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sugurizz · 3 months
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I'm going FUCKING INSANE
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Anyway have a good day sjwujw
One day it'll be our legs on his shoulders bestie don't give up hang in there 🥲💪🏼
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rose-cigarettesx · 2 years
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Joan Jett’s jacket from the 'I Love Rock n Roll' music video
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spiritualseeker777 · 8 months
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zerosuitsammi3 · 2 months
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If I can take a moment to share my experience as a trans woman on the internet
My experience is by no means unique, it's just one experience in the plethora of trans feminine experiences and not unique to only tumblr. Though, I'll mostly talk about what I've experienced here. In the light of recent events, the reaction of "the ceo," and the comments he contributed regarding dog pile harassment; I simply wish to share my experiences that I have had to juxtapose the dynamic of his statements against a lived experience.
This account started as a way to document my social transition and eventually my journey with HRT. Tumblr had always had a large lgbtqia+ community. The queer people here inspired me and gave me hope. What I didn't know, but soon learned, is that there were people here who hated me for being trans. Being early in my transition I was a prime target. TERF groups would plan raids on my account. What this entailed was: rebloging my selfies into circles that would say the most vile things about me, threaten to kill, tell me I was ugly, tell me that everyone I knew thought I was a joke, I was a monster, my family hated me, that I should kill myself, they'd download and edit my photos into caricatures or depictions of violence. They would fill my ask box with hundreds of asks detailing how they'd kill me, call me slurs, describe the ways that I should kill myself, and pretty much everything else I mentioned above with the reblogs. Their words were carefully curated to try and break me, break my spirit, break my will to live. I tried reporting it. But it was impossible to keep up with, and like many others I saw no real response. Eventually I learned that I had to block all of them. 100's of blogs, eventually 1000's of blogs. My block list these days is incredibly extensive. I had to wade through their blogs, traverse sickening hate speech and imagery to eliminate entire circles of people harassing me. I became jaded to the hate speech, hardened to it. But mind you, I shouldn't have had to expose myself to all of this just to be at peace here amongst my community. I received no help, I was left to my own devices to protect myself. The people who hurt me never saw consequences. It was painful, it was unfair, and no one else should have to put the hours upon hours of effort and exposure to hate in to protect themselves like I did. But again my experience is not unique.
I have had to repeat this process of preemptive blocking periodically once a new circle discovers me. Blocking them all before they can start the process of hate all over again. A process of hate that seems to be hitting my community with rapidly increasing fervor as of late.
I've seen others experience far worse than me. The TERF circles will hunt down their personal information and doxx them. Expose their home address, telephone numbers, names of their family members. I can't begin to imagine the terror my queer siblings must feel when someone tells then that they want to murder them all while showing them that they know where you live. This is not a new thing, not a rare tactic, it happens. And we've all seen the news stories of trans people being murdered by people who planned it and were vocal about it.
I know this is depressing. And it doesn't reflect all of my experiences. I've had wonderful experiences here, met amazing people, made close friends, found inspiration, found hope. I found a community.
And it's my community, and I never want to let it go.
I do have fear that making this statement will get me banned. But, I wanted to say it. I wanted it to exist in the world so that everyone who doesn't know our experiences has a chance to understand and with luck empathize.
I'll part on these words and hope for the best both for myself and for every member of the community.
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ataxia17 · 7 months
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Love does not disappear, but it can hide behind anger and hurt
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dashingwishes · 1 year
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I hope everyone heals soon 🌱
Here are your pretty flowers
🌹🌸🌻🌷🌼💐🪷🌺
For trying each day.
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thatstolenpayal · 22 days
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40 reasons to live:
panipuri
your favourite food
roses
soft rain
thunder
journaling your soul out
reading
music
ghazals
vanilla scent
chocolate ice cream
hair wash days
a good result after toil
the winter sun
the cool breeze over your sweaty skin
seeing yourself in the mirror after crying
gossip sessions with your girlies
when a 'he' gives you butterflies
sleeping in august wrapped up in a blanket
the sound of the waves
petrichor
payals
sparrows
swans
flamingos
kittens
hugs
kisses on the cheek
building sand castles
a long bath
movie nights
stargazing
sunsets
tumblr
pinterest
silence
mandir/dargah/gurudwara/church, etc places of worship
strawberries
bollywood movies
gajras
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cin-baby · 1 month
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lackassera · 2 months
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Let it be Home once more ~ ♣︎
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I might be new to this fandom, and yet to make friends. But to see what's happening right now, I could only wish the best for us to get through this together. Love you all~ ♧
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verzek-csenben-elek · 2 months
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Fejet fel, húzd ki magad, töröld le a könnyeid és mosolyogj!
Ne lássák hogy éppen szétesel.
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classycookiexo · 6 months
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oasisr · 6 months
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When men neg you by putting down your talents, run. Things will not get better.
Even if you aren't good at something and are just a beginner, he should not be mocking you or bullying you for that.
I'm not a great singer or painter, but I enjoy singing and painting sometimes. My ex would mock me and tell me that he wanted to marry someone who could actually sing.
I gave him another chance after he hurt my feelings. He was good for a couple of weeks, and then went right back to mocking me and putting me down.
Just run. You are beautiful even if you aren't good at everything you try. You don't need someone to put you down and try to harm your self-worth.
You are worthy of someone who will treat you like you are a special and beautiful woman. Because you are.
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dumblr · 2 years
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That break up saved you.
That friendship that ended was for a good reason.
That person that left you just made you stronger. Trust me, you good.
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spiritualseeker777 · 3 months
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