as my good friend and i like to remind each other:
don't yuck people's yum. if you do so, at least keep it in the dms. no point in making people feel absolutely miserable for liking a certain thing, for having an oc you don't like - whatever it is. people constantly hating just for the sake of hating truly sour the fandom experience on social medias. there's a problem if the only way you feel better is by making others feel like crap.
and you, who shares the things you love online, who creates original characters and talks about their ships - know that you will never be able to please everyone and that's okay. don't let it stop you from sharing what you love, if it brings you happiness then keep doing it. you don't owe anyone anything, if what you like somehow upsets people, they can very easily just block you and move on. it's really that simple!
White people who race to discredit other white people by calling their ideologies "white person problems" to appeal to their audience of white people while speaking as if BIPOC, mixed, and nonwhite people can't speak for themselves: you're not doing anyone any favors and you could make the discussion floor a lot safer and more welcoming for the people you're shouting over by shutting up