#specifically my boyfriend though

[a-sketchy]

persona misogyny is so fucking wild. ignoring literally everything else about the entire rest of the games, every single s.link with a female character is like “entirely for having been born a woman i have had to work twice as hard for a fraction of the benefit. even now, i am stripped of my agency in a position i never wanted in the first place” and/or “i’m put on a pedestal by the people in my life because of my looks. men see me as an object to be conquered, women hate me for ‘stealing’ ‘their’ men. if i’m withdrawn i’m a bitch, if i’m friendly i’m easy. because of this, i’m alone” and/or “because of my personality or hobby or lack of cooking skills, i feel like i’m failing at femininity. if being a woman is something i can fail at, then where does that leave me? i’m scared at the loss of my identity and place in society”

like very consistently they present female characters with complex thoughts towards their place in society as women, femininity as a whole, and facing issues stemming from misogyny, and then the payoff is always “my problems were entirely my own fault. i wasn’t strong enough, i was a coward. but now, i’m gonna work hard to be exactly what society expects me to be (which is what i want to be)! i’m gonna do better at femininity (which is still something tangible i can fail at)! i’m going to try hard at making friends (which was my fault for not doing)! all my problems are solved through personal responsibility (that im totally culpable for), effort (which i previously was not putting in), or you, a man! i am Happy and Satisfied with this outcome, can i be Your woman?”

and like hello? why are we here. what the fuck are we doing. why do we keep doing this every single time. can we not do the constant lukewarm attempts at criticizing misogyny so you can jerk off to your own thoughtfulness, while ultimately reinforcing patriarchal systems and brushing off any deeper misogyny-bred issues as a lack of deference to one’s rightful place in society? like maybe don’t do that? for fucking once? just an idea

#i’d really need to rewatch slinks to give more indepth thoughts or pull specific examples #but i’m right and i pace about it every day #i’m not really talking about naoto that’s a whole other can of worms a long way down the line #rambles #if persona’s all about wish fulfillment where’s my persona game where i can be a feminist huh #p4g posting #p3p posting #yeah both of those. i’m not far enough in p4 to have seen the payoff but i know that its fucking persona 4 #and jesus christ yukiko!! i only vaguely know of ai. chie in the main story/dialogue options you have #jesus christ the dialogue options. can you ask literally every girl if they have a boyfriend?? and ‘thats very feminine’ DIE #and man p3p. persona main plot misogyny is weird when you’re on the other side of it #it’s a very different experience being the one getting peeped on #and then saori. and mitsuru. and fuuka. kinda rio. idr a single thing about yukari’s slink i’m sorry but probably her too #also my vague recollection of p5 with haru. ann by default though idr her slink #and goddd of course the. everything else. i’m not touching on. main plot misogyny and inherent writing stuff and etc etc etc etc etc etc et #GOD. #persona is hell

[aroaceleovaldez]

emo Nico x scene Will Solace...

#pjo #riordanverse #nico di angelo #will solace #solangelo #i need them to be cringe (affectionate) teenagers okay #give me Will with a hardcore homestuck phase and streaks in his hair dyed with kool-aid and striped armsocks #date night is Will teaching Nico how to make kandi bracelets #if youve been here awhile you may know i am a scene Jason believer and the same concepts apply here #listen i just think. emphasizing Nico being emo and giving him a scene boyfriend #its very important though that only certain riordanverse chars fit the vibe to be scene kids #like i dont think Percy would be as much as i want him to be #its antithetical to his character (internalized ableism/bad self-loathing/keeps his head down) #Will and Jason on the other hand would use XD unironically and have a total ball making sparkledog fursonas #Alex Fierro. DEFINITE scene kid. Magnus is already just kind of a little emo. Sadie is a definite yes. Carter. maybe. #i think he'd be adverse at first but kinda get into it casually yknow. he'd dig kandi bracelets at least. #probably get really into linguistic breakdown of xD rAnDoM speech just for fun #Walt no but he could. like. i think he'd be open to trying it. but its not his default state. #Zia. doesnt have the energy but i kinda wanna see it regardless. i think itd be fun for her but on her own she'd lean more goth #Leo? maybe. depends. he's more into doing stuff ironically. Piper. yes. but specifically as an f-you to conventional fashion #Reyna no. Frank maybe. Hazel yes. Thalia maybe. Annabeth hmm. maybe #i think thats all the main casts. Alabaster? YES and i wanna see it. #anyways thank you for coming to my emo x scene ted talk and character evaluations in the tags

[scoliosisgoblin]

anyway, here's Jay and Peter au's

based on looks Jay would be Gomez and Peter would be Morticia, though their personalities are switched, sooo

#anyway so I wanna get into the monster au #so Peter lost his hair not through a video but through risking his life to save Jay from being killed #it was like a public execution but modern. they're monsters in a human world basically #Jay always kept hidden. wore bandanas and beanies to cover his snakes #btw Peter obviously is obsessed with the snakes #Jay and Peter didn't get along in the beginning #vampire Peter is more obsessive #they both live in the woods. Jay much deeper #oh yeah so Peter lost his hair cause he was running out in the sun and was set ablaze by it #most of his clothes and hair burnt off (his skin burnt a bit but healed ofc) #and yeah idk they just ran off to the woods. whenever people would go looking for them — either Peter would feed on them #or Jay would turn them to stone #SPECIFICALLY in my au Jay can look Peter in the eyes and he won't turn to stone due to not technically being alive #they weren't sure of it so Jay just kept his glasses on. during a fight one day Jay removed them trying to turn him to stone #though Peter was OBVIOUSLY hurt by it. he was mesmerized. so yeah he doesn't turn to stone looking in Jay's eyes but rather hypnotized (?) #but yeah that's the lore for a silly post #my art #your boyfriend game #void #jay/jacob #vampire #monster au #yb art #yb fanart #yb peter #yb fandom #yb game #your boyfriend peter #your boyfriend fanart #peter dunbar

[tazdrgaoneyetagain]

a bit late to the fnaf movie hype but look at them.

#tax evasion #fnaf #fnaf movie #fnaf freddy #fnaf bonnie #fnaf chica #fnaf 1 #BONNIE IS MY BOYFRIEND BTW. ALL OF THE VERSIONS. SPECIFICALLY FNAF 1 BONNIE SHADOW BONNIE AND GLAMROCK BONNIE THOUGH

[forcedhesitation]

unique greetings?? hello??

the romance-specific greeting only seemed to trigger once I entered act 3, despite jantar having gone through the dance cutscene fairly early into act 2.

the regular high friendship one is a greeting I've gotten before in corydalis' save, as well as "always good to talk, my friend," but both lines of dialogue randomly disappeared at some point, and wyll only greeted corydalis with "well met." well, up until today, I guess.

I have to wonder if these will once again randomly disappear because they are clearly bugged and larian just won't fix them once and for all...

...please...stop doing this to the gate's most beautiful little prince...

#bg3 #thoughts about media #wyll ravengard #has wyll always had a romance specific greeting and no one knew because it's been bugged this whole time??? #I wonder if he has more than one actually... #because on corydalis' save- the only greeting I was able to trigger was the “let's talk” greeting. #and I know for a fact that max friendship wyll can greet you with “always good to talk my friend.” #so I wonder if there is another greeting besides “I'm here for you. always.” #star has many different ones depending on how much he likes your tav/where you are in his romance. #he and SH have a ridiculous amount of material compared to everyone else though...so not really a useful frame of reference. #halsin has...two? maybe three? if I'm remembering correctly? #but I'm not certain of how many unique voicelines other companions have for romance specific greetings. #I've only ever romanced star halsin and wyll. and this wyll line never played for me b4 today. #I'm working on gale next so I can complete my collection of boyfriends but it'll take ~30 hrs to get to the kissing. #maybe even faster since this will be the millionth time I through act 1. but still a sizeable amount of time. unfortunately for my patience

[unopenablebox]

only two things are beasts. animals and my girlfriend

#as always reverse cat lady in effect. sublimating through affection to my girlfriend my desperate desire for companion animals #box opener #gf is usually a nice beast but sometimes a tragic beast or (i tell them) experiencing beast sorrows #animals are not as often beasts as my girlfriend who is always a beast. often it is 🌸 who is the first to identify e.g. a bedraggled beast #in the image of a deflated bathed yorkie #but they can be beasts to me as well though it occupies less of my internal monologue. a small extremely chipper black and tan poodle i saw #today was definitely a beast. and also outrageously charming #other things less so. at times. #girlfriend tag #i'm not sure im a specific noun to 🌸 other than rarely and preciously boyfriend. usually i just get delighted gerunds #e.g. said in an immensely thrilled tone: ''sulking?? oh‚ sulking??!!?!?'' #i was sulking. it was adorable of me as well.

[harboretum]

Drew my spouse’s babygirls in socks

#the concern #Vernon Lanercost #Ciro Definitelastname #I don't. really have an explanation other than I have been aggressively tired lately lol #happy new year #also Ciro is one of the vampires in the vampire town in my campaign #invented by my spouse because they decided vernon needed a boyfriend lol #he is a sculptor and makes really good turkish coffee and has nine cats #he's also the vampire representative in the town who works with the human mayor to make sure the vampires in town are properly considered #and was dating vernon in secret because vernon was the head of a vampire-hunting family and as such was specifically banned from the town #a series of circumstances caused vernon to accidentally become a vampire and fake his death though so now he's retired and living with ciro #and is now living his best life because he gets to see plot stuff and be like ''oh :) that's no longer my problem :) have fun though :)'' #and have dinner with his beautiful boyfriend in their lovely home

[erabundus]

good  afternoon!  i've  made  a  small  addition  to  my  rules  —  namely,  the  only  kazuha  i  will  be  shipping  with  is  @momijiba.  this  does  NOT  mean  i'm  no  longer  open  to  interacting  with  other  kazuhas  —  i  would  still  love  to  plot  other  kinds  of  relationships.  (  platonic.  antagonistic.  etc.  )  i'm  still  open  to  ships  with  other  muses.  i'm  just  not looking to explore  anything  romantic  with  any  kazuha  other  than  milla's.

#𝟎𝟎𝟏 : 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯. ◟ ooc .◝ #( i'll reblog this one more time later this evening. ) #( this probably comes as a surprise to no one bc i've been asked about it a few times before. ) #( by default i'm not ship exclusive though i tend to only write a very small handful of ships w/ a lot of build up & planning regardless. ) #( especially w/ ren because he's such a messy character i feel like we have to talk bc i'm going to be apologizing a lot for his bs ) #( i've just been thinking i'm very invested in everything we've written & plotted for these two ) #( they are literally soulmates they live in my brain rent free ) #( & of course everyone's interpretation of a muse is different! that's one of the things that makes rp so much fun for me. ) #( but i look at milla's kazuha specifically & point like ''that's ren's boyfriend do not separate them'' )

[untouchedsoap]

i know this is mostly just my preference and my protective nature of mickey but it's like uncomfortable for me when people write him new oc partners. and it's so weird because usually i'm someone who does like to mix and match and see how different people fit together etc not necessarily with ocs that's less my taste but still with mickey it's like absolutely not. he knows where he wants to be

#i haven't read fic in so long but since i'm back in a shameless swing i'm looking at some i bookmarked to read forever ago #and this one i like so far and it's a reimagining of later seasons but written during the early seasons you know #and the author gave mickey this boyfriend and my god. like it is personal preference i can't see mickey with anyone other than ian #even though i can see ian with other people mickey is a one trick pony for me. #so i'm already eh but this guy is written like specifically to annoy the hell out of me. #will i persevere for an otherwise interesting fic? yeah. will my stomach hurt while i do so? undoubtedly #will i stay up later than i should and was planning to just to get to a point where mickey breaks up with him in the course of getting with #ian and therefore not having to sleep on the knowledge that this guy is still there in the fic? maybe #ignore me #mickey milkovich #shameless us

[willosword]

thinkin about cloud and tifa at 1:30am. as you do

#they deserve the very specific flavor of qpp i have crafted for them in my head #i dont think they would ever get officially married or have biological kids #i Do think they’d fuck on the reg tho #also dont think they’d refer to each other as ‘girlfriend’ or ‘boyfriend’ #maybe ‘partner’ #though i also think tifa would be huge into sweet romantic gestures and dates #i think they’d have no idea what their relationship actually is #they’d both say something like ‘we’ll have a talk sometime and figure it out ^_^’ #and just repeat that sentiment over and over until they’re old and gray bc they dont actually care ab the labels. this is canon in my heart #willow whispers #final fantasy vii

[werewolfetone]

Lying on my bed giggling kicking my legs thinking abt the changes I just made to my oc lore

#wall of the text in these tags im warning u. #read smth interesting which vaguely inspired me + changing the way i write the entire craig family but esp. frederick... feel as though the #way his situation was depicted before was inappropriately like... light? wrt the fact that fundamentally his arc is about a child falling #in with a hate group and then developing psychic powers out of guilt. it does not make sense in context btw. but in any case i don't like #the way i was handling it before so im changing the way it's written!!! thinking i can do it more realistically now!!! #+ also im making major changes to the family's make up. before it was sarah + frederick & annie + f&a's Evil Uncle + their father who left #to find work + their dead bio mother + sarah's dead husband + sarah's kids. is now s + f&a + Evil Uncle + father who just ran off with his #gf w/o warning them forcing them to move + s' dead BOYFRIEND who she was never married to + dead mum is the same + s' sole kid with her bf #+ the kid who she had with the Evil Uncle. this will further fuck them up which is good as this is necessary for the story to work At All #there is a very good chance many of the other families will also get an update soon including the breen family + wilbur's family... which i #have not even thought about beyond the fact that he has one... #anyway i dont know why im talking about this in the tags. keep my oc insanity contained on the sideblog i specifically made to contain it #challenge -- impossible! #ocs #jory.txt

[codecicle]

do you have a pronouns page?!?1?1? (or something similar)

nope! ive never made anything like that before ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ the closest thing I could think of would be my pinned ^_^

#i make yet anothet post just for me 👍 #we have mail :] #i think my names and pronouns are a little too boring to make into a whole page or something so i just have them and my main info in my pin #overall though if you need anything specific just ask!! you already know my pronouns but for honorifics and shit #just anything vaugely male is totally chill with me #sir boyfriend husband dude man thing eldritch horror who cares #im all of them and everything too why not #and petnames are totally chill at all tjmes too from anyone ever >:DD #youve already seen me and soup call each other babe and i call you honey so whatever you come up with is fine ^_^ #my love felix <3 <3

[justagaycryptid]

Haven’t finished Hannibal yet, on episode 4 of season 3, but I fucking hate how Hannibal is just... good at everything. 

Like the bitch doesn’t just play music he composes his own music too. He’s an excellent artist. He’s a gourmet chef. He’s a talented surgeon. A master of words. Somehow just knows fuckin everything. He even swims for gods sake. 

I want to see him be bad at something. 

Like I want to see him put on a pair of skates and then immediately eat shit. 

#shouting into the void #or like put him on a snowboard because I also think that would be funny #I am rotating him around in my mind like a microwave #bitch (affectionate+derogatory) #god hes such a mary sue #and also a flaming homosexual that man is down BAD for will #I don't think gay sex would fix either of them but I think they should have it anyways #I also saw this blooper thing where Mads Mikkelsen said 'shut up bitch' on an outtake #and its literally so funny #Hannibal should be allowed to say bitch #actually now that I think about it does Hannibal even swear #Hannibal the type of guy to say that swearing makes you look uneducated or some bullshit #and will would be like 'no you need to use the right word in the right context and sometimes that word is fuck' #friend and I were also joking that Hannibal would be the type of guy to be like 'weve been dating in my head for a month now <3' #up there in his stupid fucking mind palace #dudes being all angsty and bitchy because he had a fight with his boyfriend #Hannibal the type of guy to trick someone (will) into signing marriage documents #then he'd look over with that expression he has and go 'hmm technically were married now' #though oh my god I liked a single hannibal post on instagram and now my entire feed is mads mikkelsen #like not even hannibal specifically but mads mikkelsen #like yeah I know a lot of people think hes a dilf but oh my god I am not that interested in the guy #he does a fantastic job as hannibal but I do not need to see him everywhere I promise

[homoqueerjewhobbit]

Reminder that digital reproductions of nondigital artwork are not objective truths. Physical media appears different irl based on light and shadow and how your eye processes it in relation to its surroundings (see also Seurat's painted frames).

Digital scans are subject to the same inconsistencies. The lighting, lens, processing software, and after affects (ie retouching, color correction) can all affect the final image, as will your screen and its settings.

#Think about viewing a painting on your phone vs standing in front of it and realizing how big it is #Think about this every time I search Tumblr for a specific painting #For example this my favorite painting #Or at least top 5 I'm notoriously bad at picking faves #I will go to France and drag my boyfriend an hour+ outside Paris to see it even though he has ½ the tolerance I do for museums #I like the 2nd scan better but I have no idea how it compares to the real thing #Or what 'ideal' viewing conditions are #Renaissance painters were not painting with direct electric lighting in mind #Lots of art we view up close in museums was designed to be seen at a distance #Michelangelo originally sculpted David assuming he'd be put on a roof and viewed from below #Mumbles go watch the art of seeing #Idk what I'm talking about I'm not an art historian or a visual artist or even an expert #Art #Digital art #Art reproductions #piero di cosimo #simonetta vespucci #Art history #Painting #Idk #post o' mine

[pokemonruby]

birth

#i'm in my mid-twenties now huh............................ and i have accomplished nothing :) #it's fine though i'm slowly but surely getting my life together. and i am definitely not coping. #riley rambles #anyways negativity aside i'm going to a fancy restaurant with my boyfriend tomorrow + shopping potentially. he's too good for me i swear. #AND ICE CREAM CAKE!! because normal cake makes me violently ill. not because i find it intolerable but rather my stomach does regrettably. #this art i got of my self-insert encompasses so many emotions that i specifically feel toward being in my mind-twenties now

[ectoplasmer]

i did an oopsie

#qpp: 🍀 #I BOUGHT THE OTHER VOLUMES OF THE MANGA AGSKDHDKS #i started it like three years ago when they first released the first golume of the udg manga #and i never picked it back up >_< #but i did an impulse buy!! and now i have volume 2 of that series + vol two and three of the actual dr2 manga #and i did it. only for ko. </3 #HE’S PRETTY i wanna stare at him in the manga style for a while agsjdhs #also. dr2 just has a suuuuper special place in my heart #i was playing it during quarantine so i think i kinda just. attached myself to it during that time of stress #so the characters in general mean a lot to me and it’s my favorite dr game so <333 #also. ko is in it. soooo instantly means a lot to me lol #if you see me dump a lot of manga panels here No You Don’t #I’M STILL INTO YGO or at least i am. Trying #i am though it is just Specifically ko who is giving me brain rot but #i still think of my boys of course i do <3 was having some difficulties earlier with like. school nervousness and i thought of them and- #-got distracted with how much i adore them so!! they are still there in my brain. unsurprisingly #think of boyfriends when nervous…..