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Friday, Jan. 20 at 8:00 p.m.
LURED (1947)
A taxi dancer helps the police catch the serial killer who murdered her best friend.
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there's something really magical when you're learning a new skill, and the switch suddenly flips from, "wait, what do I do here?" to "oh, I know exactly what to do here!" and you realize that you've actually learned something! that you've worked hard and studied and now you don't have to look up youtube tutorials, you don't have to stare at documentation and instructions, you can just...do stuff!
the only downside here is that this feeling is very addictive, and you'll soon find yourself with more hobbies than you have the free time or physical space for
ah, well. worth it!
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'I flirted with the idea that instead of being trans that I was just a cross-dresser (a quirk, I thought, that could be quietly folded into an otherwise average life) and that my dysphoria was sexual in nature, and sexual only. And if my feelings were only sexual, then, I wondered, perhaps I wasn’t actually trans.
I had read about a book called The Man Who Would Be Queen, by a Northwestern University professor who believed that transwomen who were attracted to women were really confused fetishists, they wanted to be women to satisfy an autogynephilia. And though I first read about this book in the context of its debunkment and disparagement, I thought about the electricity of slipping on those tights, zipping up those boots, and a stream of guilt followed. Maybe this professor was right, and maybe I was only a fetishist. Not trans, just a misguided boy.
About a year later, on the Internet, I come across a transwoman who added a unique message to the crowd refuting this professor. Oh, I wish I remember who this woman was, and I wish even more that I could do better than paraphrase her, but I remember her saying something like this: “Well, of course I feel sexy putting on women’s clothing and having a woman’s body. If you feel comfortable in your body for the first time, won’t that probably mean it’ll be the first time you feel comfortable, too, with delighting in your body as a sexual thing?”'
-Casey Plett, Consciousness
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Enjoying the shadows at the Huntington Library
Harman Phoenix 200 🎞️
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Also if anyone is curious here's my big dumb very very roughly ranked list of shit I've listened to over the last yearish
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So
I learned a thing yesterday and chewed on it a bit before deciding to share, but I have to.
My spouse shared a "Things you think are illegal that aren't." article with me, specifically one line item, and I have to admit - I really thought it was illegal myself, but! it really makes sense why it isn't.
Step-Siblings can get married.
Commonly referred to as Step-cest in fandom circles, there's nothing actually incestuous about step-siblings getting their get-it-on on. Since incest is defined by being too closely related in a biological sense, and also by definition step-siblings are not blood related.
if they were they'd be half-siblings or just siblings.
I just wanted to share, from a social stand point I find it really interesting because I really did think it was illegal - I knew it was at the minimum at least frowned upon, but that's just social hang ups.
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unfortunately those Cutting and Deep h3ather havril3sky ask polly "here's why you're lonely/here's the empathy failure holding you back" excerpts everyone loves to post
are just permanently recontextualized for me by her series of op-eds about how everyone in her family is an incomprehensible one-dimensional pod beast with completely unlovable preferences for things like "starbucks drinks" and "conversations about their lives", which she tolerates, with enormous difficulty, only through a sense of duty and a bunch of rationalizations about how actually it makes her sexier and cooler that she's willing to endure it
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advice column: my roommate is boy obsessed and it's kind of driving me up the wall. she calls it "husband fever" (like baby fever) and this fine, whatever, to each their own, i support women's rights and wrongs, etc. but she won't stop trying to do the same for me. my guy friend ordered me sushi as a thank you for carrying him through a coding project and she basically kept doing a conversation equivalent of "ooooooooooo do you like him", like the shit they do in middle school. she kept asking me multiple questions like if i wanted to date him or if i thought he was cute (one no should suffice. like stop asking) and it's irritating. i (mostly) like my roommate and i tolerate it, but i can't stand when she doesn't listen to me.
i think the overarching issue is that i hate having to explain myself to people who are so obsessed with romance it's almost inconceivable for men and women to be friends if one of them isn't gay. am i in the wrong here?? i'm so sick of having to be on edge every time i try to talk about a friend that happens to be a dude. not only is is really amatonormative, i just think it's tacky to think of men as some strange separate entity that can only ever be useful for dating/marriage/sex. they're just people. he's my friend. there is nothing else to it.
omg i get you SO BAD anon men and women can definitely be friends without there being an ounce of romance between them even if neither of them is gay! idk why but there are so many people i know that act like everytime i spend time with a guy it's romantic
i'm sure your friend means well (we all have that one matchmaker friend) but i can definitely understand her questions grating on you...i think honestly the best course of action is to be assertive and let her know very very clearly that you don't have interest in the sushi guy (and/or any of your other guy friends)—something along the lines of "hey, on a serious note i really don't like when you insinuate that there's something going on between me and xyz. i also dont feel this way about any of my guy friends, and it makes me uncomfortable when you water our relationship down to something that's leading to a romantic one" -> i get not wanting to be confrontational (i also am not a big fan of confrontation) but i sincerely believe your roommate doesn't hate you enough to continue something you explicitly say you dislike, my best guess is that rn she kind of sees it as teasing but if you make your boundaries clear she wont have issues with not crossing them :)
on the topic of every relationship you have with the opposite gender being like, perceived as romantic...i hate this!!! some of my most fulfilling and closest relationships are with women but equally so men—when i say that i dont have romantic feelings for my female best friend ppl will be way more inclined into believing it than if i said the same about my male best friend, yk? i think like you said it comes down to "having a man" kind of being seen as a status symbol rather than an actual person + the rise of "my boy best friend" content on tiktok and ig...all we can do is keep our intentions clean, my friend, and carry on!
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Yall ever think about how the percentage sign % is just the divided sign ÷ turned on the side kinda? BecAUSE I DO !!! But I took statistics too many times so I'm like probably completely insane at this point. Understanding averages and percentages and probability and shit does something to a mf
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the main thing serious reading and my way are doing for me is that they're making me want to make a little in universe news podcast for price of power
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... is it bad that i've gone from never caring about what kind of plane i was going to be on but now feel the need to check if the airline i've been booked on has boeings
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why are people so concerned with policing women's leg hair like bro if you're seeing leg hairs she is not wearing pants. get with it!!!
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being irritable is not a good combo w how apps keep auto refreshing and scrolling to the top... it makes me feel such homicidal rage i want to hit smth ._.
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I've decided social media is pretty bad for my mental health actually* and logged out of all of them (including tumblr!) on my phone (never used apps so didn't have to uninstall any) and can only access them on my laptop. this automatically limits the time I spend on these platforms and aside from tumblr I've also essentially removed all content from them anyway using ublock origin so I can only use them to check on what my friends are doing and then leave again
y'all won't believe how many hours there are in a day
*more specifically sort of the combination of "I can't stop scrolling once I'm there bc I simply lack this self control and need to not have easy access to avoid it" and the stuff ppl usually talk about like rage farming and misinformation and doomscrolling bad news and both watching and committing digital self harm
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