#im not a transmed

[transs3xualmagg0t]

I realise your name includes the term transsexual. You’re not transmed/truscum are you? 🤨

? no i just think the word is funky, i don't think u have to do anything medical wise to transition if u don't want to

#maggot musings #maggot answers #anon #i might pin this idk #if people see my url and think transmed thats a problem to me yknow? #but yeah do what u want medical wise idc #u can do whatever u want 4 the rest of ur life 4ever #this anon feels kinda weird #no hate to whoever sent it or whatever but idk #is using ts common among transmeds? #id assume maybe the older ones but my bio literally says im a minor #but yeah idk #im not a transmed #if u know me that should be obv lmao

[pansyfemme]

did anyone actually have ‘kink related pronouns’ in 2020 or was that some more shit people made up to get mad at. baffling, really.

#remember having a convo about my brother once (when he was still leaving his transmed phase meanwhile i was like knee deep into trender #positive tumblr and genderfreak shit in 2018) #and like he was finally coming around to neopronouns but said he’d never call someone anything ‘sex related’ and i was like. sorry what #i think he saw it on tiktok or something but he seemed to think that sometimes people used neopronouns as a kink #and its like. i mean you can use any pronouns as a kink. theres whole fetishes about misgendering and force gendering. but like also #sometimes a bitch wants to be called kittenself and its not a sex thing at all. like i dont agree that this is a widespread issue with #neopronoun users but if it was i honestly would find it more interesting than offputting #i dont rlly care WHY someone is using a pronoun set im gonna use it yknow?

[dimini0shed]

Transmeds are the most stupid person I ever met, are you actually fucking kidding me. "you're not a trans person if you don't have dysphoria and doesn't want to do surgeries/HRT!!!" Like bro wtf that doesn't even make sense, you can be transgender if you don't have dysphoria, you don't have to hate your fucking body to be transgender, you just have to not identify with the gender you were given at birth + IS SUPER CLASSIST to say that "if you DON'T want surgeries/you don't have surgeries you aren't trans", some people don't have the money to do the surgery, SOME PEOPLE DON'T EVEN HAVE THE MONEY TO EAT, SOME PEOPLE ARE SCARED, SOME PEOPLE CAN'T DO SURGERIES BECAUSE OF THEIR HEALTH!!! maybe they want to do the surgery but they just can't, and they aren't less valid for not wanting to do that. you guys need to understand that being transmed (or truscum whatever the fuck you bitches call yourselves.) is so fucking close of being a terf and the "LGB without the T" .

Also I've seen many transmeds talking about MOGAI being invalid and all that discourse...you guys probably doesn't even search after saying. So MOGAI is basically the "+" in the LGBTQIA+ (like nonbinary, pansexual, polyam, demisexual and etc...)

I'm a trans guy btw.

(sorry if my English is bad, is not my first language.)

#lgbtqia #transgender #transmasc #transfem #transmed #anti transmed #fuck transmeds #mogai safe #trans safe space #im so mad rn

[customboytoy]

this is definitely a strange ask to get but forcemasc and this blog specifically made me realize that i don't actually want to take testosterone, i just want a lower voice and top surgery. i will stand in my little twink corner and watch the rest of you have the time of your lives

you know what and thats fine too!!!! i know a couple people actually who just want/got top surg but no T

#ask #thankfully we arent in a ststem anymore where you have to do all of it #like we actually get to pick and choose what pieces we want #is pretty awesome #(now we should make it easily accessible for everyone but well thats another post) #i knowww my kink is transitioning all the way but im also not transmed like #hormone imbalances and the craziness that comes w that #not for everyone

[druidshollow]

i have a vivid memory from like 5 years ago of some wc animator confessing to being a transmed on livestream (like the livestream was specifically dedicated to that confession) was it you who confessed to being a transmed or did you disavow the person i don’t remember

youre probably thinking of kanin cotton? i remember they did streams like that. i never made any streams fully dedicated to it but i WAS vocal publically about being a transmed quite a few years ago. when i was younger and still figuring myself out i fell pretty hard into transmedicalist ideas. its not something im proud of, i no longer think that way and am ashamed with myself that i ever did. if i could id undo it entirely but i figure its better to be honest about it.

i am not a transmed, theres no excuse for exclusionism and transmedical ideas are harmful and wrong.

i was really into kalvin garrah and people like that when i was a teen/younger adult, and thats where i got those ideas from

if youre a transmed id recommend doing some research into why its harmful. if youre hearing these ideas from someone on socials id put some real critical thinking into the people you follow and the rhetoric theyre genuinely spreading

#tired of having to acknowledge this every couple years without fail but i also #understand peoples need to specify #im certainly not a transmed anymore though. most of my closest friends are genderqueer and as i said theres no excuse for exclusionism #it does nothing but harm

[skiploomz]

how can someone be both anti inclusion AND anti exclusion?

#u realise policing the right way to be queer and excluding ppl for their identity IS exclusionism u get that yes u understand it right #somehow both dni male lesbians and female gays AND transmeds and anti xenogender ppl???? am i going insane. #how can u b pro xenogender yet not understand that sometimes multigender ppl will be lesbians and men at the same time #or that someone can transition to be a woman but still feel comfortable with identifying as a gay man #like these are very simple concepts. how can u be anti transmed and pro telling trans ppl how theyre allowed to identify? ur a transmed. #vent #complaining #discourse #SORRY im not trying to start drama this just perplexes and infuriates me

[r1ghtwhereyouleftme]

Just saw some bitch claiming you're not trans unless you have plans to transition

And I wanna say fuck that. Nonbinary people are trans. People who don't medically transition are trans. Anyone who feels they are trans for whatever reason is fucking trans.

Newsflash, you don't have to do anything special to be trans. You just exist as yourself. That's it.

#seriously fuck transmeds im so tired of their bs #like fucking way to turn on your own community #not to mention the privilege these bitches have #not everyone can transition its not that easy or cheap

[vyeoh]

Personally I fucking love it when trans people say stuff like "when I was still a boy" or "I used to be a girl" etc etc because yeah I'm a trans guy and I lived a huge part of my life as a girl and experienced the world as one and I love my pre-trans 13 year old self and the sisterhoods I formed and the "girl" hobbies and experiences i had and I refuse to give up my childhood because I didn't know I was trans yet. Like yeah I was a girl at some point and that was lit as hell and now I'm not

#like yeah the dysphoria sucked #but im so proud of my self for reaching a point where i can love my pre-trans self #vio.txt #transgender #personal #fuck terfs fuck transmeds

[turgidscum]

Tranmeds try not to be bioessentialist challenge, level: impossible

(Male and female brains don’t exist<3)

Transmeds try not to be westerncentric and anti indigenous challenge, level: impossible

(Indigenous concepts of gender don’t care about your colonial medical industrial complex<3)

i am literally a card carrying member of a tribe. my grandmother was literally born on a rez. i have been to more pow wows than i can count. you do not get to erase my native heritage because i disagree with you lot.

regardless of whether brain sex exists (which, based off of studies i've read recently, is possible) you just need dysphoria to be trans. that's never going to change whether it's a neurological condition or a mental condition. it's a state of being that is not a choice.

#transmed #im still not clear on what these people call bioessentialism #if someone wants to explain it go ahead

[catboyconfucius]

the fact that when you search mlm on tumblr and immediately see five posts about pussy? horrible.

#transmed #transmedicalism #truscum #trans discourse #lgbtq #mlm #men loving men #only men!!! just men #im bisexual but when i want to be gay i want to be just gay! #tumblr is hell

[sitephi]

you definitely are a transmed lmao

Ah yes, me, a person who is pre everything; doesnt plan on getting bottom surgery and who supports anyone who doesnt want hrt/surgeries, is a transmed. Nice try.

#i know what post you are mad about and i said on it that im not transmed. #asks

[transmeds]

ppl telling me abt transmeds communities that turned into terfs like i haven't watched countless tucute communities turn into terfs like! im not disagreeing with u that terfs like to convince transmeds to deteansition! the thing is that its not a transmed thing they do it to all trans ppl!! like i used to be a tucute, i used to have a bunch of tucute friends, i used to join their servers even after i stopped agreeing with them. so many of them turned into just terf circle jerk communities. because thats what terfs do! thats what they do! when you start to blame it on "transmed is a terf pipeline" or "tucute is a terf pipeline" because that's what YOU'VE experienced you miss the point and you miss how disgusting terfs actually are. thats how you blame it on the victims of terfs, when you start talking about pipelines. you have to realize that TERFS ARE THE PROBLEM! not trans people who disagree with you. i dont know how to explain this in any other way. the people who get manipulated into becoming terfs aren't the problem, its the people who manipulated them.

transmeds are not any closer to becoming terfs than tucutes are, thinking youre immune to terf manipulation will just leave you more open to it. it will just make you more likely to fall to it. its not the fault of trans people you dont like.

#this is also why i am so against trying to say terfs dont hurt trans men #it just makes trans men less cautious around them #like! no you cant stop being on ur guard around them #thats what they do! #im not changing my opinion on this btw like im just not #ive seen and experienced my friends from all sides turn into terfs thts just what they want from you #to blame other trans people #or the stop ignoring thats its an issue in the transmed community!!! stop ignoring that its not a transmed problem its a terfs manipulate #trans people problem im not denying it happens to transmeds im literally saying it does! but not because theyre transmeds. thats. all.

[antiradqueer]

reminder that this blog despises transmeds and that we do infact check the blogs of the people in our notes :)

#mod mew #yes im vagueing #no it doesnt help that the user who im vagueing abt is not just following multiple transmeds. but prats too... #you know we can see who you follow right

[pansyfemme]

always weird 2 me when conversations with other trans dudes end up with ‘lol we were all transmeds in 2017 right lol!!’ like. no not personally

#im glad ur better 💖 but like the ppl who were convinced to join transmedicalism #werent the only victims. it was after all. a culture based around harassing those who werent trans enough. and we were real people #everyone involved was harmed but it also wasnt totally an equal playing field and i dont feel comfy when ppl joke abt it casually #bc having so many ppls self hate pushed onto me was. not the ideal time either #i just like. dont think its something to make light of #im happy you healed and you may have never directly harassed anyone #but a lot of ppl did and im just not comfortable with acting like it was all just self hatred and not actual transphobia as well #i love you. i just. would rather that kind of joking wasnt around me or other ppl who were harassed by transmeds

[salem-speaks]

It’s so funny how like every single exclusionist argument boils down to “I lack the imagination to believe that experiences other than my own exist. Therefore they do not.”

#like I saw a post on an ace positivity blog yesterday that was like #‘im a sex neutral ace and I think sex positive aces should shut up because they aren’t REAL aces’ #and it’s like. do you not see how you are doing the exact thing that the ace exclusionists are doing #same goes for transmeds and people who talk about being a ‘gold star lesbian’ or whatever shit #like. jesus christ #do you guys not hear yourselves

[purpleflameb0i]

I'm exercising to

Be able to safely go on T

Be a hairy, buff man

Be able to knock the shit out of transphobes X3

#transgender #trans guy #trans #trans man #anti terf #anti truscum #anti radfem #anti transmed #Im so silly goofy