#i need milk

[partycatty]

not even the elder gods could pull me off of the mk men's tits

#mortal kombat #johnny cage #mk1 #kuai liang #bi han #mk fujin #syzoth #shang tsung #i'm suddenly a baby #googoo gaga #i need milk

[flowersosa]

Sometimes I think of Elliot and Quentin, for what the were and could have been if the writers were patient, and actually told their story.

Peaches and Plums motherfucker.

A line; that without context means nothing, but means the world to two men encapsulated in their own tragedy, yet undeniably and irrevocably in love.

#gay #the magicians #magicians #quentin coldwater #peaches and plums #Elliot #elliot waugh #queliot #hale appleman #jason ralph #quentin x eliot #these homos are so traumatized and self righteous #martyr complex #they need therapy #i need milk

[tentaclemilkk]

I just wanna motorboat his boobs!

#goo goo ga ga #I need milk #dead by daylight #dbd #hooked on you #the wraith #wraith dbd #dbd memes #philip ojomo

[fushigurro]

istg if i go to walmart and all the bread and milk is gone i’m gonna be so pissed

#I NEED MILK #and not in the ‘OH MY GOD THERE’S FIVE SNOWFLAKES IN THE AIR’ kinda way #I’M ALMOST OUT AND I NEED TO HAVE MY FUCKING CEREAL #anyways sorry i’m procrastinating going out and chopping at the snow around my car #rambles.

[weenhands]

still haven't finished my burrito

#its been 2 hours. ive been craving eating this again all week #i need milk #ill finish this tmrw

[damaged-graveyard]

I swear to fuck I have such a craving for milk I could suck dry an entire cow get that shit straight from the source

#i need milk #and I need it fucking NOW

[andthebeanstalk]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need. #the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist. #the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28! #a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents. #they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong. #and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives. #you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead? #or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of. #no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow. #i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong. #just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

[industrycatt]

Where is papa

#papa #i miss papa #I need milk #mama #-.- #teeheee

[muisketeer]

more reanimator doodles

#re-animator #herbert west #daniel cain #reanimator #danbert #boss baby herbie is so cute to me i need to dunk him in milk and slap him against a tree #doodle #syringe #needle #art

[cuppajj]

i had a vision

#id make this a full comic if i could i just need more substance #shadow milk discovering pure vanilla and black raisin's close bond and going after her... teasing her... #like i know he already has his whole thing with white lily but i bet black raisin is pretty bullyable #there are so many things about pure vanilla that smc could torment her with that she doesnt know #healer cookie huh... #anyway i know black raisin doesnt have a sword but i gave her one just for this #what was i supposed to do draw her pointing the bird at him? literally giving him the bird? LMAO #crk #shadow milk cookie #black raisin cookie #pure vanilla cookie #(spiritually) #cookie run #cookie run kingdom #cjj arts #i gotta stop posting so late no one is gonna see this... anyway morning reblog inbound for sure

[milfpopplio]

the real reason kieran doesnt have a phone is because all you would see in your notifs during the start of the epilogue is

#arven sending you that sweet sweet inheritance money #(who am i kidding they probably gave him one dollar and some pocket lint) #i spent way too long on this #jealous arven is so cute i need to drench him in milk and throw him at a wall like a webkinz plush #i got halfway through this meme before remembering FUCK KIERAN DOESNT HAVE A PHONE #pokemon #pokemon sv #pokemon scarlet and violet #pokemon arven #pokemon kieran #kieran pokemon #arven pokemon #mochi mayhem #pokemon sv epilogue

[valentine-comic]

chapter 3 begins today! comic work and finals has about the same compatibility as water and oil (finals is definitely the oil)

#valentinecomic #digital art #dark #ominous #chapter 3 begins #the gang's all here #finals is very oily #and comic work is like the water that washes all my problems away #anyway how are you #i need milk

[knifes-and-arson]

THERE IS NO MILK IN MY WHOLE COUNTRY

WHAT THE FUK IS GOING ONN

#ITS BEEN TWO WEEKS #I NEED MILK #hshshhwhhshs

[khaopybara]

Ongsa, do you want me and Tinh to help you pursue Sun?

EARN PREEYAPHAT as CHAROEN, MILK PANSA as ONGSA NANNAPHAT and VIEW BENYAPA as AYLIN feat. FORD ARUN as TINH and JUNE WANWIMOL as LUNA episode 4 of 23 POINT 5

#23 point 5 #23.5 #23.5 degrees #23.5 the series #23.5 องศาที่โลกเอียง #earn preeyaphat #milk pansa #view benyapa #ford arun #june wanwimol #ongsasun #aylinluna #gmmtv series #gmmtv gl #:: mygifs! #long post #disclaimer bc i feel like it's needed every time i label any character bisexual #charoen is bisexual bc the director has said on tw before that both her and alpha are bi #hence their colors during the intro #also charoen best girl #she's so cute #and so supportive of her friend's love life

[escaped-goat]

My Tav, Grabbing Gale by the collar: "No, Gale. Don't take off the earring.

I want you to wear the symbol of your ex so she can hear how hard I fuck my whole heart into you, then wonder why you're callin my name and not hers like a prayer out in the wilds.

Let Mystra hear what it's like to actually be worshipped by you."

Gale: *gives a shaky thumbs up*

---Draft snippet from a fic I'm writing---

(Art incoming of my Tav who did said smashing in the wilds. Eventually. I have so much work to do. Wish me luck).

#ayo #fuck mystra #me and all my homies hate mystra #she's such a soggy sack of fish fat #i hate her more than i hate coconuts #which is a lot #baldur's gate 3 #bg3 #baldur's gate iii #baldurs gate 3 #bg3 gale #probably should have stayed in drafts but i needed to get one on that milk-toast she-heathen #love my boi #gale dekarios #gale of waterdeep #gale deserves better

[rugwurm]

pspspsp

#myart #limbus company #off game #don quixote lcb #ishmael lcb #should make separate posts but idc... live laugh love #small dump #i NEED to make more crossovers i love connecting media #someone told me mersault would make a good batter... i agree #but i gotta milk that moby dick lore