If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.
Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.
If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.
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lesbians who stay away from lesbian spaces or don't openly identify as lesbians because they are scared of backlash, hatred, and exclusionism: I love you
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flag id: a flag with 5 stripes. in order, they are light orange, pink-red, dark indigo, faded blue, and soft green. end id.
banner id: a 1500x150 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting’ in large white text in the center. end id.
a flag for those who use the term lesbigay [pt: lesbigay /end pt] to mean 'lesbian + bi + gay man' rather than 'lesbian + gay man' for @catzquid!
the flag format (warm colors, purple, cool colors) mimics the bi flag, the top two stripes represent being a lesbian, the middle stripe represents being bi, and the bottom two stripes represent being a gay man!
tags: @radiomogai | dni link
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✦︰︵︵ LESBOY GAYBIAN
EXPLANATIONS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶
...lesboy gaybian,, a flag for those who are both lesboys && gaybians, however that is!
Based on the lesboy && orange/green gaybian flag
MEANINGS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶
...in order,, 1. Being a lesboy in some way, shape or form! 2. Complex and unique identity 3. Pride 4. The unity of being a lesboy gaybian 5. Contradictory labels 6. Being a gaybian
PT & ID under the cut
PT: lesboy gaybian, a flag for those who are both gaybians and lesboys. Based on the lesboy flag and orange to green gaybian flag. The stripes meanings are, in order, being a lesboy, complex and unique identity, pride, the unity of being a lesboy gaybian, contradictory labels, being a gaybian. END OF PT.
FLAG ID: 3 identical rectangular flags with 6 stripes that are, in order: violet, pink, orange, light pastel yellow, green, darker green. END OF ID.
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[ID: the Abrosexual and bigender flags side by side, with flaming text "I am the LGBT" over both of them]
Based on a joke between my friends abt my needlessly complex orientation.
[ID: the Lesbigay and bigender flags side by side, with flaming text "I am the LGBT" over both of them]
Here's one for lesbigay (neopronouns' flag) also <3
(I lowkey prefer lesbigay to abro bc the SAM makes everything 10x more complicated for me lol.)
Here's the flaming text gif for ur gay needs
[DNI if you're gonna be mean, but questions are welcome]
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bi lesbian exclusionists acting like lesbian is some holy word that cannot be used by anyone that doesnt fit the cookie cutter textbook definition of the label aren't that different from tiktok baby gays who say you're going to hell for calling yourself gay when youre bisexual or whatever.
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Shout out to all my gaybians, gaybians with split attraction, aroace gaybians, xenogender gaybians, gaybian neopronouns users, non multigender gaybians, multigender gaybians that don't use the labels bi/poly/pan/trigender ect, genderfluid gaybians, disabled/neurodivergent gaybians, non/alterhuman gaybians, polyamorous gaybians, and all the other cool gaybian folks my mind failed to mention
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Gaybianfluid/flux/fluix!!
Gaybianfluid/flux/fluix is a term referring to those who are fluid and/or fluctuate between the labels gay (man) and lesbian, they may or may not also be abrosexual
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Are you...
Gaybian, lesbigay, or lesgay refers to someone who is both gay and lesbian. One may also identify as or be considered bisexual, multisexual, pluralian, or ambisexual. However, one may not always consider bisexual to be an accurate description of their attraction, as the attraction they experience is always in a gay way.
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Hey guys, as mentioned in my previous post I am now going to start working on a gaybian resource/explanation carrd!
With this decision comes a plethora of work and research to be done to make sure I properly and appropriately present the gaybian/velaurian community and their identity.
It would be really helpful if any gaybians out there that are interested in helping this mini project shared their experiences as being gaybian using this form (link).
Of course, only fill out the form if you are gaybian (or some variation such as velaurian/lesbigay/etc.) and are comfortable sharing your experience.
No one is obligated to share their relationship with the label, and if you are concerned about identification you can 100% fill out the form anonymously!
It would be very helpful if people spread this post by reblogging.
If you have good resources on gaybians it would also be very helpful to share those with me.
I also have a list of flags I plan to include in the carrd below. If you have other gaybian/velaurian/lesbigay flags you would like to have included please share (although I'm pretty sure I got all the important ones ever soooo yeah).
Have a good day everyone!
Most well known gaybian flag by @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags
Lesbian gay flag by @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags
Lesbigay flag by @/bunnyz-mogai
Sunset meadow gaybian/lesbigay flag by @/almondvaledeer
Alternate gaybian flag by @/blankmogai
Velaurian flag by @/kenochoric-moved
Geiseric flag by unknown/anonymous
Lesbivincian flag by unknown/anonymous
Lesgay flag by @/fantasy-store
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[ID: A set of two images. The left image is of Charlie from Hazbin Hotel with a white outline and a translucent black drop shadow in front of a splice of her identities. The right image is a blank flag splice. ID end]
Charlie Morningstar is a bigender canonically bi lesbian velaurian (gaybian/lesbigay) rainbowgender rainbowsparklovemojic demon who uses any pronouns but mostly uses she/her.
Suggested by an anonymous Discord user!
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I love to love as a lesbian trans man with no connections to womanhood to the outside world. I'm only a woman if I, in my head, am comfortable with the term that day, but should anyone else imply lesbianism is exclusive to women I feel alienated and parasitic. At the end of the day, it's just words. It's just another label. And if to live as me I have to be considered as a parasite by my peers then so be it.
Here's to a very sapphilean 2024, I hope to make more friends like me this year 🥂
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⧉﹒♡︵⸝⸝ BIGENDER GAYBIAN
EXPLANATIONS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶ᘒ ˚. ˖ ๑
Bigender gaybians,, a flag for gaybians who are also bigenders!
MEANINGS ✦ ╲╲ ︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶︶ᘒ ˚. ˖ ๑
In order,, 1. Being bigender in some way, shape or form! 2. Complex gender identity && bigender experience 3. Unique experience of identity! 4. Being both a gaybian && bigender; unity 5. Pride && Proudness 6. Complex attraction 7. Being a gaybian
IMAGE ID: a rectangular flag with 7 stripes that are, in order: Royal Fuchsia, Persian Pink, Peach Puff, Violet, Mint Tulip, Lavender Blue, Dark Orchid. END OF ID.
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flag id: the left flag has 7 stripes, which are very dark blue, dark faded indigo, dusty grey, cream, dull light brown, dull brown, and dark dull brown. the right flag has 5 stripes, which are dark indigo, faded pink, dull tan, dull medium brown, and dark dull brown. end id.
banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.
based on velaurian flag | based on gaybian flag
raccoon velaurian/gaybian: a velaurian/gaybian who prefers cuddles, kisses, etc. over sex
[pt: raccoon velaurian/gaybian: a velaurian/gaybian who prefers cuddles, kisses, etc. over sex. end pt]
velaurian/gaybian equivalent to bambi lesbian for anon! raccoon was their suggestion, so both use two colors from the original flags and colors from images of raccoons.
tags: @radiomogai | dni link
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