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aarid · 9 months
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bitching about the queer community a little from the perspective of a trans man based on the last thing i reblogged but
GOD that really is it isn’t it, that’s how goddamn isolating this community feels some days. on top of the movement to praise women (please keep doing this btw, we win together or not at all) wrapping around into actively double-standard-misgendering people (’girlies/girl help/etc’ being seen as gender-neutral and almost exclusively coming from...not men, but also those same people yell at you if “dude” or “bro” is gender-neutral in your personal lexicon) or just flat-out discouraging people from being positive toward men (this is TERF rhetoric please clear your mental cache every once in a while), we’re locked out from the solidarity we built up with women before we ever came out. we go from someone who Knows (tm) to The Enemy (tm) the moment we swap pronouns, and it’s heartbreaking. this is EXTREMELY prominent for older trans men. so many of us didn’t know for so long. i was 25. i’m 31 now. i’ve only spent 20% of my life knowing who i am and living as a man, and i was raised in a very queer-positive environment and was out to EVERYONE within a week of realizing i was trans. people who find out in their mid twenties or later have already had their literal entire childhood shaped by misogyny, especially those who were NOT raised in queer-friendly environments. and then we’re out, and we’re shoehorned in next to cis men that don’t accept us until we’re so transitioned we can be stealth, and are told there’s no way we understand what women go through, like i don’t still bleed, like i don’t have tits, like i wouldn’t fucking get it in the deepest center of my bones even if i were post-op because i lived it for a quarter of a fucking century. and this goes both goddamn ways. trans women are women and can still be misogynistic as FUCK because they were raised in the box that perpetuates that and society treated them differently growing up. stop with the "man-hating feminist” bullshit, stop with the “trans men can’t understand misogyny the way women understand it,” stop with the “trans women can’t be wrong about women’s struggles” shit. we are human beings. the parts we were born with may not value us one way or another intrinsically, but every one of us grew up in a societal norm that we have to unlearn and pick apart because of the circumstances of our birth. that’s part of the world we currently live in and until we DO pick it apart and learn to be better, it is not going to change. and be a little goddamn nicer to trans men, fuck’s sake.
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gonna try and be on here more often, twitter wont let me say stupid shit
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nessa007 · 2 months
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nick saying he’s bi actually is not cringe!!! affirming your identity is not cringe!! being proud and assertive and sure of who you are and what you want to be referred to as is not cringe!!!!! it’s courageous and brave and prideful and beautiful!!!
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ma1dita · 2 months
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like do you understand how mad i got when i saw this boy on my screen so much so that i edited the days count off the side
and he dont have his goofy smile on! what a concept! poor guy
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rius-cave · 2 months
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This week on Adam needs his own trigger warning
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beanzbeanz001 · 3 months
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Evolution of Micheal’s friend group (even tho it’s sorta mark focused whatever)
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oat-pup · 5 days
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they like being tall
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thetrolltolls · 9 months
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they are sharing a snack!
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aarid · 8 months
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still gonna be figuring shit out for a bit but. one piece only blog that'll probably have WIPs on it as well as me chattering away about my thoughts and ships has been made. it's not gonna be a reblog-heavy thing. @enteisabo is where you can find it!
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beck404 · 9 months
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I WAS SPEECHLESS-
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i fw clown bitches but i am NOT watching hazbin hotel
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rainymoonbows · 2 months
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something more lighthearted
I just think that the two cats of the hotel should interact
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i despise Ben Hope as much as the next person but I was literally sobbing at his arc, every time he was on screen, I couldn’t help but feel my heart break a little because this is a 16 year old boy who’s living with homophobic parents, who has a friend group filled of arrogant, asshole-ish jerks and has spent years cultivating his ‘bad boy’ image because men are raised to be like that. If you’re not a bad boy, your masculinity is questioned. And in between all this hatred, this boy is coming to terms with his sexuality and hating it—he hates himself and who he is. Which turns him into a bitter and hateful and a horrible person altogether and it doesn’t excuse how he treated Charlie and the assault or any of the horrible thing he’s done ofc, but I hate how this kid was turned into this shitty scumbag of a person because of circumstances and whatever. And the last scene, kudos to Charlie for saying fuck off to him, but also wishing him to change, because I feel the same, I wish Ben works on himself and stops hurting others and himself and that last shot of the rainbow making it’s move towards him and him stepping back—poetic cinema honestly.
I wish that Ben and boys like him find the courage and strength to take that step and jump into that rainbow.
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ma1dita · 6 days
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giggling today at the thought of most of luke nation taking almost a month long hiatus and chilling until the mf charlie bushnell posted a picture and we're suddenly slowly crawling back into the trenches
we're all interlinked fr 🤞🏼
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chvoswxtch · 3 months
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seeing pictures of charlie, elden, and deb back on set together and looking so happy legitimately makes me emotional like we really got them back y’all
we as a fandom fucking did THAT 🥲
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