#my mom was a nanny

[haileybirdart]

Oh wow look. It’s my favorite TF2 ship: Scout’s Ma x Spy

#tf2 #team fortress 2 #tf2 spy #tf2 scouts mom #tf2 scout ma #please laugh #literally they are them #my dad works for valve he told me/j #the urge to rewatch the nanny

[sleepless-crows]

now im curious what happened to alby's mom, is it a van eck putting marya in an asylum type of situation, is it like aditi's death type of situation, or is it like kaz's mom where we will never truly know

#like alby was just with his nanny in the show?? we never see his mom?? was she ever mentioned?? poor alby my baby #grishaverse #six of crows #shadow and bone #soc #alby rollins #pekka rollins #jan van eck #marya hendriks #aditi hilli #jesper fahey #kaz brekker

[milimeters-morales]

wanting to write jessica as the strong independent woman who gets shit done because i like seeing black women have power even in scary/uncertain times due to its comforting and familiar nature V.S. wanting to write her as a nervous first-time mom who needs a lot of attention/care, who isn’t perfect, and has a bunch of issues she should have sorted out before this because i don’t like the idea that black women have to always be strong/bold/harsh to be good characters VS only really enjoying writing when it’s about Miles anyway 😭

#like jessica is just my mom or nanny #and i see a person behind all that… however she was acting in atsv like i understood her completely!!!! of course i didn’t agree bc i was+ #a viewer and i knew what was gonna happen but god if i was in that situation i would side with her i’m sorry . no i’m not #and i just want to understand her so much better. i need to know her inside and out and blind and in death #atsv jessica lore i hope you get expanded upon #and then you have me relating to miles so much i don’t generally care to write about others that often 😭😭😭 help #not tagging

[soldier-poet-king]

Should not be feeling prideful abt the fact that I treat housekeeping staff like Actual Human Beings unlike MOST of my office and therefore I got to hear all about her kids and was shyly asked if I could help design & print smthn bc her kids are coming home from college, but like, I AM, this is my crowning achievement at work but really it should just be like. The baseline of human decency. And YET.

Not to be like We Live In A Society but :/

#franposting #anyway its also like. maam. youre old enough to be my mom. im ur kids age #idgaf that i have a desk job and my own office you are clearly My Superior and i will walk across hot coals for you #everyone is SO mean esp to english as additional language learners #and im just. i will fucking kill you all #also the ABSOLUTE like. messes people leave? or just ignore the staff? dont stop and chat? #like yeah we dont speak the same language and sometimes conversations are hard but like. try ur fuckin Best #anyway this isnt even really pride this is just #rage and disgust at how middle class white collar workers treat housekeeping and maintenance #maybe i just got used to growing up poor and working class #and now working an office job im like. wtf. yall really act like this to another human being wtf #theyre not even actively rude its just like. omg dont create extra work thats not her job #stop and say hi and chat. TREAT HER LIKE A COWORKER BC SHE FUCKIN IS #SHES NOT UR GODDAM NANNY SHES A HUMAN BEING I S2G #its made worse by the fact that mt workplace is REDACTED and therefore should know/do better

[queen-scribbles]

Oh yeah, btw, I did definitely get the one temporary part-time job. It's not much, but it's something.

And the timeline for the other thing got a bit more urgent, so I'm gonna call about that later today or tomorrow to see if me doing part time around the other gig is something workable. (Especially since the first one's only until the end of the school year)

#queen rambles #the second thing's a lady my sister used to nanny for #wasn't a good career fit for her but was a nice family so she passed me the mom's contact info #this lady's asked about me three or four times over the past couple years but i was employed. :) #at least--HUGE HELP--i barely owe anything for taxes this year #actually got a federal refund but i owe for state so the refund's just gonna help cover that #that's a massive stressor gone

[mermaidsirennikita]

"he reaches out to protect the heroine..."

:)

"... and the two small children in her care"

:(

#romance novel blogging #lol there are so few authors that do children effectively for me #like... lorraine heath is one #very few others #it's getting to the point where i'm almost just not even trying kid books from my faves #bc there's a strong chance that i just won't enjoy it #even the IAD book with a kid is like my least favorite IAD book #what's funny is that technically the heroine i'm writing is a mom? #but to be fair she isn't one until p late in the book #and babies are easier to keep off-page #and i'm deliberately writing a heroine who LOVES her baby #but does not find motherhood easy or natural #and like takes advantage of the privilege of having nannies #and feels kinda bad about it but is overall like i am a loving mother but being a mom isn't my favorite role #bc idk i think that's important #especially when you're writing a historical wherein motherhood wasn't always something women could opt out of #and especially in this day and age #to have heroines who like do accept motherhood and do love their kids #but aren't like... 'oh this is my favorite thing in the world' #like she's a solid mom and she's a loving mom but would she be a mom TODAY? if she had options? who knows #anyway that's another thing i just really don't often have time for kids and parenting in romance

[nightwings-buttoox]

so i watched Good Omens again

he's just. A guy

#good omens #warlock dowling #he knows who his nanny and farmer actually were and practically BEGGED Crowley to tempt a tattoo artist into letting him get a tattoo #he loves his mom and knows tad's trying but he wishes he was around more often #not me dropping my hcs in the tags rn #he still do be a lil shit doe

[medusa1597]

i put on an album of "cat music" for foufou and its working so well on him he's just laying down with his ears chasing the music

#my mom who's a nanny plays 'zen music' for the children she looks after when theyve been too much in the morning lol #i also listened to the album with my other cat a few years back and he enjoyed it a lot as well

[lilacocclusion]

Your honor, that's the vampire who dated my mom.

#YES I know Charles Shaughnessy has been in so many things including The Nanny but my first introduction was Mom's Got a Date with a Vampire #I was 6 okay #Charles Shaughnessy #spnwin #spnwin spoilers #spoiler #1x10 #spnwin 1x10

[molkolsdal]

i always get sick right before a long weekend or holiday despite being the only person who wears a mask I hate living in this fucking timeline

#nasty ass grown ass people need to learn how to wear a mask or even just cover their mouths when they cough at the very least #and rich pricks with nannies for their kids should keep their snotty nosed brats at home when they're so obviously sick #i know it's different for some parents who cant afford to stay home when their kid is sick so they send them to school anyway #which sucks but what can you do #but half my kids have nannies and the other half have parents who work at home or stay at home moms #so stay the fuck away from me please and thank you

[moghedien]

TWO DOLLARS I got this for. Can you believe the value

#i mean this as unironically as possible #if they had had other seasons I would have gotten them too #when I was a kid my mom but us in front of the nanny after school #i fucking love the nanny #friends wishes is had the cultural impact of the nanny #the sophistication #the LASTING INFLUENCE

[pinkieroy]

When I was a kid I went through a phase of eating plain white rice, and the more I could ball it up to eat with my hands the better

#there are so many signs the more i think about it #once my aunt (who was also sort of my nanny like she worked as a nanny usually so i guess she was getting paid i literally never asked #my mom about it) fell asleep sitting in front of me waiting for me to decide to eat lunch #so a full plate of food meh #plain rice right from the pan yes‼️‼️ #tw disordered eating #text #personal

[mxviko]

Seeing satan be sorta fatherly is just the most but what would be more cool is if it was his own kid-

#GIVE ME MY BABY AND LET HIM HAVE A DAD #the most damien lore I concluded is: he has been nannied or has had a nanny. has a mom that’s on earth (lesbin) and #his father used to be stereotypical ‘son get me a beer’ dad and is very immature. typical sp dad #but then I see how he was with Stan and it’s like aww omg he needed this but WHERES YOURS?? #i want to ramble forever about this #v rambles

[thursdayglrl]

watching nanny (2022) and I think the scene where the mom comes home, not having paid aisha for working overtime and overnight over and over again, and starts talking about "you know what it's like. being a woman, overseeing every thing. expected to get drinks with with the boys every Friday." while aisha, who has not had the time to see her own child because of the hours she works unpaid, watches blankly is EXACTLY why barbie and other similar movies didn't do much for me

#like im not black so i cant speak on that. nanny is not about me or my experience #but its like my mom used to clean houses. the houses of wealthier women! #i know people in my community and like. my circle my family etc who have had to give up things like family time and holidays #to clean houses babysit do nails and hair #and it wasnt just men hiring them! it wasnt just men who bullied and harrassed women out of school and out of jobs #anyways so when your biggest feminism issue is like. very vague catcalling and haha men are in power but theyre stupid! #its like. get off the stage!

[handweavers]

yesterday i saw the seal and we looked at each other for a while and then he swam away, and then a robin landed on the tree next to me and we also just looked at each other for a few moments before it flew away, and then i just stood there silently for a minute before bursting into tears and spent the next half hour just standing there on the grass and crying so hard i couldn't see. so that's how i'm doing<3

#robins were my nannys favourite bird.. whenever my mom or i see one its always right when we need to

[andreakedavra]

i'm so so so mad but i gotta smile through it all like my lord jesus christ

#both my mom and sisters are out tonight having a blast #but i'm at home with my other siblings as if i were some sort of nanny... i swear i'm about to kill myself #sure i don't have money nor a partner but am i not allowed to go out and have fun?... #andrew talks