#but it needs to be said

[gemmahale]

Look. I’m gonna be that cool friend of yours that sits on the seat backwards to talk to ya. Because we need to make some things clear.

Don’t be a jackass to people. Block or back out.

This is an 18+ space for legal reasons.

This is a queer positive space.

This is a sex positive space.

This is a kink positive space.

This is a body-autonomous space.

TERF and SWERF rhetoric is not welcome here. RadFem rhetoric is exclusionary and hurtful.

Trans women are women; trans men are men; gender exists on a spectrum and we believe people when they tell us what they are.

Sex work is real work. Period. End of discussion. The exploitation of workers is not limited to sex work.

Thinking you’re morally superior to someone else is cruel and perpetuates stereotypes that actively cause harm.

Censoring your words is a violation of consent - people have tagged certain words to prevent them from seeing it. Censoring it violates their choice. (And also? Be an adult. Use the words as they’re intended to be used.)

People deserve to be cared for and have their basic needs met, regardless of status, identity or health concerns. (This includes mental health too.)

If you don’t like any of this, block or back out. Be an adult about it. This is not an airport, you don’t need to announce your departure.

Bigotry will not be tolerated.

We good? Good.

#gemma rambles #Gemma is pissed #I stewed on this for too long #but it needs to be said

[broflovski-brah]

it’s kinda funny how almost every character with albinism in media is always portrayed as a villain. as if that isn’t feeding into every stereotype out there.

the only protagonist i’ve found with albinism in media was in a book where the girl turns out to be a witch. which is arguably on the level of bad as the evil albino stereotype.

idk why this bothers me so much. nobody knows about albinism and it’s not like it’s actively discriminated against. but i wish there was more media where more normal people had albinism instead of the PWA turning out to be an evil villain or a witch, they turn out to be a normal person with normal struggles. like give me a story about a character with albinism trying to navigate the world on their own terms, trying to fit in and such WITHOUT using stereotypes.

like yes. i know people being ignorant towards a certain condition isn’t the worst thing in the world. maybe i have no right to complain about it given the other tings that are happening in the world that kinda trump issues like this. but it’s still an issue. the fact that people believe these things is just sad to me tbh.

another thing that bugs me is when people refer to us as ‘albinos’. like not everyone hates that word. some PWAs are okay with it. i just say it because it’s shorter and easier to type out than ‘person with albinism’ but even in media seeing the character being referred to as ‘the albino’ makes my stomach turn. people use the word ‘albino’ to refer to animals; most of the time. the word itself can feel dehumanizing sometimes, in certain contexts. for me it’s better to say person with albinism. it’s putting the person before the disability and it doesn’t feel as degrading.

anyway. my inbox is always open if you have questions for me about how to write a character with albinism. i know nobody is gonna see this or care but i just thought i’d say smth.

#skipper speaks #albinism #slbino #albinism awareness #writing help #this is really important to me #any reblogs would help tramensously #visual impairment #visual disability #disability #ableism #stereotypes #i know in this day and age u can’t even be complaining about people saying hurtful things about people like me in media #and spreading said stereotypes given that there are actual groups dealing with a lot worse #and i feel bad complaining about it #but it needs to be said #i guess #idk

[that-weird-skeleton-bastard]

i know people are gonna bitches about it but

Ragajax babies

Bonbon is a girl while Shoowee and Peabs are boys

they're 3 y.o and they are mainly inspired by those freaky bunny baby dolls where you're not sure if it's a onesie or their body (as pictured below)

In the triplets' case, it's a part of their body.

But Ragatha and Jax hate eachother!

yes canonically No one likes Jax (@gooseworx confirmed it) however this isn't canon content, it's my own, and i SAY THAT THEY KISS AND HAD TRIPLETS TOGETHER-

But THE AGE GAP-!

SHUT

THEY'RE BOTH CONSENTING ADULTS, YES THERE'S AN 8 YEARS GAP BUT WHO CARES?? CERTAINLY NOT THE CREATOR! SHE STATED MULTIPLE TIMES THAT SHE DOES. NOT. CARE ABOUT THE SHIPS AS LONG AS WE DON'T FIGHT

SO YOU LET ME SHIP MY STUFF AND I'LL LET YOU SHIP YOUR STUFF WITHOUT FIGHTING. IT'S NOT THAT FUCKEN HARD.

But how did Jax and Ragatha have kids if they don't have genitals??

Ah! I'm glad you asked! Well Caine obviously don't know shit about how humans actually work, and is fully convinced that humans make babies by kissing, so Ragatha and Jax kissed one evening and the next day, Ragatha freaked the fuck out because she was pregnant with triplets out of nowhere.

But how did the babies got out of her belly? C-section :)

#i apologize for the small rant #but it needs to be said #ragajax #ragathax #bunnydoll #jagatha #ragatha x jax #jax x ragatha #tadc ragatha #tadc jax #tadc fanchildren #tadc oc #digital circus

[wis-art]

Small tits that stick out as much as the chubby tummy 😵‍💫

#sorry to be like this on my main #but it needs to be said

[zunra2]

normalize having a self inserts that look absolutely nothing like you

i just like having fun making my little creatures

#idk if anyones said this before #but it needs to be said #self inserts should look like whatever the hell you want lol #selfship #self ship #self insert #this isn’t selfship specific btw

[a-crumb-of-whump]

FYI, by asking that we be treated with respect and not be inherently classed as abusers purely because we’re living with a personality disorder is not invalidating your experiences as a victim of abuse. In fact, a lot of us went through some sort of abuse to develop said disorder in the first place!

Please, for the love of god, do your research. We are not the monsters you make us out to be.

#not whump #I know I’m talking about this a lot right now #but it needs to be said

[kitkats-forthe-gays]

Being aromantic/demiromantic is listening to love songs and not understanding why you can’t tell that way.

#aromantic #demiromantic #lgbtqia+ #I know this is out of character #but it needs to be said

[flashstep-connoisseur]

I respect people who are horny for P especially since I'm one of them but please have some self respect, that twink does not have any thighs or ass and it's embarrassing seeing people lose their minds over them when they're nonexistent

#lies of p #might be swinging a baseball bat at a hornet's nest with this one #but it needs to be said

[edenfenixblogs]

Idk who needs to hear this but it’s ok for Christians or atheists of Christian origin to just…not be the loudest voices in the room on this one. It’s fine. Nobody will doubt you’re still the ones in charge of *gestures broadly at the western world*

#bracing for hate #but it needs to be said #😬

[chunk0k0]

In schools, we are studying and proving by 2+2 why colonialism was a horrible thing.

We learn how the nazi propaganda on its own state was shocking and how they depicted HUMAN BEINGS as parasites and brainwashed their population.

From WWII we mainly focus on the horrifying things, the genocide, Jews went through

But look at our society today.

Look at it.

Look around you.

Teaching history is absolutely useless, upmostly foolish, when you can't learn from the past.

The same vicious circle is taking place as we speak, as we live. Palestinians are being silenced with rocketships. They are being killed for their identity.

I repeat. They are killing HUMAN BEINGS, with DREAMS, HOPE, LOVE. THEY HAD FAMILIES. THEY WERE CIVILIANS. For most of them, THEY WERE NOT EVEN 5 YEARS OLD. THE AVERAGE AGE OF DYING IS 5YO. How do you justify this ?

What about the Israelis ? Terrifyingly indoctrinated. They are ready to kill children. BABIES. They are several posts showing their mindset. If you don't recognise a pattern here, I don't know what to tell you.

If you deny this, it's okay after all, it's not only your eyes that are blinded but your hearts as well.

May Allah helps our brothers and sisters in Palestine, protects them from famine, allows them to reunite in Jannah altogether and eases their pain.

Amin.

#free palestine #from the river to the sea palestine will be free #free gaza #free rafah #filistin #palestine #not my usual content #but it needs to be said #allah knows best anyway #israel are the real terrorists #israhell #isnotreal

[giyuulatte]

alright i finally finished the uncanny counter 2 and…

hmm

my thots and spoilers below

THIS IS ALL MY OPINION AND IM BLABBING AND IT IS YAP TIME

it’s 1am so i’m a lil coocoo

once again all MY OPINION if anyone sees this

honestly speaking this season was alright. it def did not compare to season one, which i was expecting. yet it wasn’t up to par with it either. it felt like too much and not enough at the same time so it kinda fell flat to me

in season one everything was connected and there were very clear motives. from the bullying, so mun’s parents, the evil spirits, ji chung shin himself, and the corrupt government. and chung shin’s backstory made me feel for him which is what made him a great antagonist imo. like i loved him

but hwang pil gwang (slick back), gelly (hongjoong variant LMFAOO), and wong (just wong tbh)….mmph

i can’t really remember the beginning it took me 2 months to finish it but, dude and his crew showed up outta nowhere and just started creating chaos for funsies???? now don’t get me wrong, i’m all for villainy for fun but i just couldn’t get into for some reason with them. it just feels like their characters weren’t fleshed out enough for me to actually like them no matter how fine they are bc the whole crew could get it

and then we move to ma ju seok my adoring and loving husband. now this was something i could get behind. him going on a rampage trying to get revenge for his wife and baby, having enough rage to summon an evil spirit on his own??? like that’s what i’m talking about!!! i felt for him and wanted him to succeed bc that con man was also annoying as shit. i really and truly wanted him dead bc he was the absolute worst jfc

if the story only focused on him, and getting his revenge and having to take him down. and only him. seeing how far his rage could take him and what would happen ON HIS OWN without any outside manipulation pil hwang *coughs* would have been a lil more interesting to me and i think i would have enjoyed it more. ik pil gwang wanted his power n shit BUT WHY. like give me a reason.

TO ME hwang pil gwang and his crew added absolutely nothing to this for me. and gelly betraying slick back and all that other stuff just felt unnecessary to me. gelly not being able to do anything and literally almost every single time the crew showed up, and bc pil gwang wouldn’t help her. GIRLY STAND UP AND HAVE SOME RESPECT YOU ARE A BADASS TF YOU DOIN???? GET OFF YA KNEES

AND ms chu’s newest child lim jae yeol….why was he there??? and be honest. what did he do for the plot other than give ms chu another child and show her backstory

and then do hwi, lawd my sweet piano man. WE WENT THROUGH ALL THAT JUST FOR HIM TO FORGET HA NA IN THE END I WAS SO PISSED bc once again. what tf did he add. i feel like he could have been good to ha na, genuinely. imagine getting dumped by ya not girlfriend after y’all done hung out together and have each other hiccup remedies, and then getting attacked by someone who finna rap they verse in bouncy i am so dead

i understand they were trying to idk, give their characters more depth but pls

mo tak punching so mun was NAWT on my 2023 kdrama bingo card. and he didn’t even apologize for it!!!! i understand he was angry and upset bc he thought lost his partner and so mun was doing a bit too much but i just feel like that was outta character for him to do…. and for him to not apologize for it was just, what???

and don’t get me started on jeok beong. i was um, expecting a lil bit more. yoo in soo is a FANTASTIC actor. if you told me he was gwi nam from aouad before hand i would have passed out. THAT MF RANGE IS INSANE!! but, but, jeok bong could have been more. i love him to death but he stayed the same person the entire time. granted towards the end he did start meshing with the group a bit better and throwing ideas out and stuff but i dunno bruh. i was feeling him and not feeling him at the same time.

the same goes for kang ki young. baby if you say that was myung seok from attorney woo i would have passed out pt2. like he did his thang bc i deadass hated his character even tho he was looking good as hell

the lack of so mun’s friends also bummed me out bc i really like them and they are an important part of his life. wanted to see more of those three together as well. my found family was not found with them this season

but the counters dynamic was still a++ like that’s real family. teasing ha na and do hwi, ha na having to save so mun while he was in a coma, then going to yung to ask why so mun leaving, jeok bong calling mun his brother just *wipes tear* magnificent

and why tf did mun have to lose his powers again. we did that shit in season one there was no need for that tbh

nothing to say about ms chu god bless.

nothing to say about jang mool god bless.

mun going over seas and seeing wi gen’s daughter like ENOUGH.

just…. too much, and yet not enough at the same time.

but i still very much enjoyed 8.5/10 BAYBEE

#giving a whole review here damn #but it needs to be said #so it can leave me brain #i won’t say im disappointed #bc i’m not it’s still one of my favorite shows ever #season 2 just kinda fell flat to me #and i couldn’t sleep so i did this instead #the uncanny counter #the uncanny counter 2 #kdrama #kdrama review #so mun #ga mo tak #do ha na #chu mae ok #choi jang mool #na jeok bong #hwang pil gwang #gelly berherd #ma ju seok

[thebiballerina]

A lot of Batfamily fans like fan content which dives into the trauma of some of them being siblings with people that have tried to kill them. While they aren't wrong, I would posit that they need more fan content which addresses the real issue here: the Batkids should absolutely make fun of those of them that failed at murdering one (or more) of the others.

I'm just saying, if my sibling failed at killing me or another relative, I would mock them about that until one of us died for real. I would give them birthday cards talking about how they truly put the 'attempted' in 'attempted fratricide'. I would ask them if they remembered their cringefail murder skills. I would bring that up at the slightest provocation. Anytime they got annoyed at me for something, I would be like, "What are you going to do, kill me? It's not like you're any good at it!"

#not my usual content #but it needs to be said #I have determined this after an in-depth survey of batfam fandom trends which is definitely for the love of genre and not for data analysis #[Scrambles to close suspiciously graph-looking windows on my computer.] #batfam #batman #dc universe #comics #superhero genre #siblings

[agirlwiththoughtsandnegativity]

I hate this society honestly. The way we’re forced to act and conform to trends on social media or else you aren’t “cool.” The way boys have been made to feel as if they have to be misogynistic and disrespectful to fit in with their friends and not seem “feminine”. The way girls feel like they have to be pretty, liked by everyone, fit this hour’s standard of beauty or else they’re not worth anything. But I can’t change anything about it, because I’m an active participant in it. I’m forced to, aren’t I?

might be just me tho idk

#Uh oh I’m being weird again #yeah that got deep #this…probably isn’t the place for this #BUT IT NEEDS TO BE SAID #real #my thoughts

[stanford-cipher]

To get to the point, I'm hugely into Billford. Feel free to block.

I find it perfectly acceptable to portray terrible relationships as well as positive ones, and honestly hate the tumblr fandom's idea of "but they tried to kill each other so it's yuckie to me 🥺" mentality.

With that said, this is a place to dump Gravity Falls content, largely stuff relating to Bill and Ford in particular.

#If this comes off as a bit hostile #It's because I've unironically been told to kms for shipping two full grown adults that arent related #I'm not proship and despise those people #I particularly hate billdip #But it needs to be said

[edvinception]

Dear anons

So many of you are lovely and I will forever love discussing Edvin's career and his projects. It brings be excitement and joy. I can't stress it enough. Most of you I love to interact with and I never want that to stop.

But...

What used to be soley fun is not anymore. What used to be mostly fun is not anymore.

Because some of you truly suck.

I'm fed up with your negative asks. I'm fed up with your nastiness and hate. I'm fed up with opening my askbox to snarky people who write to make me upset.

I hate that you sour mine and other people's excitement about what Edvin doesn't with your negativity and hate. I hate how you as soon as something is announced have to shit on it. I hate the saltyness and smugness some of you possess.

And guess what? I am not alone in feeling this way about asks. There are plenty of people on here that feels exactly the same as I do. I talk about this with these people. We all feel the same.

That tumblr is not fun anymore. That the negativity ruins everything. That what used to be fun is not fun anymore.

YOU RUIN EVERYTHING

#I've wanted to say this for a long time #It sucks that a selected few people can take away all the fun #But it needs to be said