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hey yall come join me on snapchat i am now taking video calls this weekend only💗
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(Part two) she won’t accept my decision. I dropped out of college willfully and she still won’t respect it. I want to have a good relationship with my mom (dad doesn’t really care) but I’m so sick of her not accepting what I want in life and I don’t know what to do. Sorry for the long ask but I really really appreciate any advice and again I love your blog!??
Oh dear one, it's been so long since I've replied asks that I missed the first part, but I understand the gig. Being feminine or staying at home is not politically correct.
I'll just say something that you may actually apply to all areas of your life. People, including people we really love, don't need to accept our decisions.
We are free to be a homemaker, and they are free to not like us being a homemaker. We are all free.
If she won't ever change her opinion, why do you feel entitled to change hers? Do you accept yourself enough to be with someone who disagrees with you? If they are insistent, just calmly look them in the eye and say "it's ok you think that way".
Most relationships like this need strong boundaries, and us firmly, but kindly saying, "I won't speak about this anymore". But don't convince, we never convince.
Other times we may need to close the distance with this people, not a definite goodbye, but more like a cordial, distant relationship. It's ok. Even a complete goodbye may be ok.
Truly loving people is accepting them where they are, with their limitations, and accepting that sometimes, out paths may not be as close as before. We let them go with love. Most of the time they are just trying their best too and we can simply live by setting strong limits.
Wish the best anon, wherever you are 😘
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