#'a very calming person to be around'

[pallideinanis]

please god help i can’t stop laughing

[What Pokemon type are you?]

You represent the WATER type!

The Water type is all about mutability. You flow through life like a gentle stream; turning and rolling with events with ease, never breaking under pressure. This strength, however, may come from apathy, Water-type. It is important to be present in one's situation, in order to retain some control. Even water follows its own currents, after all. You are a very calming person to be around, full of ease and relaxation. Others can feel your easygoing persona radiate outwards when you're with them, making you a great person to take a load off with. However, when you are finished relaxing, perhaps you may find your focus can be razor-sharp. It's up to you, Water-type, to bring out your hidden potential.

#of course i was like psychic or dark pls #but when he got water i was pleasantly surprised and tbh it's true #i'm satisfied with this answer for this BRAT #but then i read this result #'a very calming person to be around' #'full of ease and relaxation' #'easygoing persona' #[...] 'making you a great person to take a load off with' #The Void tempts mysteries and craves answers... || DASH GAMES #i really like that apathy remark tho #the beginning of this is v good

[munsonfamilyband]

Bitchy Steve who is also touch starved is so personal to me

Like, Steve who is just overall in a bad mood and has been snapping at anyone and everyone all day. Everyone is over at his house and he’s just bitching at everyone for the smallest things. Dustin brushes crumbs off his hand onto a throw pillow that normally Steve would have no issue with, gets him ripping the pillow away from Dustin and shoving it on the couch out of reach. Mike makes a snarky comment and Steve bitches right back. It keeps going until one of the kids (probably Will or El because Max thrives off of Steve’s bitchy moods) goes up to Eddie to beg him to do something, anything, to fix Steve’s mood. Eddie just looks at the kid and then at Steve and is like “I got this.” He walks over to Steve, grabs his arm and pulls Steve with him towards an arm chair. Eddie plops down into it and pulls Steve down on top of him, arms wrapped tight around his waist so he can’t leave.

Steve doesn’t even try to get away, he just huffs and crosses his arms but everyone can see him lean back into Eddie with a frown still firmly on his face. As they keep sitting there, Eddie ending up with a hand in Steve’s hair, they can see the anger slowly drip off of Steve. And even if he still sends snarky comments, they don’t have nearly as much bite to them.

#stranger things #eddie munson #steddie #steve harrington #this is such a personal thing #i love soft steve but he’s also such a Bitch and I love him #there are 2 people that can calm steve down and they do it very similarly #eddie just brings steve down to sit on top of him and he wraps all his arms around steve #robin climbs on top of steve and does basically the same this as eddie but from in front of him #steve getting a weighted blanket and being like oh??? this is like getting hugs always

[daily-hanamura]

#p4 #persona 4 #p4g #persona 4 golden #hanamura yosuke #yosuke hanamura #god do i have so much to talk about in this scene #first of all yu's hug kills me because thats a very intimate hug thats not a bro hug where you put your arm around their shoulders #thats a hug where he put his arms around yosuke's waist!!!! #when yosuke says that's for girls... i kind of see what he means? personally id only hug my romantic partner the same way but hey #second of all and more seriously i think this is a really good example of how Yosuke's words frequently fail to match up against his action #yosuke might complain about how the hug is for girls but it doesnt stop him from holding on #the scene fades to black and yu says they stayed on the riverbank until yosuke calmed down #so they mught as well have hugged for the whole time? #idk im personally obsessed with the contradictions between what yosuke says and what he does because expressing himself is not his strength #Yosuke's words cannot be reliably taken at face value but i think his friends - and yu especially - come to learn and accept that abt him

[spaciebabie]

shoutout 2 this person in my class who i can tell wants 2 talk 2 me really bad but instead of doing that whenever she has the chance she'll talk 2 whoever else is around and ignore me entirely unless im mentioned by name

#bruh lmao #so awkward. say something you dingus lol #ik you wanna talk 2 me so bite the bullet already #gyatt #spacie spoinks #literally. she was having a conversation with my partner for the project im doing. and like #heres the thing #if im not invited into conversation i usually dont participate #im like a vampire like that #and so like. after they're done conversating she'll just kind of. stand there. this has happened twice now #like dude sdkfjshlkdfj #im not upset by this behavior i have very awful social patterns as well and have been thru this (i am autistic) #am i gonna hafta say something. lol #probably #''hey bro whats up with you. i dont mean like how are you doing. i mean like. whats wrong with you.'' #cant say that its not funny when you say it irl only when the ppl you're talking with know you're not being mean 😭 #also like. this person has been staring at me lol #which like. makes me flustered so whenever she's around i panic and my face fucking turns red its god awful #for awhile it made uhh. my paranoia get really bad im ngl!! #its already bad when it comes 2 being around strangers but this like made it REALLY bad for a few weeks #im more calm now tho. rational brain won over and im chillin #i gotta work up the courage 2 say something b4 the semester is over or this is gonna bother me for the rest of my life sfkjsdhflkjs #i dont wanna put her on the spot #the only time i see her is when im in class #and . doing that interaction in front of ppl. i dont wanna embarrass her ksjfskjd

[blugnettabutterflies]

Vague Conspiracy 52 spoilers

Guilt Trip.

#criminal case #Gabriel Herrera #criminal case the conspiracy #digital art #digital drawing #artists on tumblr #like #I think about Gabriel's reaction around David's attempt a lot #imagine that you are the person who is taking care of your coworker who is a very emotionally driven person #and said person just lost someone he loves so much #that he cannot tlak or anything wihout crying his eyes out #and being a sobbing mess #you lose sight one second #and suddenly hes on the ground withour breathing because he overdosed on the sedatives that you have and apply on him to calm himself #the guilt he must have felt must have been huge #i think about it a lot #i wanna analyze it so bad

[jils-things]

to love someone is to heal someone

#~ art #♥️ memoryshipping #ignore tags if youre just here for the art and not me going full diary mode #anyways ... this is a little personal to me #especially with how i treat her here. i think this is a direct projection of how i'm feeling right now #today has been a little harsh on me - maybe a little painful even #i'm okay now - because i resolved it. albeit harboring some bits of anger to it but its not worth fighting about anymore #its hard to say that i'm - very optimistic so to speak because it's only one pillar i just jumped over and there will be more later #and this is me coping with it and im lucky to have mustered some energy to at least express it through drawing #i havent been drawing much for myself and it makes me sad because its my source of happiness #my time for drawing is being repurposed for other stuff right now and it still is and i dont feel entirely happy doing it unfortunately #i still have many things i want to follow up on my drawing list especially in my recent interests peaking again #but i resorted for now to making something im already used to. stevaide lol fgsjsddsjjsdjkghsdjgdjkhskjghshsgsasjhjsjksdjfhsfasgs corny ass #rest assured im at a somewhat relaxed state right now. throwing boops here and there calmed me down because theres people around me #who ig thinks im cool eajdhajhd #ahh anyway

[hamartia-grander]

Jesus fucking christ I hate the US south

#Cw gun mention I guess #I was feeling super nauseous so I went into the kitchen to get ritz crackers #And we're at my grandma's rn for Christmas and she has windows in the kitchen that look out at the road/other houses #And NO curtains or blinds because she's old #And anyway I turned a small light on so I could see the crackers and I hear a fucking man outside shout “WHO'S OUT THERE” #In the heaviest southern accent. Mind you every fucking person in this area has a gun bc there's lots of trees with squirreld they shoot #And logically now that I am calming down I know it was just a bad coincidence and he was probably yelling at smthn in his yard #But jesus fucking christ I felt such immediate intense fear my head went cold #Ran to my baby brother's room bc I was certain someone was gonna come kill us #Then the rationality took over and I just told my mom about it. But now I'm sitting outside his room eating crackers bc I'm fucking paranoid #It is almost 4am and I haven't slept a wink I cannot do this rn #But literally the last time I went for a walk around here my dad told me not to go alone and also not to say anything stupid #And also stay far away from houses bc I could get myself shot #Literally what the fuck is this. #“Afearican” except I'm still very much in the US #Not to mention almost every fucking house has a blue lives matter flag and some have isr*el flags now too like #I fuuuuucking hate it here

[starredforlife]

some fun facts about me. i’m exhausted and stupid. often insufferable. sometimes i forget this and make it other peoples’ problem. the reason i do this is bc i will legitimately feel like it’s the end of the world if i don’t. i have control issues that r so bad i can’t take weed gummies bc i get too angry that i can’t appropriately order and execute my thoughts and i hate the idea of looking stupid so much that any incident of it happening causes me to lash around like a wounded animal or an exploding rocket. and sometimes this finds a way to hurt others during fallout which obviously sucks. but also. im so chill and so flexible 👍🏻

#star’s thoughts #dl #im so chill I also have no chill whatsoever im the most neurotic calm person you’ll ever meet #TIRED. #(I’m okay btw I’m being angsty . I am alright 👍🏻) #I don’t actually have like anger issues it’s more like. shame issues. it runs very deep it makes it hard to be around people sometimes

[carcarrot]

i love my job that's like if you asked someone to design a place specifically meant to frustrate, torture and overstimulate an anxious person

#i cant do this anymore. i obviously will but like i cant do this anymore #you might think college-eduated professional people in a fancy office building would have some understanding of personal space and manners #but you'd be wrong! #i am staying in this job for everything aside from the actual job itself which i hate #im just here for the pay the insurance and the time off #and the fact that i can carve out important goofing off time during work hours. which just means i can be on my phone lmao #that being said i do sometimes miss my cafe job #i was more my own boss there and often worked completely alone (yay) #whereas here even though im kinda the boss of my own floor. i still have to deal w my dumb supervisor and coworkers and manager #plus at the cafe i had sole control of the music that played there. very important. lots of steely dan #sometimes when the work got really busy it sucked and was overwhelming but it would stil calm down eventually #and ill always hate dealing with annoying customers. but at least there they LEFT #here its the same assortment of idiots every goddamn day. and theyre always around #like yeah the cafe job had annoying things (taking out the trash from the basement. up stairs) #but it did have its fun moments #it just didnt pay nearly as good as this job and had no insurance or paid time off. oh well #this has me thinking abt what if i owned my own place. but i don't wanna

[ciderjacks]

why are these the same couple

#ok. like. guess which ship im talking about here: #Guy is calm and logical but also very obviously deeply traumatized. Autistic/autistic coded and has a lot of friends despite audiences #assuming he’s gonna be an outcast. Also trans/trans coded. introverted but genuinely cares about the people around him and displays #incredible kindness for everyone even though he is low empathy and comes across as an asshole sometimes. very selfless. #Girl(?) is genuinely unhinged and also clearly traumatized. Autistic coded too but its less obvious to audiences. worshipped for her #looks. not really treated like a person or respected at all. obsessed with appearing perfect because thats what everyone expects of her. #extroverted but not really. empathetic and nice but struggles with being earnestly selfless sometimes. #they work as a couple because the guy doesn’t really care what she looks like and just treats her like anyone else would #and she is allowed to actually be herself and unwind around him. which in return makes him start genuinely enjoying her as a close friend. #and they end up being one of the only people who understands the other. #guess. guess which one im describing. #abedison #saiteru

[theres-whump-in-that-nebula]

Nothing pisses me off more than when people talk about my friendships with mid-support needs autistics and other people with differently-wired brains as if I am descending to help them because I’ve taken them on as a charity case. That is NOT true. Oh they’re a burden because they’re neurodivergent? WELL GUESS FUCKING WHAT: SO AM I! THE REASON I HAVE SO MANY FRIENDS WITH SO MUCH SHIT WRONG WITH THEM IS BECAUSE I HAVE A LOT OF SHIT WRONG WITH ME. WE ATTRACT EACH OTHER! WE LIKE EACH OTHER! IT’S NOT THAT FUCKING HARD TO UNDERSTAND!

#How about I just start strangling ableists from now on? #Would THAT convince them I’m actually this person’s real friend? #Literally nothing I say to them is able to get through their dense fucking skulls— #as if it’s sooooo hard for them to believe I actually enjoy their company #Also (halfway unrelated): if I hear “It takes a special person to work with special children” one more time I am going to SCREAM #Tell me I’m calm; tell me I’m patient; tell me I’m creative— do NOT tell me I’m “special” for doing a job I LOVE #Can you imagine telling a quantum physics major “It takes a special person to solve special math problems?” #😂💀 WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. I’m gonna start saying that to people from other professions. To see how they like it. #The children are not a burden to me; the children are very enjoyable to be around #and I enjoy troubleshooting what is preventing them from learning and coming up with workarounds for them #I made a glued roll of paper for a kid who constantly peels their skin because I saw them peeling crayons #It works! #I made math problems into a Skibidi Toilet role playing game for another kid who hides under tables when it’s time to work. It works! #You know why I was able to come up with either of these inventions? Huh? You wanna fucking know? #1.) I peel my lips and mouth and palms of my hands and calluses and cuticles and scabs; and #2.) I have awful executive dysfunction and have to do weird stuff to engage myself #People talk to me like I’m one of the “normal” ones; little do they know I’m getting assessed for ADHD and score 142 on the RAADS-R #and I essentially self-destruct when I get mad so I don’t break valuable items or punch through drywall and oak doors #I give myself bruises that swell a half inch high and form hematomas under the skin #I think I’ve permanently weakened the blood vessels and a vein in my right thigh from beating it so much #because it only takes one well-placed blow on my right; but several blows to my left #And I can see the bruise pooling towards my heart along the path of that vein from day to day after the initial beating #and sometimes it just randomly aches when it’s not injured; so I have to shift my weight when the kids sit in my lap wrong #so with that and something else I did to it not super recently that I should have gone to urgent care for… I probably have nerve damage lol #so it’s gross when people say such things about other NDs to me as if I am above them #Just fuck off already

[not-poignant]

I’m sorry to hear about the stress you’ve experience with your new pet. Obviously, your trauma is the main factor, but I work in rescue, and wondered if you’ve ever heard about post-puppy depression? It’s Google-able and more common than people think. There’s no shame in making decisions that are best for you and your dog, whether it’s keeping or rehoming (which you probably know already). All the best! No shame from a puppy professional!

Hi anon!

I did look into post-puppy depression/puppy blues, but my therapist/s and I know that this is like... /thinks/ I don't really know how to put it, but I would say much more severe overall because of all my pre-existing stuff.

But I appreciate your post!

We're still hoping not to rehome, and the days are kind of getting more bearable, but I need to know I can return to my old quality of life (which frankly was actually terrible) before we know either way. It's been a journey!

But yeah post-puppy depression is absolutely a real thing. It's been pretty eye-opening tbh, I mean I knew I had my triggers and stuff, but just like as an autistic person, the disruption to my routine has been pretty devastating. (It's also like - I knew I could never have children, now I know I can never have children, like, zero possibility, never happening).

#asks and answers #personal #tobermory the cavoodle #i've actually just come back from being outside with Maybe and Toby #because they need a lot of like habituation to each other still due to Maybe's incredibly high prey drive #so it's a lot of mutually giving them treats when they're calm and quiet around each other #and seeing how close they can get #and then getting Toby to disengage #thankfully he *is* very calm around her #Maybe is the issue with those two lol #administrator gwyn wants this in the queue

[impostorsshow]

Happy New year everyone! I'm aware my post is late since I am 1 making this post 10 minutes after the New Year started, and also I live in one of the later timezones. However, I wanted to share that as a part of this new year, I've made a resolution; [obligatory read more since editing me has decided this is kinda long]

My resolution is to defeat [not 100%] every Zelda game that I have a copy of or aqquire this year. I think it's a task I can actually do and isn't too far off into impossible land, and to kick it off I spent the entirety of today completing [the first quest] of the original NES Zelda, in one sitting [like its meant to be] and abusing savestates every frame because I don't have very good control over mobility in games god help me if I play a precision platformer like ever. Anyway, completing this game is a very big deal to me, since I normally have a Very Big Issue with actually seeing the end of the game, and on top of that, it's a very hard game that i have held on a pedastal for years, and will continue to do so. I had to use my damn Zelda encyclodia and a guide to skip 70% of the final dungeon, too, though im nowhere near ashamed of that.

Here's proof for my own sake, as well as a few doodles, zelda related things in the encyclopedia that i may or may not do a redraw of later, and just general things that make me happy in my camera roll to start the new years off with some positivity. Remember kids, you don't gotta celebrate shit if it makes you feel bad, but make sure to take as much positivity as you can, however and whenever its avaliable, feeling happy is the difference behind surviving and living. If you don't have a new years resolution or are scared/dislike having one, that's okay and don't let anyone pressure you into that stuff! Just make sure your safe,stable and as happy as you can manage in your current situation.

You can tell this recording is mine because I never upgraded my bombs /j

#talk talks #important #zelda ranch dip #on a technicality #i saw a drawing of ravio and its the Only official art ive seen of his hood that i think looks cute so im gonna redraw it #i also want to learn how to digital paint but eh if i dont get around to it its okay. i got time everyone's got time #on nights like these i feel happy in like the “lets go sit outside under the stars and talk about our bad feelings so we dont have to think #of them anymore. lets trade thoughts and hopeful wishes in a hope they might come true“ yknow? its a nice #oh shit wait right yeah thats hust how feeling calm is like 90% of the time i can feel my chest being tight with anxiety #im a very anxious person but anxiety dont help anyone so you probably wouldnt know until like. i have a heart attack or something ive been #waiting on that to happen since i was 14 dude. ah dammit calm is over anyway happy new years! stay safe!

[bylertruther]

just remembered lucas and will's excited tappy-hands hugs and also their strong, stable, full body, will's chin hooked over his shoulder hugs . i am both Healed and also Dead

#the power of byclair...... wrow ... #srry not to be a person that recognizes that gender norms exist but it means so much to me tht lucas - the kid who was presented as being #The Man^tm and talks abt being a real man and is a jock etc etc - has so many real ass hugs with will. not that bro shit mike tried to give #will at the airport but REAL hugs. and the fact that it's treated normally. like. ok. i am fine i am so normal and fine over this i am #so totally feeling very calm about this 100% #lucas 'don't be a pussy! >:(' sinclair collapsing on will when he first sees him ... lucas 'like a real man' sinclair giving will tappy #hugs ... lucas 'insert some other quote of his abt being a man tht i dont rmr exactly from s3 here' sinclair standing firm and holding will #who's crying and has his chin hooked over lucas's shoulder ... lucas 'jock tht made the winning shot' sinclair wrapping his arm around will #n touching his arm or whatevr with his hand n again letting will hook his chin over his shoulder . like. and he does it so naturally he #doesn't think anything of it at all bc he just loves his friends and lets them love him. i'm ok guys im' fine i love him a normal amoutn #they r the characters of all time .................... ever #ellipses for dramatic effect.

[unnerving-presence]

anybody else kinda scared in the re5r they’re gonna make wesker angry as fuck the whole time with little to no actual character besides being angry plus sometimes a cocky asshole

#please he is so much more than that do him some justice #we see a tiny glimpse of that in re4r and i rlly hope they don’t make him just irrationally angry at literally everything ever #like he is a fucking asshole but he’s also super intelligent and very capable of fighting do not make his character revolve around anger #in many of the games he is very calm !! #he’s really only pissed as fuck when his plans are getting fucked #he’s getting fucked up #or someone he hates/finds a challenge actually overpowering him #because he is.. you guessed it! a cocky asshole who doesn’t like it when people are better than him #i could go on a bit rant about wesker’s confusing ass character but i swear he is not angry all the time he is quite the opposite #re5 should not be the staple for wesker’s personality because they did him dirty in that game

[seekingthestars]

me: man my shoulder/neck have been hurting for weeks, i'm gonna sit with the heat pack on them to see if that helps

my body: oh that's cute, guess what's that gonna get ya? mild heat rash HAVE FUN

me: okay well at least they don't hurt anymore, right?

my body: INCORRECT

me: okayyyy well nothing ELSE hurts at least?

my body: FOOT PAIN

me: _(: 」∠)_

#personal #this all sounds very dramatic and it's not quite as dramatic as it sounds lol #but my shoulder/neck HAVE been hurting for weeks #and i did accidentally give myself what i'm pretty sure is mild heat rash from the heat pack in my attempts to make that feel less awful #so that's annoying #but i also got it to a place rn where it barely hurts (KNOCK ON WOOD PLS DON'T CURSE THIS FOR ME) #so now it's mostly just the prickly/stinging heat rash annoyance #foot did start hurting right as neck started to calm down a bit though but it's not bad just sorta mildly annoying?? #i am simply tired of being in some kind of pain lol #i have also taken to ignoring my to do list and instead just laying around playing video games/watching things when i can #and that's a nice change of pace lol #i can't ignore the list forever but it's getting ignored for a little bit at least jfieowafew