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débutante diaries

weekly journal entries reflecting on my teen years, advising teenage viewers for their adulthood debut

My ignorance sabotaged me.

As smart as I was as a teenager, I didn’t know any better making a lot of past choices. I either followed the misguidance of my mother or had to figure things out myself because no guidance was available.

How could I know any better when my parents, grandparents and other adult authority figures were equally immature?

Immature and ignorant about money, womanhood and specifically dating.

My ignorance has led me to experience many harsh lessons. Lessons that made sure I smartened myself up.

Not even harsh lessons. In fact, many of my “shoulda, coulda, would’ve,” moments come from reflecting on misuse of my time.

Instead of listening to music on my hour plus journey to work, I wish I was listening to podcasts about financial literacy and investing (like Bitcoin! Damn I should’ve!)

Instead of giving grown ass men access inside my teen body, I wish I could have educated myself on abstinence and how to practice hypergamy with boys my age. In addition to preparing myself for dating up as an adult.

I won’t waste time wishing anymore. Instead, I am choosing to teach myself game I deserved to know as a teen. Game about these boys (men now). Game about life and how evil, Shiesty people keep the world balanced.

I have entered a new, interesting part of my womanhood. One which has me reflecting on where I’ve been in life and where I’m going.

Where I’m going is determined by the steps I choose to take. That’s why I’m making more wiser moves, starting with journaling about my teenhood instead of trying my hardest to forget those memories, some memories being my darkest moments.

2024 is already starting off an interesting year. So, let me sign off by stating an intention for success:

I have evolved into a woman who inspires strangers on sight. My aura, attitude and accomplishments attracts additional abundance. I am proud of the person I am and the progress I’ve made.

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How & Why Celibacy Works

Ussy Costs Funds, Ick is Free

Level Up Lecture: Xesual Economics 101

Disclaimer: I am an adult cisgender woman targeting a teen audience. I encourage all teens to share and/or include their parents in the conversation of our posts for the sake of transparency on my adult end. Thank you for your engagement.

The Walmarts keep the Targets in business. The Family Dollars / Dollar Generals fill in the gaps where the Walmarts fall flat

Target: Celibate

Walmart: Xesually Active Singles

Family Dollar / DG: Xes Workers or Misc.

I’m not saying if you’re a xesually active single, you’re cheap as a person. I am highlighting how celibacy is the premium product that’s preferred by customers in the market.

There are people who would drive to another Target if their local one is out of something versus heading to the Walmart or Family Dollar within their location.

POV: You’re selling ussy (p or b in front ;)

Everybody sells ussy even if they are poor businessmen. I’m gonna teach you how to market and leverage your coochie correctly.

Men (masculines) marry for the main incentive: in-house ussy.

Pick Up This Gem: This is why you do not move in with them until you’ve at least received an engagement ring.

You are aware of the fact that all masculines want access to your ussy…eventually. Now that you know this, you are going to dangle it over their heads until they give you the things (or lifestyle) you want.

Marriage

Gifts

Business or personal investments, etc.

Choose which ussy you have:

Target Ussy - higher prices, Starbucks, target customer is not on a tight budget seeking steals, strong brand loyalty (driving to another Target versus visiting competitors)

Walmart Ussy - mid range prices, hit or miss with consumers and their affordability thus the wide range of products

Family Dollar / DG -lowest prices, accessible for low income buyers (girls with cheap bfs or baby daddy’s, not SWers) accessible for buyers seeking instant gratification which is affordability.

Answer Now!: Who is your target customer?

MY TARGET CUSTOMER

Disposable income

Regular shopper

Money management, but generous spending

Most likely you listed something that aligns with Target’s target audience, right? It’s ok if you feel like it’s a Target / Walmart (hit or miss remember?).

This is how the Walmarts (xesually active singles) keep the Targets (abstinence and celibates) in business; Target has a competitor to leverage their premium product against.

If you don’t like it, go to our competitors (Walmart / DG). Why?

Because the fact that you can’t afford / don’t prefer Target (no xes until marriage) is the reason why our regular customers shop here, and many of them spend a lot each Target trip.

Customers= Masculines

There are plenty of high spending, high quality, high earning people who shop exclusively at Walmart or rotate stores for the best prices. This is how Walmart balances the market, allowing Target to market as the premium place to shop.

If you chose NO:

Quick Breakdown

This is the best time to remain abstinent or practice celibacy because the market is saturated with free / easy access opportunities for xes. It’s a marketing strategy to reserve your body for exclusive access, especially if you’ve never had xes b4.

Exclusive access has the leverage to insist on getting what they want before entry is allowed.

This leverage is lacked or lessened when you allow xesual access prior to securing your goal(s) at hand-marriage, gifts, investment, etc.

You’re not reserved, which means access to you is not exclusive even if you are rarely used. This is where the leverage of abstinence and celibacy comes in.

Bluntly: the (high quality) masculines who can offer the most fun and funds usually prefer exclusive access. Most people prefer exclusivity to feel special. Dare to tell me I’m wrong

This leverage allows you to make a luxury sale, similar to fashion houses or upscale lounges.

POV: You are a nightclub

You require patrons to book a table and a bottle of champagne before being allowed into the club.

Your “table” and “champagne” is equivalent to requiring a masculine to marry you before gaining entry into your body.

If they don’t like it, point the person to the BYOB or the club that’s more of their style.

Exclusive Access = The premium, preferred product by a higher class/ quality / spending group of consumers.

Now, I hope that made sense.

TIP 2 TEEN SELF: Learn about proper hypergamy early on. Not the SB/ SW stuff even amongst hypergamy content. Take the time out to learn how to date up and build yourself into becoming the woman who thrives in high quality environments instead of shying away or fumbling.

Homework: Listen to this Science of Birds podcast. Take notes on how the “choosy” female bird chooses which male to make babies with

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I want to quote an important point from TMZ:

"We already knew the general contest of what Majors had yelled at Jabbari during this old incident…but hearing it is something else altogether…because it can be digested in full, tone included,” Majors tone clearly indicates a dangerous, insecure man. We hypothesize that his plan is to use the support of the black community as leverage for being accepted by white elites in Hollywood.

Due to this court case, he pivoted his plan which is now dating a black woman #MeganGood, something he had no interest in doing before.

Megan Good is guilty too because you become what you enable, accept, allow or give permission to.

You are what you are not embarrassed by

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#CardiB is on Twitter calling #Offset all flavors of btch ass knickgurrs.

During her livestream scream rant about her soon to be ex-husband, she mentioned how she has helped him with his music sales and now he is feeling himself after his “btch ass album,”

If you’re out of the loop, Offset was linked to model London Perry (something he denies btw)

“I’ve really been sparing you…I’ve really been sparing you…and you’ve really been fcking doing me dirty AFTER SO MANY FCKING YEARS THAT I MF HELPED YO ASS! NOT EVEN A THANK THAT I GOT FOR YOUR BTCH ASS,”

Cardi continues,

“And it’s so crazy that I gotta to the fcking internet bc whenever I tell you something YOU DONT TAKE SERIOUSLY,”

Bingo. Why he refuses to respect you?

Because you lack respect for yourself.

A woman (feminine) with self respect wouldn’t entertain nor give cat to a man that doesn’t take her boundaries nor her words seriously.

In addition, a femme with self respect wouldn’t embarrass herself on the internet as if this is going to hold Offset accountable in any way.

Him and the bros are laughing at you, Cardi. They always do because wtf are you doing? Offset do not feel remorse for hurting you at all because he don’t value you in the first place.

Offset could be your boyfriend or hers. If he doesn’t care to respect you privately, then embarrassing both him and yourself isn’t going to force him to “take you seriously”.

He doesn’t take you seriously, meaning you are viewed as a joke. Now ask yourself this reflection question:

“What clown behavior am I doing for this man to take me as a joke?”

Takeaway Tip: Refuse to build a man; build some self esteem instead. Not with his music sales, not even his grieving heart- sorry! You might get a thank you but you will always be left in the dust

First comes investment, then comes intimacy

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“Daddy is stabbing Mommy,” their daughter told officers on scene

The unalivement of #RobinSimpson , 49 occurred in front of her 8 year old daughter she shared with the man who ended her life, Michael Simpson Jr, age 58.

Robin was a social worker, a dedicated mother and Godmother and a proud Delta sorority member

Michael Simpson Jr, stabbed himself after taking the life of his wife along with her organs, including her heart and brain. He has survived and has since been charged with murder and aggravated assault.

The family questions how long it took for officers to respond, since removing organs is no swift task. Houston Police Department requires a request for this info which has not been released yet.

This Philadelphia native is well loved, respected and would always be remembered for her beauty and kind heart.

May Robin Rest In Peace

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