#how to change your habits

[starry-bi-sky]

childhood friends danny and jason miscellaneous thoughts: because why not, i'm reworking ch2 because it no longer fits with the remaster of chapter 1 so i've been thinking of them, and i love talking about them. which you should totally go read the remaster because its 26k words and im very proud of it and it barely got any attention.

First off Ellie vapes. Mostly because I think its real fucking funny. The first time Danny finds out about it he gets all up in arms about it. Ellie at first thinks its because she's smoking -- which, helloooo pot meet kettle, Danny has been smoking for a lot longer than she has.

And then he throws a curveball at her and says he's upset specifically because its vaping. Like no, no. Dammit, if you're gonna fuck up your lungs you gotta do it properly, none of this cotton-candy flavored nonsense.

He plays it up for laughs and it's largely non-serious 'i can't believe you're using a vape', if only to hide the fact that he is genuinely displeased with his little sister smoking. Self-destructive behaviors and bad habits are his thing, thank you very much.

But, well, he knows he'd be a hypocrite if he told her he didn't like that she was smoking. He's aware its bad for him, but habits are hard to break and he's not particularly keen to break this one in particular.

Danny bullies her relentlessly about it whenever she vapes in front of him. Like don't be a loser, Elle, carry a carton of cigs and a lighter in your back pocket like the rest of us degenerates.

[more under the cut]

Secondly: Danny's piercings? He got the first lobe piercings as a lost bet from Sam in junior year, and they did it in her room with a needle, a small bottle of blood blossom extract, and an apple. He broke out in hives for a week after thanks to the blood blossom, but it prevented the hole from healing up :)

He got the rest done professionally at a piercing place in the Ghost Zone. He asked Johnny where to find it. Sam and Johnny (and Kitty) nearly convinced him into getting snakebites. He got an eyebrow piercing instead.

Danny's undercut is also self-done, he did it because Technus shot at him with an ectoblast and it missed hitting him, but set his hair on fire. Danny got it out pretty quickly, but it left his hair lopsided and obviously looking like it got burned by something. He went to Sam for help after the fight. He liked the way it looks so he's kept it that way since.

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Vlad brought up Jason once(1) in a taunt during a fight, and this was after Jason disappeared from the ghost zone, and Danny very. very nearly killed him on the spot. He hasn't done it since.

Which leads into the other thing: Grief Triggers! As I call them. All Banshees have them in this au.

While all banshees are, in general, in a permanent state of grief, Grief Triggers are a specific emotional response that can cause them to spiral into a state of intense, sometimes debilitating sorrow, and most of the time causes them to start wailing.

Banshees know what their Grief Triggers are and in general tend to try and build up a form of resistance against it so that, if something occurs that happens to trigger said grief, they can at least either get away from other ghosts to let loose or have enough control over themselves that it'll take more work to send them spiraling.

As expected, Jason is Danny's grief trigger. He's built up a pretty good resistance to it so that hey, talking about him and his death is easier than when Danny was fourteen. But a little more prodding and it will trigger, especially depending on who brings him up and how. (See: Vlad)

Grief Triggers also manifest relatively the same; with the induction of an intense state of grief and sorrow, but how a banshee acts on it can sometimes vary. Again, it depends on who triggers it and how. Some of them can get,,, violent, depending on how it happens.

Rath, this au's 'Dan', is a case of a banshee being put into the grief state caused by grief triggers and... never really leaving it. Which they usually do on their own, or with help depending on the severity of it.

At the time it happened Danny was going through the worst week of his life a second time: his best friend's ghost disappeared, then his family and friends all died right in front of him, and then he was stuck with someone who wasn't helping him through that grief.

He was already in the grieving state when Vlad tore out his ghost half. As a result, Vlad only made it worse. With that fury thrown into the mix, Vlad ended up getting torn apart and nobody else was close enough with nor could they get close enough to Rath to help him come down from the wailing state.

So Rath ended up getting stuck in a perpetual negative feedback loop of absolute misery, and well... drove himself insane. The rest of the world became collateral as a result.

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the difference between Danny and Jason lies in the fact that Jason died, while Danny is dead.

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I'm having more thoughts on the CFAU/TMWS universe banshees, actually.

Banshees are either born in the ghost zone from ectoplasm and are ecto-entities and work as banshees as how we know of them, or they're human spirits that died mourning someone and that grief was so intense that it turned them into a banshee. They're a little more rare.

These banshees typically mourn only one person, or sometimes they follow their Realm-born counterparts and choose a family to mourn for. Typically their own.

Ember is not a banshee; human spirit banshees are always mourning another person. However, her abilities emulate certain qualities of banshees: like the beautiful singing. But in comparison to an actual banshee, Ember's voice pales.

Does this mean Danny has the better singing voice? Yeah. Ember is incensed by this.

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If canon Danny and CFAU/TMWS Danny met, I think canon Danny would be kinda unsettled or off put by CFAU.

CFAU Danny still has some pretty core Danny traits, at least I like to think so -- his general drive to help people just out of compassion for them (even if it manifests differently at first due to trauma), his wit and humor, his fear of failing to protect his loved ones, all of those resonate with canon Danny.

However, canon Danny, as far as I can remember and as far as his wiki goes, rarely gets extremely angry or emotional. He gets irritated and he gets annoyed but him getting mad I don't think happens super often. CFAU Danny is the angrier one between Jason and Danny. It's one of the things I consider a division point between him and canon Danny as it's a result of him growing up in Crime Alley. Canon Danny is canonically shy and meek prior to becoming Phantom, CFAU Danny couldn't be -- he'd be dead already.

CFAU Danny's anger would off put canon Danny, in my opinion. His anger, his smoking, and for lack of a better term, his bloodlust would unsettle him.

Like, for example, say CFAU Danny gets transported to a canon (or canon-adjacent) Danny's universe. He's staying with canon for a little bit as they brainstorm how to get him back home, and CFAU Danny goes to school with canon if only so that he's not stuck in the house all day.

Whether they try and pass CFAU Danny off as canon's cousin or if the town already knows that he's another version of Danny, it doesn't matter. Because insert Dash.

Dash who, in CFAU Danny's world, has since learned not to fuck around with Danny or the other kids because Danny has long since asserted that he will beat his ass if he does. 'Fucking around' always predates the 'finding out', and Danny is happy to act as consequence.

(As my father told me (paraphrased) when I was a small child and full of uncontrollable anger: "there's gonna be a day where you're gonna hit someone, and they're gonna hit you back")

And canon Dash, who is used to canon Danny who kinda just takes it because it means that he won't target other people, would see CFAU Danny. He'd notice the resemblance between him and canon, immediately try and go "oh new target!", and try and bully him the same way he does to canon. And Danny "I am the consequences of your actions" CFAU Fenton, instantly throws hands.

Just, CFAU Danny is kind but he's also Gotham-raised and full of bite; he's meaner than canon is. He's more ruthless too, especially in his ghost fights. The ease of which he slips into violence would, imo, discomfort canon. CFAU and Canon would eventually get along though, they're not so different that they'd be in constant clash of each other.

(Canon Danny and Danyal Al Ghul however,,, thats another post LMAO)

#cw smoking #cw vaping #dpxdc #dp x dc #danny fenton is not the ghost king #dp x dc crossover #dpxdc crossover #dead on main au #childhood friends au #cfau #dpdc #ugh i could have made this two parts probably #i've had a lot of thoughts on banshees in this au and how i could adjust them #what i didn't get into: the ghostly behavioral affects that danny has gone through since dying. the ghostly mood swings and #heightened emotions that he's had to work through for the last five years. #one of my favorite lines in the remaster is danny mentioning offhandedly that he's gotten better at his mood swings ever since being a ghos #but also implying that vlad has been on the receiving end of these mood swings before and it didnt end well for him #like yessss gurl go through permanent irrevocable changes of your physiology and psyche that has ultimately altered you from the person you #used to be. you are now no longer fully human yess gurl pick up those habits and behavioral changes that is common in the species you've #been turned into even if its only halfway. #iirc i don't think i included obsessions in this au and checking the remaster doc and the word doesn't show up once in all 26k words of it #so hey looks like we get this instead #danny's singing voice is permanently ingrained in my head as sounding like hozier #its very very funny to imagine my au dannys meeting canon danny or canon adjacent danny #cfau seeing dan: who tf is that?? | canon: um.. dan? our evil alternate future self? | cfau: THATS your evil future self?? #canon: yeah?? does yours not. look like that? | cfau: NO? #look if dan saw rath he would do a doubletake is all im saying and then would go “what the fuck what the fuck what the fUCK” #turning rath into a horror movie abomination is the fun part of this au and he's never even gonna show up #jason died but danny is dead. it lies in the past and the present. the was and the is. one of us got up and the other didn't

[mokeonn]

Before I go to sleep I leave you all with this piece of advice: sometimes you don't actually have to answer big political questions, sometimes you can just say "I am not smart enough to know that, I just know the small things I do to help." Like you can often times completely avoid making a fool of yourself if you just say you don't know.

#simon says #to explain here and not in a reblog: #sometimes when you try to explain big picture solutions you're gonna sound dumb #you might not have done enough research #you might not have a rebuttal to a counter argument #you might not be articulate enough to explain why you think this #sometimes you gotta take a step back and give the simple solution. the one man solution #you do what you can to fight against the problem #you talk to people to help spread awareness and how to fight the bad problem #and you vote and invite others to vote for bigger steps towards solving the problem #like you can talk about theory and how you believe we need to do a huge drastic thing to solve and issue #but people will disagree and argue til you're blue in the face #they'll poke and prod until you mess up or lose your temper and use it against you #and you'll feel dumb and they'll learn nothing #sometimes the best thing to do is step away from the big picture and just say 'idk what the solution is I just know the things I can do“ #sometimes you gotta admit you're not a scientist/expert and you can't answer that #i used this while talking with my Dad tonight #he brought up our climate crisis and space travel as a possible solution #and I said I think that's just addressing the symptom and not the cause and we need to care for our Earth now #and he asked me what solutions I think would fix it #and knowing my incredibly smart Dad who is articulate and ready to throw rebuttles at a moments notice to play devils advocate #and my past experience in struggling in this topic with him before #i just told him I didn't know. all i knew is the little things I can and do do to help #and that hopefully by spreading the word and habits and encouraging others to vote for those bigger solutions I could help make a change #but all I really could do is the little things I have control over #and the topic became much less stressful about the little things we have control over #like planting native plants and recycling and adopting habits that are healthier to our planet #which was 100% more preferable to if I tried to give a big solution. because I would reveal i didn't have all the knowledge needed to argue #and my articulation would make me sound like a stupid kid who only thinks they know what's best #so yeah I basically suggest that if you dont wanna feel like shit after debating someone just step away from the big picture for a moment

[dipplinduo]

So....TTPD is out.

...how in danger are we?

Yes. ✌️🤍

#some updates are spared #others are not #laughing in S&S D #laughing in DIOH #laughing in angst #laughing in MY PEN IS CHARGED BRUH #little did you know your home's only really just a town you're just a guest in #the voices in his head called the rain to end our days of wild #pulled him in tighter rach time he was driftin' away my spine split from carrying us up this hill #stitches come undone #i can fix him no really i can #trust me i can handle me a dangerous man #say it once again with feeling #how the death rattle breathing #silienced as the soul was leaving #old habits die screaming #So I leap from the gallows and I levitate down your street #Is it a wonder I broke? #change the prophecy #cards on the table mine play out like fools in a fable #theres so much more LMAOOO #do with those as you will #my fics #I am also debating writing an absolutely devestating oneshot just because I can #this album is lowkey my personality for the foreseeable future thanks taylor swift #you neVER MISS

[found--family]

they couldn't let cesar and jesse return bc they would've taken one look at dean and cas interacting and known they had it bad for each other

#and sam is just like. oblivious. bc i think that's funnier 😂 #meanwhile dean and cas are pining away for each other like the beautiful dumbasses they are.. #cesar says to cas all easy and patient and knowing: so how long have you been in love with dean? #and cas is surprised and scared and tries to deny it but overcompensates by saying he loves all of humanity #meanwhile jesse is talking to dean like: what do you mean you're not in love with him dude i have eyes. dean: ??!! #cas @ cesar: i love dean bc i love humanity i love them for all their faults and quirks and beauty.. *thinking about freckles + bowlegs* #dean @ jesse: you don't know what you're talkin bout man! jesse: oh so now you're going to get angry and defensive like that isn't #overcompensating and an obvious tell that i speak the truth. dean: yo-.. shutup!! #cas @ cesar: .. humanity really is quite remarkable and so worthy of love when you think about it. and affection. and praise.. #dean @ jesse: --swayze always gets a pass!! jesse: oh so he's on your celebrity exception list? dean: yeh man of course he is. #jesse: mhm. even though he's a guy? dean: ... who HASN'T had gay thoughts!?! #cas @ cesar: humanity should really eat more vegetables and drink less alcohol and sleep more. but this life can be difficult #and habits are hard to change and i will be there to help in any way i can like making coffee just the way humanity secretly likes it.. #dean: *frazzled and exhausted as jesse hands him a beer* --i prefer the classics: Say Anything. When Harry Met Sally. Princess Bride.. #jesse: *nodding along as they chat about chick fliks* cas @ cesar: i help with humanity's laundry. i once found a pair of jeans #in humanity's room with the legs torn off. i thought something awful had happened during a hunt but humanity wouldn't be able to #regrow his legs without my angelic assistance.. unless humanity met another angel.. *white knuckles the chair in possessive jealousy* #dean: *getting teary as he talks about dory's story* sam: *walking in on cas cracking the chair + dean sobbing into his beer #but taking no notice bc his eyes are on the ipad in his hands* so get this-- #destiel #crack #thoughts #😂😂😂😂😂

[crescentfool]

beaming everyone on the dashh with good brain day vibes!!! i hope that you all can remember to extend self-compassion to yourself whenever you're feeling down about something 💙

#lizzy speaks #the human brain works in such profound ways i think #lately i've been thinking about that post that was like 'you will always be your oldest friend take care of yourself' #it's definitely a sentiment i agree with and i appreciate how it emphasizes the importance of extending compassion to yourself #you wouldn't say such hurtful things to your friends right? (or at least i'd hope so) #so why would you say it to yourself? #you are your own friend too. and i think everyone has a beautiful soul within themselves. nurture it! water it! feed it good thoughts. #basically i wish everyone a 'i hope that your brain is not your own enemy but rather a friend that you can find comfort in' #things will work themselves out with time. there's beauty in life and you will find small delights to cherish!! i am manifesting it for u!! #and for those who find it difficult to transition from a self-critical mindset to one that's more compassionate and nonjudgmental #i truly think that with time you will be able to rewire your brain to be kinder to yourself. i'm proud of you for taking any first steps :) #there are times in which it feels counterintuitive to go against habits that feel hard-wired... but brains are very malleable littel guys- #with such a wonderful capacity for changing and learning new things. so i hope everyone can learn to be their own best friend! #not to undermine the importance of a support network ofc. that's good too and im all for that!! but i hope everyone remembers to be kind- #not only to others but also to themselves!! you're going to do great out there!! i love you all!! #ive just been thinking about this a lot... i needed to get it out there. you all shine so brightly!!! we shall be fine!!! have a good week! #sorry if this is out of nowhere but if there's anything about me you should know it's that i'm the 'hey dont cry 8 billion people on earth- #ok?' post. idk i just find great joy in knowing others are out there thriving and finding a daily delight yknow i love humanity!!

[lakanakana]

how did the april fools boop day go for you ? Do you miss the boop?

I sent out about 4000 boops yesterday and my arms were about to split in half fr!!! (つ╥﹏╥)つ

I was visiting my dad for easter and had to fight demons to restrain myself from eating any more chocolate eggs because my idiot ass just kept vacuuming them into my mouth to the point I felt like throwing up, but the moment I felt fine my brains were immediately like "hmmmmm. maybe another egg won't hurt (:" and that. that was the devil itself talking I stg

Some of my friends sent videos and pics of their Easter bonfires (a Western Finnish tradition) and I wanted to be there so baaaaaad!!! Just watching all the snow gradually melt and form tiny little streams that glimmer around the bonfire is just so 👌👌👌👌 My roomie was back home and apparently there was a huge thunderstorm too over the weekend?? Like a total armageddon tier thunderstorm even tho it was like 3 °C (37 °F) outside????

#i think i spent most of my boop day sitting in the kitchen waiting for my dad to finish napping so I wouldn't have to take the #tram or bus to the train station and drag all my stuff with me #idk why my dad sleeps so poorly all the time!! he doesn't even change his sheets!!!! i should buy him new ones because idk if he has enough #i've asked him what kinda pillows he likes so i could buy some for him and the dude's just like 'ehh i already have pillows' #yeah you do!!! shitty ones!!!! #what is it with middle aged men that makes them dismiss all the important stuff at home and instead buy useless stuff #like bro your dick won't fall off if you sleep in clean sheets every once in a while!! it would help with your sleeping problems too!!! #anyway lmao enough about me ranting about my dad's sleeping habits #i wanna hear how your boop day went!! how many people did you boop? #kanailu

[yume-fanfare]

mitsuru and the ryusei juniors for the magic school au! with that, the character introductions are pretty much over and we'll move on to plot things :)

#magic school au #enstars #ensemble stars #hajime shino #tori himemiya #mitsuru tenma #tetora nagumo #midori takamine #shinobu sengoku #kuro kiryuu #shu itsuki #don't ask me abt ages im still figuring that out but im probably going to change the canon ones tbh #teamwork is important here bcs this is a friendship is magic kind of au btw #ranks would be what affects your grade and schooling level in a way? but i thought it's an easier to understand word #also hajime n mitsuru understand each other like nobody else. btw. #and this is like. pre-akatsuki kuro #he has the habit of checking up on shu just in case to see how things r going with him #and the ryusei juniors r kids from the town nearby who are very curious... not about the witch but abt the cool guy that shows up sometimes #and then would later on join magic school yadda yadda #well midoris the greengrocer's son who gets dragged into the mess like usual LOL #when tumblr finally lets me make polls ill make you guys vote what character story should i expand on next #bcs i already have a few ideas in mind for the chara stories #in fact im going to clear them up a bit now ashfjhjkm #art tag #comics #doodles #yes im aware tomoya is the only one missing we'll get to that later #unsure abt what to do with alkakurei bcs they have such protagonist energy n this is kinda ! era but ? it could still work we'll see

[weird-unlimited-ramblings]

Season 2 Glenn is Season 1 Glenn, but more conscious of what he has done. Glenn in season 1 didn’t really know/understand what he was doing wrong with raising Nick, Season 2 Glenn knows what is wrong, but has no real way to fix it. Nick is thirteen in season 1, in two years he will start to build independence from both Jodie and Glenn.

Glenn and Nick loved each other, but they weren’t close. So Glenn steps back and falls back into his old habits, and Nick at the time doesn’t care because it’s like four years of stuff that doesn’t really matter. By the time Taylor is born Glenn hadn’t been changing his behavior, and he realizes that.

Then you have the next however many years of covering up that behavior. Then Glenn is back to the start.

#Changing is the hardest part of growing #acknowledging the change is only the first step #unlike Glenn Nicky isn’t too late to change #more a character choice defense than an actual defense of Glenn I would say #but I think Nicky needed to see that to acknowledge how he hasn’t change either #I mean a little but not enough #dndads #dungeons and daddies #dndaddies #Nicky Foster #glenn close dndads #taylor swift dndads #I feel like recovering from addiction is a great metaphor for this #you can spend however many years sober #and could fall back to your old habits the second you fall back to it

[nostalgia-tblr]

"I refuse to call this female character by the feminine name she herself uses" is not the progressive take some people seem to think it is.

#“she's not called [her name]!!” what you mean apart from that being the name introduces herself with and obviously prefers? #yeah she's fictional but appointing yourself as the Names Police is not a good habit to get into is it? #like i get where they're coming from (a female version of the same character shouldn't NEED another name) but... nah. #whoever wrote that fictional change will never see your refusals but your friends who changed their own names will #queue #(today's queue comes from the Drafts folder so hold on to your knickers there may be some SCALDING HOT TAKES in here) #(or not. we'll just see how it goes.)

[kennys-parka-jacket]

I am once again thinking about The Poor Kid

#(Also actually watching the source material can change your opinion on it. Shocking; i know) #Anyway. As i make my way through season 9 i see just *how* prop-like kenny is #It puts a few things into perspective #1) the 'at least you finally get to do something' line in The Jeffersons #2) the sheer presence of death whenever kenny is used in merch; advertising; and media outside the show- Often that's his only contribution #3) in The Poor Kid we take a look at the McCormick household for the first time in a while #Stuart and Kevin are yelling and beating each other up. Carol tries to intermediate but just adds more noise to the situation #Karen clings to her mother for comfort; including herself in the chaos. And kenny quietly sits on the sidelines to avoid getting involved #And it seems this is nothing new #I always knew kenny was quiet at school and didnt initiate most of the trouble his friends get into #But already there's been a lot of episodes where he might as well not even be there #I've seen with my own eyes just how badly he gets reduced to almost background character status when he isnt suffering a painful death #And it's made all the more tragic to know this was likely a habit he picked up in order to keep himself safe from his own family

[midnight-moth]

Phantom’s (insert your name of choice for new bug) favorite food is cereal. Infinite variety delivered in the same sterile, sealed bag that no one’s hands, except maybe some animatronic ones, have touched but his. They’re all different but they’re all kind of the same. Dry and crunchy. Some of them brutalize the roof of his mouth with their grating texture. He avoids those. Mountain tried to make him eat granola for his own health, claiming it was cereal, just like he’d already been eating. It was a lie, both seeds and dried fruit look like bugs . Live ones or smushed ones. And nuts take like 8 hours to chew. It’s too much commitment for such bland payoff. When he discovered freeze dried marshmallows, all the charm and crackle of dried corn meal, with more sugar, prettier colours and infinite shapes, he decided he never wanted to eat anything else again. Can ghouls get scurvy? Mountain forces him to drink a glass of juice every day just in case. Protein and iron requirements to be discussed. But thanks to the FDA or something, most cereals are fortified. He will live, for now. Until he gets a cavity. And then he finds out that it means the tooth will fall out, and a new one will take its place, and that process is just as painful as the first time. And then he’ll also be interested in everything everyone told him about dental hygiene and simply putting the toothbrush in your mouth and chewing on the bristles isn’t good enough.

#what the fuck kind of HC is this #I didn’t write this because all I ate today was cereal #these are not my feelings #seeds do look like bugs #corn pops are a medieval torture device #you think they’re good until the roof of your mouth is torn to shreds #what’s your favourite cereal? #mine is currently Frosted Flakes subject to change at any moment #my poor eating habits during my mental breakdown brought this very shitty piece of HC to you #when I realize how cringe this is tomorrow I’m going to delete it #yes I think ghouls get cavities but they can’t be drilled and filled (unlike other parts sorry I’m sorry) #they fall out and grow new ones #record number of bullshit hashtags #someone tell me when I’ll be able to write for real again #I swear I’m not eating Frosted Flakes out of a giant bowl meant for ramen right now #midnight moth writes #midnight moth maunders

[thehardkandy]

Travelling back home tomorrow hoping for a smooth groove

#i did have a really nice week last week but now im back to everything feeling busy #(its not really that busy) #and oh i miss being slow like idk ever since i was a literal child doing ONE excursion weekly #for an hour #always felt like such s draining burden #and tbh i would like to know why thst is because while it's easy to see as poor habit as an adult reinforcing itself #as a kid i was always made to do things. see people. #i did a summer camp every year at least during the day #i did sports i went hiking in forests #but i remember so distinctly like an age where i stopped asking my parents to try new things #because i would get so excited!!!! but then every week it would become this overwhelming presence #despite being something that i actively enjoyed #and it eventually felt so awful i was like okay no more wanting things you dont use them wisely #like ouch yeah actually that's a big one. wanting things usually wraps back #around to shame or guilt just about always #anyway how is this relevant to travelling? #it's just that i have to travel tomorrow and i have a doctors appointment Friday i have to go to in person #ive changed beds ive slept in 3 times in 5 days #and all i can say at the end of it is that even these little things are JUST enough to be on edge #to feel like im putting my hands over my ears and closing my eyes and pretend nothing bad is gonna happen #even thougu DEFINITELY something bad is going to happen #but of course it doesnt because this is all benign stuff ive done a trillion times before of no note #crazy how complicated it can be to be a person #it is why i dream of living in a small village where i am an apprentice tradesperson and i live simple house #and the house you can walk to anywhere you need to anywhere you need in an your #but no one is that urgent about anything anyway. #beautiful little place that has never actually ever existed for anyone in anytime #but i am still wanting to scream and pull my hair out just asking why why cant everything slow down and be smaller

[urbanexplorer240]

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[amethystina]

In a surprising turn of events, after literally ten years on this hellsite, I’ve changed my URL

Though it’s far from a drastic change. I’ve just finally been able to remove the “writes” at the end that I never really wanted in the first place.

So, henceforth, I’ll simply be Amethystina here too.

I’m not exaggerating when I say ten years, by the way. The first post on this account was made in November 2012 and it wasn’t until now that “amethystina” was available. I’ve checked periodically over the past couple of years, just to see if/when I’ll be able to snatch it.

This is what we call dedication, people.

Anyway! Just thought I’d let you all know, to avoid confusion <3

And, to update you all: I’m slowly finding my way back to being more social, answering comments and such. So you might see a little more of me in the weeks to come, but it’s still a work in progress.

In the meantime, I hope you’re all doing well and that you’ll have a good end of this year — and a wonderful start to the next one. Take care! <3

#Amethystina and Life #I... guess? #Not sure how to tag this #PSA? xD #But yeah #FINALLY #It only took TEN YEARS #GOD #The amount of patience you have to have to build your brand #(I'm joking — I'm the worst at promoting myself) #To be honest #I've changed it once before #I was actually called 'amethystinaficlets' at first #But changed to 'amethystinawrites' because I wasn't really writing ficlets #But it's always been some version of 'amethystina' #Because I'm a creature of habit I guess #Or structure and order rather

[maretriarch]

"intuitive eating" promoting dieticians are like the emperors new clothes tailors of diet fads theyre literally selling you nothing

#bcs yes despite how woke they are its definitely another diet fad just like the most ineffective diet ever #change nothing about your habits do whatever you want its the easiest thing ever now give me money to coach you #intuitive eating doesnt work in a world that actively blasts addictive food ads at you 24/7 #and on purpose makes healthy foods thatll actually satisfy you time location and price prohibited like its a system designed to fail you #after a long physically and emotionally exhausting shift at your dead end job u will Intuitively Eat your way into a full bucket of kfc #every time like its so stupid the idea that everyone w issues w eating should just do whatever first compels them. what? #its the get rich quick w no effort or skills scams of diets

[qulizalfos]

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#home video #lucy dacus #no wait i have soooo many thougths on this album. god. #THE THEMES??? THE CRUEL BUT STEADY PASSAGE OF TIME?? #PEOPLE CHANGE AND SO DO YOU #“THE BLOODY BATTLE ENDED. NO THE SUN CANT BREAK THE HABIT OF GOING DOWN” #“ALL I NEED FOR YOU TO ADMIT IS THAT YOU NEVER KNEW ME LIKE YOU THOUGHT YOU DID LIKE YOU THOUGHT YOU DIDDDD” #killing maiming biting etc #this is The Album Ever #by the way. #jesus fuckign christ. you guys KNOW how unwell i am about old friends and then hot & heavy said ALL THAT #also #please stay. pLEASE STAY. killed me but also kicked my doors down and gave me the biggest bowl of soup #“begin. be done. break a VOW make a NEW! ONE! call me if you neeed a friend. or never talk to me again but PLEAAASE STAY” #triple dog dare..............the we only have each other.... how quick people will turn on you for things out of your control.... #“NOTHING WORSE COULD HAPPEN NOW” being the last line of the whole thing GAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH #one day i will be normal. that is not today. #hhhhhhhhhhrsefgjhjedfrnhjnfdejnkfgdejkngfjknedkjngdknjgwsdknjgdvkjdknknjdvnkwsdgkngjdvnhkjgvdnkjnhvkjknjv #sobbingggggggggggggggggggggggggggg