#and hung out At A Bar

[writhe]

feeling more sad about my friend

#we weren’t super close but we hung out quite a bit a few summers in a row a couple years ago #and i saw them pretty regularly #and they were legit so warm and genuinely and comfortably funny #like someone who is easy to be around #and very present in community #so many people are grieving deeply #& there this little hole i can see forming & ripping at the edges of where they should be #yknow #like man i meet them when i was a weird lil punk and they were so fun and like. nonjudgmental and affirming and weird #we had a day where we marched 9 miles together #we buddied up at stuff #they always seemed happy to see me #& we saw each other often at the bar or at shows or at the corner store by v #*chance

[hyperfixation-tangentopia]

Am lonely :( need frend

#idk when like. my social bar stopped being sufficiently filled by online interaction #but am feeling the lonely today #the person I hung out with before also showed up in my dream #so #either I'm more lonely or more gay than I thought /j #uhh anyway yes I am. eventually going to figure out how to make friends without school. #...eventually ;-;

[corpish]

back in Nashville today and i’m feeling so much nostalgia 🥺🤠

#went to college here and last night i hung out with my bf and an ex and a handful of others and it was so so fun #and got to go to Play which is like the main gay bar I’d go to when i was in college #so so fun 🥹🥹🥹

[doicontradictmyself]

11-12-23

morning and night

#went out to the bar for a bit #got veeeeery over stimulated so went home after like an hour and a half #had to calm down from it so pulled out the weighted blanket and my cat hung out with me until i calmed down #he’s in the morning pic too he’s just out of frame #he’s such a good cat #my photos #photo journal #photo diary #lesbian #wlw #sapphic #femme lesbian #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #my face

[mulletfriend]

going out drinking with someone i don't know super well purely bc we're the only two people free.... remains to be seen if it'll be a friendship level up or a losercore evening

#shut up egg #nothing against the guy he's super nice but we've literally never hung out not in a group #actually i have q single thing against him and it's that he doesn't like dive bars.

[mattodore]

done with sehyuk's tattoos so his sim's officially finished now <3

#river dipping #kang sehyuk #echthroi #had to add last minute censor bars to these pics bc i forgot abt tumblr's aversion to full on dick and balls while taking them lmao #also hi… i’ve been offline a lot recently </3 normally i lurk but i’ve been busy #i was gonna work on his tattoos yesterday but i hung out with my best friend all day so i put it off until now #now that they're done i think i'm gonna finish my tamino sim and then add both of them to my little ocs save #hopefully i don't spend five hours agonizing over every feature change again bc lordddddddd #i was fighting demons last time i tried working on the tamino sim

[cuteasamuntin]

Sometime mid-pandemic, I was let go from a poorly-paid writing gig with a rude message from the project lead. The way it was worded, the specificity of the ire, left me crying on my bed. […] I was thinking about giving up and looking for another service job. My dog, ever-sensitive to my emotions, jumped on my bed and lay beside me. I had a moment of clarity: my bosses had always been awful to me. At least now I was crying in my bed, with my dog, after reading a message, instead of in public, at a restaurant, after someone berated me to my face. There is dignity in privacy. The life of the American worker is inherently undignified, but I’ve found solace in the ability to experience that shame on my own terms.

- Becca Shuh

#this article made me a little bit insane with feelings #also weirdly very homesick for San Diego #I went to the same school at this person at the same time and hung out the same places #it feels like I should know her because I know the places and times she’s talking about so intimately #but I can just about guarantee that we’ve never been in the same lecture hall or bar at the same time #writing #non-fiction #storytime #labor

[chastainromanova]

i’m probably one of like two other people who ship them but... max and elizabeth 

#like.... the bar scene was what lowkey got me on board but #5x02 is what sold it for me WHY HAS IT TAKEN HIM SO LONG TO PICK UP ASL?? #i mean even like basic stuff? probably cuz ben was always there but #what about when the all hung out at his place? did they just rely on texting? #new amsterdam #max goodwin #elizabeth wilder #tay watches tv

[justicode]

“stop talking about the Citadel DLC” but it’s hilarious Samara was sober the entire time. literally aside from EDI she was the only one not hammered, and EDI can’t get hammered. but she still stayed and partied and DANCED like she was high on life. everyone else had to get plastered first but she was like baby I don’t need a reason

#OOC / HOLLY. #MOBILE. #and she stayed THE WHOLE NIGHT #after everyone passed out I know she hung out with EDI #would love to say she looked out for the others #but bar keeping them from dying she ain’t yo mama those consequences are YOURS #anyway bet’cha $35 EDI talked her into playing a prank or two #the Code doesn’t say anything about innocuous acts of mischief #EDI: my research indicates it is customary to draw a phallus on the first person to fall asleep #Samara: interesting. I’m aware of a similar custom among asari but I am not familiar enough with that . . . shape to draw one #EDI: I could search — #Samara: perhaps we should try a different approach. did any of them leave their omnitool unlocked? #is this juvenile? yes but she hasn’t had fun in 430 years let her have this

[lupismaris]

GOD there is nothing NOTHING like day drinking at lunch with your best queer friend who's been absconded into the life of the financially successful but hasn't forgotten how much they love you

#i met them at the courthouse to finalize their divorce papers and then it was pizza and the free flowing beer/cocktail wall #in the deserted bar where it was just us and the very cool manager who hung out with us and gave us all but two drinks free #and my friend covered all my drinks since im driving them everywhere today #and i want to cry ive missed them so much they're my only explicitly noncis queer friend locally and they just loved to dc #for their dream job and theyre so fuckin happy now AUGH #im about to drive them to campus to see our old coworkers again ots gonna be great ues we are each three drinks in we dont care

[faeryfrogs]

high in hardtown

#if varric hung out around a bunch of stoners instead of in a bar #varric tethras #da2 #bodega cat varric tethras

[takethistoyourstardust]

mentally preparing myself for a friend’s bday in a few weeks bc it’s gonna be a bar crawl… save me hydration…

#the Mage rambles #it's gonna be a six hour crawl… i'm excited bc i get to hang out with new ppl plus a friend i hung out with today #but also. Six Hour Bar Crawl plus navigating public transportation

[theelectricpeach]

I'm in a weird mood...

Today, I traveled back to the town I used to live a few years ago, pre- and during covid. Tomorrow, I have an interview where I used to work (and enjoyed working) for more than 3 years. (I moved there for the job, in fact.) I will most likely reject the job if they offer it to me.

Tonight, I got a tea at place I used to get tea, and went for a walk where I used to go for a walk almost every day. (It's a small town. There are not many suitable places to take a walk.) The town, despite some superficial changes, still looks the same as it used to when I left two years ago. It definitely feels the same as it did when I left. In fact, it feels the same as it did when I walked the same walk more than six years ago, when I interviewed here for my previous job.

But I don't feel the same. Tonight, it struck me that one thing had changed in particular. Back then, I used to thrive under pressure. Stress made me excell, made me put in more work and deliver the impossible. I left for that interview the day after submitting my thesis, and I aced it. Despite the jet lag, the language, the lack of time to prepare. Today, stress makes me overwhelmed and unable to focus. I tend to check out instead of leaning in. Today, I need time to relax and recharge and I will take that time.

I wondered at first if I've become weaker. Less able to deal with pressure and stress. Is it age?

Or maybe I'm stronger now, more in tune with myself and aware of my needs. Without going into detail, I'm definitely in a better place mentally now than I have ever been in my life, in many respects.

Or maybe it's all just a kind of survivor bias. Maybe I'm repressing the times that stress made me crash or check out (these definitely happened). Maybe it's just a coincidence, this apparent contrast between me six years ago, and me now.

Food for thought, either way. And maybe a sign to look for a thera again (although difficult in this transitory period of my life...)

#personal #about me #feel free to ignore #after the tea and the walk I went to a bar I used to go to #and got a single shot #hung out for a bit and chatted with the bartender #nice change of pace and helped bring me out of my funk #but I still wanted to write this down #for posterity #or something

[junkyardromeo]

OH DARIUS RUCKER WE'RE IN IT NOW

#i love to trash hootie and the blowfish cuz like. home state vendetta but it fucks me up if i think abt it too much #they probably drank in the same bars i did back home. smoked by the same alleys. shot the shit in the same record store. #hung out in the same shitass spots #sorry i think this is a bad week for me

[ceruleanfuckup]

I had a 13 hour shift today and was panicking because I was late to something after my shift, so I ran a lot and fucked up my knee pretty bad but honestly it was very worth it

#posting at 2:40 AM because he's asleep and minimal people will see this #I'm just. happy. #and a large part of me is worried that it's a ton veneer of happiness that will crack when i ask certain questions #but most of me is just happy taking it as it is #he's so much fun and i enjoy spending time with him a lot and he's charismatic and funny and facetious and egotistical and delightful #my roommate has learned that every time she catches me smirking that it's because he did something cute or he was unexpectedly kind #i just. worry. #and I'm trying to not get too hung up on that because i did a lot of my worrying early in whatever this is but it's still underlying #idk man no amount of time with him is ever enough time and he does things to me that I've never felt before #and idk man. I'm just happy. #long ass shifts don't seem anywhere near as long with him on the other end of it #he works at 5:30 AM and he stayed out with me until 1 because i was late and because i needed it and he even suggested the second bar #I really want to attach meaning to his actions but I'm so nervous to overstep #anyways if you ever look in this tag I'm going to be very proud of you. and a little shocked #i mean. maybe not as shocked as i would have been before the Twitter thing 😭 #Roman

[extervus]

Jesus christ just realized I haven't like turned on my computer since Thursday, it's just been one of those weeks man

#shut up max #shit idk if im even gonna be in the mood to hop on anything today #i prolly should at least boot it up #but man ive just been so busy. which is both a blessing and a curse #on Friday i hung out with a friend and had dinner with him and that was a blast #<- biggest understatement of my life #and then i worked Saturday morning then went to go see that same friend's dad's band play at a bar afterwards #and then Sunday i worked a sexy 10 hour shift that made me looooooose my mind and also i was just like in a pissed off mood #and then Monday i had a corporate meeting in the afternoon and didn't get home till almost 6pm #but i hung out with a different friend for a few hours that night so that was fun to just like vent about work frustrations and shit #and now im typing up this post at work and i still have almost two hours to go #but i think im just gonna like clean the kitchen when i get home. the table is just fully covered in things and i neeeeeed to organize it #or else ill explode #but i also havent like. had a time to just sit to myself. ive either been working or going to meetings or hanging with friends #which dont get me wrong. Friday was sooooo fun and id take every opportunity to hang out with him if i could #but maaaaan ive been non stop doin somethin for almost a week now. not a single moment to sit and chill #unless im like showering or about to go to sleep