don't let endo spaces convince you words like dormancy and integration are bad things; for some that will be recovery, and what that system needs.
recovery can be so beautiful and important. If another system expresses this joy and you feel threatened and uncomfortable with just hearing the words to the point of wanting to silence others' stories and recovery, you are only protecting yourself from addressing your own insecurities about those things, and even taking away newly discovered system's ability to understand and talk about these subjects in the community.
These are natural and important parts of systemhood. While you may not be completely prepared to talk about these topics in your own system, having these topics blacklisted and some sort of taboo is a failure on your own end to close the chatroom that is talking about it, or excuse yourself away. You have no right to force your discomfort onto other people.
A healthy system can talk about these topics and how the options can be good for the system, or not what the system needs. THATS good inner system communication. Which will lead to being confident and comfortable with these topics.
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New home made sys meme fresh out the oven
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system things 3
not knowing who's fronting. who am i? who are you?
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realizing youre Real is .weird,,
like you can exist for Years??? never noticing??? never thinking about Yourself. assuming you are the host, or assuming you are another alter.
it is WEIRD to sit there with your morning coffee, having a conversation, and just suddenly the stars align . and you realize how different you are from "you" . you realize you werent "you", you were actually YOU the whole time.
I KNOW THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE BUT I HOPE SOMEONE GETS IT
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"my brain said"
Translation: an alter said something funny that I must share with you
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did/osdd creature!!
1- two heads!!!
2- three heads even!!!
3- why not give him multiple eyes on his brain 🤯
[if someone's done this lmk, i would love to see that holy shit]
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Shoutout to all those systems that were "perfect" and "easy" in childhood, but were actually deeply traumatized and isolated.
Shoutout to those same systems that started showing signs of early trauma later on, and were then considered burdens and told that their trauma just "suddenly appeared"
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*picks up ur system and shakes u all like a snowglobe and watches ur headmates fall everywhere*
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let’s play a game of Who’s Fronting?! anyway nobodys right everyones wrong and someone is crying somewhere
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[Text; This system stands for a free Palestine!]
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If your page is safe for endos, then you as a person are not safe for trauma victims.
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Sometime the way to cope with autism meltdowns is to just have a Bracken from lethal company take over to take a bath and eat shark gummys
(Endos/Tulpas DNI)
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system things 8
having object alters
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plurality is not defined by switching.
plurality is not defined by headcount.
plurality is not defined by an inner world.
plurality is not defined by distinct headmates.
plurality is not defined by communication.
plurality is not defined by getting along internally.
plurality is not defined by an origin.
plurality is defined by multiple consciousnesses/identities in one body. if you say you’re plural, we and many, many others will always believe you. no two plurals are the same, and no one can tell you what you are or aren’t 💞
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how do i uninstall Severe Childhood Trauma
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I make myself laugh rlly
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