#but are like… sending other messages to blogs complaining or telling others to have my Oc ‘be nicer’

[mediawhorefics]

hello marie, hope ur okay! so, there’s this girl on Wattpad who’s claiming that she finally got your permission to translate tts, is that true or… she’s just lying ?!

https://www.wattpad.com/1318890612

why can't these people just leave me alone?

#in case y'all were wondering this is a big part of why i don't write hl anymore #i know it's not fair to the majority of people who are so lovely and encouraging and respectful and supportive #but this kind of disrespectful shit started in the early pandemic when i was really depressed and uninspired and i was started to feel less #interested in 1d cos nothing was happening #and i can't even begin to tell you how it felt... to already feel so low in personal life and then to see the way my work was treated...... #it really changed my relationship to this fandom. in bad ways. #and ik im prob. gonna get some anon saying im annoying for complaining/that theyre glad im gone or whatever mean shit i always get when im #being honest about what it felt like to be a creative person in this fandom #but whatever this is my blog and some of the people who steal others' stories should know how it feels #and it feels like shit #about me #i have like... a message from that person from like... last friday ?? asking permission #and i didnt reply cos i simply did not see it #cos i dont open wattpad #unless someone sends me a link to a stolen copy of my fic #idk when they started posting maybe they did ask first #but still #its written in my ao3 profile #its written in the tts author's note #its fucking written on my twt profile #i dont know how much clearler i can make myself #idk maybe im a bad person their message says theres a revolution in iran and thats why i should say yes... idk

[starrclownshazbinblog]

I haven't been here long but should I be concerned at how low the bar of decency is for the hazbin fandom? I mean I've been mostly reading the rewrites because I like reading other people's ideas but it's that bad?

Yeah it can get rough lol. Here's something I rebloged on my main account.

People can be pretty fucking mean when people critique Hazbin. If you look up Hazbin Hotel Critical on here and look around on blogs then I'm willing to bet most of them have a ask or comment about how their wrong and how their stupid or reading too much into it or complaining just to complain.

Hazbin Hotel and Helluva Boss is one of the worst fandoms I've ever been in because if the stuff super fans pull. If you don't agree with the fanfom you can recive death threats, rape threats, other horrible messages.

If you wanna see how mean people can be look up Hazbin Hotel redesigns on tiktok. One of the worst things I've seen is there was this video on tiktok where someone used the sound 'Hit the road Jack' to show the characters they didn't like. They didn't like Vaggie, Charlie, Moxxie, and the Cherubs.

A good 95% of those comments where telling them they were wrong, they just wanna be different, how could you hate this and that. It's really weird.

I just find it so strange to get so upset about a show that you tell someone to kill themselves. It's gross.

Do us a favor Anonymous, keep being normal and don't send anyone KYS messages or rape threats. It's gross.

- ⭐️StarClown⭐️

#hazbin hotel rewrite #hazbin hotel critical #hazbin hotel rewrite blog #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel redesign #hazbin hotel criticism #vivziepop critical #vivziepop criticism #vivziepop critique #helluva boss criticism #helluva boss critical #helluva boss critique

[am-i-the-asshole-official]

AITA for sending my mutual anon hate because it was the only way she would listen to me then breaking the mutual when she took anon off???

my mutual (f, like 16 to 18 while we knew each other) and i (genderfluid, 17 to 19) became mutuals back in 2021 since we had some shared fandoms. (genshin, bnha, naruto, etc). imma call her rose. rose seemed nice and pretty funny so i thought she was chill and we ended up adding each other on discord a few months into the mutualship. we were casual friends tho and only really talked abt fandom stuff

a big thing w/ her tho was that she thought she was hot shit for having 1000 followers on tumblr and she took anons super seriously cuz, in her own words, "i know anons can be anyone but most likely theyre one of my close followers and i want to be loyal to them". like she would call them smth like her "anon gang" and make posts thanking people if they sent a lot of asks. she was a wannabee infulencer on tiktok & insta so i think she translated that on tumblr too. but i quickly realized that meant she took what anons said seriously.

one time, i said she should change her theme colors because they were major eyestrain (bright orange background with teal text) and she told me "nah i like it this color, no one has complained." i waited two weeks... then sent an anon saying "im sorry ur theme is rly eyestrainy :((" and she immediately replied with "i looked up color palettes that are easier on the eyes and changed it!! i hope that helps"

and so basically after that, if i ever had an issue with her stuff, i would send an anon in instead of telling her because it would work. i need her to trigger tag smth? send her anon asking it, she would do it. do i think she needs to tag really long posts? send her anon, she would do it. do i think she has a bad take on a ship i like?? send her an anon, she would apologize and rewrite the post to be nicer / fairer. because otherwise she would just go "ehhh its fine" to my face and refuse to consider it because "idk thats just ur opinion im just doing my own thing"

but like a few months back ig she got into a bad fight with someone popular in a big anime fandom so /their/ followers started sending anon hate, so she got overwhelmed and turned it off. after a month i asked her if she was planning to turn it back on and she said she was actually gonna keep it off indefinitely cuz ""as much as i like my anon gang sometimes its nicer not having to respond to so many requests"

so i waited like a few weeks, quietly broke the mutual and unfriended her on discord because with the amount of issues i had with her blog / vibe was not worth it if she did not have anon turned on. i didnt send any rude messages, i always asked politely and i was always friendly to her face when we dm'd. aita???

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole

[mlmshark]

Introduction to Mlmshark

Info:

Oliver, 17 yrs, trans male, gay/vincian

This is my account where I ramble about being gay and talk about my experiences as a queer man

And now because apparently I have to add this:

‼️PROSHIP AND RADQUEER DNI‼️ ‼️I AM A VICTIM OF PEDOPHILIA AND CSA I DO NOT WANT YOU HERE YOU ARE NOT WELCOME HERE‼️

This isn't an nsfw account, but it is 17+ so I can be more mature without worrying about younger followers like I have on my other accounts

Fanfic acc: @sharkboywrites (dead) art acc @sharkboyoli

I will give out my discord, but only to mutuals who ask

more info below, including boundaries please read before sending messages

This is an mlm blog

I use the labels I use/are comfortable with trans man, transmasc, gay, vincian, achillean, aroace, aromantic, greyromantic (more specific way of describing my romantic attraction) and asexual

I am autistic (maybe, I just got tested and am still waiting on results atm), and I have a horror and pokemon special interests (please talk to me about them plsplsplspls)

My pronouns are strictly he/him, but I'm not sure about neos, feel free to use them on me it doesn't bother me

Anyone can interact regardless of sexuality or ender identity, I prefer the people who are my mutuals to be 17+, but younger people can like my posts and ask me questions. I won't follow back anyone under 17.

The main point of this account is to have somewhere to talk about being gay and find more gay people to have a community with it.

For a long time and even sometimes to this day I've been shamed for my identity, so I want my own space to be an openly gay trans man with no hate and find other people in my community. I'm also still exploring myself and the world as a trans man, despite being out for six years, and this is my space to talk about it.

Boundaries

No proshippers, radqueers, zoophiles, etc.

No racism or ablesim, this is a space for all gay men/nblm regardless

My mutuals need to be 17 or older, I may be more mature at times, but not to the point of full nsfw

Do not send me nsfw asks unless they're questions about the queer experience ( for ex. asking about my experience, how to know, about my asexuality, and life as a gay/trans man are fine)

Don't send me/tag me in nsfw posts

Don't try to be homophobic or transphobic, I'll just block you

No shaming me or other people for liking men, even if you're also queer

Don't come onto my posts complaining about how you hate men

Don't try to compare my experiences with other queer people/try to make it the oppression Olympics

Don't complain to me about gay labels or flags

Don't try to invalidate anyone who interacts with this account that identifies as gay, even if you think they don't count (transmasc gay, tranfem gay, genderfluid gay, etc.)

Generally don't bring any discourse

You're free to vent in my asks if it's related to being gay or transgender, this account is for people to find community, just try not to make people uncomfortable

Don't call me the f or t slur unless you know I'm okay with it, even when I call myself it

As you can tell, this is mostly an nsfw neutral account, I'm okay with talking about it in the non- horny sense or now. this acc may be more open to it as time goes on (probably as I get older and experience more things), but for now: no <3

That's it, feel free to interact, i'd love to find some gay people in the community that I can ramble with and be a man kisser with :)

#gay #mlm #t4t mlm #mlm yearning #mlm thoughts #gay mlm #queer yearning #achillean #mlm t4t #nblm #mlm blog #trans mlm #trans man #transmasc #mlm love #t4t

[danvillecheese]

why do u think act ur age is fucked

[cracks knuckles] alright. essay time. you asked for it.

I’ve done a similar response to this before here and mentioned something else about it here but I’ll go over it again since those posts are both from a while ago. also bear in mind I haven’t seen aya recently bc I don’t like it. okay let’s get into it

[also im gonna preface this saying maybe i sound very pessimistic but im ranting and its just gonna sound like im complaining because i am. i mean no real malice by the way. im simply a person with a blog.]

first off. they don’t use the show don’t tell as well as they could. in the what might have been montage, sure, they showed potential scenarios and how phineas felt (very briefly) when isa stopped visiting his backyard but it just feels so rushed. I get that they only had like 11 minutes to show it but idk there has to be another way to write it. or just not have it at all idk its just from a writing point of view the whole episode feels rushed and out of place from everything else continuity-wise. why not use little easter eggs planted in the show beforehand? operation crumbcake? pharmacists? meapless in seattle? god theres so many episodes with evidence that phineas liked her back even if he didnt know. just. continuity!!!!

second. why did their friends not try something sooner. it’s not like they didn’t know. like phineas seems to be okay with saying “i wish! i am so in the friend zone there” in front of his friends (that quote alone makes me lose my shit but that’s a whole other point) so clearly they knew about phineas. and isabella also wasn’t quiet about it (source: pnf s1-4). they had like four years of high school to do something and they planned it the day isa left for college? nah its just the least realistic thing ever for me. also them being 18 is like yeah okay maybe the slow burn was worth it and theyre way more grown up (i love a good slowburn) but ohhhhhh my god SURELY their friends were getting sick of them dancing around each other. just me?

third. and I’m sorry to ash simpson but oh my god I hate the character designs like They Would Not Fucking Look Like That. it almost feels like it completely disregards their arcs during the original summer. like yeah child chub disappears over ur teen years but sometimes it stays a little longer! make phineas less twiggy!! make isa look more like her mother! (am i about to redesign them again? whoops)

four. and i know this is no fault of dan and swampy but the show was about to end anyways and yet the entire friend group was paired off into hetero ships?? get fucking real. none of those kids are straight. realistically, i know it was a different time and gay marriage wasnt even legal in the us yet so it wasnt all that common to have queer romance on screen let alone on disney channel but like i said, the show was about to end. what were the disney channel execs gonna do? cancel it? lmao

five. "I am so in the friend zone there." "we are guys. we do not talk about our feelings." WHAT!!! i cant believe this shit is real. these lines of dialogue are canon. what the hell. what kind of message does that even send to younger, impressionable viewers? if ur a 10 year old boy watching that (ok fine maybe that isnt gonna stick with you forever but listen) and you go 'oh its okay to just bottle everything up and not tell my friends about my feelings about anything ever' that is insane! thats not how things should go!! like i get the whole "im so in the friend zone" and yes, this also has to do with the era but like if they wanted to be a more progressive cartoon that kids look up to and enjoy maybe they just. shouldn't have put that whole conversation in.

i barely have any problems with the b plot. in fact id watch the episode just for the kazoo solo. because that plot lines up with the continuity. i can totally see heinz having bowling night with perry and carl and monogram every week! i can totally see perry and monogram retired! and carl running owca and getting payed for it! that all checks out! that one makes sense and works with the canon! if they got that plot so right how did they get the a plot so wrong?

i can answer this question: fanservice. its an awful word, i know. act your age is a fanservicey episode which is why i think it crashed and burned. mml season 2 is rooted in the same issue: doof is very present and takes away from the original plot of the show. like, the one he wasnt even in until the last episode of s1. slightly getting off topic but it is the crux of the issue. fanservice doesnt make for good storytelling. even if it brings in the big bucks. at its core, telling the story the way it should be told is the best one. even if it pisses people off. a good portion of the viewers will still appreciate whatever ending the creators come up with. and no, im not saying phinbella shouldn't have become canon, in fact i really like the ship and all their dynamics, i just think they went about it the wrong way.

as someone who's written and published fic about them getting together in different universes (granted, they were from when i was younger so its mildly terrible. take them with a grain of salt) there are a lot of other ways to tell that story canonically. honestly, i think the best way of doing it was to keep it ambiguous. dont tell that story. let the viewers pick their own ending for phineas and isabella. maybe they dont get together after all. who knows!

thanks for the ask! hope you had fun getting lectured <3

#phineas and ferb #phinbella #act your age #ask #this was fun you guys should ask me more stuff like this #dwampyverse analysis

[dhwty-writes]

What's scary about RocheCiri? Why do others always tell them no? :(

Hey anon, you're in luck. I have the time and spoons for arguing with a troll today, at least until I get tired of it.

So let me make something very clear: I genuinely do not think it is necessarily the ship that people object to - a lot of people are into a lot of different things! I think that it is you, specifically, that people find annoying. Please keep in mind that by sending me this second anon message you are fully block evading, since I blocked and deleted your last ask! After people have expressed no desire to interact with you, you generally would not pursue that avenue further, but I k ow that you have been told so several times already.

Also, I do not think that ship is scary! I simply do not care for it. As I have mentioned in the previous post I made regarding you, I have not posted witcher fanfic in over a year and even when I was active, I mostly wrote geraskier. As you have also been told previously, harassing and entire fandom one anon ask at a time is not the way to make people like your ship. Even though I had never heard of that ship before, when I first came across your messages months ago, it already made me dislike it. But regardless, I have an open mind. So, how about you come off anon and show me the great art you have supposedly made of this ship that people call ugly? Continuing to make that art is probably the best way to get people to care about your ship! By sending these messages you just antagonise an entire fandom - former members included.

And before you say that I have it easy since I only ever wrote for the popular ship: that's not true! You can look at my pinned post or my AO3 - both extremely easy to find on this blog - to confirm that I have written gen fanfic and non-geraskier fanfic and it should not be hard to see thar those got way less attention than the rest of my work. So I suggest that you stop complaining and put in the work like the rest of us, nonny!

#look I've got an ask #Anonymous

[the-owl-tree]

meowdy! my name is deer (they/them). this is my xenofiction rambling blog with a heavy focus on battle cats. i enjoy being critical of things i read so if that isn't your thing, this might not be the spot for you. you can find my rambles under the tag #deer rambles. i generally rate this blog 16+ (though im not gonna go out of my way and check tbh) as more mature subject matter sometimes does arise during discussions.

i also really enjoy art! you can find stuff i've drawn under #deer scribbles. My commissions are currently closed but if you're interested in when they open up and would like to claim a slot for when they open up, you can DM me.

other links:

twitter/x

my carrd & tos

main blog (general warning for suggestive and sexual humor on there) & art blog

I get a lot of xenofiction recommendations and Tumblr’s search system is straight up ass, so I’ve compiled them into a post! Click here to read through and feel free to send suggestions :)

blog specific info under the cut

Important Documents Pertaining to Warriors:

Warrior Cats and Anti-Indigenous Writing

The Feather Issue Doc

byf

i’m very loose with tags but i do try and get the general stuff, feel free to shoot me an ask if you need something tagged

if you want me to reblog your art, feel free to tag me in it!

i like to complain about this series a lot more than praise it. i find warriors really fun to pull apart, i think it's awful and deserves every nitpick it gets.

if you send me an ask and you want it to be answered privately, please tell me

this is a WC SPOILER ZONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! currently i am only tagging spoilers for the newest wc arc, you can block the tag #asc spoilers to avoid spoilers for it!

some general requests for when sending me asks/messages:

#1 rule is always be nicies to me

please avoid personal anecdotes. i understand sometimes discussions on here veer into personal territory but i am a stranger and i don't always know how to handle responding to that.

it takes me a bit to post some asks. the longer it is, the longer it'll take me to get to it.

i might not respond at all if i don't want to deal with potential discourse and/or i just don't know how to reply to it.

sometimes this blog veers into topics outside of battle cats/xenofiction, i don't really want to discuss general discourse if i don't have to. i do not want to argue about online lgbt+ discourse, that's exhausting.

you can disagree with me, i like to hear other people's opinions. but don't be nasty about it, that's a one way ticket to get yourself booted from here. i love discussions, not people trying to rag on one another.

banned topics: nightheart, mapleshade's vengeance

here are some stories i have going going that i love to talk about:

#honey's horrible time - A work-in-progress story about a human being who is killed and reincarnated into a warrior cats rip-off series where she possesses the body of one of the minor antagonists in the book. All information on this story is available in this masterlist.

#poolverse - An nextgen AU revolving around an alternate AVOS cast. It's set in the aftermath of a very different OotS where the Clans decide to abolish the borders and attempt to live peacefully...to mixed results. This is a soft reboot of my older "new generation au"!

#fallen stars au - An alternate universe for The Darkest Hour in which Firestar must flee the forest with friends. All information on the story + archived art from the former ask blog can be found here.

#ask bean - my wc oc named bean who becomes the clan's mediator after the events of squirrelflight's hope. i used to run an ask blog for her but i didn't have the energy to maintain it. you can see the old asks here.

#pinned post #idk how many ppl actually can see my about page #so i thought i might as well just turn it into my pinned post

[fallatyourfeet]

Restless Nights (Tyrion X Reader) Oneshot

Word count: 800 Yes, that's right.

Warnings: It's a little bit of angst for both Tyrion and the reader, but it's super soft at the end. Talk of nightmares.

A/N: So, um, I knocked this out in a few hours, which believe it or not, is some kind of record for me. So hopefully, it stacks up.

Please feel free to send me a message/comment/ask, I would love to know what you think.

If you like this, please feel free to visit my blog and take a look around! You can find my masterlist in my bio.

It was such a timid knock upon the door of Tyrion’s chamber. If he was sleeping, he never would have heard it. The night had been a restless one. With the Northern Queen arriving in the capital tomorrow, there had been much to organise, his mind was a constant whirlwind of thoughts and preparations, leaving sleep hard to come by. He doubted if he’d collected more than four hours during the course of the week. And the fact that she was arriving to attend his very own nuptials, in just a few days, did not make sleep any easier. He was exhausted, but he wasn’t sleeping, so he might as well get up to see who it was. With a small sigh, he ran his hands across his face and made his way to the door, tying his robe around him in the process, and asked, “Who is it?” 

Expecting to hear his guard answer, he was surprised and somewhat alarmed to hear your voice. Even through the door, without seeing your face, he could tell you were upset, “It’s Y/N, can I come in?”  

Tyrion reached the door in his very next breath, grabbing the latch, he flung it open, “What is it? What’s wrong, Y/N?” Your shiny cheeks and red watery eyes, weighed him down like lead, he didn’t like seeing you this way. Placing a gentle hand to your back, he ushered you inside, giving his guard a small nod, before closing the door behind you. Leading you to the edge of his bed, he sat you down and poured you some wine. Passing it to you, he noticed your hands shaking, your silence and reluctance to speak doing nothing to ease his concern. “Y/N, tell me, what’s wrong? Are you hurt... has somebody hurt you?”  

Shaking your head, you took a sip of wine, and he felt just a breath of relief; you weren’t hurt or injured. You inhaled sharply, it was ragged and inadequate, your voice struggling to stay even, “I’m sorry Tyrion... It’s silly and childish, but I... I didn’t want to be alone.” 

Sitting down beside you, he reached across to move your tangled hair behind your ear; he wanted to see your beautiful face. Placing a gentle hand to your knee, he used his other to guide your chin towards him, and spoke softly, “Sorry? Believe me, I’ve never been one to complain about beautiful women knocking on my door in the middle of the night.” You indulged him with an amused smile, and so he used the moment to ask again, “Will you tell me what has you so upset?” Seeing your hesitation, he angled his body towards you and put aside your wine, taking your hands in his, “In a few days I will be your husband... I want you to feel comfortable... to be able to tell me anything.” 

Tyrion waited patiently; he could see you were going to speak. And after a minute of contemplation, your breathing settled, your voice was much steadier now, “I told you, it’s silly... I can barely even remember what happened. It was only a nightmare... I just remember waking up screaming and terrified.” Looking to your knees, you wavered, as if you were embarrassed to continue. But giving your hands a gentle squeeze was enough encouragement for you to go on, “I... I just... can I stay here, with you?” Without realising, Tyrion shuffled a little in his spot, and your expression dropped; you thought he didn’t want you to stay. You couldn’t have been more wrong. Shaking your head, you apologised, “I’m sorry... I shouldn’t have asked. I... I should go.” 

You moved to stand, but Tyrion kept your hands tight within his, “Don’t leave... I want you to stay.” Reaching across, he grabbed his pillow, “You sleep on the bed... And I’ll sleep on-” 

Stopping him with a hand to his forearm, you said, “No Tyrion... I want you to hold me... to sleep beside me.”  

For once, Tyrion was quite speechless, only capable of three short words, “Are you sure?” 

With a single nod of your head, you answered, “I am.” You were nervous, he could see that, and yet, your eyes told him this was something you wanted... needed even. You. You sought the comfort of his embrace. Tyrion couldn’t begin to understand the feeling of joy and contentment it brought him. It radiated like a wave from his very core, spilling from every surface. And as he laid down and took you in his arms, he was blissfully unaware that in just a few glorious minutes he would drift into the most peaceful and contented sleep of his life. But a sleep that would become a permanent fixture of his life, from the moment he married you. 

@tyrionsprincess30

#tyrion lannister x reader #tyrion lannister fanfic #tyrion lannister x fanfiction #tyrion lannister imagine #tyrion lannister one shot #game of thrones x reader #got x reader #tyrion lannister

[phanartist]

A few days ago I asked if I should get people to send in their own Phanart and there weren’t very many votes but no one said no.

So if would like to message me a picture of your DnP art and I might add it to the Phan art gallery. Things like fan fiction, poetry, Jewelry/Clothes, dolls, statues, and pretty much any form of art is allowed as long as it’s Phan art. You could also submit your art to the gallery but just know that it might not go up.

About Unknown Artist Thursday: you might have noticed that not all of the artists are unknown anymore and that is because some people have commented who made the art. If you recognize the art ,please comment and I will edit the caption to say who made it and to say thank you for letting everyone know.

Terms & Conditions:

• 16+ artists only

• You can only submit your own artwork

• You can only submit Phan art

• I’m the curator of a gallery and you’re the artist, you can’t complain if I decide not to put your art up

• All art forms are allowed as long as it’s Phan Art

• Phan art of Dan and Phil with other people are allowed

• if your art gets put up and you want it taken down just say so, no reason is needed but I will anytime you want.

• It’s your art not mine so if you do or don’t want a specific tag on the post, tell me

• It’s kinda my thing too put polls on my posts so if you want a specific poll, tell me

• You can send in more than one picture of your art piece

• I’m fine with you submitting more than once as long as it’s your art and your haven’t submitted it yet

• Art that has been posted on your blog is fine

#dan and phil #phan #dan and phil art #dip and pip

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

hi! first of all, thank you for your blog! i'm a questioning aroace but i don't know much about it. i used to consider myself ace when i was 16, then i thought i was too little to know and now, when i'm almost 21, i found out more about aroace experiences and it just... feels right? i've dated twice. never kissed though. first time my girlfriend used to complain we were "just friends" and not "real" partners but i would always tell her i truly love her and that i see real love as best friendship. my second girfriend just accepted my way of love but a new problem occured. when we were friends and i was crushing on her, i could be affectionate and e.g. hug her, but when we got into a relationship i freaked out and was no longer touchy or flirty. she was fine with it though, but i broke up with her about a year later because this whole dating thing didn't feel right. i haven't been in a relationship for what seems like ages and i want one so bad!! but recently i've realized that many people don't see love the way i do. the first time i thought i might be aro was a year ago when i wrote a fanfic and showed it to my best friend. she texted me "it's nice and all but you described friendship. it's not love". and i was like???? but that's how i feel love? and she started sending me some charts about how passion is an important part of "real" love and that my description wasn't right. it made me want to cry. i thought... was there something wrong with me? around that time i tried to find out more about aro community but it was a bit scary. i thought these people were heartless because how can you NOT love someone romantically? then, when i had another crush, i told about it to that best friend i've already mentioned. she asked me to describe my feelings and when i explained them she said "it's not love, you wanna be friends". but i don't feel that way towards friends! i know it was a different feeling. still, i came to a realization that i might be aroace after all. although, a bit later i met an aroace guy online. we weren't that close, just chatted in a gc, but i messaged him asking for advice. and when i shared i might be aroace and told him about my way of seeing it he said "you're not aroace, you just don't like lovey dovey stuff". and now i'm so confused... but your blog really comforts me. i want to find myself in this world. and i think i really am aroace. but i have no one to talk to about it... i'm too scared i won't "fit in" again. so thank you for reading my message!!!! have a nice day!

Do you think it's possible you might be experiencing a type of tertiary attraction, Anon? Tertiary attraction is any type of attraction that isn't romantic or sexual, some common types are

Platonic attraction/squishes: This can feel very similar to romantic attraction and have a lot of the same symptoms, but doesn't feel romantic at all. Instead you want to be close to the other person, or be important them.

Alterous attraction: This can have romantic or platonic elements, but won't be fully either. If you think of platonic and romantic as being binaries, this would be a non-binary option. Very useful for people who feel like neither platonic nor romantic feels quite right when describing their attraction.

Aesthetic attraction: Basically being drawn to someone on an aesthetic level, and strong desire to look at or study the other person. Sometimes this attraction is described as being similar to a particularly moving piece of art or looking at something particularly beautiful.

Sensual attraction: a desire to connect in a tactile way with other people. Especially in a way that feels sensual like touching, cuddling, smelling, etc.

There's other types of tertiary but these are some of the more common ones (if you want to explore attraction in more detail, the LGBTIA Wiki has a great page on it.)

But yeah, it definitely sounds from this ask like you are experiencing some kind of attraction, so looking into attraction and different types of attraction may be helpful. One of the most helpful tricks for telling attraction apart is asking yourself what is the attraction making you want? Or what kind of pull are you feeling? Imagine different scenarios and see which one holds the most appeal to you.

Romance in general is tricky because it's not very well defined and it's very often described as 'you know it when you feel it'. Unlike sex where, while there may be some gray areas, people generally do agree on what sex is or isn't, there aren't really an actions that are always romance. Holding hands, giving people flowers, etc can all be romantic actions, but also can be platonic depending on the scenario.

So how do you know if your feelings are romantic or not? Romantic feelings feel romantic (which is so useless, right?). But there is an actual romantic feeling that makes people want to be in a relationship labeled as romantic or do actions or be in scenarios they view as romantic. Romantic people will often have scenarios that just feel romantic to them too that they'll want to play out with the people they're attracted to.

So if the idea of something feeling romantic, or having romantic scenarios in your head feels foreign to you, that could be a sign what you're experiencing isn't romantic. Similarly if you're attracted to someone, but would be happy in a relationship not defined as romantic, that could be another strong sign.

It's not always clear cut what is romantic feelings or not either, there are gray areas. Since you mention a few times that romance and friendship feel the same to you internally, I'd also suggest looking into these two labels:

Idemromantic: Someone who categorizes relationships as romantic or platonic but experiences no internal differences.

Platoniromantic: When someone experiences no difference between romantic and platonic attraction.

One last thing, based on how you describe relationships, have you looked into or heard about QPRs, Anon? QPR stands for queerplatonic relationship (sometimes also called quasiplatonic relationships or quirklyplatonic relationships). And that just means a realtionship that isn't easily categorized by romance or friendship. And they can be tailored to the people in the relationship and include the things they want but not what they don't want. If you really want a relationship but romantic relationships aren't working out for you or feeling right, this may be worth looking into. And you can have committed long term relationships in QPRs too.

So this is a lot of information, and it may take you a bit of time to go through it and process it. You don't have to figure everything out right away. But hopefully it gives you some direction to go in and some things to look into.

I wouldn't put too much stock in what other people have told you up until now, other people can't interpret your internal feelings, only you can do that. And both the aromantic and romantic spectrum are quite broad, and people can experience both in a lot of different ways.

Try and trust your own internal feelings and interpretations and go with what makes sense to you or what way of looking at things is useful for you. And frankly sometimes these things are a bit subjective anyways.

If you have more questions or want anything clarified, feel free to send in another ask.

All the best, Anon! Good luck!

[stormblessed95]

The anons who keep going to other blogs to talk shit about you are the definition of “always hating from outside the club when you can’t even get in”.

Loosing sleep, breaking out into pimples, foaming at the mouth because they can’t personally message you.

Lame.

If they really want to pop some veins, instead of talking about styling rings we can have a real convo about the Busan “I’ll tell you in the future” Muster 3 rings.

🥂 to living the best life, storma 💜

Love you 💜💜 and it's not like they can't message me. My inbox is still open and so are my DMs. They just don't want to. They'd rather complain and cause drama in the shadows. I really piss some people off I guess. I don't know why. I guess for sometimes saying jikook are boyfriends. I've never talked bad about any other bond. I'd always be down to talk about the matching accessories anyone else wears too! As long as they don't degrade jikook at the same time if they send in an ask about it.

I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Promise, I know. I just don't understand why you'd keep such close tabs on what I'm doing just to piss yourself off more. Block me and go? Lol save yourself the headache. But I mean, while we are here and everyone is stressing TF out about the members matching. They sure are cute 🥰

I'm obsessed with them all. And I would really appreciate it if people were a little less obsessed with me too honestly 😂

#leave me alooooone #if you don't like it dont read it #its not a hard concept i dont understand why one would be here if they hate it here #my babies are all matching and i adore them

[mugenloopdalove]

Dude the way you use this blog is so incredibly unhealthy. I know for a damn fact you're not gonna listen to me and make this message out to be like it's attacking you, but it needs to be said. The way you whine and complain about how you don't want to write or even LIVE anymore because you don't get a lot of attention is so bad for you. If you're creating art to get validation from others then you're not doing art right. Art is for YOU. It's to have FUN. Yes, notes are nice and of course it's fun to see how people like it but you can't have that be then only reason you create. It's also not fair that you threaten to give up over it to guilt people into sending you comments. Self shipping is supposed to be a coping mechanism but it seems like all it does is make you tell others you want to kill yourself. You're not going to listen to me at all I know but you should just log off or even delete your damn blog at this point because all it seems to do is worsen your already shitty mental health.

???? When the fuck did I say I don't want to live bc I'm not getting attention. Hell did u see my posts today about how I'm trying to tell myself the OPPOSITE or did you just choose to look at the posts I made the past week when I was literally off my meds.

And like yeah you can "you can't create for validation" all you want but getting zero feedback on something you work on is fuckin crushing and tiring.

Me being suicidal sometimes has nothing to do w lack of attention it has to do w the fact that my life lately has been losing my cat, losing my job, struggling to get another, and feeling like I'm not good at anything I try

Don't come here acting like you know me and my life and expect me to listen to you. I don't think you're acting me but you are being very ignorant and giving completely unsolicited advice and acting like you're living my life rn.

[orphanedwolfandfriends]

So fellers, I can't promise that this'll be the last post I make about them. They don't fucking listen when they're the reason why nothing's going their way. I may be petty, but blocking, reporting, and IP banning them with the handy dandy statcounter is STRONGLY recommended (if you can afford to anyway, statcounter has a monthly payment thing).

I personally suspect that they have an alt account that none of us are aware of, and I'll say with full confidence that I could be wrong.

I started knowing they existed on account of their dry writing and their godmodding, and after, they'd start to ask a mutual some intrusive and condescending messages on why they're so kind to me. Not my character apparently, me. They don't bother to learn character names and just use URLs to shit talk. They'd ask why there's fanart of my woof child and their muse, which lmao, why's that a fucking problem? Mind your own beezwax. They would also bombard that mutual with asks about their shadowban issue, why can the mutual see other people's asks instead of theirs, and the most the mutual could do was tell them what it means and how they can fix it (which they never did). And as you might've seen earlier, they said me drawing fanart of fictional characters was "weird" and talked about it like it was self insert art I was doing. Self insert art's not even an issue to begin with but yet they took it personally lmao. Perish. Also I wouldn't make my self insert be a fucking child, and the art wasn't even shippy in the slightest.

It got to the point where my mutual blocked them, and they moved onto a Vegeta blog, and really milked that cow dry for how long they'd keep messaging them and whining about them not jivin' with the godmodding, along with complaining to that Vegeta and someone else about everyone making bad comments about their oc. If you look into their blog, you'll see that this person does not have a bio what so ever. Not even in a separate post. So quite clearly they're just expecting everyone to submit to her Mary Sue powers despite the fact we know nothing about them. They even info dumped the same Vegeta through an ask which, dude. Limited text. Look it up.

And then, they would bombard a Raditz rper and bitch about how he's not submitting to their random stranger shit while Raditz accepted a fucking BLT from one of my adult muses, bombard an oc blog like "you're flirting with Raditz, I can tell, your oc's not any better than MINE", AND, try to act like they're such a hotshot at writing, which as you might've guessed, they're not. And they're actively painting themselves in a bad light instead of listening to people and accepting boundaries. They also bugged the shit out of a Beerus mutual, and another mutual who writes ocs, just 'cause the other's muse was just vibin' and giving Beerus food. There's literally nothing wrong with that, yet they'd keep bugging the other mutual with shit like "oh beerus is only keeping you around 'cause you're giving him food, beerus isn't nice blahblahblah".

Do you see a pattern here? They'll get pissy when they don't get any attention from all four of those characters, and send jealous, petty bitch-sounding messages over two friggin children that are just being nice. Imagine being jealous of a fucking child. Actually suck in that shame like a juice box, 'cause that is PATHETIC. Jealousy is legitimately not a healthy thing to have, especially over something like roleplay, and when you actively guilt trip or shit talk them just 'cause of that, that's even more pathetic. And hella possessive. Good luck being possessive when the muns aren't interested in your oc to begin with lmao.

They also chased off somebody after stalking them for a full on year, as I've been told, which from people saying "that explains a lot" when I said who they were, that's...unsettling. Not surprising, but unsettling. And they're suspected to be another individual named Skye. I dunno if that's true but that's why I say "suspected."

TLDR; Please for your own sanity, block @phoenixissims and report them for their harassment. Do whatever you can to keep them far away from you as possible. The Dragon Ball side of the RPC is not the only RPC they've harassed over the years, so it isn't their first rodeo with being annoying and creepy. Do not waste your time with a message.

Now with all that out of the way, phoenixissims, go fuck yourself with a pitchfork, and everyone else? Have a nice rest of the month. I'm going back to my usual tomfoolery.

#outofpuppups #{Negative} #{Callout tw} #Like I said in musecheerios; not sugarcoating shit for this person. #I'll only delete if friends 'n moots ask me to. #But if phoenix tries I'll just laugh. You brought this upon YOURSELF.

[wcamino-confessions]

I posted 1,383 times in 2022

1,381 posts created (100%)

2 posts reblogged (0%)

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@wcamino-confessions

I tagged 353 of my posts in 2022

#submission - 145 posts

#from the queue - 57 posts

#off topic - 39 posts

#mod x - 38 posts

#response - 37 posts

#ask to tag - 25 posts

#jokes - 25 posts

#mod dawn - 14 posts

#<- mod dawn - 11 posts

#mod post - 9 posts

Longest Tag: 139 characters

#this is exactly what happens when you guys get so mad at the lt. you stop thinking and attacking them for every little reason your minds1/2

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

since someone wants to create some drama about me because I decided to sell my character to someone else.

this person was hella sketchy, I was about to block them because they made me slightly uncomfortable. the fact they purchased $25 of points for a $15 paypal character?

this user was attempting the good ole chargeback scam. rather than spending the $15 to friends and family on paypal, they bought $25 of points to send to me and chargeback. happened before to a friend so i’m very wary about accepting points.

you’re not entitled to purchase any of my characters. you’re not entitled to the rights of my characters and you’re certainly not entitled to tell me what offer I am allowed to accept or deny.

you made me incredibly uncomfortable and attempted to pull a scam. i was getting ready to block you but noticed you had messaged me.

maybe instead of paying $25 for points, could have saved yourself $10 + got the character. fucking scammer type energy right there.

66 notes - Posted March 13, 2022

#4

putting this in my bio

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67 notes - Posted February 22, 2022

#3

nah because why tf are people on this app so rude for no reason 💀 i offered 2k ac for two fullbodies(they showed two styles, but when they said they accepted my offer they didnt say there was a price difference between the two styles in the first place)

See the full post

73 notes - Posted November 6, 2022

#2

Y’all owe deesh a huge apology

The fact that y’all ((@ tizzy and Yuna especially)) think it’s okay to purposefully trigger deesh is disgusting

WAC is a place for opinions, but opinions don’t fucking including trying to emotional hurt someone by using something THEY HAVE ESPECIALLY SAID DOES THAT

Im not going to be posting what deesh said without there permission, but the fact they had to ask you guys multiple times to stop doing something that triggered them and you decide to respond to that by making a post calling them that and including a screenshot of them saying is a trigger is gross

is deesh annoying? Maybe, but being annoying isn’t a crime, if you dislike someone block and move on. You don’t borderline harass them

And don’t even think about using the opinion excuse again because it’s very clear that some of you don’t even fully agree with it

Not even 2 weeks ago did Yuna and tizzy and whoever else is associated with wa69 go one a whole tirade accusing wac of doxxing someone. When the person who was responsible for the doxxing wasn’t even involved. Or the fact that you guys specifically made a whole other blog to make fun of wac because wac thought you guys harassing the lt wasn’t okay. So it’s a “place for opinions” until suddenly those opinions don’t line up with yours?

The fact you guys went so far against deesh despite the fact that basically everyone involved has done worse is so hypocritical

Yeah sure it makes perfect sense that yuna, someone who’s told lt they deserve to die, is allowed to trigger deesh because “they’re annoying”

But it’s hypocritical that Deesh complains about complex adopts despite the fact that people constantly do that without many people calling it out and that one of the people who were calling deesh hypocritical also made a post saying certain adopts were scams?

88 notes - Posted March 24, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

some people need to stop acting like a victim for getting banned, looking at you mistystorm- like it was hella justified stop bringing it up literally every chance you get

124 notes - Posted March 5, 2022

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#tumblr2022 #year in review #my 2022 tumblr year in review #your tumblr year in review #storm if youre in the discord lmk i will give you a silly role

[i-am-tiny-sun]

Hi friends, I’m gonna restart this blog with some good old rules that I’m still strict about.

🎊Tiny’s Intro🎊

💫Wip Masterlist💫

💕• Do not interact with my NSFW posts if you are a minor or uncomfortable with my works. You will be blocked immediately! Please don’t mistake this for a safe space for minors though, it’s not. I won’t be upset if you interact with STRICTLY SFW content, however.

💕• You need your age in your bio or pinned post to be allowed access to this blog as a whole. I will block you if you don’t have it somewhere visible.

💕• If you are homophobic, transphobic, literally any phobic of the LGBTQ+ community, you will either have to fight with me or be blocked immediately. If I see anything from my moots, followers, or anyone I’m following about you, you will have a place on my bad side. Stay out!

💕• If you are racist, xenophobic, antisemitic, etc., you’d better make it known to me now so that I can block you and warn others about you. I won’t tolerate your hateful behavior that could potentially endanger my existence or the existence of who interacts with this blog.

💕• Do you encourage eating disorders? Stay away. It’s completely different if you’re a recovery blog, I only ask that you keep your interactions to below bare minimum. I don’t want to endanger myself or people who interact here.

💕• Do not come here complaining to me about aging up characters. I’m not the only one who does it, and you know fully well that it depends on the age of the character. You know fully well that I’ll never write for them without a proper time skip that ties into their age, or if they’re very clearly much younger than other characters. You’ll just be blocked…or mocked depending on your wording.

💕• Please, no drama here. Don’t tell me about it unless it directly involves me or someone we know mutually. If it meets this criteria, then let me know and I’ll try to find a way to help fix it. This is not an invitation to bring me in to make it worse!!! I would only be there to help myself and others who are impacted by it by trying to solve the problem. Only mention it to me if it meets this criteria!!! If your beef is with me, message me explaining exactly what the cause was and I’ll work with you to solve the problem.

💕• Don’t ask me to describe the reader’s appearance because it won’t happen. I’ll just ignore you or delete your ask. In this train station, readers regardless of appearance can interact with my posts. This isn’t to be hateful, this is to be inclusive. I want everyone to enjoy my work regardless of what they look or sound like.

💕• I do write dark content, but here’s what I will not be convinced to write: the consumption of excrement, incest, bestiality (y’all mfs know damn well mostly humans with some animal traits are different), pedophilia. The list will change as time goes on.

💕• I only write smut for dominant female readers. This includes every form of woman. I shouldn’t have to say this, but people can’t seem to understand that all women are women…regardless of their circumstances. Keep that in mind before you come here complaining to me about it. I don’t write for sub reader, but I sure can enjoy it and reblog it from other writers!

💕• Hearts, comments, and reblogs are highly appreciated and valued here! Please consider doing one or all of these at least. I live for interactions!

💕• Have fun. My requests are open for business! I sadly had to turn off anon because I didn’t think it was fair that people got to hide behind that little button to send hate, so I took that right away from them. If you have a request but are shy, my inbox is open and I won’t address you in the post if you want to remain anonymous! I just ask that you tell me your age or have it visible to me before I write anything out. Maybe one day I’ll turn anon back on…

Disclaimers

🎊• If you see anything about beaded works, it’s mostly my own creations and I wanna annoy y’all with them! I have a tag ready specifically for my more physical art.

🎊• If you have grievances about possible issues regarding inclusivity on my blog, tell me so and point out the errors you see. Chances are, it’s likely a mistake that I’m sure can be fixed.

🎊• If you see old works that I was able to salvage beginning to pop up (with help of course), it’s my work.

Now that we have this out of the way, anyone have a request?

#new pinned post y’all #MANDATORY READ YES #the tag for my more physical works is ‘tiny’s beads📿’

[outrunningthedark]

It makes me laugh when big blogs complain about negative anons, and make a post specifically to tell people not to come into their inbox if they’re negative??? Like turning off anon is right there folks. If their friends have praising words they won’t do it on anon. So what did they expect from people who don’t want to show their profile? Could they handle it if those negative people come off anon and talk to them directly? I doubt it, and option to turn on/off anon exists for a reason. 🤭

I'm not in anyone else's head, but it is absolutely wild to me that anon "hate" (that isn't a "kys" type of reaction) doesn't get shrugged off more often. I had folks coming into my inbox after 6x01 ON ANON because I posted about Kristen's decision to make Lucy "important" instead of choosing Hen outright (and again, even the showrunner herself said it wouldn't have mattered to Buck who Bobby chose!) and when I called them out because their age was showing (20-something with nothing better to do), I got even more flack ON ANON for being ageist, lmaooo. (But by sending bitchy messages behind a screen proved my point, so...) And that was after they reblogged the post just to mock because they really thought their girl was coming back for good. Oops. People hide on anon because they KNOW they'd get shit from their "friends" if they attached their name to the attack. They're literally scared of a negative reaction while sending someone else that same energy. How is that anything other than pathetic????

#anonymous #tina speaks #tv: 911 #tv: 9-1-1