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honeytonedhottie · 2 months

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I joined alot of grps and made online friends and now I regret. They always made me feel bad. I was friends with some kpop stans too. They attacked me when I said that I didn't like the same song as they did . They all attacked. Even a 27 yr old women attacked me and shamed for so. Why are kpop stans like this ? 😭most of the time its army and blinks ngl.There was some girl I used to talk to online friend I thought she was my friend only to realize that she was using me as an option . One day when I got into some drama and shared that with her FIRST but she behaved like she didn't understand . But when others in the grp were saying sh*t against all of a sudden she understood everything thwy said and started being angry at me. Even twisted my words and things I told her earlier. Uk why she came back and apologized ? When all her friends left her and she probably had fight with her bffs. Also when she got her friends back she would start ignoring my messages or not reply at all like she used to .

Again one more girl she was kind first but one day we had some misunderstanding .I apologized and cleared it to her as well. I even asked if it affected our friendship and she denied . But I noticed how rude and mean she became. As I said some people attacked me when I didn't like the same music as they did an she was one of those. When I shared how one actor's own wife didn't like her husband own movies doesn't mean she hates him . This girl started saying dumb stuff like " u are comparing the people u love with being an army "🗿💀 tf this doesn't even make sense tbh. Army are fans of bts and they love bts too . What was she trying to say ? Why did all got mad at me for not liking 1 song 💀💀😭😭😭😭😭😭 and made me awful for not liking it. This girl wouldn't stop saying rude stuff , she would nitpick stuff like me sharing or even just talking about stuff and saying how they all were tired of if. When the thing is the things she mentioned those people in grp were tired of , the fight fidnt even happen coz of that. She was saying really rude stuff and being mad at me. She wouldn't understand my pov and if I would try to explain myself she would be like why are you repeating yourself I mean girl ?? 💀💀Btw while I was texting her I was outside somewhere and I fell down from stairs 💀😭cuz I got zoned out when she said awful things to me. I was like " am I really that bad ?? " She attacked me. I really feel that she was just a bitch pretending to be nice at first but then she showed how toxic she was. She was online friend too.

I wonder why i didn't take stand for myself at that time 😭😭😭😭😭and listened to her rude words. They attacked me for no reason _Also last but not the least one day a girl got mad at me when I shared a video of lizzo on my story , a girl shared the same video on grouo chat . Lizzo made some unnecessary comments and I just wrote WTF LIZZO. THIS GIRL THOIGHT THAT I WAS TRYING TO PICK FIGHTS WITH HER ??? I MEANN LIKEE WHAT 😭😭😭 it wasn't even against her . It was against lizzo making disgusting comments .

These online people made me feel so bad. Alot of drama happened similar like this this is just 3% 😭I really want to know ur opinion and advice on these people and how yo deal with these ..sorry for spamming too 😭😭😭

WOW 🥹 hi anonie, my input is this ;

ppl who feel threatened by or dont let u have an individual opinion are red flags. U ARE ENTITLED TO UR OWN OPINION. anyone who disagrees or tries to shame u for it can kick rocks 💀. protect ur peace, drop them cuz they aren't good friends, and listen to music that u like 💗

#advice #honeytonedhottie⭐️#ask🌸

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yeshawithluv · 5 years

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NO, THANK YOU HOBIIII

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changbeens · 3 years

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Honest kpop opinion time: I don't like (probably I hate) when people say or write things like "X group world domination" or "X grouo supremacy". First of all, we are talking about music so we should be really chill and just have fun, this is not a competition Second, there are so many groups and artists so how can you be so rude? Third, this type of language are really dangerous. Maybe I'm too sensitive, but dictactorship-related words make me really afraid.

P.s. I'm very happy for the message of the other anon and I want to tell you that I learned your url.💛

personally, i dont want any group i like to have world domination, because i am greedy and dont want to share my faves with a bunch of koreaboos. i would rather my fave groups focus on making good music in the style they are already known for rather than change to gain more fans that wont appreciate their earlier work

i too am not a fan of words like "world domination" and "supremacy", large portions of my family were wiped out by a supremacist who wanted world domination so i dont see anything good about either, but thats just my personal feelings for it

this all comes back to the dreaded "stan culture" of 2021, where everything is a competition to some people. it really isnt that deep, its music and artists make music for us to enjoy, not for us to start hate campaigns over or try to get other groups disbanded by dragging up irrelevant things to try and taint an idol's image. i think groups should just start releasing things anonymously, nobody would know who anyone is and people can just enjoy a song for the song, not because of who's singing it or their fandom guilting people into streaming or whatever

lets just all enjoy songs regardless of anything else! yay music!!

#yay anon!

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idkimnotcreatives · 4 years

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!!!!Posting to pretty much everything!!!!

*deleting later*

🛑THIS IS ME TALKING ABOUT THE PAST 2 WEEKS IN KPOP, FEEL FREE TO SKIP 🛑

Hello fellow kpop fans

As you’ve all most likely heard, Hyunjoon left The Boyz on October 22nd

On the 27th it was announced that Woojin left stray kids

On the 31st, Hoseok left Monsta X

And on the 14th, Sulli passed away

Now, I’ve stanned Stray Kids since 3 weeks after debut

I stanned The Boyz at the end of No Air era

And I stanned Monsta X just right after Jealousy promotions ended

I never really got into f(x) but I liked their music and their personalities from what I’ve seen of them

Just to tell you guys how I dealt with all of this

On the 14th, it was my birthday, and I woke up and was immediately greeted with news of Sulli’s passing. This was not a very good start to my day, because even though I was never the biggest f(x) stan, the news was still devastating.

On the 22nd, when it was announced that Hyunjoon left tbz, I was very, very sad. I didn’t cry, because he was on a hiatus for a while from his foot. Although it is sad, I am glad he’s taking time to make sure he is healthy. Although we will miss him, his health is still the first priority and it was his choice to bring that first. (That makes no sense but I hope you know what I’m getting at). I am ot12 biased in the Boyz, and I will stay that way.

On the 27th, when JYP made the statement about Woojin leaving skz, I was absolutely heartbroken. As of now I’m still so, so, so upset and in utter shock that this happened so suddenly. My sister suddenly told me this at around 8-9pm and I sat up in my bed very fast (we share a room btw). I went to Instagram and immediately saw people posting about it. To be honest I’m not an emotional person, and I struggle a lot with my emotions (I don’t express them often and I don’t cry or show what I’m feeling most of the time). But when I heard this news, I immediately broke down sobbing. Earlier that day I had a panic attack/mental breakdown/sob-fest in my car from being overwhelmed with the negative comments Chan was receiving. I had spent so much time making sure I didn’t see the exact words that people were saying, but when I read them I completely freaked out and sobbed. I cried myself to sleep that night, for the first time in a long, long, long time. I love Stray Kids and Minho (Lee Know) is one of my ults, as well as Stray Kids being one of my top groups, if not #1 since stanning.

Hoseok’s departure was a shock, but the week before had been so shitty that I kinda just went blank on emotions... I wasn’t surprised by the news, and I just kinda sighed and moved on. I know this sounds bad...but I’ve been drifting from Monsta X for a while...although I hate to say it. The news wasn’t that much of a shock to me, if at all...but my emotions just kinda shut down from then until now. I haven’t cried since the 27th, and I don’t think I will be for a while.

2019 has been a very fucking shitty year...not only in the kpop world but my personal life too.

(You can skip this it’s just a long story about my last 2 days)

A brief explanation: I stayed home from school on Friday, practically (read: did) begged my mom to stay home. I was honestly so done with everything that I just didn’t want to deal with people or school or anything really. Taking that day off cooled me down a little bit, until my mom got off of work today. She worked early, and got home at around 12:00. Just before that, I thought the year was taking a small turn, and my dad got me and my sister tickets to the Oneus concert, which brightened my mood a lot. My mom got home and started to yell at me and my sister about everything. Anything she could see she started screaming at me and my sister. (Including: saying we don’t ever do anything around the house when all we do is clean for her when she ends up not, saying we have to let her know when our dad plans something with us when he tells us we don’t have to -either way we get yelled at by a parent, telling us we might not be able to go to the concert when it was a birthday present from our dad, etc.) We has to go to the orthodontist so she yelled at my sister in the car while I sat there saying nothing with a blank expression on my face (I always do this lmao I have no emotions) ⚠️⚠️!!TW!!⚠️⚠️ throughput this entire thing, the car ride to the orthodontist, my mind was just set on ways I could kill myself, and how I could just die. How much easier my life would be if I just didn’t have one. I even started thinking of things I would say to my friends, my family, my followers- everyone. Those thoughts haven’t really gone away as of now, but I’m working on it lmao. (End TW)

Back to the big point of this useless chapter

I’m still going to continue writing about Hyunjoon, Woojin, and Hoseok. Just because they aren’t technically in their groups anymore, that doesn’t mean they were never apart of them. If we don’t get them back in their respective grouos, they were still apart of them once, and will forever be apart of them in our hearts.

This is over 1,000 words, and it’s 11pm, so I’ll end it soon, but if you do have a problem with me continuing to write about them, then you might as well go find a different author to read books from, because they aren’t going away from my heart and head, so they aren’t going away from my writing.

Lastly,

#ThankYouSulli <3

#ThankYouHwall <3

#ThankYouWoojin <3

#ThankYouWonho <3

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