#don't sleep in a binder

[dragonprincequotesimadeup]

So Terry is wearning a binder!!

TERRY NO DON'T SLEEP IN YOUR BINDER

#bind safely! #don't sleep in a binder #dragon prince #tdp #the dragon prince #tdp s4 #tdp spoilers #tdp terry #trans #trans masc #trans rep #transgender #Terrestrius #binder #tw unsafe binding #tw caps

[kowabungadoodles]

dumping some thoughts in the tags

#I've been TRYING hard okay #I've been trying to buy better clothes from smaller shops #but when they arrive it turns out they're cheap polyester drop ship crap #I've been trying to get more involved in the queer community and be more of a person #but the online zoom meetings were uncomfortable #the discord transmasc voice class went badly because I didn't understand how to use the bot #I booked a queer film night for me and my partner but it turned out to be creepy and churchy so we dropped out #I've signed up to steward pride we'll see how that goes #I went to a protest but it rained a lot so I only stayed for half #I've been trying to use amazon less but every time I go around my small local stores they don't have any of the stuff I'm looking for #I'm trying to be more myself and be more brave but my binders don't fit and I can't use a sewing machine #and every time I speak to a stranger or a colleague my voice goes up #I'm trying to work out more and eat less but I'm so tired #I'm trying to boycott and buy slave-free and say no to Ai and to genocide and to tiktok and disney and nestle and spotify #Telling myself I have food at home and to stop scrolling reddit and got get more sleep and to call my friends #All this therapy all these good choices all this work and so little to show for it some days #I am going back to fucking bed

[thatdude-noah]

sometimes i think about the anti-sjw culture that was so prevalent on the internet, and the transmed community that shaped so many young people. and i think about how sad it is. sometimes i find myself still having to unlearn things from those formative years. i had to learn how to be kind to myself and gave myself grace in my identity and in my life. so much hate was pushed on such a large portion of the young trans community and i think it's really sad. and i hope other people are also able to heal from it.

#having a moment about. binding. #and how i can't use a binder because of my medical issues. #so i've started taping again but right now im so painfully aware of the tape and my chest and how i look and its. awful. #but then i remember that i can be kind to myself. its allowed. im allowed to look the way i do. #i still have dysphoria and i still don't like my body all the time. but i don't have to hate myself for nothing of 'passing.' #noah stop posting late at night. noah go to sleep.

[eldrichfuck666]

I've slept in binder because I'm dumb and now my ribs hurts 👍🏾

#nonsims #delete later #olya's rambles #STILL WORTH IT THOUGH #sleeping on stomach >>>>>>>> #and oh I want to sleep again but it's just only almost 17 #TOO EARLY!! #it's literally still daytime #I have to go to the forest while it rains #.. #which means I'm wearing a binder for even more hours. #someone pray for my fucking ribs 👍🏾👍🏾 #and my spine too btw #does anyone have useful tips to minimize the pain from wearing it? I know obviously don't wear it like I do okay #I shouldn't sleep in it but fuck it honestly

[fluffle-writes]

You guys know that 'Fem reader tells them her gender' trope that some fics have?

That but everyone's reaction is 'oh she's trans. Good for her.'

#it's always been in the back of my brain like #and the reverse (e.g. 'good for him') for the 'accidental' gender reveal thing #like someone finds out they wear a binder and only gives a shit about preventing them from wearing it during physical activity/sleep #so they don't fucken die #idk it's been on my mind - this isn't me being pissed at the trope just kinda #wanna see this version of it ig #be it for the comedy trope of miscommunication OR gender comfort fluff stuff #(if that makes sense lol)

[menotthatkindoforc]

if you're not supposed to sleep in a binder then why cozy

#i don't sleep in my binder but i do like to nap in it

[smolcinnamonchipmunk]

Apparently you’re supposed to take two days a week without a binder on... good thing I’ve basically got no tits anyways, lmao

#cinntalks #I at least don't sleep in binders #often

[recordbodycount]

just realised i'm going to most likely be outed to the guy i like by the end of the month. alright

#im not scared and i'm not exactly like in the closet #im just a stealth trans guy and my friends assume i'm cis #i know he'll be good about it but #we're probably going to be sharing a room and most likely a bed and well i'm not wearing any of my binding stuff to sleep lol #feels weird to call it a binding thing because i don't actually really bind since it's not a binder #but #eh #💿.txt

[nosferatufaggot]

All day today my chest has hurt every time I breathed in. Now, as I'm going to sleep I finally figured out why. It's cuz I slept in a binder last night.

#NO ONE FREAK OUT! #Don't freak out about my well being. Everything is FINE! #I altered a binder specifically for sleeping in. I was going on a road trip last year and knew there was no way I could handle bumpy roads. #Far too dysphoric circumstances. Hence the 'Car Ride Sleepy Time BinderTM' was invented. Personalized with Sleep lyrics. #Looks pretty cool not gonna lie. #But I couldn't find my shirt that I usually sleep in last night‚ and there was no way in hell I was going shirtless. #So I put on the Car Ride Sleepy Time Binder. #And even though it is hella modified‚ it was still wearing a binder all day and night then all day today. #So hashtag pain. Like I said don't worry about me. This happens every time I use it and it goes away fast. Haven't murdered my body. #But I like to share my stupidity with you guys. #Like...who woulda thought my random chest pain would be correlated with wearing a binder far longer than usual? #lol

[angel-dust-addict]

//I've not been real active the last couple of days. I've been sick-ish. I was up until 5am last night coughing up crap and this morning it started being tinged pink and tasting like copper. I did go to the doctor at that point. I'm not sick, this is my seasonal allergies, my asthma, and my dumb ass wearing a binder way too much. Fortunately, the blood isn't a huge deal. Since it's just a pink tinge, she said it's probably because I've been coughing so hard and having prolonged coughing fits and that's ruptured some of the superficial blood vessels in my trachea and possibly in my bronchial tubes as well. She gave me prescription strength cough medicine so that I can get to a point where I'm not unable to sleep, I'm not coughing up blood, and I don't feel like I've been kicked repeatedly in the chest. I'm glad the blood isn't a big deal, but it's still freaking me out that every time I cough, I start tasting copper.

Moral of the story here is don't bind when you've got respiratory shit going on. It sucks not to, but it's better for your health. Because let me tell you, waking up after a fitful 4 hours of sleep only to start coughing up blood is not a fun experience. Best to just avoid that...

Edit: Clint did, indeed, yell at me for this, as predicted.....

#backstage || ooc #murder ballads || mun #friends of dorothy || lgbtq #[[I'll probably be around more tomorrow. #Probably later in the day. #And don't worry. I'm completely fine. #I just need to get the coughing under control.]] #tw: blood #tw: medical issues #[[Mun is an enby and has dysphoria over xir chest. #That is why I wear a binder when I'm out in public. #Always work up to wearing a binder for long hours. That's the step I skipped. #Don't be a dumbass like me. #It's also best not to wear them more than 8 hours at a time. And don't sleep in them. #Some basic binder safety for all y'all who might need it.]]

[anothermonikan]

why am I like forcing myself to be awake right now. I could be in bed. I'm going to bed

#It's because I don't wanna take my binder off. too much hassle. but you are. not supposed to sleep with those on! #Ack. literally a magic garment binders are. how do they do what they do... #asdfddfndfnfdn #Android.txt

[likehephaestionwhodied]

I "slept" in that way that really isn't sleeping but defiantly isn't being awake for maybe 45 minutes when I got home. and I'm worried it counted towards when I get to go to bed tonight.

#how I managed to even kinda sleep in my boots and binder on the floor i don't know

[im-secretly-a-frog]

I'm feeling super dysphoric right now, but it's nighttime, so I can't where a binder or put on loud music and scream into the void like I want to, so I'm going to put on my favourite socks (they have parrots on them) and hug the giant bunny I made for my favourite person for Christmas (It's September, so I'm just going to keep it until Christmas) because it reminds me of her, and probably cry until I fall asleep.

#genderfluid #gender #gender dysphoria #transgender #trans #transmasc #please help #don't worry #I wont wear my binder to sleep #trans stuff #trans people #i feel like shit

[ablog]

Been a while since I tried to talk to my family about a vulnerable subject to me and then they brought up a stupid unrelated subject before I started talking and then they were being fuckin stupid cus it has nothing to do with them (leave it alone if it was a problem I would've asked what to do) and then I started to yell cus like bruh, shut up I was being nerves to talk about a thing I don't care about this not important shit! I don't know shit about it it's not important!! It doesn't matter leave itttt oh my god

And then I go away and listen to music without resolving the og reason I came to talk

#not as bad as it was #like the HARDEST part is behind my i just needed to ask sm about the aftereffects #getting a binder lma #so excited #i was just coming to ask if we can add a bucket upstairs for me to wash it in #cus like sometimes i go to sleep with my clothes #i need it to be easy to remove and wash the binder and have it all as a part of the evening so i won't just like #stay awake until 4 am again and be to tired to move do anything just yeet to bed #if everything is ready then it's easier #i was a bit nerves cus my sister was there and I don't know if she have any idea what's a binder and if by talking to my mom she'll have a #follow up question #but ut used to be so much worst when the subject was like #i was very VERY bed mentally and was trying to ask for a therapist but was under no circumstances able to talk anything #and then a random bullshit was brought up and i wasNOT okay to change to this unimportant shit without putting out the words that SCREAMED #in my head nonstop #eh it's mostly okay now like idk I'm able to talk #it's pretty crazy actually took my only #eh #3 years #and not fully #heck no #but some of it can come through my mouth/fingers (text) #not that much but more then before #kk more good now #incredible what music and writing can do in just a few minutes #ummm I'll ask about the small tub some other day it was literally just shipped:D #I'm excited

[helloidkwhatimdoing-0]

Okay i have no real reason to stay up late today and my head kind of hurts (guess who forgot about drinking water today) so I'm gonna go to sleep i think

Goodnight everyone, think about gay people whilst I'm gone <3

#moss mumbles #speaking of gay people i literally need more gender fuckery in my life so bad #im thinking a lot about getting a binder #it's my birthday in like a month and i don't think i can ask for one but i could use any money i get to buy one #and I've been thinking about getting a different haircut #I'd have to grow my hair out a bit tho bc it's not long enough at the back #i also rly want mkre than just my normal ear piercings and to dye my hair #but i can do neither of those things right now bc of school uniform rules #okay anyway sleep time. god my head hurts

[technologyvoid]

Arm.... Pain...

#void chatter #ow ow ow ow ow #pain #shoulder no. stop that #this is what i get for sleeping in a binder #<bad idea btw. don't do this