#haha heterophobia

[spencereid]

the straights really just love to shove their relationships in ur face … like it’s fine if ur straight ,,, i just don’t wanna see it !!! how would i explain it to my child (an orange cat) ???

#checkmate liberals #this is very obviously such a silly haha joke of me but also i am very tired of hearing and seeing a specific straight relationship #i am supportive live ur life queen but i DO wish i didnt see it as much as i did #perhaps it is heterophobia #perhaps it is the bitter bitch who is alone #perhaps i just feel uncomfortable seeing so much about a relationship that isn’t mine or anyone i know #and i feel insane that no one else seems to feel the way i do but #take a buckwild stab at what i am speaking about #also to be clear this is a joke and has nothing to do with them being straight i am just tired of hearing abt them #kateposting

[rubykgrant]

I always thought it'd be neat if Kai had heterochromia with really noticeable eye colors,, like one eye being a really bright orange and the other being a popping-out cyan or something.

It would definitely be interestingly ironic, since she's colorblind and can't tell the difference! I've also seen some character designs of Kai where she had vitiligo, and after Grif had the surgery that resulted in some skin-grafts from Simmons, she sees her bro and goes- "Hey, now we match!" (though, I've seen some vitiligo Grif designs too, so he gets even more extra skin-tones after the surgery). I like to give the Grif sibs very dark eyes, with the idea that they might just seem almost black from a distance, but when you get close, you can see how deep they are, and when they reflect certain kinds of light, they become a little golden. Heterochromi Kai is very good though! Maybe one is a soft brown, and the other is a deep hazel (not quite the neon-green of Carolina though). Oh, and you just know she'd make the joke- "I have heterophobia. I can't even see straight!" haha~

#ask #answer #anon #rvb

[olderthannetfic]

I just happened across a person who wrote "DNI if you think heterophobia exists". And I had to think, of course it does? It's not even a definition thing like systemic vs non systemic racism. I'm not het, I've met a lot of other people who aren't het, and I've had the unfortunate displeasure of seeing certain circles who judge people just on their inherent traits including heterosexuality. Maybe they've had bad experiences with certain people, and I feel for them, but they've become enormously hateful, quick to say someone should die based on just being het, and they make horrible jokes about them and violent acts towards them. I've even seen blogs saying they like to fuck with hetero people just to be petty, not even in a joking way, but a "this person might be a good person who doesn't deserve shittiness, but I'm going to screw with them just because their orientation or gender demands it, because haha, losers". That hits way too close to home for me, I wouldn't wish that on anyone else, and I can't help but think how bad things would get if this attitude was allowed to proliferate and become very, very popular. It isn't about equality anymore, it's about straight-up shaming for something the person can't control.

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[dystopiandilfs]

See Wilbur having his character canonically fuck a fish is funny and the whole Utah thing is haha giggles but is also low tier humour.

Dream on the other hand unintentionally omega coding as well as eggpreg and mpreg coding his character is so unbelievably funny. Let's not forget canonically becoming a part time stripper during exile (Dream's not allowed to veto this I will cry)

Forced chaos (Flopbur) Vs mentally ill mindset+ADHD+heterophobia (My murdering MeowMeow Baby girl)

Everything is funnier when it's accidentally created. Case and point the funniest lore moments are Dream accidentally blowing himself up, Dream striking Tommy with lightening etc

#dreamwastaken #wilbur soot #sorry wilbur stans your heehaw just annoys me enough to slander him without guilt #neg comments about Dream are against my boundaries

[sapphiczula]

it baffles me how people still think i’m straight like,,, not even my hair is straight

#i’m gay as shit #women <333 #but also like fictional men #real men 🤢 #i hate emojis i can’t believe i just used that #fuck men #shitpost #gay shit #lesbian power #lets go lesbians #marceline the vampire queen #she had me questioning my sexuality #like damn #no need to expose me like that #haha heterophobia

[sunshinesteves]

every time i read this i lose multiple brain cells

#yup. heterophobia. that's a thing that exists now. fuck you bryce #3 am should be reserved solely for yearning but tonight it's just hating the sway boys hour. i regret nothing #he did delete it pretty quickly and he apologized multiple times but they were all like 'sorry for you offending you i'm so stupid haha' #like bitch. you apologize for what you did not for the way others took it. also ur a grown ass man shut the fuck up

[magerightsyeah]

I want a bumper sticker that reads “I’m heterophobic”

#silliness #heterophobia #funny haha #meme #shitpost #casper goes feral

[at0ms8]

people who tell minorities to “calm down” when someone says someone fucking offensive bullshit are. pissy little privileged bitches who’ve never experienced opression. like let minorities be fucking angry and mad at their oppressors. we’re fucking allowed to be angry at the people who killed, arrested and shunned us for hundreds of years

#text #hmmm #todays thots! #especially the fucking people who scream HETEROPHOBIA or REVERSE RACSIM #whenever a poc or lgbt person says some shit like #‘haha gays only! no straights allowed!’ #or white people are annoying #like thats equivelent to fucking centuries of opression and hate #like just shut the fuck up #sowwey for Lots Of Tags #my brain is just telling me to get into a fucking physical fight like 70% of the time #i domt really want to tag this woth my ramble tag but i will anyway #shut up alex

[crockerberts]

so the dsmp is a homonormative society right, that’s been established, and i was talking w @a-firefly-faerie about this and we realized the possibility of heterophobia is very much there and also the funniest fucking concept ever. like. c!karl’s time traveling and ends up at c!phil and c!techno’s house and assumes they’re together and is corrected when he makes this assumption and the interaction goes smth like

karl: so how have you two been? how’s married life treating you guys?

phil: what

techno: what

karl: well, you guys are married arent you? yknow, two guys, secluded in the wild, alone

phil: i have a wife mate lmao

karl: a wif- uh. oh. i didn’t know you lived THAT kind of lifestyle, haha...

like the concept of heterophobic c!karl is THE funniest shit to me.

#dream smp #dsmp

[kieranculkincumslut]

hurr durr im a heterophobe here to oppress the straighties! heehee!

#read the tags plz! #homophobia: #murdering gays #denying them rights #thinking they are morally wrong #conversion therapy #‘’heterophobia’’: #haha lets make fun of straights online #like the use of phobias like this is so lightly thrown around on the internet #chill

[flatfootedfiend]

you can't discriminate against a minority you are not in "ironicly". that's not how it works lol

#what kind of arguement is that anyways??? #'no duuude i only say slurs as jokee haha' #like???? #no this does not include ''''heterophobia'''' ''''cisphobia'''' or ''''reverse racism''''

[420technoblazeit]

ok but where foolish stands on the heterophobia on the server? is he the one straight guy everyone thinks it’s gay?

people see him hanging out with eret a lot and go ‘omg! what a cute couple wow haha for a second i thought he was straight what a relief’

#420 squeals #the voices in my head

[la5t-res0rt]

fun fact fucko no one cares that he’s trans, gnc, or autistic. all they care about is that he said someone wasn’t bisexual all because they hate them. thats fucked up no matter who you are. being austistic isn’t an excuse to be an utter dick hole.

alrighty folks strap in because we are in for a long one today

to start off i will begin by saying that i care about the identities of people i like and call friends i care enough to listen and learn from them because they have different perspectives on issues that i as a person who is none of the things that this person is will ever understand

it is important to listen to people and learn from them not just shine a light out of your ass for someone out of a weird place of blind worship thats honestly so cringey but that isnt what this is about this about you and likely others harassing ad sending death threats my friend and comrade betel bitches

i will now be going under a readmore to spare the dashboard

so lets recap what exactly is he being harassed for

as you all are no doubt aware there is a blog called nether receipts where a certain user we shall not name catalogs instances where members of the beetlejuice fandom are harassed correction its a blog where this person catalogs instances where flaws in their character as well as the characters of the people around her are highlighted and critiqued with the occaisional off color remark and threat which i obviously do not approve of who would

anyway following reading some ill-informed and not-so-well-phrased comments from a certain narcissistic user about their sexuality my friend had this to say

this was the post that got them put on this receipts blog which really exists as a source of people for a certain cluster of the beetlebabe fandom to harass and try to drag or cancel 

this is the post that has made people call him biphobic and here is why thats wrong and stupid

you said in your ask that he only is saying that this icky person is not bisexual because there is malice between them and while yes its true that there is malice orion never once said that this person wasnt bisexual

i took the liberty of sifting through the harassment asks he received yesterday because you all love receipts so much i took the liberty of grabbing a few and adding some highlights so you dont miss the important bits

orion never once said this person isnt bisexual he stated that equating doing femme on femme  pornography to bisexuality is a biphobic statement and is in fact a problematic thing to say

there may be crossover between bisexual people and people who do femme on femme but they are far from the same thing doing pornography is a choice you actively make and you do it for compensation however being bisexual is simply part of who you are it is something you dont choose 

although this person would perhaps disagree

and before you come for me this person posted these for the world to see and obviously i have as many receipts as my drive can carry furthermore how does this argument make sense why would you care so much about heterophobia if youre not heterosexual why are you so pressed oh wait is it perhaps

because this person is using the split attraction model for woke points like this screams that this person sees women as sex objects or perhaps this person is comphet and is denying themselves because heteronormativity is so deeply ingrained in their being that they wish to cling to heterosexuality to keep up their squeaky clean white feminist woman persona or maybe theyre just not well informed on lgbt+ issues

editors note the editor is an ace person who considers using the split attraction model is situations like this isnt exactly helpful like i cant stop you from doing it but you shouldnt have to say im a bisexual heteromantic person you can just be a  bisexual woman and keep dating men you dating men doesnt erase your bisexuality saying that you would have sex with a woman but not romantically be involved with them makes the editor think woman = sex object and as a feminist the editor has to say thats fucked up

i will reiterate implying that doing pronography of any kind is equitable to a human sexualty is harmful to bisexual people and if youre like uhhh im bi and i think its okay guess what you do not speak for every single bi person so you should try harder to be compassionate for other peoples level of comfort

in any case statements like these are hurtful to bi people equating voluntary sex work to a sexuality isnt okay and its something that person should maybe address and consider apologizing for but since this person only listens to people in their inner circle and they dont even really listen to them its unlikely that this person will ever make amends for past biphobic tendencies because as everyone has been so quick to point out being bi doesnt excuse biphobia or homophobia or anything of the sort editors note heterophobia is not a legitimate issue im sorry if you feel oppressed for your straightness but really thats a you issue 

here is one more screenshot where my friend basically covers what i have just said as well as reminding the world that the owner of nether receipts is a narcissist 

being a bisexual person does not excuse you from saying biphobic things and there is literally no identifier you can use for yourself that exempts you from criticism for your actions and it doesnt mean that people cant demand that you address the wrongs youve done or said

you dont have to listen you dont have to do anything but dont be surprised if you say something shitty to a group of people and they get mad at you

also all that being said what orion said was not biphobic if anything he is raephobic but lets be honest who isnt ok there thats my one funny haha for you

we have every right to criticize someone who creates simulated cp and shares it with minors in 18+ servers or someone who equated bisexuality to voluntary sex work or someone who accuses people who disagree with them of being fascists or nazis or someone who goes out of their way to repost and edit art in a mocking manner or someone who actively claims to own a fandom like these are all critique worthy behaviors that all come from the same person who never explains their actions never holds themselves accountable for the shit they cause like we as people who share the same space as this person have every write to call bull roar when we see it

it is no secret that i dislike his person and it is also no secret that i will not hesitate to the the opportunity to drag them for being a shitty person whenever the opportunity arises and since their most recent beef with me was about how i was a bad friend i guess i figured this would be a good time to come forward for one of my friends who received dozens of harassment messages and several death threats over his commentary on the actions of this one vile individual

and i am addressing them now if they ever end up reading this or when it is inevitably sent to this person 

if youve got a problem with the way he and i or other antis critique you maybe come out from behind your wall of dipshit cronies and talk to us your damn self i am very sick of having to deal with nasti or morgan or that one minor or suz or that person that runs the rp blog or any of the others in your little hoard im tired of them trying to be slick like we see you we see all of you

all of your simulated cp aside youve said some really shitty things that you could easily amend since youve likely learned more about what it means to be lgbt+ since it is now a community you see yourself being a part of 

part of being human is learning from your past and making a better version of yourself for tomorrow and although i think you are a really awful person i dont think youre above self betterment and self reflection and self awareness 

also you dont seem to care at all when threats are being tossed around by your buddies but no matter how much me or orion or any of the others dislike what you do no person in their right mind would be okay with sending death threats and you shouldnt either you should at the very least extend that courtesy 

anyway

fuck you asker youre full of trash garbage and i hope you have a not so good day like i hope it rains or something invalidate my friends identity and ill yell at clouds

#discourse #harassment #sexuality discourse

[greateggcult]

back on my weirdly in depth world building detail bullshit, this time with bi-homonormative society universe because the previous post about it has reawakened the beast.

- gay and bisexual are seen as being standard and expected of people culturally due to various reasons such as but not limited to past religious stigma and things branching out from that in addition to a mass plague similar to hpv that caused people to develop cancer of the reproductive organs 

(I know people want a haha funny au but like I want to have some idea as to how we got to point B from point A and history is often tragic and filled with mistakes, aka im a nerd)

- Male / female sex is seen as a purely reproductive activity and anything outside of planned pregnancy is seen as an unnecessary risk to both the barer and potential child

Some common assumptions, uninformed remarks, and generally rude behavior surrounding being straight:

- the myth that het sex causes cancer (usually in reference to ovaries but other organs are often included)

- that the male tricked or otherwise forced the female into it 

- that the female is throwing her life away

- that the male is hormonal and aggressive to an abnormal degree

- that the female is confused

- the man is egotistical and or extremely selfish

- that it is part of some non-specific plan to over throw society via family army

- that its an attempt to be a “special snowflake of nature”

- the female is praised on having willingly subjected herself to the duty of child barer 

- that hets are more likely to be disloyal and have turbulent relationships

- that a bad het marriage more often end with murder than divorce

-  that miscarriage is the man’s fault

- that being around adult men too much while pregnant will cause birth defects

- straight orgies (okay this one is one of those stereotypes that if it wasn’t a legit insult to people would be hilarious given how ridiculous the concept and delivery is. it’s basically sex musical chairs, nobody is having orgies like that on a large scale. Like it’s not even in like a bi way.) also known as “The dick carousel”, “the horse stables”, “the butcher’s bargain bin”, “heterodeo”, etc...

- that het sex will cause males to start having monthly bleeding and cramps

- some people act as if pregnancy is a death sentence

gender side of things:

- gender roles outside of the bedroom aren’t really much of a thing asside from the occasional sexist being an ass as usual but with a different undertone to it

- being trans isn’t a big deal but there is so much heterophobia ingrained in society that the baggage kind of spills over when it comes to relationships and it’s a mess. (upside the issues are to do with reproduction and not gender or presentation, downside is being bombarded with people upset over the conciquences and or safety of a kid that might not even be a possibility.)

- hormone treatments do exist and are more easily accessable to those in need but it’s use in birth control is unnessisarily restricted when is comes to straight married couples not wanting to have kids

#trigger warning #alternate universe #bi-homonormative society au if it's like a fun house mirror reflection of our own #feel free to ignore this #aus #philosophical /hypothetical scenario aus

[funeralgreymv]

im not active on here anymore but if u think heterophobia is a thing,,, literally what,,, yall straights werent the ones being killed just bc of ur sexuality ,, yall werent the ones who had laws passed against them , yall werent the ones who still to this day have to worry about being hurt bc of ur sexuality. yall just wanna be oppressed so bad literally shut up just bc some gay person goes “ oh haha i dont like straights “ gives you no fuckinh right to think all are oppressed. maybe once yall go through everything and more what lgbt+ people have had to go through, maybe then ill fucking consider. for now, fucking educate yourself

[kachinnate]

Okay, you know what? No. Fuck you. Here I was thinking you were a good person. Why is discrimination against straight and “cis” people funny to you, huh? Do you think being oppressed for something you can’t control is funny? But when it happens to gay people, it isn’t okay because it actually affects you! Don’t you know that Will Roland is straight and “cis”? Yeah that’s right. You’re discriminating against him. Think about next time you support heterophobia.

so the short answer is that cishet people can’t be oppressed and if a haha meme joke makes you this angry then i’m not sure you should be following me

#garbage.txt #i'm exhausted #anon #discourse #please just. see yourself out lol #Anonymous #edit: cishet people can't be oppressed for being cishet #specifically is what i mean #heterophobia... i'm crying anon do u think reverse racism is a thing too lmfao #*new yorker voice* get outta here