#these sorts of asks make me so excited

[awakenthebeing]

This has probably been asked before, but what does Piepoe think of the REAL Peppino? Would she mistake him for one of the clones?

Piepoe doesn't really think much of him, but she actually feels very uneasy around the real Peppino. While it isn't exactly afraid of him, they do know just how much damage he can do if he's pushed to his limits. Usually when the real Peppino is nearby or approaches Piepoe's vicinity, they will sit up straighter, and be more on alert and cautious. While it looks like nothing has changed in her facial expression, she is actually much more focused than usual.

(This reaction overall tho is bc they haven't exactly formed any sort of communication with one another. If Peppino shows kindness and or even just treats his crafted toppin fambly nicely they will immediately be ":)" and much more trusting towards him.)

#there are also definitely times where he has mistaken him for a clone and clones for the real peppino #so overall she just sort of stresses a little whenever he's around. #its very silly that it is actually uneasy around peppino because im sure peppino is uneasy around her too😭 #both are just pretty nervous. #but thank you for this fun ask! its very exciting for me to come up with these concepts and informations for piepoe hehe #sending you tons and tons of love! thank you!! be safe... make sure to drink water and eat and rest! #💘💖💓💖💓💖💘💘💖💖💘‼️ #Piepoe arts

[capricioussun]

Question for void! What is your favourite outfit??

*He sounds nostalgic. The gift must have been from someone important to him.

#this is kinda ooc bc he wouldn’t really answer a question w/ smth this personal right out the gate BUT #I saw this in a vision and it made me emotional so I really wanted to do it anyways <3 #the friends shown are a dreemurr family from an au where monsters were never trapped underground and the monarchy was dissolved over time #they live on a big peaceful farm. Void crash landed in their au once and they helped him heal enough he could travel again. they told him #to come back and visit sometime and he convinced himself it was to repay their kindness w/ some sort of gift but he wound up visiting #multiple times after that. he sort of kind of has a rule against Just Because visiting AUs but it should be no surprise he winds up making #exceptions often lol #this sweater in particular meant a lot to him because chara and Asriel were so excited to give it to him bc Toriel let them help make it #anyway- #💕💜✨🌻 #alpacacare #tyyy for the ask ❕❕❕💚 #vf void #capricious skeletons #vesselfell #vesselfell papyrus #snow and hail

[bloomeng]

what i want out of helluva boss?

for Stolas to acknowledge any of the significant people in Blitz’s life. like he supposedly has strong feelings for him yet does he know the names of anyone in IMP? does he know Luna’s name?? how does he feel about Blitz’s obsession with Moxxie and Millie’s relationship??? like we literally know he’s aware of these things; he’s met Moxxie and Millie and Luna multiple times, he seems to know who all of them are, he even was dragged by Blitz to be a plus one to his lil spy session for Moxxie and Millie’s anniversary. he must have thoughts on this, and yet i feel like he never interacts with them. which feels significant bc if you like this guy so much you’re certainly not even trying to get to know the parts of his life that aren’t even a secret!! even fucking Verosika, she was also there that night and that wasn’t addressed.

like sure i wonder how Stolas would feel about Blitz’s relationship to Fizz or even his sister but that all makes sense for him to not know about bc Blitz goes to extreme lengths to not talk about them. but cmon man not his daughter? not his best friend?? shaking my head.

that and real Millie development but that’s a given

#i actually like the ship #it’s probably the ship i’m rooting for the most in vizzie’s universe #which is why i want this addressed so badly #i think the other reason it rubs me the wrong way #is that it feels like a class thing #like he’s sort of blind to it when it comes to blitz bc he has feelings for him #but he just sort of ignores moxxie and millie like they’re any other imp #which they’re not… #i would think he’d want to talk to them bc they’re his real ticket to learning about blitz #i want to believe stolas is sorta above the classist mindset but he’s sure not making a great case for himself #how many times has he literally been in the same scene as the imp crew and never once has he actually spoken to them #beyond maybe asking a question #again does he even know their names #i got so excited when i realized that moxxie and millie were going to be the ones to rescue him #and yet they still barely interacted #we’re sitting on a gold mine of fun interactions #!!! #helluva boss #txt #stolitz

[ozonecologne]

hey! just wondering if you sell prints, saw that hayley williams piece you did and id love a print of it, its fantastic

Hi!! Thanks for reaching out about this, and I'm so happy you like my work. I'll answer this publicly if you don't mind, because a few other people have asked as well!

I don't currently have an online store set up, but I can make and have made individual prints for people on demand before! Anything 8.5x11 inches or smaller. I usually print these myself on card stock; there are other customizable options since I only do these one at a time, like adding holographic film to the print or making stickers. Right now I can't really do clothing or tapestries, but anything you can run through a printer is theoretically possible?

If you'd like a print of a specific piece (like the one I did of Hayley recently), I'm pretty sure I can figure it out for you! Just DM me for more details and I'll see what we can work out :)

Art is not my job so I'm still figuring out a work flow... if this all sounds too complicated don't worry about it! I'm grateful you would even ask!

#tl;dr i can do individual prints i'm pretty sure! #i have to make some adjustments to my art to make it suitable for printing so it might look a little different is all i'm worried about #i paint really high res so that shouldn't be a problem but i've had issues with color in the past #if you're really interested in getting something specific from me i'll make a real effort to sort this out in the very immediate future! #and of course keep you updated to make sure it looks the way you want #really exciting that people are interested enough in my work to maybe pay for it :') #thanks for asking in any case!! #replies #g1deonthen1nth #about #my art #honestly i'm also a little worried about copyright when it comes to fan art? #i've never monetized my art before because i'm a little worried about that kind of thing #since i work from reference and don't want to take anything from other creators #but like... one print isn't bad right? i don't know i'd genuinely welcome feedback on this #i'm facing unemployment so i'm looking to maybe get more into art professionally but i realize i don't know that much :')

[thehardkandy]

A thing I really appreciate about my job is idk. The sense of doing something people want but cannot do for themselves. That they ask me a question or provide me a problem/desire and I tell them if or how it can be done. And then I spend my time doing what I have decided upon. It feels good and the feelings last longer than I got at my other jobs, since it was usually only for very small parts

#im not trying to romanticize things too much i make buttons for people to push on a website #but it's so exciting when it's really logically involved and i have not just the immediate needs. but the future #the tradeoffs the good the bad the how quick and dirty should this be done or will it inevitably pay off #to spend the extra time up front #it's a sort of game i play with myself #where i look back at the things i have. the things that made me more problems. or things that had to be done the way i thought was #unnecessary anyway #and so even in just trying to answer the question or provide a solution #i get to feel like im doing it better than the last time someone asked for something #the experience and autonomy is gratifying

[whisp3roftheheart]

I really am the most embarrassing person when I like someone lmao

#eden speaks #i really had my best friend drive me all the way to the boy i likes work so i could visit him during his shift #and then i was awkward 😭😭 #i was stupid and hit a friends pen a few too many times and i was high as hell when i went which made interacting so h a r d #i told him beforehand that i was high too so i prewarned him that id probably sound stupid lmao #i should've smoked after i saw him #he had a face mask to hide under too since he has to wear one for work and i was just perpetually awkward #i was so busy trying to look normal and overthinking that i forgot to say bye to him lmao i was like #im... im gonna go over there and then i left like what kind of exit is that smh #i see him again today i think we're going on like... kind of a date of sorts? we're going thrift shopping #originally i thought we were going with his rommates but from the questions hes been asking me i think it might just be us #hes so pretty i kept getting flustered when i looked at his eyes when i saw him yesterday #like sir your brown eyes are my weakness #we've been texting like non stop every day for a while now so clearly he feels some kind of way about me its the only thing that makes sense #when i get paid im gonna get him this sanrio and jjk collab shirt because he loves jjk and i love sanrio and if he likes it ill be so happy #we're gonna see the fnaf movie next week im so excited i gotta get a fnaf tshirt or something when i go to buy his shirt #i asked him to go with me on that one and im so excited for it #okay let me stop rambling lmao my ass never knows when i stop #*when to stop

[kyuala]

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO i just woke up from a dream where mark was my bf how do i go on living like normal after this 😭😭😭😭

#i think i was like. at some sort of nct nation rehearsal and i was just listening to his parts #anton for some reason came up beside me and was like singing along and i was like omg thats so good!!! u rock!! #then hendery asked me what i was talking about bc from where he was standing he couldnt see anton so i explained it to him #i said anton rocks omg!!!! then he agreed then anton got all shy then we all ordered food (?) #WHICH WAS BURGER KING BUT LIKE ON A MEAL PLATE AND ALSO W WASABI???? anyways #mark discreetly showed up along w some of the other members and while they were all talking he came up to me tryna be all lowkey #but then i made grabby hands and kissy faces at him and he came closer so i could smooch his cheek 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭im gonna kms. #anyways. i kissed his cheek and while we were hugging he whispered smth abt asking a staff to drop me off at his house #or the other way around i cant rmbr it but i got all happy n excited bc i'd be seeing him again later #n we were like. just in a big love bubble it was so cute :( then fucking hendery and anton saw us and were like WHAT ARE Y'ALL TALKING ABOUT #we just giggled and said NOTHING MIND YOUR BUSINESS and then mark gave them his credit card to distract them like 😭😭😭 some rich men r ok #n then he went away and they started fighting over who got the card and what they should buy with it #and hendery was doing a silly dance to make me laugh and try to convince me to be on his side n say anton should give him the card it was SO #CUTEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE THE WHOLE ENTIRE DREAM IT WAS JUST SO CUTE I CANT IM VONNA DIE #screaming crying throwing up etc pls God make this a realityyyy i wanna date mark and have fun w the neos and neo-adjacent 😔 #mari.txt #dreams

[satans-knitwear]

Is there a reasoning to the campaign on your OF atm?

Ooohhh im so glad you asked!! Yes there is indeed!! Through my new of, I am currently hoping to book train tickets to see my beloved besties in April!! Its a while away yet, but the tickets are less expensive in advance obviously ✨

#Im going to leave the house!!! #I believe we are going to explore a local forest or some gardens and have a little self-made spa weekend #I have some facemasks and body scrubs i shall be bringing. #And bestie has a dog i have not yet met. So thats super exciting!!! #I should make the doggo a pretty accessory of some sort.... #I will keep you guys posted on that whether you care or not tbh #Asks #Train tickets hurt me. Public transport should be cheaper 😭

[sundial-girl]

Meep meep meep

The Oliver :3

ehehe the little guy of all time...

My favorite song of theirs

ughgighghkjdg this is so hard wtf he has good songs 😭 i'll give u 3 b/c i can't decide

to be basic: "Amygdala's Rag Doll" -> it was the first ever oliver (and GHOST) song i listened to. still bangs after all these years

to be emo: "Thing" -> also one of the first oliver songs i started listening to, resonates w/ me deeply b/c personal issues. also very lovely and haunting

to be interesting: "Collection" -> OLIVER IN JAPANESE also the pv is so nice and this just soundsss so pretty. also not an og song but if u want more oliver in japanese there's this cover i'm going insane over

Who I ship them with

ok i'll b honest. len.

blonde boys that die in a lot of their songs

I THINK ITS FUNNY OK 😭 its not all that serious but they r cute. they both do have other cute ships too but i like this. or aroace oliver too thats slay

My favorite part about their design

ughhh everything abt his design is perfect its so gooddd but like... ig for one thing the long coat?? i suck at drawing it sometimes but i just love shit like that so i have the chance to draw flowy shit. extra dramatique. realistically ik wind physics whatever don't work like that BUT IT LOOKS COOL esp when other people do it in art too i love to see it. and in general it just ties his whole design together, blueee

also idk if james counts but best decision ever was giving him bird. yes. love to see it

A random headcanon I have of them

you get 2 b/c i couldn't decide which one's better

at this rate b/c of how much inedible stuff he's eaten he's practically immune to food poisoning. you can't kill him in any way that matters

HE AND MOKE ARE BESTIESSSSSS. you will never take this hc away from me even from my cold dead hands I WANT THEM TO BE FRIENDSSSS!!! bird enthusiasts. they go birdwatching together and have very long conversations about ornithology stuff. they arrange very sophisticated playdates for both their pet birds. ily them

name a vocaloid in my askbox and i'll tell you stuff

#ask #i got disconcentrated while answering sorry this took so long?? 😭 ALSO I HATE THE NEW EDITORRR i hate npf so much i jakfdsnjkgndskgjsgk #sorry if this isn't very exciting kdsjg. its like that post i like getting asks but answering them makes me nervous 😭 #the bird stuff also definitely hasnt intensified due to where my life is going in (bird direction). REGARDLESS BESTIESSSSS PLEASE!! FRIENDS #im so sorry to both len and oliver. or really any vocaloid i get attached to my shitposts are so BADDDD DSHKJGHKG BUT ITS FUNNY #its a cute ship but i wish people were less creepy/weird abt it :/ ya know? but i dont wanna start drama #ive been meaning to make a post abt this but I WISH IT WAS EASIER TALKING ABOUT MY HCS FOR THESE VOCA MFERS #cause the inconsistency. the way nothing is like properly sorted. sobs. theres very few things that actually are somewhat 'default' but aug #lmao though he's like... a mini evil food eater conchita at this rate what have i done 😭😭 he'd drink straight poison for fun he dont care #thats one of the few things that stays consistent w/ him. boy cannot be stopped from eating things he should not be eating 😔✌️ he's feral #anyways i am so sorry i suck at tumblr :') i hope this makes sense???

[lieutenant-amuel]

Why have you stopped writing was born to lead?

I… didn’t want to answer this question. But it seems like you misunderstood me a little, because I’ve never said I’m stopping to write WBTL. It’s on hiatus now, it’s not abandoned.

Anyway, I admit I had a lot more dramatic~ answer to this question in my head when I first saw it, but after all I realized the main reason I’m stepping away from publishing the chapters is… life.

There are too many external factors that prevent me from being as productive as I’d like to be and given the fact I’m a lot more emotional than I think I am (damn it), I know I’ll be way too harsh on myself for not updating often (I update almost every month now, which, I think, is often enough, given how long my chapters are).

But I write this fic for joy only. And I want it to bring me joy only. The way to achieve it is to write it for myself. But I want to assure you that the fic is not abandoned. I just stop publishing the chapters until the entire story is finished.

I have no idea when I finish it. But for now, I just hope I’ll manage to do it.

I’m actually on hiatus now (and no, this is not some summer vacation hiatus, as I said I won’t publish the chapters until I finish the story, so it’s going to be quite a long lasting hiatus) and I won’t write anything for at least a month (unless I’ll get hit by some extremely cool idea that I’d want to write down right away), because I have some big plans in terms of outline and editing.

But that’s actually a good thing, because it means WBTL is not escaping from my head. If you want to send me my characters for the OCs ask games, or give me suggestions for the story, or simply talk about it with me, please do. I won’t mind. On the contrary, I’ll be extremely happy to know that any of you are still interested.

I hope it clears things up and you understand why I’ve made this decision.

#Ask me anything #Was Born To Lead #Alright I admit there are several reasons why I’m doing this but the one I elaborated in the answer is the main one #But you know if WBTL was a TV show those 21 chapters probably would be season 1 so it makes sense there’s a hiatus afterwards #(especially since it has quite a logical ending: the main characters’ (Gabe and Valerio) arcs are finished #yet there’s still something to look forward) #and the rest of the chapters make up season 2 because I *think* I’ve already reached the mid of the fic #Or not #Either way I know how to finish all the storylines I started so that’s already a good thing #Valerio cannot run from his past forever so he’ll have to face it and it leads to the new dynamic between him and Gabe #Ángel has a family drama and finds a new hobby that’s actually interesting to him unlike fencing #Frida keeps solving the hideout mystery and it gets to the point when she HAS to return to Avalor #Matías keeps facepalming after every stupid thing Valerio does and meets Gabe #Emilio works on his inner issues because he has way too many and sort of finds his peace #Roberto and Blanca have to meet their old friends and protect Gabe from the possible danger (and there also will be their backstory) #The man in the cloak a mysterious figure call them whatever you want keeps being the main source of intrigue in the fic #And finally Gabe #Oh my goodness I have so much prepared for him #which is obvious he’s the main character after all #The closer I am to the end of the fic the closer I am to expose my EoA related Gabe headcanons and I’m excited #For now everything I have for Gabe is made up exclusively for the fic because I need to write about something before I get to the main poin #I don’t know why I’m writing all of this but at least you can be sure lack of ideas for the fic isn’t the reason for my hiatus #All I need is a peaceful environment so I can bring all those ideas to life #Oh also now when I have free time I’m thinking of rewatching the entire show (EoA of course) to refresh my memory #specifically in terms of lore because as for Gabe I already know him like the back of my hand #It’s all for writing reasons yes

[cherry-shipping]

GYEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE I HAD A CUTE DREAM W SANS >:D!!!!!!!! it was in like two parts the first was us just meeting and hitting it off right away which was fun and the other part was. nevermind im too embarrassed to not say it in the tags The tags r my safe cringe space The tags r like my house i live down there

#cherry chats #bf (bone friend) #ok. so anyway the 2nd part was awhile later he asked me on a date which was cute #and hed gone through way too much effort to make it like....... properly date-y even though neither of us give a shit #so hed gotten a table at some semi fancy restaurant and wed gotten dressed up SORT of fancy #and he was sooo excited and anxious. then he turns out he got the name wrong and instead of a fancy-ish restaurant it was like #some shitty cheap family diner. like imagine mcdonalds but a little fancier and with a LITTLE better food #thats what we got. because they had similar names and he mixed them up #we didnt even get our own table we sat at one of those long benches that mcdonalds also have next to a dad with his 2 little kids #the poor fucking guy was mortified when he realized hed fucked up but i just thought it was hilarious #i remember KISSING HIM ON THE CHEEK!!!!!!!!!!!! and being like its fine lets just go home and order takeout instead lmfao #so anyway. that waas the dream i had it was awesome #tehre were other stuff too but it was all jumbled bits and pieces maybe ill write them down in a draft just so i dont forget

[boomerang109]

yesterday i had zero jobs, today i have two!!

#to be fair i kinda knew i was gonna have one of these cause i’d vaguely talked to my boss about it. but my anxiety was like #‘it’s unconfirmed what if he replaces me’ and now it’s finally confirmed (although I have no dates and haven’t talked to him about pay lmao) #(i want to try to convince him to pay me more than last summer cause i did waaay more work than I had anticipated when we talked payment #last year sooo I’m gonna try to be brave and ask for a raise. we’ll see if it happens) #but!! the other job literally happened from just being at the right place at the right time? #and I’m gonna be stage managing for a REAL theatre!!! #and I won’t be making much money from that but I’m just so fucking excited for the experience because i recently realized stage management #is what I want to do with my life but I’ve only stage managed at one theatre and my high school/college #so the fact im going to be stage managing at a real theatre?? fucking incredible im so excited #(my other theatre is a real theatre it’s just mostly a kids theatre and they’ve known me since I was seven so I only sort of count it lol) #life of a boomerang

[howljenky]

I actually don't know you, I just came across your blog from my notes, so I have no prior info: in your description you said to talk to you about your comic - mind telling us a little bit about it? Whatever you want to share / are excited about / proud of etc! And again, I don't know anything about it so I'd love to hear truly anything :)

Hope your day is going nice, and if it isn't I hope it'll start to go nice from now on!

Hi ty for the ask thats rlly sweet :3

Rn I'm in my last year of art uni and I've been working on a small comic book for the past few months, tho im actually really shy to Post my art so thats y theres like nothing ab it anywhere yet. It a little romance story mainly focusing on a lesbian bar and a relationship between my ocs Robin and Vic! Its rlly slow paced but im trying to write it in a way that allows me to speak of workplace inequality, bar culture, butchfem culture, friendship and loss and community and being lonely and getting used to not being lonely anymore.

Tbh its been so hard to develop it since its like my first work that of this size (it has like 32 pages) and rn i have done 12 pages out of it that consists in the meetup of the two characters and the relationship building between them, and I gotta start thinkin from now How i want to post this up on the internet and where, cuz i rlly would want ppl to see it but idk what would b the best way to go ab it... so if someone that read till here has some tips or smth feel free to tell! I would love a little help on that part

Here s also a little illustration ive done for them two, it was mainly done just to get into the feeling and enviroment and atmosphere of the comic + a planner page ive done just to get their personalities and bodies familiar with myself! I really have come to really care ab these two ocs in the past 4 months or so in which ive developed them tru sketches and writing tbh so im rlly nervous and excited to share them here.

Im rambling now tho, more in tags, ty anon <3

#honestly ive been trying to set up a patreon but im sooo scared of actually posting my art somewhere for some reason #i feel like the only safe thing would b fanart to post but i hadnt had time for fanart in ages bcos of this comic + other assignments! #but alas my exams are around june tru july so i believe that i will post this comic fully around july or august! #i just have to think of the best way to do it #ive been thinkin of just postin it fully om patreon but idk if thats rlly the best idea #but its certainly a place where it allows me to post the sketches and plannings too so idk! #comic artists help me... #howljenky art #howljenky's #artists on tumblr #comic book #graphic novel #oh also im really excited ab this comic bcos even if its a modern storytelling #ive really been pulling strings to make it looks really fantasy-like tru architecture and enviroment #but also itll contain a sort of daydream scene where the characters r rewritten as being a prince and a knight #and yea i mean prince not princess bcos i really also want to play a bit with gender presentation in this! #vic is very feminine but i feel like she would play a lot with gender presentation if her environment would allow her to! #which it will later in the comic where she goes tru a bit if character development #anyways im rlly excited :3 i need to get over my fear of posting #and i put the phrase to talk with me ab my comic expecting nobody to really actually ask and now ive become shy... #but ty for asking nonetheless it feels great talkin ab it and i hope that till i post it in august or smth #i could mayhaps make a bit of an audience? i have like just a few followers tho so maybe not but its good to dream ab being supported KSKSK

[rogersstevie]

it’s so funny how much kids seem to like me when i struggle so much understanding the words they’re saying if they’re really little and i’m BETTER at interacting with them than i used to be after all these years with my nephew and nieces but still like. kinda awkward

i like them too, to be clear, kids are the fucking BEST even if i don’t want them for myself. but i’m always just kind of stunned when kids attach themselves to me seemingly so easily

#and it's just like?? most of the kids i interact with? #started with my nephew when he was much younger i'd guess not long after we met and started spending time together #and my older niece is much the same way when she comes over she wants to take me around with her #their younger sister not so much but she's still p exclusively attached to her parents it seems #so maybe in a year or two for her #and then my godson sure bc i've gone theirs a couple times a year every year for giving him birthday and christmas presents #but his siblings all get excited to see me too (sidebar his younger sister was dressed so cute today and i'm like #it was not like that when i was 10 oh my god) #and the youngest is more shy in general i think but he was v shy of me when i was over just a few months ago #and today we played tossing coins back and forth to each other and he had the biggest smile on his face #and he wanted to show me some toys in his room #and then he had one of those blankets that's also like a sort of lil costume of a monster #and he asked me to put it on him and then i did the whole pretending he's the monster that's gonna get me #but i was just like omg where did this turnaround come from you didn't wanna interact with me a few months ago #anyway kids are fascinating and also so fun and i love them i love them #i just wish i was better at the play stuff my brother apparently loves doing the make believe stuff with his daughter #which doesn't surprise me he's got a good imagination but yeah i'm always just like. idk how to do this #tbf i don't think kids really notice/care as long as you're engaging with them and all but still i just wish i was better at it #especially bc like if i WERE...working with kids might be fun but idk #personal

[averagekanadekinnie]

Hello. It's the angst asker here. Thanks for the food.

Of course, happy to give the food!! >:)

#omori #IT LEGIT TOOK ME 2 HOURS TO MAKE BUT IM SORT OF GLAD!! #aubs gets asks (real) #YOUR ASK WAS SO FUN TO DO HAHAH!! #never wrote angst SO YEAH!!! #looked at your reblog just now #SUPER EXCITED FOR THE NEXT REQUEST #I’ll be waiting patiently >:)))

[branchiopod]

can’t sleep. keep making myself mad about shit

#it’s like three things rn #someone from my old college had it out for me and i genuinely have no idea why #like they were always rude as fuck to me and in the first few weeks we knew each other i was being interrogated ab slur and pronoundiscourse #asked how i felt ab he/him lesbians and i was like i’m not a lesbian so…who fucking cares #and we got into slurs somehow and i wish i could’ve been more articulate bc i was like yeah. i think some trans men can say the d slur #and they were like why aren’t you saying it and my response was cuz i don’t feel like it #but the point i wish i had thought well enough to make is like first of all slur discourse is stupid #and the word dyke is central to so many people’s identities not just currently but in the past too #when i was still fem-presenting and pre-any sort of transition i was a dyke. that’s the best word for how i felt then and now looking back #AND you don’t know the intricacies of someone’s identity. are you gonna police this shit? leave me tf alone #also pissing me off lol #is the fact that i dated someone who hated the parts of me that i like #shit spanned from like him saying it about tank tops and sweatpants immediately after i said they’re gender affirming for me #to not being able to deal with me being loud to the point that i re-triggered a depressive episode as soon as i got out of one #when im doing well im loud and excitable but they couldn’t handle that so i just shoved it down #and last thing. did anyone else deal with the predatory gay stereotype bc i never see ppl talk ab it but i was a huge target for it #it’s affected my ability to just. function as person like i can’t compliment people without making myself panic #the few times i’ve seen it talked ab is specifically the predatory lesbian stereotype #which does make me wonder how much of my experience was fueled by that and how much was just generic homophobia