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kay-selfships · 17 hours

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me clicking “not interested” on a post about a canon x canon ship involving my f/o knowing full well it doesn’t do anything

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cinderellahoneymoon · 8 months

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tbh if we're talking abt issues in the selfship community i GOTTA bring up the exclusion of darker skinned poc cause its rampant. so many imagine posts have "running their hands through your hair" or "cheeks flushing red" or the obvious intent of meaning eurocentric features and it pisses me off!! yall have GOT to work on being more inclusive in your writing!!

and that doesnt even mention the way darker skinned ppls ships get reblogged a lot less and that most of the selfship content i see getting the most notes is from white/light-skinned people. pls if u see selfship content for or from darker skinned ppl help it get more traction we r struggling out here 🙏🏾

{pro/comship dni. electric chair}

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desertsandsnstarrysky · 2 months

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I headcanon Prussia as pansexual, panromantic. No doubts about it.

The man might lean more towards females, femme- characters however~ feel free to disagree but that’s my theory on that.

And yes, most might think he’s sexually repulsed, I do not agree with this. He’s just in denial how much he thinks about sex. He’s like a horny former religious maniac. Has it bad and repressed.

Loves the idea of being into oral and all that nonsense, like I’m fairly certain the dude loves looking at genitalia.

Into face sitting for sure, and he loves to personally strip his partner down. He also is pretty dominant for the most part, but I can believe once in a while he might enjoy someone putting him in his place.

Loves fucking out in the woods. And more than likely prone to wanting to have sex publicly in a sneaky way, or secluded area like the woods or otherwise.

Really into dirty talk and loves calling you names and you call him names. And saying that sweet, nasty good shit.

Power play, loves tomboys. But also loves really dainty, femme people as well. Can fuck and cum multiple times throughout the day and wants rough sex. Wants to spank your ass, an ass man, but he like da booba too. Has secret desires for milfs/cougars/older women.

Bratty foreplay and power play.

If you’re a brat like him, makes it all the more fun.

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selfshipping-haven · 20 days

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I don't really see this at all so I'll be the one to say it.

Selfshippers with chronic fatigue, please don't feel bad. Your f/o accepts you as you are. They accept that you might not have enough energy to accomplish very much. They're very sympathetic to your plights. If you're tired when you spend time together, they don't really care if you can't do very much because they're just happy to be in your presence. If you want to just take a nap, they'll be happy to just cuddle up with you. They feel very sorry for you, but they also believe in you to do what you need.

#Honestly sometimes I feel like I'm the only one with this problem #So idk if this will spread #self ship #self shipping #selfship #selfshipping #f/o

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selfshipseaside · 4 months

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☆ Reminder to all self-shippers that if you're considered or have been told that you're unpleasant to sleep next to, your f/o doesn't care at all! In fact, they love your sleeping quirks and will always accommodate any sleeping disorders! Whether you snore in your sleep, or require a sleeping aid to help your breathing, they don't mind whatsoever! And they also don't find it annoying! So long as you're safe and comfortable, it doesn't matter to them. If you toss and turn a lot, or have really bad insomnia, your f/o understands, and rest assured it's okay! They don't mind it, and they aren't annoyed with you no matter how many videos you want to watch before you fall asleep, or how may times you need to flip your pillow to the cool side. If you're a bit of a blanket stealer, trust and believe that they don't mind having a bit of a game of tug-of-war with the blankets! They might even just roll you up in a blanket of your own and hold you close, like a little sleepy caterpillar. If you have chronic nightmares or night-terrors, your f/o will be by your side to help aid you when you awake from such frightening things. They'll hold you if you need that, they'll talk you out of your terrified state, they'll listen if you need to say anything about it. They don't mind doing that for you, because they will always want to be there to help you. And of course, if you sleep talk or sleep walk? They're also okay with that too, they might even find it amusing if you're speaking nonsense in your sleep, and they'll make sure you get back into bed if you start walking around in the middle of the night.

#self-ship #selfship #selfshipping #self-shipping #selfship imagines #selfshipping imagines #f/o imagine #self insert imagine #self insert #f/o imagines #selfship positivity #romantic f/o #shout out to me who may or may not do all of these things #...#its surprising how i have all of these actually i didnt even realize #wowie i have sleeping problems!

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bobmckenzie · 3 months

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your f/o would remember and always consider your dietary needs, btw. they care about you, they don't want you to eat anything that could make you sick or have you feeling out of sorts. maybe you have a very specific eating schedule, or can't eat out at many places, or often need to ask about ingredients or food prep (they'll ask for you, if you want them to!), whatever it is, it's okay. there is nothing burdensome to them about making sure you're healthy and happy and eating well ❤️

#self indulgent post time LOL #i never really worry about my vegetarianism being a 'problem' (tho some f/os would def tease me abt it 😅)#but i have so much stuff i cant handle when it comes to food that it does make eating a bit complicated 🧍‍♀️#i just like to think it wouldnt bother or annoy them and theyd be understanding with me ❤️#food mention #tw food #selfshipping #selfship imagines #selfship positivity #safeshipping #safeship #f/o imagines #caitiechat #imagines 💭

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yaoicrack · 23 days

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imagine you are studying in europe and theres this dude (mee) that pisses you off so bad and you kind of accidentally kill him so you try to revive him but it doesn't work so his body gets taken away for burial and then you kind of kill your father figure (unimportant) so you go back to america. and there you go into your pathological anatomy class and the FIRST GUY (mee :3) you killed is there. he's like half dead in a way it's a little gross but hes there just chillin. well that's what im putting herbert west through.

(u can click to see it less blurry -_-)

#ok 2 rb!#i am the only reanimation gone right and yet i will still find a way to be a problem in his life #selfship #self insert #self insert art #selfship art #selfship community #f/o community #my art

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krk-wa · 3 months

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Redraw 01/12/23 || 7/02/24

Redraw? Idk, morelike their character development 🤣

Topic aside, still cant believe that by simping your fictional bae can also effect your whole drawing.

#Weird. this old fanart that i just redraw was actually made when im at my worse. first fanart of selfship..#Idk why so suddenly. i fall for him. and that actually helps me a lot from distracting sum problem?? Ngl #at least.. i can now have 'someone' to cheers me up #Im not actually planning to make selfship at first but now being delusional is the only things to keep me sane besides frans #and now the main reason why i created my selfship is because i want him to cheers me #sorry the ramble 😂

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kay-selfships · 6 months

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you can selfship with that popular character when you get jealous easily but watch out

#seeing thirst posts about my f/os makes me wanna gnaw at the walls bc??? i agree??? but at the same time aaaaAAAAA #self ship #self ship community #self shipping #selfship #selfship problems #selfshipping problems #f/o community #self insert #f/o #selfshipping #romantic f/o #fictional other #self insert x canon #selfship memes #selfshipper #self shipper

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cinderellahoneymoon · 8 months

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canon ship w my f/o that i have to admit is really cute but also dont show me that shit

{pro/com.ship dni. nothing about you is cute and your "f/o" doesn't love you.}

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desertsandsnstarrysky · 2 months

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I headcanon Germany as heteroflexible, demisexual.

Sorry. And if you wanna disagree with me, you’re on your own.

🤷🏻‍♀️

(And I don’t care about all the ship art and fan fiction, I avoid it like it’s a plague xx)

Germany is a switch and he loves dominatrixes~

He also loves to body worship any woman he does get into contact with and loves to play as the shy, submissive type. Usually into “dommy mommy” stuff.

Likes when female partner tells him to dress up cute for him and wants to serve her. He also wants to be human furniture for his lady/femme partner.

Loves when his female partner yells and talks shit to him. And sometimes he can be a bit of a prick at first, provoking female/femme dominant to get authoritative and bossy. Just a bit of power play at first~ then he caves once the female partner is determined and strong willed.

Germany with that said equally loves brats and is quite a bit of a brat tamer. Even though they sometimes can piss him off, it makes him extremely excited to a point of wanting to aggressively top them.

Secret romantic but doesn’t even realize, he’s a bit clueless on that.

Possessive as hell and gets off on the idea of being marked.

Uses sex as a way to release tension once he’s established close bond with partner.

Is into hardcore bdsm, that’s canon shit duh.

Has a basement filled sex toys and furniture. Sex dungeon my homies~

He may have had drunk sex before a few times.

People think he might be the type to not get down and dirty, but I think he straight up wants his partner to spit on him and cum on his face.

Very meticulous about how he gives oral, especially female genitalia, he would probably “observe and analyze” absorbing all detail of said vulva. And probably licks while finger fucking them. Has a fascination with pushing and rubbing that clitoris.

Would tie you up and purposely make you edge and then “punish” you for without given the command.

Ties you up and just analyzes how good you look while tied up. Will comment on how naughty you been.

Loves to train bratty girls, the messier and unkempt a girl is, the more he wants to “father” her.

Is probably into being a daddy dom, I mean let’s be real he’s called the “Vaterland” for a reason.

He’s a switch! He’s great at being a dom, but he loves to be submissive as well.

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starmonsterrr · 4 months

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This joke is gonna be the death of me

Anyway happy 2024, I'm 2 days late I know

Yes they are holding hands (also they're in outertale)

Yes I put a subliminal message in the firework colors (I would put more flags but there's too many and I wanted to avoid clutter so I did what seemed like the main ones)

#corv draws #corv's io #utmv oc #undertale au oc #the starry night (selfship)#ink sans #utmv #undertale au #these two probably prepared the fireworks together and Ink was the one who put the “happy new year 2013” thing somehow without Io noticing #and Io just rolled with it once the fireworks fired their work #it almost tried to tell Ink that it's 2003 (yes Io has the same problem but another year)#but it decided that “oh well he's funny so I'll let them be”#ink sans x oc

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sporesgalaxy · 7 months

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things gathering dust in the layers of my file for the last few days or something

#1pc #chucklebug #selfshipping but it sucks is so funny. me and my guy who have every problem and are doing a shit job. we can improve though 💪 maybe lol #chucklebuggy

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dirtynot-e · 4 months

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hm. to pay close attention to my f/o[s]'s neck. to alternate between sloppy kisses and licks and love bites. to feel the goosebumps on my tongue as I run it over their pulse point. to hear them whimper and see them shift around, trying to get a crumb of friction and relief.

to kiss their shoulder, then their collarbone, then their chest. to go lower and lower until I'm kneeling down there, poking my tongue out and teasing the crease between their inner thigh and crotch.

feeling their hand as they bury it in my hair and instinctively push my head where they need it the most. and then giving them the sloppiest, messiest blowjob ever because they deserve every second of it.

MINORS, PRO/COMSHIP, TRANSPHOBES DNI. HP/AOT FANS FUCK OFF.

#haha early morning/late night thoughts go brrr #I have cute boys on the brain and I'm going to make it everyone's problem.#I just want a pathetic wet kitten (affectionate) to kiss and tease and pleasure rhrhrh is that too much to ask? 😔#f/o nsft #f/o smut #f/o spice #selfship nsft #selfship smut #selfship spice #selfshipping nsft #selfshipping smut #selfshipping spice #f/o imagines.#f/o things.

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tinyfantasminha · 5 months

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Hi I’m not sure if you’re aware put people are going around screenshotting your tumblr and sharing it on callout and adult yume hate tweets. I felt so weird messaging that’s why anon but I wanted to let you know about it, with the harassment and doxxing that has happened recently! I’m a fellow Jack yume and adore your art so this is sad to see.

This is one of the occurrences.

x(DOT)com/riddlehoe_/status/1729650574541406714?s=46&t=kTkdN9P14joudjwCx7-lhQ

So called ''normal people'' when they got nothing to do

Yeah I'm aware of the rabid anti-yume swarm in twitter..... I've seen plenty of moots getting hate campaigns and being doxxed to the point where I'm almost desensitized to it. What's the point of persecuting yumeshippers?? Especially the adult ones who quite literally keep the game alive and running for consuming and making content and buying merch? So they can feel entitled to the non-existent anime boy and feel morally superior for not having ''disGusTInG THOUGHTS'' about an imaginary little guy despite literally commiting a cybercrime and thinking they've just did a favor society?? Truly a priviledged chronically online teenager moment™

I was already expecting to get hate at some point but thankfully I've been focusing on my academic and social life lately so discourses online just seem more and more insignificant and irrelevant (as they always should be) going outside and touching grass is really healing and important to make you realize that there are greater irl problems to worry about than protecting fictional characters and harassing strangers on the internet, everybody should do that methinks 🧡

I might be a target of doxxing one day and honestly??:? I don't care. It's gonna be funny as hell. Cause it's probably some american teenager who thinks that doxxing an user in another country is gonna make the FBI arrest me for kissing my fictional blorbo in my head and that I'll be beaten up on the streets lol. Mini Karen, I assure you no one in south america cares about fictional character discourses to the point of making threats as much as people in the US do (and u guys somehow think that's normal behaviour) much LESS in my city, it's gonna do nothing 😭

Anyway, thanks for the heads up!!! I hope you thrive with your yume with Jack, he needs more love, don't let gatekeeper losers ruin your vibe 💗💗💗💗

#answered ask #if you find yourself getting worked up over petty online discourse ask yourself:#''will that problem still persist once I log off social media and step outside?'' and reflect on it #then you will realize that there are greater issues here #theres anti-lgbtq laws being approved and genocides going on rn and your biggest priority is doxxing someone for selfshipping??#be fucking serious.......

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selfshipseaside · 7 months

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#This is for curiosities sake only! I've been seeing a lot of people identifying as this recently #so I want to gauge how many we have here and self-shipper's opinions on it as a community as well as Yumejoshi's #I'm a bit mixed about it.#Not in a negative way #just a “trying to be aware” kind of way. I think mayhaps it might be getting romanticized/used more because of the Japanese terminology #rather than say. it's literal differences in title and identity. I just don't know! That's why I'm asking.#lord knows this community has an asian fetishist problem!#fandom spaces and titles get murky and it's hard to gauge a lot of things like intention #So let me know y'all!!#Once again. not trying to be negative whatsoever. I'm just curious!#selfship #selfshipping #yumejoshi #yume #self ship community #self ship poll

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