#I love the quiet introverts

[subby-muffin]

I think the best thing about me is that I both do and don’t have a type.

Like I have so many types that it basically doesn’t mean anything anymore.

(That’s what happens when your demisexual/romantic and therefore everyone is kinda the same to me until I’m attracted to them… that is to say I’ll think you’re really cool and love platonically until the moment my brain decides I like you more than that)

#personal #I love me some goblin people who are kinda feral #I love overly tired dilfs/milfs #I love bimbos/himbos #I love really sophisticated people who can just share all their knowledge with me even if I’m confused #I love the misunderstood rough around the edges type (like they’re really nice but kinda awkward and intimidating) #I love buff people #I love fat people #I love skinny people #I love people who like to geek out over stuff with me #I love the energetic extroverts #I love the quiet introverts #I just love people and love loving people #it’s so beautiful and so fun! #my partner currently is my string bean sweetheart #I can lift this man and regularly trap him by laying on him #he and I geek out to each other about our separate and common interests #we’re both very quiet and love to stay at home but we’ll gladly go out if the other wants to #he makes me laugh more than anyone by being both a silly little guy and really witty #he’s super smart so I always enjoy hearing his thoughts #he gives love like a cat #that is to say he like a lot of alone time but comes out to find me when he needs love and someone to sit with #I’m just in a very loving mood today

[duskcowboy]

Another day, another reminder that it was SJM and Bloomsbury themselves that confirmed Elain is an introvert:

Please, can we move on from this argument now?

#I’m seriously tired of this argument and the weird way people pin it on Elriels like we’re crazy for saying she’s introverted #it doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy social gathering and being talkative at times or like being around friends and family #introverted does not mean anti social #I’m an introvert myself and can only recharge my energy alone and in quiet spaces but I LOVE parties and gathering and hosting friends #I am LOUD and talkative with people I’m comfortable with #I am polite and converse at social gatherings and enjoy it #being an introvert does not mean I am sulking in a corner alone 24/7 not talking to anyone #elain archeron #pro elain archeron #acotar #a court of thorns and roses

[moondaepuppy]

Some more memes

(Mild spoilers for up to chapters 365)

#debut or die #testar #debut or die novel #debut or die meme #debut or die memes #the only thing i can thank T1 for is for being so memeable #anyone else love the song of stars scenes? the livestream they did to clear up the misunderstanding was hilarious 😂😂 i love raebin #i love bae as well that introvert just wants to sit somewhere quiet and read his book

[profounddefendorcrusade-blog]

Starlo's personality

I'm still confused about this man's 'true self,' gotta admit. How much of 'himself' IS there in 'North Star'?

What we know about real Star:

He's a nerd/geek obsessed with westerns; that's where he got the inspiration to build WE

He looks different than with the hat on and used to wear braces

Was shy in his teenage years around Ceroba (no idea how he acted normally) + couldn't confess to her

His mom (after killing him) says how he's never been the one to follow rules. I wonder what she meant by that. Rules, like, you're supposed to hate humans like everyone else or rules, like, no sneaking off to practice your shooting and lasso skills? Both?

Ed describes the 'old him' as a fearless leader and as a monster who could 'make his own fun in the little things' (you mean he used to be more humble but at the same time remained an ambitious risk-taker?)

Is insecure about where he comes from and what he looks like

We don't have enough info to know what he was like as a kid. I'm curious if absolutely everything about North Star is the opposite of Starlo (I don't think it is); both are kind and protective. Still, I can't help but wonder if the Starlo after Showdown, in both routes, is the real him or not. Maybe 50% yes and 50% no

Just from the end credits, the only thing I got about him was that he's kind and friendly and optimistic and charming (North Star is this way too, but more exaggerated). Nothing new

So maybe Starlo IS North Star, but more modest (aka not as exaggerated)

I'm curious about your thoughts guys.

Also I forgot to mention how he wanted to plan a PARTY for Kanako, in neutral says that the PARTY in the saloon was great (and the letter he sent was pretty charming), wants to accompany Ceroba in the Steamworks, is open about how he feels (immediately openly confronts Ceroba and calls her out; he's assertive), not afraid to get physical if it means protecting Clover & Martlet, can be pretty loud (like when he spotted Clover after sparing him in neutral, he was like "DEPUTY!!!"

I'm left wondering if all this is the real him or not. I think it is. Just maybe toned down a bit :) It's the only explanation for the fact he's been doing all this for a really long time and never showing signs of wanting to stop/that it exhausted him

#undertale yellow #uty #starlo uty #uty starlo #I wanna analyse his personality in a lot of detail #Just have to figure him out first #Is he actually a quiet shy guy or nah #Personally I think nah #Since he decided to be an entertainer #And 110% adores the role #I mean the dude successfully kept the persona FOR YEARS and dina didn't suspect he was a fraud #How the heck did he find the motivation and strength to keep up the act for that long #And use the fake accent #I don't think that's an introvert trait #I'd get exhausted after 1 day of acting #Also he wasn't as excitable as AFTER he discovered westerns #My boy just wanted a purpose and had none before #Love how dedicated passionate and ambitious he is #He took a HUGE risk by building this town but took it anyway for everyones sake #So they'd have a fun place to go to to pretend they're on the surface #Starlo DID value status but isn't it controversial to build a wild west town based off of HUMAN history #It was a risk for stars reputation in the underground and he TOOK it #He's way less selfish when you think of it this way #Sure he adored the attention but it wasn't the only motivation

[galaxymagick]

🤭🖤

cr

#vixx #taekwoon #jung taekwoon #vixx leo #*v:p #🖤 #*vx #i love the sound of and the way he laughs its so infectious #esp the first deeper sounding one #i could watch this all day ive already watched it over and over #no one makes him laugh as much as these two😌 #but dont be weird in my tags and say anything like hes so different now compared to x year #or mention anything about his so called character development he hasnt switched bodies or characters with anyone #lollllllll #this is when an introvert is comfortable and surrounded by loved ones ..hes always been silly and smiley #he can still be shy and quiet #😌

[ineed-to-sleep]

Couple of little references I made for my prophet's design bc I love him a little too much

#enderal #enderal forgotten stories #he's literally just Some Guy and yet. I love him so much #my traumatized widdle scrimblo #he's quiet and introverted and doesn't really trust people #but he's also compassionate with others and will help a stranger on occasion #but mostly just 'prefers the company of books' type of guy. loves a good mystery. hyperfixates on magic #goes nuts after his magical talent blooms at the beginning of the story #he's so excited about it. but from just looking at him you'd never guess it #he comes off as dry and unaffected if you don't know him but if you do and you peel off the mask he's literally just a scared little kid #overwhelmed by everything that's happening #but at the same time excited about the wonders of the world #this guy has been through sm and has sm ptsd that it's like. no wonder he doesn't feel comfortable around people #but when he's by himself or with someone he trusts he's absolutely adorable #he likes jespar and once he gets comfortable around him he rambles to him abt stuff it's so CUTE #his name is erin btw. just erin no last name #he's 5'7 and full of bisexualism #oc.erin #sleepyscribble

[cerise-on-top]

Rudy with a jealous s/o? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE I NEED THISS

Hello! Here you go!

Rodolfo with a Jealous!S/O

The moment he sees you’re jealous he’ll chuckle a bit but also be a bit worried. It’s nice to see that you like his attention enough to want it most of the time, but would he really be able to calm you down from your frenzy? He most likely could, but the worry is still there. At first he’d be a bit apprehensive about approaching you, especially if you’re being snappish and keep hinting at you being mad at him for spending time with someone that wasn’t you. If this doesn’t happen very often he wouldn’t know what to do, but if you’re a very jealous person and it keeps happening then he’ll have a talk with you. It’s not particularly fair to him that you always snap at him whenever he spends time with his teammates or friends, so he’ll sit you down and discuss your behavior and how you can both improve yourselves. Communication is very important to him.

If you don’t get jealous as often, then he’ll approach you after a bit and ask you what’s wrong. It’s up to you whether or not you honestly respond to him, but he’d much prefer you being upfront and honest with him. He won’t really know too well what to do if you just keep lying to him, pretending that you’re alright. Rodolfo will, however, take you to a secluded place if you’re out somewhere together and just talk to you. While he may not be the biggest fan of PDA, he would give you a small kiss, either on your lips or your cheeks, maybe even a hug if you’re especially mad, and apologize to you. He knows it likely isn’t his fault, but maybe an apology could calm you down. If it’s late and he’s been with his friends for a while now anyway then he could make time to just leave, especially if nothing important is going on anymore and the main events and conversation topics are over. However, if he has to stay for a bit longer, then he’ll apologize again, but promises you that you’ll be going back home soon enough.

Once you’re back home all of his attention is on you, if you want that. If you prefer to be left alone then he will let you be, but will check up on you once every hour and ask if you’re doing alright. But if you don’t want that then he’s more than happy to talk with you, or spend time with you in general. You wanna cuddle? Play a video game? Bake some cookies? He’s not opposed to any of those things. Because, truth be told, you being mad but quiet sort of scares him. He has to deal with loud, angry soldiers almost on a daily basis, so he knows how to put someone in their place if they’re being openly aggressive. Therefore you being so quiet is very worrisome and he’ll be on edge this entire time. As soon as you laugh again he knows he did something right, though. That’s the goal: To get you to calm down and smile, maybe laugh even. But he knows that, at the very least, it will likely be over by the time you both wake up again in the morning. If he can, then he’ll spend the next day with you. Or at least as much of it as he can.

#cod #cod x reader #rodolfo parra #rodolfo parra x reader #at first I thought I had already written something like this but no it was jealous!rodolfo and not jealous!reader. hopsie #as someone who gets jealous very easily I sort of vibe with this even if I don't condone snapping at someone just because of it #I used to get jealous when my ex would talk to someone that wasn't me. which happened a lot during school #but then again I also felt suffocated whenever he did spend time with me so I'm glad we broke up #Rodolfo would make for a much much better boyfriend. I'm not into men at all but I'd give him a chance in all honesty #he's a sweetheart. he's attentive. he knows how to cook. he knows when to be quiet. he's introverted #what else could someone want? #I do HC him to be more into men than women though. being in a poly relationship with him and Alejandro must be bomb though #they level each other out. Ale is more outgoing while Rudy prefers to stay home #perfect equilibrium. I wanna go on a hike with the two of them they'd be so proud of me. I also wanna hear them speak Spanish at me #I don't know the language at all but it's probably lovely to hear. especially something that isn't “pendejo” #they'd be two absolute sweethearts together to each other and to their s/o #maybe if I ever find the time I'll write some poly AleRudy HCs with a reader #I'm such a sucker for poly relationships. Since I'm poly myself naturally

[marsharmonicorchestra]

I have such a soft spot for the women in period dramas.

You have the protagonist, the one that’s not afraid to speak her mind, fight against the norm, be herself and is fiercely independent, and goes off on this epic love story.

But I realised from a very young age I was the other kind of woman. The side characters who go through the motions doing everything they’re supposed to do. They excel in everything they can to maintain a certain kind of peace for themselves and their family, and then, when they’re ready, get married off and have kids and that’s the end of their story.

The protagonist gets the love story that the other woman always wanted. It always made me so sad, because it wasn’t in me to speak my mind. I’m shy and awkward and afraid of disturbing my peace, so I’ve always just done what I was supposed to do, and I’m yet to have that great love story. The love stories I tried to have were for the sake of having them, so I didn’t fall behind.

I have such a soft spot for that woman. She dreams big, is often naive and wants this great love to come and rescue her. She wants children, not because society asks her to, but because it’s something she has genuinely always wanted. But because of the way society operates, she’s afraid to voice those dreams lest it ruin the comfort she’s found in her own silence.

I’m a Beth. I knew I could never be a Jo or an Amy, but I wanted so badly to be a Meg. Meg March made me so happy, because we both wanted those same things: to be beautiful and to be noticed, and to find true love and settle down and have the life we always wanted. I have dreams, but I see no reason why I can’t achieve both.

But I’m a Beth. I’m shy, awkward and going through the motions, clinging onto my childhood and praying it doesn’t go away, and I’m only my truest self around my sister.

I’ve seen so many films and read even more books where the other woman is described as uninteresting and boring because she’s soft spoken and doesn’t speak her mind. The only time she was described as anything else was if she was beautiful, which I didn’t believe I was growing up. So I had nothing going for me. There was never, ever a protagonist like me in a love story. Not a single one.

So when I write, I put a lot of my shy and awkward self into my characters, because I want to believe that I can have that great love story too. That I can be loved even if I don’t stand out in the crowd, even if I’m not stubborn and outwardly a fighter, and that I can be the lead love interest in someone else’s story.

I know I’m young and have so much time, but I truly I hope one day my Meg March dreams come true. It’s not because I’m boring or settling, but because I want to. It’s my dream. To find love and start a family. And that doesn’t make me uninteresting or lack a personality, it makes me happy.

#venting #period dramas do me so dirty #I love the quiet women so much #they mean so much to me #love #happiness #insecurity #period dramas #regency era #regency #period drama #little women #meg march #beth march #introvert

[computer-einstein]

Okay, tumblr... I am not much of a shipper. In fact, I don't even engage in typical fandoms.

However, there is no way I can continue going through the last few weeks of school without getting this off my chest:

Pencak Silat Kid and that girl in the gym are soulmates and you cannot tell me otherwise.

#einstein talks #I MEAN COME ON #THEY BOTH LOVE MARTIAL ARTS #ARE STRONGER THAN ME BY A FACTOR OF 50 #AND ARE BOTH QUIET AND SERIOUS INTROVERTS #it is only logical that I think this #// #code lyoko #jeremie casually shipping ulrich and yumi before they even meet #gym girl saga

[starbuck]

the fact that i enjoy talking in front of other people and gain energy and mental peace from running large group events is so fucking funny and truly the world’s biggest plot twist.

#I THOUGHT I WAS AN INTROVERT #I NEVER THOUGHT I WOULD BE GOOD AT PUBLIC SPEAKING #AND NOW IT IS LITERALLY MY JOB #and i DO still enjoy being alone in quiet places #but i also just love being with people #ran the main table at an eclipse viewing event today #chatted with a new employee and (hopefully??) made her feel welcome #was visited by two of my BIG bosses (a LITTLE scary - but i think it went well!) #and had over 100 people come up to my table #just great great GREAT times!! #and i JUST did a scout event over the weekend that involved over 200 people at our table #and that ALSO made me really happy #i fucking love outreach man - it’s so fun! #more more MORE!!!!! #*mary magdalene voice* i never thought i’d come to this… what’s it all about?

[skyward-floored]

Whewwwwww my cousins finally left

#I love them but they were here like one and a half days more than I thought they were gonna be #which for me who is introverted was sort of a lot #especially since I haven’t had a truly quiet day since... #hm #it’s been a while #but yeah it was good but it’s nice to have less people around again XD #rambles from the floor

[licorishh]

Hey as a super introverted but not shy person I'd just like to say the jokes about extroverts "adopting" introverts to "get them out of their shell" are actually completely unfunny and it just goes to show how little respect a lot of y'all have for the fact that we genuinely don't want excessive social interaction and that y'all are forcing us to do something that brings us extreme physical and mental discomfort because you perceive our introversion as a failing rather than as purely a difference in personality.

We don't need your "help" to socialize. We're not children. We're simply not interested in spending every waking second of our lives talking to people and being talked at in return.

#again i scream from the rooftops that there is a monumental chasm between being shy and actually being an introvert #a shy person is someone who's afraid of social interaction. an extrovert can be naturally shy. #a shy person can WANT lots of social interaction but simply have not learned to feel comfortable in social situations. #people who are just very introverted simply have little desire or capacity for excessive human interaction. #we're not “afraid” of it. we just don't enjoy it and it wears us out. #you don't need to swoop in and save us because we can't handle ourselves. we're perfectly fine thank you #extroverts are constantly demanding that we get out of our comfort zones but few of you are willing to make the alternative more comfortabl #if you're a very extroverted person please do not take it upon yourself to jokingly “adopt” introverts you meet. #it's not funny and it's not helpful. it's irritating that you perceive our quietness and low social battery as something that needs “fixing #we won't miraculously learn to love and be comfortable with excessive human interaction. that's not how we're wired and that's OKAY #i'm honestly getting so sick of the “the lonely introvert and the extrovert who adopted them” memes #i can guarantee you that if you are an extrovert who operates this way then your introvert “friend” is actually probably very uncomfortable #and just don't want to say anything because they think it would be rude to bring up the fact that they don't want what you want from them #this does NOT mean extroverts and introverts cannot be friends nor am i saying all extroverts are annoying or that they all do this #i'm simply saying that if you are very extroverted and you have a friend who's very introverted #then it's on you to be aware of your introvert friend's limited social battery and STOP pressuring them to just “put up with it” #don't spend every second with them constantly talking. be willing to spend some time just in the quiet. #be willing to let them bow out of something if they're exhausted and are low on social energy. #don't expect them to want to come to every meeting or party or get-together because it WILL drain them completely. #be willing to let them spend time alone when they need to to recharge. #letting an introvert cool off and recharge when they need to is ALWAYS going to make social situations less stressful for them. #PLEAAAAASE take their feelings into account and understand that they do NOT perceive social interactions the way you do. #most very introverted people do not find socialization relaxing or invigorating. they don't do it to unwind #they have to unwind AFTER lots of social interaction #that's about it. thank you and good night

[ixtaek]

As a loud introvert, I want to meet a quiet extrovert. We would be the most powerful duo ever.

#introvert #extrovert #I feel the energy drain around others but I am very friendly and not shy and love public speaking and performing #I assume my opposite is someone who loves helping people but is quiet and gets confused for being shy #but they like being near others #I get called extroverted sometimes but I’m not #I’m just not SHY

[latent-thoughts]

"Azriel is a fuck boi." "Azriel has the personality of a wash cloth." "Azriel is a creep." "Azriel is a stalker." "Azriel doesn't understand consent." Etc. etc....

I keep reading these mind-blowing takes in the Azriel and ACOTAR tags here, and....

All I can say is...

Well, reading comprehension is a rare commodity these days. 👀

#please go read the books again you numbheads #I'm so sick of these takes #my dude keeps getting all this hate and for what reason #he is always ultra careful with females #to the point of changing his posture and stance to make them more comfortable around him #he is quiet yes. but that doesn't mean he lacks personality. RIP all introverts #He fucking pulled away from Mor when she rejected him. She pulled him back into the circle #loving someone is not cut and dried. he loved and desired her and yet respected her wishes. never pushed her for anything #what are all these people smoking? #honestly guys...one doesn't need to hate on one character to uplift others. I love Lucien too. I like Gwyn very much. I adore Elain #no need to diss Azriel #azriel acotar #azriel shadowsinger #azriel #acotar #acomaf #acosf

[neriyon]

♡ - romantic headcanon

Hawu'li is very romantic person, and will happily drown his partner(s) in pda or very cheesy gestures if they so choose. He'll happily pen them love letters or cook romantic candlelit dinners for date nights, walk everywhere holding hands or cuddle under a blanket while watching sunset together.

However, he's pretty bad at noticing anyone flirting with him. Anything subtle and he'll just think you are being nice and friendly. It even took him a while to realize Haurchefant was into him, to give some perspective.

His love language is definitely physical touch, but he'll show his love in any way possible. Words, gifts, helping out, anything goes. He's not shy about showing he cares about someone.

#he can honestly be a bit much for more introverted partners #few make it work with the fact that he has other partners too (so he'll just go bother them if you need some space) #and some have to just remain friends due to it #he can tone it down a bit if asked #for example aymeric prefers to keep pda to a minimum since general public of ishgard does not know they are dating #ah also i go with more of the jpn haurche than the en one #so he was not subtle haha #so any quiet pining will sadly most likely stay that way unless the other person gets the courage to say it out loud #or something big happens #(like w/ g'raha. hawu'li didn't want to lose him second time so he confessed first and was surprised to hear he loved him back already) #purple catboy

[tklishbrwngrl]

Good morning lovely people! Oh my god I'm having the best introvert day at work ever 😆 this HUGE building, that is always packed to the brim with rowdy chaotic people and keeps me constantly overstimulated and overwhelmed, is SO empty I can hear the cars driving on the rain soaked road, someone's JBL something connecting with their signature chime, and someone eating something crunchy on another aisle.

#lovely thoughts #I'm not a grouch I swear #some days I feel like I'm at a daily 8hr house party that starts at 7am #it's a lot #introvert #quiet days #and there's no work to do too??? 😁 #not tickling #how's your day going?