans kids persist but it MUST be wrong' #'there's another study says the exact opposite. that one's right. obviously.' #but cass is why i'm annoyed by it now #normally i don't have a problem with critical observations and questions. yeah check your science! that's good! #there have been some bullshit studies and some bullshit interpretations of good studies! scientific literacy is important! #and normally also am willing to pretend the people pulling reaction 1 on some studies and reaction 2 on others are. not the same group. #but now there's a ton of cass supporters tryna say 'oh the cass review didn't reject or downplay anything for being pro-trans!' #'some studies just weren't given much weight for being poor evidence! not our fault those were all studies with results trans people like!' #…….………….aight explain why zucker's findings are used for the 'percentage of trans kids who don't stay trans' stat instead of anyone else's. #would've been more scientifically accurate to say 'yeah we just don't know.' #'studies have been done but none of them fit our crack criteria sooooo *shrug*' #like COME ON at least PRETEND you're genuinely checking scientific correctness and not looking for excuses to weed out undesirable results #am also mad about zucker in particular because his is possibly the most famous bullshit study #quite bluntly if you're doing trans research and think 'yeah this one seems reasonable' you. are maybe not well-informed enough for the job #there's just no way you genuinely look at the research with an eye toward accurate science regardless of personal bias #and walk away thinking 'hm that zucker fellow seems reasonable. competent scientists will respect that citation.' #that's one or two steps above doing a review of vaccine science and seriously citing wakefield's mmr-causes-autism study #it doesn't matter what the rest of your review says people are gonna have OPINIONS on that bit #and outside anti-vaxxers most of those opinions will be 'are you actually the most qualified for this because ummmm.' #people who agree with everything else will still think someone more competent could've done a much better job #people who disagree with everything else will point to that as proof you don't know shit and why should we listen to you #anyway i'd love a hugeass trans science review with actual fucking standards hmu if you know of one cause this ain't it #……does tumblr still put a limit on how many tags you can include guess me and my tag essay are about to find out.

[aria0fgold]

One time in senior high, there was like a celebration in our class and everyone was busy preparing decorations to put up in the room. I was walking around helping with whatever I can then suddenly one of my classmates asked if I can help with cutting paper strips, so I was like: "Sure."

Then he remembered I was left-handed and went: "Wait, you're left-handed right? You shouldn't cut these actually."

I stood there and just: "What? Why?"

"Because it's hard to hold the scissors when you're left-handed. I'm struggling with it too." Says my classmate, who was also left-handed, that was on cutting strips duty. I just nodded then went back to whatever I was doing but the funny part of this story is that... I use my right hand when using the scissors.

#aria rants #i always remember that story whenever i look at my hands cuz it was the funniest thing at the time and also it was #the very story that made me realize that theres actually smth wrong bout my own handedness and it gave me a small #existential crisis of whether or not im an actual left-handed person cuz i can do stuff with my right that my left shouldve #but i never got to search bout it at all until last year when i found out there was smth called ''mix-handed'' #and another funny thing is that at the time. i didnt accept the offer cuz i was like: if he see me use my right hand then does #that mean im actually not rlly left-handed??? and then the other part of me was like: im too lazy to cut things tho #so in a way both sides won. also im pretty sure that guy was lookin for someone to take over the cutting strips duty #cuz he rlly be struggling with those scissors and i rlly wouldve fit that criteria its just that young me had an internal crisis #my mix-handedness is a result of turning out to be the only left-handed person in a household with only right-handed ppl

[scarycranegame]

>be me

>get new follower

>hellyes.wav

>look at their profile

>they're very obviously an antishipper

feelsbadman

#not fandom #proship #anti-anti #proshippers please interact #this is about my sideblog but still #do you ever just look at someone's profile and INSTANTLY know whether or not they'd attempt to grievously harm you over fanfic #the fucking mile long dni list usually tips me off #like. im sorry but if you have a giant laundry list of people you hate on your profile i probably won't be comfortable around you #having boundaries is cool and all but like.. please define what you mean by ''basic dni criteria'' or ''no weirdos pls'' #do you mean actual sex offenders or people who like fanfiction that you don't #do you mean people who have done real harm or people you disagree with regarding censorship #i hate blocking people who like my content but if i feel like i'm at risk of being harmed then imma do it #better to dodge a bullet and (worst case scenario) accidentally block someone for no real reason #than to make myself uncomfortable to avoid upsetting strangers on the internet #sorry i went on such a long tangent LOL i just needed to get this out of my system so that i dont feel guilty for no reason #scary crane rambles