#lot in him we're siblings

[byunbaekhyunie]

@monwillica & @merrybaekmas asked: which EXO member is most like you?

JONGINIE

#kai #jongin #kim jongin #exoedit #kpop #kpopccc #mgroupsedit #malegroupsedit #* #neox #gifs #exoask #i really could keep going he is just like me i am just like him fr fr #here are more random traits we share: being bad sports / hate running / not wearing socks with shoes / infj / blood type a / maknae / #being good at drawing / we have many similar habits and i think also very similar temperaments and senses of humour overall i see myself a #lot in him we're siblings #also im sorry abt the one of him crying i know it ruins the silly goofy vibe of the set but our sensitivity is a key similarity

[booasaur]

NCIS: Hawai’i - 2x05

#ncishawaiiedit #ncis hawai'i #lucy tara #jesse boone #kate whistler #yasmine al bustami #noah mills #tori anderson #ncis hawai'i 2x05 #kate x lucy #kacy #femslash related stuff #I'll never get over kacy both trying so hard not to pressure the other they came out the other end #lol lucy sitting down and still able to stare down these two giants #jesse being the perfect ohhh so you wanted it to be for luuuurve older sibling here #I'm glad we got some scenes with him and lucy #they were one of my favorite dynamics from s1 #and while I'm glad we're getting different combinations (including lots of kacy!) I'm glad we can go back to this dynamic #they've so close and so alike they get into situations the others would never let them #and I love it

[hadesoftheladies]

hate going for christian weddings sometimes because i always see the prettiest women with the ugliest men, the sermon is always some shit about wives being slaves (but not like bad slavery, mutual slavery except the husband is a benevolent master which makes it okay) and making babies for their husband, the music is always lame, the mc is always weird and obnoxious, and older women keep fucking asking me when it's gonna be my turn and never take no for an answer.

#mine #personal #brief storytime in the tags #one of my family friends got married and i was happy she was happy #her parents are like an aunt and uncle to me #i was happy to share that moment with them #we cried and laughed together #and my friends #their other daughters were on the line and looked gorgeous #it was just beautiful watching us all grow up in a way and move on to “the next” together #BUT #im a pastor's kid #and my dad loves weddings #he drinks them in whenever he can now especially because they make him happy and he's had to attend a lot more funerals this year #he's been burdened a lot by how many people he's had to bury and how many hospital visits he's had to do #so i was happy to see him happy too #it just all felt so bittersweet to me #because i know how badly my parents want this for me and for themselves #there was a daddy-daughters dance at some point and i could feel my dad beaming beside me watching that #and i was a little sad about it because i was like im never gonna give you that #this could be the best thing i could ever give you and i will never give you this #i can never kneel at an altar in front of a pastor and swallow that sermon #i would never marry a man in my generation #if i married a woman you and almost the entire tent filled with people that watched me grow up would not attend #my happiest day would be another funeral for you #it was worse because im kind of a small celebrity in this community because of my parents and their siblings who are politicians #so people i barely knew kept coming up and asking me when it would be my turn and how they so looked forward to the day #and i was like i love that we're a community here and i missed the pestering of aunts since i left church #but at the same time i was glad to remember why i left #there is no freedom to be myself at all with them because all they do is project their beliefs and ideas on me because that's what children

[heftbyjapanesebreakfast]

i can't get over the fact his dad's birthday is the same day my dad died... like the way we're literally cosmically connected and i think we were soulmates in a past life

#this plus he has the same initials as my plus he has the same phone number as my mom #also our brothers both played in the same little league #and both him and i worked in the snack bar at the little league field #and his friends know a lot of the same people i know #like okay. what the fuck. #it's driving me crazy we were literally meant to be like #how was he in a relationship for FOUR years and then a few months after i meet him he happens to have a break up.... like. okay #m #also we're both half mexican bisexual oldest siblings w septum piercings #why r we kinda the same person LMAOO

[valaratminaforaldrar]

horse

#i go with my sibling to her riding lessons almost every week rn partially because i want to see her ride and stuff #and partially to say hi to this little horse. he's tiny and has a big personality i love him so much #horses are terrifying so i won't pet him or anything but i like to think we're friends from afar #and by friends i mean he comes up to me to beg for food but you know. same thing #there's literally a sign on his stall that says 'do not give him food' #so i am assuming he asks for food like. a lot #and he's so cute people probably just give it to him lmao

[verymuchablog42]

i want to wrap my youngest brother in a forever cocoon of dance parties and hugs and reading the books he likes where he and I can live forever and ever because this child doesn't deserve a single bad thing to ever happen in his life

#for context: #he's little‚ in kindergarten‚ and was recently diagnosed with adhd (although we had already pretty much known) so while his dr is trying to #find the right meds for him he's struggling with the adjustment period and focusing in general #and this beautiful sunshine boy calls me on video chat and asks if i can help him finish his dnd character sheet we started last week #because he's very excited about the dnd campaign and wants to get his sheet finished like my other siblings (both several yrs older) #and so we're working through the sheet and we're talking and im explaining the math and i keep having to try and redirect his attention #because he's sitting in our kitchen and there's a lot happening around him and he's distracted (which i totally get and think is so valid!) #and so i told him #hey‚ if you can't focus right now and we need to circle back to this‚ i can wait. im free tonight and tomorrow night‚ #call me when you're ready to finish and are feeling able to focus again #and he said okay and then in the saddest voice ever he apologized for not being able to pay attention and I just #my heart BROKE for him #because he's so smart! and kind!! and it's okay that he cannot focus on dnd right now‚ he's doing his best!!! #and i told him as much‚ promised i wasn't mad or frustrated or anything and told him i loved him and hoped he had a good night #but i just feel so bad that he internalized him not being able to pay attention as his fault #i just want to protect him forever and ever #idk if anyone has any tips on little kids w adhd‚ plz lmk‚ i want to be a resource and source of support for him 🫶

[cosmic-cd]

late night oc thoughts again!

#cosmo rambles #dimension cross edition #been thinking a whole lot about gear and source lately and of course RGB #DC too who is also part of the crew as the medic #and ive been working out their sort of connections to one another a little bit more here and there #gear and rgb are very much siblings and they about equally run the dimension cross crew #rgb takes more of the leadership position while gear usually takes the level headed backseat role but #ive found it increasingly funny to consider rgb might be the more normal and less impulsive one of the two #and by that i mean rgb is impulsive for sure. but she's less likely to do something horribly dangerous that would affect everyone #while gear may make a rash decision that might. endanger everyone. just a little bit. because he's either mad or impatient #gear absolutely normally is sort of the voice of reason and he is a very reasonable and wise guy #but he's also very strong and might actually be the one to pick a fight if he's angry and defensive enough #rgb... well. she's fought sonic before. stupidly. acted like a supervillain after finding a chaos emerald to convince him to fight her 1v1 #then had to call time out because he almost kicked her ass into next year but. yknow. #basically. your honor they are silly #on the other hand source is kind of like the third sibling but also This Weird Dog We Found. Can We Keep Him #and then Wait we Don't Need To Ask To Keep Him. We're Keeping Him. #source is unnerving outwardly but they're pretty quiet all things considered. things considered being They Are Slime Mold in a Fursuit #but of course their whole thing is having the simultaneous best and worst comedic timing. we're in a space bar? #big angry space bikers? source is going to walk up to them and annoy them and then the whole dimension cross crew has to deal with a fight #or get kicked out of the bar. whichever comes first #dimension cross as a crew is also only four guys and they are not that organized. it's more like a road trip with general roles. in space. #interdimensionally also. #DC... their personality isnt really.. defined yet! they're somewhere between mad scientist and anxious nerd. they are just a woerm. #and by that i mean they're a worm off da string but also cybernetically enhanced. and the enhancements they installed on their own. #naturally DC is very skilled as a medic both for cyborgs and fully biological things alike #they're kinda just. rotating source trying to figure him out. endless fascination but also trying to avoid them getting hurt #i gotta think about DC more tho. theyre the least developed member of dimension cross and i feel bad #also got a new member of the crew going soon enough . .. .. im excited to think about the interactions between them all LOL

[silverselfshippingchaos]

he <3

#big bro <3 he's cool! but is he as cool as best boy t.orgal? hmmm thats up for debate #ash feeds him treats and gives him lots of pets!!! pat pat pat pat pat #ash rambles 💚 #i've been doing nothing but study so brain is mushy #but c.live! brother! and t.orgal! friend! #f.f16 and m.ass e.ffect are keeping me goinf ajdhqjdh i love them #my first fucking post about c.live hasnt popped up so screw it! i'll make another! #also fellas i think my crush on g.arrus v.akarian is much more than that- may or may not have two fankiddos #ahskjqkdjq i've been seriously going through it as of late with school and shit but at least theres hot aliens 😳😳 #but yeah. ash isnt actually blood related to c.live! thank fucking god- i freaking hate his mom LMAAOO #she's just a close friend who he starts to see as a sibling type #especially since shes the same age as his actual little brother #theres about 5 yrs between them so ash is around 28ish! a wee bit younger than her gf v.ivian #big bro is cool :D #... i still like his dog better- #(that was a joke. mostly.) #so much studying.. so tired... but we must persist #once the horrors pass i shall finish m.ass e.ffect 3! muahahaha! #a while back my friends and i decided to go out this weekend. and me being busy as shit is not gonna stop me from dancing it up LMAO #so we're on the study grind 😎 #also on the freaking brainrot grind oh my god- m.atthew has been on my mind all day!! and ofc g.arrus and the two fankiddos i'm working on #also an old crush AJDJAJJSJQ i need to finish h.aikyuu since a.kiteru has my whole heart #okay yeah thats all #everyone look at t.orgal and how cute he is :D! and ig c.live too #my screenshots too! me and f.f16 photo mode are besties :D (i have spent an embarrassing amount of time zooming up on my gf v.ivian)

[devondespresso]

the challenge figuring out a canon-compliant and in-character explanation for The Cheating Thing between stancy and jancy because otherwise both Nancy and Jonathan are so out of character in the Murray scene its extremely jarring. a difficult task but i think I've got something

#i rewatched their little will they won't they with the bed shit and its. wack. #both jancy know about steve. both of them like steve. nancy spends a lot of time with steve #while we dont see a lot of stonathan we see them interact and chill in the background especially at the byers house so they're friendly #we're latching onto these facts: nancy remembers none of the bullshit conversation; steve was really upset after; and Jonathan took her hom #also tommy says its a breakup but alsohe has literally no way to know. steve hates him and wasn't in that bathroom with them #hes also definitely trying to get under steves skin so he's not exactly worried about facts just what will upset steve #so yeah we're coming up with stuff to fill the gaps to make that shit make sense without just. handwaving it bc jancy endgame or whatever #also no big tags because i don't want to have a fight about it this is for my friends and followers and because i can't annoy my sibling rn #devon's steve henderson au #steve henderson au rambles #devon thinks sometimes

[bat-the-misfit]

my dream is to be best friends with someone whose favorite character is the brother of MY favorite character

#NIMBUS STANS CADÊ VOCÊÊÊS #BROTA AQUI VAMO VIRAR AMIGUES #who are Do Contra stans without Nimbus stans? if they're brothers we should stick together as if we were siblings as well #we can complain about how little they appear in the comics together #we can also complain about how their supposed actors are taking so fucking long to admit they're going to play them :D #come on admit it most people had a crush on Nimbus growing up just admit you stan him #my son Do Contra is questionable but Nimbus' a good boy #he is nice with everyone he's pretty he's the responsible older brother and he does magic 🐇🎩 #my son's the weird brother but that's why i prefer him lol #WE CAN ALSO CALL THEM MAURO AND MAURÍCIO WITHOUT PEOPLE THINKING WE ARE WEIRD OMG #“Bat are you ignoring the fact you just accused your fave chara of being questionable and weird while saying his brother is an angel?” #i'm not ignoring i just have adhd lol #MY SON BREAKS THE SYSTEM HE BREAKS SOCIETY'S EXPECTATIONS #HE BREAKS GENDER ROLES HE BREAKS RACIAL STEREOTYPES #HE IS INDIVIDUALISTIC HE IS INVENTIVE HE DOES THINGS IN HIS OWN RYTHM #MY SON MY BABY MY BELOVED HE IS SO FUCKING PRECIOUS #HE ANNOYS HIS BROTHER TOO WHICH I RESPECT A LOT #HE IS A GREAT BOYFRIEND HE IS A GREAT FRIEND HE IS A TERRIBLE BROTHER #I BET HE'S A TERRIBLE SON TOO BUT WE'RE SUPPOSED TO ONLY COMPLIMENT HIM HERE #HE DOES THINGS NOT ONLY OUTSIDE THE BOX SOMETIMES HE IS THE BOX SOMETIMES HE BREAKS THE BOX #BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY HE IS ALWAYS ×AGAINST× AND I LOVE HIM FOR THAT #“ok Bat you can shut up now” DO CONTRA MY BELOVED #MAURÍCIO YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THE OWNER OF MY HEART #my future boyfriend: *cries in the background* #ok i'm gonna stop i just feel more hyperactive today bc i'm anxious #i mean i'm always hyperactive but that's not the point #“BAT GO AWAY” OK I'M GOING

[sheliesshattered]

I’m just so tired

#things with my dad are getting significantly worse. with terminal brain cancer that's pretty much the only direction things can go #but his mental state is deteriorating quickly. multiple massive brain tumors will do that to you but now it's accelerating #I described it to one of my siblings that it's like Dad's mind is a big jigsaw puzzle and for a year now it's been clear that #the once-whole puzzle is breaking into pieces. for awhile the pieces were still pretty big and he could still carry on a conversation well #he might not remember it 15 minutes later but get him talking about an old memory or something he's an expert on and he could just go on #I've been calling him twice a week for months now. since Mom first suggested we work on writing a book together #in the month since we decided to give that up as a lost cause Dad has gotten noticeably worse. he's gone from losing his train of thought #to talking complete nonsense in a scrambled combination of old memories and things he once read about -- smaller and smaller puzzle pieces #and as things have taken a downward term I know from talking to Mom separately that Dad is also having a lot of trouble with basic self care #balance and bathing and eating and knowing where he is and all kinds of things. all of which is made worse by his memory problems #and by the fact that he outweighs my mom by a good 100lbs. so when he fell in the tub and couldn't get himself out she had to call for help #had to have a church friend who is more than a foot taller than her drive over to help maneuver my dad out of the bathtub #he's also getting obstinate and angry and saying that my mom and my nb sibling who lives with them are the ones with mental problems #all of which means I think they're going to need in-home healthcare ASAP. if not a round-the-clock facility. it's coming sooner or later #but Dad still hasn't officially retired so he's still on his own insurance which apparentlydoesn't have any coverage for that sort of thing #so Mom has to get him to file the paperwork to officially retire and then get him on her insurance. hopefully without a huge confrontation #and I feel like we're running out of time. that he's going to need that care before all the paperwork has time to clear once its started #I feel like we've been barely surviving horrific river rapids and now I'm the ONLY one pointing out that there's a massive waterfall coming #ignoring it won't make it go away or take longer to get here. it'll just hit us with even fewer preparations in place #I have enlisted the help of siblings so hopefully we can convince Mom of the importance of getting the paperwork started #but Mom is so mired in her own grief and busy with work (and she can't quit bc of the health insurance) and unable to get the help she needs #that it's tricky to bring up any of this sort of thing in a helpful way. and all the while Dad is getting worse #meanwhile I'm trying to deal with my own grief and manage my own chronic health situation. and still call Dad twice a week just to chat #and holy hell I'm just so TIRED

[avatar-aaang]

the cousin poll really makes me laugh bc like the options are so funny to me??? like I know some people don't have large families, that's fine. but I kinda thought it would be a better range like 0-2 and 3-5 and etc bc uhh I have 40+ first cousins. so yes 8+ but like 8+ could just mean 9 or it could mean 100. I think to get a better scale for some groups of people, like mormons and catholics and other groups that generally have big families, you might vary the numbers a bit idk

#personal #and that 40+ is just my moms side #i have only sort of only 3 on my dads #its more bc ive never met his one brother or his kids #but also kinda less bc unfortunately one of the ones i do know died a few years ago. i miss him #but anyway we're all german catholics so. big fam. mom is one of 13 #and looking through the notes #lots of people have parents who come from 7 or more groups of kids #thats not gonna guarantee lots of cousins necessarily but still #its something to consider #i think more people have siblings than not maybe

[trailshome]

Awww it's really cute that you based the ovara-hughes family off of that youtube channel! And i'm glad that you feel a bit better!!! A feeling of loss towards loves one that isn't there anymore might never be able to disappear no matter how long it's been, but sooner or later you'll learn to accept it. Might not be the best feeling but what you should remember is: don't be sad because they won't be there anymore, be happy that you've get to feel what it's like to have their company while it last

#asks #answered #cheers to that anon!! #this week has been emotionally tiring #but imamu's got me #I also got so excited about the progress of trails I almost asked if anyone wanted to beta but then remembered I still have a lot to do #but I tweaked the child prologue -- still have to finish the child route of chapter one but like... that's what *if and *elseif's are for #right??? #haha flavour text #also found a kitten that we're planning to adopt #his foster mom sends me pictures of him and his siblings + mother #bless they are all too cute #things are looking up slowly but surely

[hamadacare-xoxo]

Mun, have you played/seen the Big Hero 6 portion of Kingdom Hearts 3 at all and would you ever consider it canon to your blog?

This is a good, thought-provoking ask!

No, I haven’t played the Big Hero 6 portion in Kingdom Hearts, but have I seen it? Yes. Whether I consider it canon to my blog however I think it’s going to be a weird answer but I’ll try my best to be concise!

I think it’s a yes and no answer. No because Tadashi is alive according to my blog. This immediately voids too many things from latest BH6 installations such as ... how everyone acknowledges that he’s dead and their life goes on basically, right?

However, yes because in my blog, I headcanon that Tadashi does not know the identities of Big Hero 6. This convenience allows BH6 to still undergo through the adventures that they did, such as their Kingdom Hearts adventure.

In conclusion, I have yet to 100% flesh out the glitches that comes from me wanting to make Tadashi canon-divergent. I have a certain way of perceiving the universe I currently set him in. (Can be read about here)

And because Tadashi is not in the Kingdom Hearts game, only mentioned in memory, I think that is up for BH6 members roleplayers to decide, so long as they respect that my Tadashi is alive, just unaware of what they’re going through. Perhaps that Tadashi is one of the many civilians that wonder what is going on in San Fransokyo.

But to go back to my universe I set Tadashi in, I don’t think I would consider Kingdom Hearts 3 canon because I haven’t played the game and I’m not knowledgeable of its lore because I’m sure it’s a lot. But I am not opposed to BH6 or other Disney muses to consider it imperative to their blog and want to interact with me.

#‘⠀I AM SATISFIED WITH MY CARE ( OOC ) #cw death mention #{ I wouldn't be a fan of making Tadashi a ghost or something like that- } #{ Tadashi is such a well-written soul and it's such a shame to me that Disney did him nasty. And that's why I made this blog to ignore-- } #{ --what Disney did to him. I know in the tags I'm getting off topic now. I just really want to stress that I'm not going to be obeying-- } #{ --canon like. at all for rp's to make sense. } #{ Truth of the matter is though: my sibling and I are developing this thang together because .. we rp together so yeah! :-) } #{ Expect a bunch of headcanons eventually! We're doing lot's of fixing to the Disney universe and our characters. } #{ They rp Hiro. but our rps are outside of Tumblr. I just happen to have a blog of Tadashi here because .. I love this hobby online too. } #{ We rp in irl. It's so weird but we go to bed. just lay there. and voice act for these characters with the lights off-- } #{ --I know it's weird and it doesn't make sense but I'm not explaining myself lol }

[ljf613]

ayame sohma is very near and dear to my heart

#fruits basket #furuba #thoughts #ayame sohma #i relate to him WAY too much #older siblings who messed up and now dote on younger siblings who find them super annoying UNITE!!! #his story gives me a lot of hope #(and his friendship with shigure reminds me of me and my best friend since we were in grade school together) #(even though personality wise we're both very different from them) #all queued up

[hyperfixation-or-death]

I just really like the idea of Sam and Victor genuinely caring about each other, but there still being this disconnect caused by their parents' unintentional favoritism. Like, being raised in that kind of environment does affect your relationships with others. And Sam knows that their parents are unfair to Victor, and Victor knows that they put too much pressure on Sam, but there's still a bit of resentment between them. There's still the itching for someone to blame. There's still the thoughts that they would never say out loud, except 'never' only lasts until it doesn't, and suddenly Sam's saying things he doesn't know if he actually means or not, and Victor's getting dangerously defensive, and now half of the lawn is dead, and everyone feels guilty. It's a tangled mess of you're the only one who could possibly understand what I have to deal with, and you are never going to understand what I have to deal with.

But they're trying. Because maybe they are their parents' children, but that's not all that they are. So, they try to work together, and they try to understand each other, and they try to apologize for things that probably aren't their fault, and most of all, they try to undo their parents' mistakes. And maybe things won't ever be the same as when they were younger, before Sam was the golden child, before Victor was the problem child, before everything started to fester.

But it's a start.

#parallels #paralleles #disney parallels #disney paralleles #parallels disney #paralleles disney #Victor Deslandes #Sam Deslandes #does this make sense? #idk i just have a lot of feelings about dysfunctional families and sibling dynamics and #how we're all just trying to right our parents' wrongs #and stuff #anyways the show never showed us how Sam was affected by his parents attitudes towards him and Victor #so yeah #i'm embarrassed by this but then again I'm embarrassed by everything I post #so it's probably fine