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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 9 days

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three cheers for sweet revenge stimboard

🥀 | 🥀 | 🥀

#stimboard #stimmy #my chemical romance #special interest #stimboard hoard 👽#sfw interaction only

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 9 days

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Helena (My Chemical Romance) stimboard!

Requests are open!

#helena mcr #my chemical romance #sfw interaction only #fav songs #stimmy #stimboard hoard 👽

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 9 days

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🦈 -> Whale Shark/Manta Ray Stimboard !

📦 -> with blue, silver, glitter & star stims !

📬 -> rqd by @justyouraveragealien !

📘 -> 🌟 - 🌊 - 🌟 / 🌊 - 🌟 - 🌊 / 🌟 - 🌊 - 🌟

🔓 -> requests open ! rq rules !

DNI -> NSFW/Kink/Bigots/Etc. I'll Block You.

#stimboard #stimblr #stim #sfw interaction only #🫧special interests #stimmy #stimboard hoard 👽

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 13 days

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Can you please make a moodboard based off my blog?

Hi! I am so sorry it rook so long! I hope you like your moodboard my cookie <3

#sfw agere #agere #agere blog #sfw age regression #agere moodboard #agere stimboard #kiddo me 🩷and middle me🕷️🎸#stimmy

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 18 days

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Having a Little who was Emotionally Abused Means...

“Emotional abuse is one of the hardest forms of abuse to recognize, […] It can be subtle, covert, and manipulative. It chips away at the victim’s self-esteem, and they begin to doubt their perceptions and reality. […] An emotionally abusive relationship is one where there exists a misuse and abuse of power aimed at isolating, manipulating, and controlling the victim for the primary purpose of meeting the vacuous and stilted emotional needs of the abuser.” (Source)

Frequently reassuring them that you love them very much and will not hurt them

Reminding them that they are good enough and that they are amazing just the way they are

Praising them when they are assertive and/or stand up for themselves

Understanding that their abuse may have caused underlying disorders (Depression, PTSD, Anxiety, etc.)

Learning what their triggers are and avoiding them as much as possible

Never yelling or raising your voice at them (You should never do this to your partner, regardless of regression or history of abuse)

Understanding that they may have self-depreciating mannerisms as a result of their abuse, and helping them to change those habits (ex. they may say things like “This thing is upsetting me but I know it’s stupid and I’m stupid for being upset. I’m sorry for being upset over it”. Try and help them learn that it’s okay to have thoughts and feelings different from yours and that it’s okay to express those thoughts and feelings)

Really, really, thinking before you speak (ex. Could this come across as mean or angry or passive-aggressive, even if I don’t intend for it to be?)

Reminding them that they are valid (Many people who were subject to emotional abuse feel as though what happened to them was “no big deal” because it was not physical. Their pain and experiences is just as valid as anyone else. Just because they don’t have physical scars doesn’t mean what happened to them was unimportant)

Understanding that sometimes they will need time alone, and knowing that when they need time alone it doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong, they just need some time to themselves

Never pressuring them to talk to you about their abuse. First of all this is just rude, because it is nobodies business but theirs, and second of all this could trigger them into a panic attack, depressive state, flashback, or other traumatic responses. If they want to tell you then they will, if not then remember to respect their boundaries

Understanding that they may be ultra-sensitive or easily hurt, and if so, treat them carefully and respectfully (It’s a result of abuse, not a quirk, they can’t just change it and not be sensitive)

Providing them lots and lots of love and support! Even though emotional abuse doesn’t leave any physical scars, it is still abuse. It’s very very harmful and manipulative. It can take a very long time to recover from emotional abuse, so remember to be patient as they are working towards recovery. Always always always encourage them to see a professional who can help them on their road to recovery, and teach them safe and healthy coping mechanisms!

#sfw #sfw little post #kiddo me 🩷and middle me🕷️🎸#trauma #trauma things #tw trauma #emotional regulation

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 1 month

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🌸 -> Mangle (FNAF) Stimboard !

📦 -> with pink, band-aid, glitter & other medical stims !

📬 -> rqd by @justyouraveragealien !

📘 -> 🐾 - 🎀 - 🐾 / 🎀 - 🎀 / 🐾 - 🎀 - 🐾

🔓 -> Requests Are Open ! Request Rules !

DNI -> NSFW/Kink/Etc. A Minor Runs This Blog !

#stimboard #stimblr #stim #sfw interaction only #mangle fnaf #fnaf #fnaf stimboard #pink stim #glitter stim #middle me 🕷️🎸#comfort character

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 1 month

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In honor of euphoria day, could you please make a drabble of Rue meeting with the reader and Ali at the diner, and just having a therapy session, ? Like Rue’s special episode? Btw, I love your writings for Rue and Zendaya! ( Rue’s a huge comfort character for me and Zendaya’s my favorite celebrity)💕

of course 💖 i am happy you find comfort in my rue & z stuff

"listen to me, rue-" ali said turning to look in the direction of the bathroom to make sure you weren't coming. "you hurt that girl again, you're never getting another chance with her." he put down the finger he was pointing at her.

rue's eyes were big, her lips in a pout as she nodded. she knew that. she knew her actions affected you too. after she'd confided in ali that she was having difficulty with her sobriety, he shut it down quickly as soon as you'd gone to the bathroom.

"you don't need to be high rue," he said again. his voice lowered when he saw you coming out all smiles as you waved at her like you hadn't seen her all day. "not when you have her," he cleared his throat when you sat next to rue.

"food not here yet?" you comment looking at the empty table and then at rue who was shaking her head. a weak smile on her face. "you okay?" you almost whispered looking at her with concern. rue nodded rapidly giving you a warm smile. you felt her hand slide across the booth to take yours under the table. she gave you a slight squeeze and you softened feeling reassured.

"better not be doing something nasty under the table," he joked though his voice was serious, when he turned to look at you his eyes were warm.

rue wrapped her arm around her kissing the top of your head. you were the most important thing to her. she wasn't going to mess that up.

#rue bennett #rue bennett imagine #rue bennett fluff #rue bennett blurb #rue bennett x fem!reader #rue bennett x you #rue bennett x y/n #sfw interaction only

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foreverashapeshifting-autistic · 1 month

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