#200911

[abcthv9597]

200911 - bts_official_bighit on TikTok

#200911 #seokjin #kim seokjin #jin #jin bts #bts jin #bts updates #bts #bangtan #tiktok

[svt-archivo]

11.09.2020 Seungkwan en weverse

#seventeen #seungkwan #dk #200911 #svt 2020 #svt weverse

[kyulkyung-updates]

200911 Joo Kyulkyung © pinker do not edit, crop, or remove the watermark

#200911 #pinky #Zhou JieQiong #joo kyulkyung #kyulkyung #f:pinker

[taeminrecuerdos]

11.09.2020

En la cuenta de Instagram de la revista 'ELLE' Corea,se publicaba este pequeño video de Taemin mostrándonos la portada individual de éste, para el reportaje dedicado a SuperM, que salió para la edición de Octubre 2020.

#2020 #11092020 #200911 #1109

[vanimeiy]

200911 WORK STUDIO WEIBO

trans:

“limited” sweet-tempered fair lady style xiao-zhao (emoji)

good night 🌙 see you tomorrow

Photo：@摄影师林志勇

Make up & hair：@NAN-Beauty杨单

Stylist：@Yoka_Zeng

#赵露思

#zhao lusi #200911 #white dress short

[rocketpunch-updates]

200911 Punch Juri at Video Call Event © juriet do not edit, crop, or remove the watermark

#200911 #rocket punch #juri #takahashi juri #video call event #f:juriet

[femaleidol]

CHAERYEONG 'Not Shy' Music Bank 200911

#itzy #chaeryeong #femaleidols #femaleidolsedit #femadolsedit #ggnet #by us #joanna* #flashing tw

[possession1981]

TAEMIN YHY Sketchbook / 200911

#shinee #taemin #lee taemin #superm #kpopco #kpopccc #malegroupsnet #ksoloists #dailybg #*mywork #ult #useroro #useranusia #userresa #useraweks #userjoanna #tuseral #lunanuggets #usertaeminie #i physically cannot stand it. GIVE HIM BACKKKKKKKKKKK TO MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE #*ults

[ye-xiu]

TAEMIN ✹ 200911 KBS SKETCHBOOK

#taemin #lee taemin #shinee #dailyshinee #dailysmtown #shineeedit #secondgenidol #userhag #midolsedit #userjinki #ocora #usermolly #useroro #aleksbestie #rosieblr #vilmatrack #userzaynab #*gifs

[yeosangsbouncytits]

TAEMIN | Hate Everything | (Sketchbook) KBS WORLD TV 200911

#taemin #shinee #lee taemin #taeminedit #shineeedit #dailyshinee #maleidol #maleidolsedit #maleidolsnet #mgroups #mgroupsedit #mgroupsnet #*gifs #*taemin #kpopco #*k

[minzbins]

MARK "BAD SMELL", 200911 for @bangzchan ♡

#mklnet #nctinc #itsnctsworld #dailysmtown #kiwitracks #userbeepls #useroro #hanatonin #mark #mark lee #super m #superm #nct #!melstuff #!nct #viki🥝 #came across this video again and thought hey bestie should have this hehe <3

[svt-archivo]

11.09.2020 Jeonghan en weverse

#seventeen #jeonghan #200911 #svt 2020 #svt weverse

[dailyclc]

Ending Fairy ✧ Helicopter Music Bank 200911

#yeeun #jang yeeun #clc #femaleidolsedit #femaleidol #femadolsedit #ggnet #kgoddesses #k-archives #isaishi #ceeblr #usermarynia #slmtag #tuserose #nugudomedit #kpopstages #gif #e:helicopter #ending fairies #by us #by mau

[taeminrecuerdos]

11.09.2020

#2020 #11092020 #200911 #1109

[waitingfortaemin]

Day 469 of Taemin’s enlistment

Taemin performs Hate Everything @ Sketchbook 200911

#taemin #shinee #superm #kpop #lee taemin #shinee taemin #이태민 #태민 #shineeedit #shinee edit #taeminedit #taemin edit #dailyshinee #dailysmtown #dailytaemin #ksoloist #maleidol #boyidol #maleidoledit #boyidoledit #shineesource #lq taemin #lq shinee #yoo hee yeol's sketchbook #taemin 2020

[religion-is-a-mental-illness]

This is probably such a dumb question but I recently got out of a very hardcore law of attraction /law of assumption community and though I now finally realize its all bullshit ive been in it since i was young and they really drilled this stuff in my head. Recently my pet passed all of the sudden without warning and i did think about her death a lot and it shoved me right back into the mindset and all i feel is that im responsible because i thought/imagined her dying a lot in my life bcs of anxiety and just intrusive thoughts. Now for the question: do you have any articles, sites whatever with evidence that the whole manifesting inst real? My algorithm is completely fucked and all i get is "evidence" in the way of stories, ted talks and youtubers that it is real💀 its so annoying how people can just spread this as a fact

Sorry to hear that. Here's a few links:

https://skepdic.com/lawofattraction.html

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-blame-game/201609/the-truth-about-the-law-attraction

https://alexandriathibodeaux.medium.com/debunking-the-the-law-of-attraction-championing-the-principle-of-attraction-instead-dfeb8cc4c4f

https://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/the-law-of-attraction-is-a-dangerous-delusion.html

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/embracing-the-dark-side/200911/the-law-attraction-science-faith-and-the-cult-positive-thought

https://skepticalinquirer.org/exclusive/secrets-and-lies/

You might find Derren Brown's "The System" and QualiaSoup's "Superstition" useful too.

It's not really any different than prayer, and has many of the same problems, such as how contradictory desires are resolved (the farmer wants rain, the bride wants sunshine), and why believers aren't unquestionably more successful than non-believers.

In short, the Law of Attraction is magical thinking that hinges on cognitive flaws such as Confirmation Bias - the tendency to spot "hits" with your expectations, but not the "misses" - Unfalsifiability - particularly the claim that if it didn't work, then that's your fault for not having enough "faith," because it always works to the True Believers - and Apophenia - the tendency to see meaningful connections between unrelated phenomena.

It may be wise to see someone to talk through some of this. You've been indoctrinated into a cult, and undoing that cult mentality isn't going to happen overnight. Your school or work might offer access to a therapist for a few sessions as part of your enrolment/employment benefits.

As with any former believer, give yourself a break. Acknowledge what you've come out of, be proud of what you've already done, and recognize that it's going to take some time to unwind your former ways of thinking. You're going to slip back, but what's important is recognizing it, interrupting it, and making new, better, healthier mental habits.

This is particularly true when you've been encouraged to adopt comforting lies that give you the illusion of control, when the alternative is accepting that much of the world is random and arbitrary. Although I actually find that comforting - the universe isn't out to help you, but it isn't out to get you either.

"The universe isn’t fair. But it isn’t unfair either. It’s indifferent. To you and everyone else. Which seems fair." -- Ricky Gervais

The universe is indifferent, which is why good things happen to good people, good things happen to bad people, bad things happen to good people, and bad things happen to bad people. And it means that the most important things of all are what you do, not what you can talk the universe into doing for you or on your behalf.

#ask #Law of Attraction #manifesting #cult of LOA #The Secret #magical thinking #confirmation bias #unfalsifiability #cognitive flaws #apophenia #religion is a mental illness