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mariethewallflower · 2 years

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dvlaunchpad-mcquack · 1 year

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Do you sometimes wish Drake could be a sweeter guy?

What do you mean? He is sweet! I mean, sure, he makes fun of me a lot, but friends do that, right? And what’s a gut punch or being used as a step stool when your friend is going through a tough time? AmIright? Uh… Gee…

Well… He is a lot better than he used to be. He trusts me with Gosalyn now. And he lets me cook for myself! He even trusts me enough to try my cooking! That’s a big step! I did, uh, learn to cut back on the seasoning for his more delicate stomach. I make some pretty great muffins if I do say so myself! Hehe.

Anyway. Drake and Gosalyn and I are still figuring things out. And that’s okay! We’re learning about each other and how to really help each other, and when the best way to help is to put our foot down and say “enough is enough. Wake up and smell the roses! You’ve got it good, so don’t waste it!” Er, something like that.

I think as long as we listen to each other and try to be our best selves for each other, we’re gonna be alright. Everything’s gonna be alright.

#Launchpad 1991 answers #darkwing duck #gosalyn mallard #relationship ask

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sapphic-courtship-for-dummies · 1 year

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hey! this is so dumb but my gf randomly told me that her tarot cards told her im manipulative which was a shock bcs no one has ever called me like that and I don't think of myself in that way, I'm pretty sure she didn't mean to hurt me and it's probably my fault for being so soft but it truly hurt me

Hi Anon, I know it's been a long time so I'm sorry I couldn't get to this earlier. I really hope everything worked out okay, and I hope it's still helpful at least to someone if I answer now. This particular ask stuck out to me as someone who reads tarot, because it automatically rubs me the wrong way.

Firstly, she should not be using her cards as an excuse or segue into trying to address someone about their behavior. If she has noticed you repeating certain manipulative behaviors (knowingly or not), then she should be direct and straightforward with her examples and how your behavior is affecting her. Second, it just feels like a misuse and disrespect of her cards tbh, she shouldn't hide behind them or scapegoat them to try to hide how she really feels.

It is alright to be soft. It is okay and normal to be sensitive and have your feelings be hurt when there is reason for them to be hurt. Even if it's true, it can still be painful to realize your actions or behaviors may have caused harm. I've had my own realizations regarding ways I've accidentally perpetuated harmful behaviors in the past that were manipulative and even toxic. It's hard. It's a process. I guarantee you that every person on Earth has knowingly or unknowingly done something inadvertently or outright manipulative or unethical at least once. It doesn't make you evil. It doesn't make you a bad person because you made mistakes. All you can do is be mindful of your actions and behaviors, own up to and learn from your mistakes, and work hard to do better and make up for it.

So when someone confronts you about your behavior, it's important to reflect and consider the criticisms seriously. If you find them to be true, then it's important to apologize and work toward making amends. However, it is also important to not project how you are feeling onto someone else or backlash out of defense. It seems like, from what you said, that your girlfriend was not as direct as she could have been, so I hope that she is coming from a place of honesty and good intentions, and not projecting her own feelings about herself onto you. It is also possible that she may have misinterpreted the cards. Either way, I want to emphasize the importance of you being honest about your feelings while respecting hers.

There's no perfect answer to a messy situation. All you can do is try to move forward by doing the next right thing. I wish you the best in deciding what that thing is for you, and my inbox/dms are always open.

Sincerely,

Sappho ❤️

#asks #anons #tarot #toxic behavior #manipulative behavior #relationship ask #relationship advice #advice #wlw #sapphic #girl advice #old ask

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galionne-speeding · 2 years

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Curious to see what you could do with Zeena and Zazz. With how different their personalities can be I want to know how their relationship is like with each other.

Zazz & Zeena

Oh, those two bicker a lot. A LOT.

They snap at each other constantly and anything they can have an argument about they will- fighting styles, looks, food, the weather... It never stops. But! If you listen closely for more than a few minutes, you will quickly realize that there isn't any real aggressivity in what they're saying. Or at least, not too much of it...

See, their relationship is very sibling-like in that they appear to fight and poke fun and in general bemean to each other ; but there's actually a lot of complicity between them. All of the bickering is really just friendly teasing where they keep trying to one-up each other for the fun of it. One thing they do enjoy even more than arguing, tho, is collectively making fun of someone else. They bonded so much over trash-talking Sonic and Eggman after the events of Lost World, you have no idea...

When it comes to fighting, they're one of the main/usual pairs that Zavok sends out, as they work extremely well off of each other.

Zeena is highly adaptive and is used to coming up with new plans and strategies on the fly, so Zazz's unpredictability isn't an issue for her. It's something she can easily work her way around and spin to her advantage.

As for Zazz, Zeena's flashy fighting style means he won't lose sight of her on the battlefield. He's also learned how to read her visual cues (which are usually simple, discreet hand gestures or sometimes even just a specific look) and act accordingly. Additionally, his recklessness actually helps balance out Zeena's (at times) over-cautiousness.

#ask time #anon #relationship ask #headcanon time #zazz #zeena

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slushy-sash · 2 months

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very important research

#cunty ah cowboy #what is he researching you may ask #he's studying the relationship between the angle of body leaning and cuntiness #its a positive correlation #honkai star rail #hsr #dr ratio #veritas ratio #boothill #my art

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crookedkingdom · 14 days

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bobby dealing with his daddy issues by collecting firefighters with daddy issues and aggressively fathering them

#love that for him #the first thing they ask you when you interview at the 118 is how is your relationship with your father #911 abc #911 spoilers

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starcurtain · 2 months

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Please someone redraw this with Dr. Ratio and Aventurine because this is the exact vibe they have in my head post-Penacony.

#ratiorine #aventio #aventurine #dr. ratio #honkai star rail #hsr #not exactly #2.1 spoilers #but the vibe isn't present until then #this is canon I'm Hoyo #just trust me #I think my favorite thing about this ship #is that I went in expecting slap slap kiss #but came out of 2.1 convinced that these two could #in fact #get their shit together faster than virtually any other Hoyoverse pair #they're gonna be two years into their relationship before Seele manages to ask Bronya on a date #they're gonna be married before Renheng get their next ship tease #I just think they deserve to be those two guys who show up together #in the background of every promotion and event #and Hoyo never confirms anything #but you never see the one without the other #so everybody just KNOWS #LISTEN HOYO #I'm available for hire #you can pay me to print the money for you

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habken · 19 days

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I'd love a Tododeku doodle! Thanks for considering. Take requests is super sweet. 🍭🧁

I like thinking about tddk being ride or die bakugou stans no matter what (original)

#third wheeling their own relationship #ask #bnha #doodles

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mommyownsmee · 2 months

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I love talking my sub through her orgasms<3

„Yes baby, you‘re doing so well for mommy“

„You sound incredible, fuck“

„Don‘t stop, princess“

„Take it, I know you can give me one more“

„Yes, right there, that‘s perfect“

„I love how you moan for me“

„I want more, give me what is my own“

„You‘re my property“

„This orgasm you‘ll have is mine“

„Don‘t keep it in, I want to hear your moans, stop holding back“

„Yes. Those moans are mine. This body is mine, this mind is mine, this voice is mine“

„You‘re mine, you‘re all mine. Fucking mine, do you understand?“

„Such a good plaything for mommy“

„My toy, I love to use you“

„One more, I want to get off on your moans“

„So fucking good“

„This cunt is just made for my pleasure, like my cock is just made for yours“

„God, I will break you and mold you into my perfect toy to get off on“

„Let mommy use you, baby“

„Yes baby, come for me, this orgasm is mine“

„Say who you belong to, moan my name“

„Right, you‘re all mine. I love you“

„I love you so fucking much“

„I‘m yours“

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duckytree · 1 month

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hey very important to me and me alone, is roy doing ok in your big brother au? if not ok tell me that he’s alive at least because I love him and hope he’s just chilling at home with baby lian waiting for dick to get his shit together

this is the only universe i’ll ever make where roy harper is the last person to worry about

my man found his calling as a stay at home suburban dad

not everything is great of course, there is some lore regarding that ring, but roy harper is a determined masochist if nothing else and jade has a thing for pathetic men

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shepscapades · 11 months

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Ranchers as Grant Wood’s American Gothic was supposed to be sillay and goofy but then I set the ranch on fire and one thing led to another and now it’s. sad DFBJDFGB I’m really happy with how this came out though, so!! Here’s my week 3 piece for the Hermitcraft Design Challenge thingie :]

#team rancher #tangotek #jimmy solidarity #solidarity gaming #SolidarityGaming #tango #double life smp #shepshermitdesign23 #art escapades #tried something different and tried to be really loose with my painting in this :]#regarding the original—#ppl apparently saw the painting as an out of touch rural painting in a modern world #whereas wood intended to paint it as a positive portrayal of ideal rural living #so.#at some point the ranchers became m-1 ranchers and then this piece became a complicated commentary -#about everyone else seeing the ranchers as out of touch / removed from reality and the real world since their relationship was confined to -#double life #meanwhile ranchers themselves are happy with each other and see their relationship (despite the context/ the games) as an ideal one #m-1 #anyway I’m fine thanks for asking #back to botwcast DGBJDFGB

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ew-selfish-art · 11 months

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Dp x dc AU - If the Internation Space Station orbits the Earth 16 times a day, then so does the Watchtower.

Danny’s on track to move out of his parent’s house and move to Gotham for college (He swears that Sam bribed the board to let him in- and she wasn’t even going to that university!) but the dorms don’t open for another three days and he cannot wait to escape. Seeing his parents try to perfect yet another weapon to use against him while he changed out the ecto filters on the portal was too much. He’s completely over the idea of staying when he already has everything packed and ready to go.

The solution? Take all his boxes into his haunt in the Ghost Zone, leave them there and then spend some time in camping in space. He’s already explored the Infinite Realms enough to be bored of it for a minute (not to mention he wants to avoid getting more ‘favors’ to do from Clockwork) and hell, he just wants to see some stars.

He grabs his tent, a sleeping bag and all the food and things he could need and brings it into the atmosphere with him. Keeping it all tethered to him, Danny stays in a fixed position above Gotham (Cause that’s where he’s going next, duh) and treats himself to some quality Me-time.

Only problem is that several times a day he has to make himself intangible while he lets satellites and things pass through. Easy enough and honestly pretty interesting to observe as a wannabe engineering student.

He doesn’t know when exactly it happened the first time- but it turns out the Heroes of Earth all congregated in a satelite office building? It was bigger than the ISS! What the heck!?

Going intangible but not invisible, the JL spot Danny and are incredibly confused how an ‘Alien’ teen just happens to appear in their meeting rooms disappearing at the rate (slowly but surely) of the Watchtower moving through space. Was that camping gear? How was he roasting a marshmallow? Did propane camping stoves even work in space??

16 times a day they get the opportunity to ask Danny a few questions. He mostly ignores them or gives them joke answers. Eventually Martian Manhunter phases through the Watchtower to join him.

They talk about how hard transition periods in life can be and having strained relationships with family. J’ohn returns to the watchtower on its next cycle and reports that the kid is just fine, being an adult is just a hard thing to do.

#dcxdp #dpxdc #dc x dp #dp x dc #Danny Phantom #justice league #watchtower #dc #dc crossover #dc universe #martian manhunter #so much potential for him to haunt them but tbh he just wants to keep looking at the stars #dont ask me how his camping stove works in the vaccum of space google was unhelpful and i failed physics 2 #well i mean i passed it eventually but i failed it the first time #thats the energy im bringing and the energy i feel like vibes with danny #the iss moves around earth 16 times a day tho and i think thats neat #martian manhunter is like dude earth relationships are legit so hard and im not just saying that as a refugee #id also like to think that miss martian eventually joins them and danny gets invited to join the YJ

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fanaticalthings · 14 days

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Jason being the easiest kid is super funny. Bruce looking at Jason and remembering Dick at 18: “we can work through this. He’ll come around if I don’t give up on.”

Bruce, watching over a freshly street-snatched Jason: Why is he so calm

Having Dick as the rambunctious, feral, and unhinged first child must've given him SO much whiplash once Jason entered the picture. Lil guy just vibed in his own world. Just reading books and doing schoolwork. Baby Jason hurt nobody.

Bruce will just be going over the ground rules of the manor, remembering all the chaos Dick brought upon the household.

Bruce: No swinging from the chandelier.

Jason: ?? I wasn't planning to?

Bruce: No murder.

Jason: What? That never even crossed my mind-

Bruce: And please, for the love of God, don't sneak out and try to beat up the nearest criminal on our block

Jason:

Jason: WHO is responsible for these rules being created??

Bruce will just come home from a long day of work. He's tired and just wants a nice, quiet evening, but he's subconsciously psyching himself up to prepare himself for the chaos he'll witness once he enters the manor

but then Jason's just quietly doing his own thing, maybe even helping Alfred with some chores, reading, or just lounging about in the manor. In general, just causing no trouble and Bruce just turns to Alfred, all worried like, "Is he sick? I don't think children are supposed to behave this way."

#Bruce putting 'No chandeliar swinging' before 'No murder' speaks volumes of the battles he's faced #baby jay was just a lil guy :')#Bruce having a wholesome relationship with jason from the very start: I didnt know this was possible #Bruce and robin!jason were so soft like please read the 80s comics they were SO cute fnksjvkosk #Dick visiting for the very first time since he left home: Why the FUCK is it so peaceful here #Dick not being angry about Jason becoming robin but instead being angry that his new brother isnt driving Bruce up the wall:#'are you even WORTHY of being my successor?? WHERE is your drive?'#jason todd #bruce wayne #batman #red hood #robin!jason #dick grayson #nightwing #batfam #batdad #batfamily #batkids #incorrect quotes #dc #crack #fanatical asks #fanatical posting #sidenote anon i am so sorry for not answering this earlier i always forget to check my asks ;-;

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wulfhalls · 3 months

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I'm not going to lie, but I am VERY INTRIGUED about how Chani's storyline is going to go. And what kind of relationship with Paul will she have with such changes?

they really went what if u loved a prophet u didn't believe in. what if u hated everything he represented but loved what he was underneath. what if u loved him until u couldn't anymore because u loved ur people more? what if love was never the problem but what he said and did in the name of love for u and for ur people. he never had a choice but he made it anyway. and so did u

#sooooooooo sooooooooooooo fucking good #the layers!!!!!!! this relationship just became 384884% more intriguing.#its also giving chani way more depth than in the book #asks #dune #paul x chani #dunetwo

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pumpkinrootbeer · 4 months

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last two episodes like

Charlie made a deal with Alastor VINEBOOM Alastor verbally confirmed asexual in the show VINEBOOM Vaggie has wings VINEBOOM Alastor could see himself getting attached to all of them VINEBOOM Vox is hard for Alastor??? Vineboom??? Pentious kissed then died VINEBOOM Lucifer is here VINEBOOM Alastor is missing VINEBOOM Adam is dead VINEBOOM Vox is still abnormal about Alastor VINEBOOM Alastor is back and desperate to get out of his deal VINEBOOM PENTIOUS GOT REDEEMED AND LILITH IS IN HEAVEN VINEBOOM VINEBOOM VINEBOOM

#:v #hazbin hotel #the finale was really good #genuinely won be over with this show #alastor #hazbin hotel spoilers #charlie morningstar #sir pentious #Also I would argue he got confirmed aroace because Rosie wasn't talking about sex she was talking about romantic relationships in that scen #either way I'm thrilled this is a win for the asexuals I love my unhinged aroace crazy crazy deer man #his bit in the finale song gave him so much depth 😭 love him 🫶🫶#if anyone wants to talk abt hazbin... My dms and asks are opennnnn 🫶🫶🫶 peace and love

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creativepromptsforwriting · 10 months

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Hello! Uh, I have a character who's kind of co-dependent on their partner but, I'm not sure how to show it in my writing. Do you have any suggestions for signs of co-dependency?

Hi :)

Signs of Co-dependency

always waiting for the other person before doing anything

not recognizing each other's boundaries and not enforcing boundaries

having low self-esteem

feeling the need to be of service to the other person

struggling with their self-image and self-worth

making excuses for their partner

being self-sacrificing

needing their partner's approval

avoiding conflict, taking on blame

failing at proper communication

minimizing or ignoring their own wants

doing things to make their partner happy

asking for permission

fear of rejection or abandonment

guilt over doing something "selfish" (for themself)

making themself uncomfortable for other's comfort

Hope this helps!

- Jana

#anon ask #ask #writing prompts #signs of codependancy #writing inspiration #relationship prompts #writeblr #creative writing

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