#home buying stress

[mfi-miami]

Homebuying Has Become More Stressful Than Dating

Redfin Study Shows 59% Of Americans Believe Homebuying Has Become More Stressful Than Dating  A recent Redfin survey shows that notable 59% of recent homebuyers found homebuying has become more stressful than dating. Homebuyers purchasing a home in today’s market have deal with unique set of anxieties. Buyers are increasingly ghosting sellers as housing costs climb. Buyers and existing…

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[jellyjamheadobb]

Not this being me at a local grocery store earlier :D

#I was really stressed with some family stuff #And thought it would be a good idea to go walk to the store that I go to almost all the time for food and stuff #Like I literally know almost all of the ppl that work there and vice versa #but yay me I kept being dumb #I hit my hand against those green glasses of water things #The uhh sparkling ones? #Idk what they’re called #And broke them #And it broke me lmao :3 #I had a fucking meltdown in the water aisle #It was so fun sis #Not absolutely mortified and embarrassed and won’t be back to that store for the next month #I straight up left my stuff that I was gonna buy and went home #So now I’m ok #anyway hi :) #rey rambles #meme #memes #dumb shit #funny #relatable memes #funny memes #lol #best memes #tumblr memes #twitter memes #dank memes #humor #jokes #haha

[sea-buns]

ive had a horrible day. like fucking god awful. i thought it was tuesday. i open dropout thinking maybe ill watch a silly little game changer cuz frankly i dont even feel like existing rn

AND ITS NEW FHJY DAY?

WHERE THE FUCK DID MY WEEK GO?!

#recently ive also considered buying a physical calendar and this has only cemented that idea #what did they do with monday and tuesday are they okay #ive got such a post-mental breakdown migraine thank god there's no cr tomorrow lol #cuz idek if i can watch my silly emotional support millennials rn #its the episode where they introduce the stress mechanics guys #is it still silly funny jokes? will i be laughing today? or will we be hitting even closer to home this evening? #clicking on a d20 episode has never felt like such a gamble. this entire season needs a content warning. true horror. #sea rambles #d20 #fhjy #<- for my own organization needs. apologies to the main tags

[comradekiwi]

kghn fic where hinata gets hit by a car on his bike ride home. or his bike gets stolen (pseudo sugar daddy kags arc maybe if tobio pays for a new one ?)

#can’t believe i’ve never read this before #if anyone has I am always so happy to receive recs #kghn #kagehina #hinata shouyou #kageyama tobio #it would just hurt so bad and I rly rly love when fics play on the underlaying themes that make hq so deep and complex and authentic #and beautiful #like the difference in resources and accessibility b/w hinata and kageyama #bc of differences in background/wealth #hinata having to do a half hour bike over a mountain to get to school/home every day has always broken my heart a little #like. fuck he’s just a kid #he’s trying so hard #he’s working so hard #now imagine his bike gets stolen #he relies on it and loves it and maybe can’t afford a new one #he’s so sad and worried and torn up #and he’s stressed tf out bc obv his parent(s) can’t drive him or they would (?) #maybe they can but it’s not sustainable #enter kageyama. freaked out by hinata’s tears. doesn’t like how they make his chest feel weird. buys him a new one. #hinata: did you get a new bike . #hinata internally: it looks just like my old one the bastard #kageyama: it’s yours #hinata: excuse me #this reminds me of that fic where kageyama is on a sports scholarship in uni and a year older and buys hinata things kshfksgkfdhk #it was rly cute #oh the accident one is bc every time there’s a shot of a car on the road while hinata bikes home I have a heart attack #ITS NIGHT TIME. YOU DONT HAVE A HELMET. THERES NO ONE ELSE ON THE ROAD. UR ON THE ROAD AND THERES A CAR #scares the shit outta me I WISH YOU DIDNT HAVE TO DO THIS BABY😭😭😭 #even tho it’s super important for ur character and themes etc etc ikik

[lunaetis]

tfw stress & exhaustion resulted in me buying a hella expensive mechanical keyboard but it's a beauty & i will let myself starve while i stare at it.

look at this absolute beast of a keyboard i love it sm.

#.ooc #.mobile #[ me still at the event packing & disassemble the structures #while wondering how did i let myself have such an impulse buy as stress relief #then stare at how pretty it is & i have no regret #IT'S 10PM & I'M STILL PACKING I WANNA GO HOME & SLEEP BUT THIS IMPULSE BUY IS JUSTIFIED I WORK HARD ]

[ialwaysknewyouwerepunk]

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#these past two weeks have been so intense that ive just.. not spoken about it once i got home from work #blocked it all out #my beloved colleague whose desk is next to mine has cancer #breast and uterus. she needs two major surgeries #they just diagnosed her two weeks ago #so we've been trying to deal with that as colleagues and friends #because we love and miss her and i am so deeply sad as well #but i feel like i couldn't process that at all bc two days after the news of her diagnosis i was asked to take on half of her work #on top of my fulltime #which i agreed to do bc i like her tasks and i want to help her and i also know i can do it #but it does feel very off bc i know i don't earn enough money for this workload to be long term and it is def like this #for the coming four months at least #so i did tell my manager that i would like a raise and. that bitch told me to BUY MORE SECOND HAND SHIT. #i seriously thought i saw my life flash before my eyes #then the day after she asked one of my colleagues who's been with the firm for over 30 years whether she was looking for another job maybe? #which caused that colleague to instantly go home in tears and be home from basically a nervous breakdown the past 1.5 week #which is her full right and i support her with all my heart but bc my management sucks it meant that we had to also carry her tasks ofc #i felt soooo spread thin and super super angry actually but i didn't even realise how angry i was until last thursday my colleague w cancer #came by the office. and talked about all of it. and i suddenly realised how sad i was but then also how angry #but i was just blocking it all out trying to stay afloat #bc we told her about what the manager had said and she said “i hope that i get the chance to really tell her how it is someday.” #“because the stress she causes with people can actually kill you. just look at me.” #and the rest of the day i felt so ready to be done with everything actually #but seeing her anger made me see my own anger #and released me of my own pent up emotions bc i had actual leg pains this week and it was purely psychosomatic #i then managed to tell some friends yesterday about what was going on and their outrage spurred me on even more #so today i emailed hr. demanding a raise #doing this amount of work while constantly feeling like the house is on fire while also struggling financially seriously makes me suicidal #and i am not joking #so.. if nothing comes of that im leaving that job and not looking back

[malleleothreesome]

i wish i could have a silly little day on tumblr but I have to read my 80 page HOA document to see if the boomer condominium overlords will ALLOW me to get my new dishwasher (that i bought on black friday like a true, miserable adult marching towards death) DELIVERED AND INSTALLED on the 23rd as expected or if I have to cancel the delivery because there are too many rules for me to abide by and my soul is simply too tired to jump through the necessary hoops to comply.

#i cannot stress enough do not buy a home with an HOA #i have a condo in LA so it was unavoidable but if you can avoid it by all means please save yourself #they wont even let me change my fucking BLINDS because the windows belong to the outside word I guess and not to me #guys i am an idiot and i only skimmed the HOA docs while i was buying the home #because i thought the only relevant thing to me was the pet policy #when i found out a few weeks after i moved in about just how many rules there were I cried my eyes out #the worst is there is always some elderly woman with nothing better to do than be the HOA police #speaking of dishwashers have you noticed they all fuckign SUCK im hoping this one i bought doesn't suck #my last word of advice is that word on the street is to NEVER buy a samsung refrigerator #i mean its hard tho cause they look so cool....u know....... #they come in so many colors.....................like pink #.................its so.................................tempting............................. #but apparently they break and theyre like impossible to fix and its like a horrible waste of money......... #but i cant help but be like.......................but what if that DOESNT happen to me????????????? #like what if samsung got their shit together and i can just have a really cool pink refrigerator #guys im fucking rambling because im procrastinating reading the HOA doc lord HELP me

[coquelicoq]

my ex, who lives alone, is apparently about to buy a 5-bedroom, 4-bathroom, 2-garage house. what. i'm getting stressed out just hearing about it. tf you gonna do with all that space, bro? how you gonna clean all those bathrooms???

#he's like well i want one room for my home office and one room for my hobby and one guest room #add in a bedroom for him and that's still only 4 bedrooms? you have an entire extra bedroom???? #plus an extra garage??? #damn he thinks he's lonely now but dude just you wait until you spend every day ALONE IN A FIVE-BEDROOM HOUSE #trying not to project too much onto him but i really think this is absurd outside of my own preferences #he's been stressed living in his 1b apt bc his hobby takes up a lot of space #but i think this is just another example of his general propensity to treat the symptoms and not the disease #the problem is he's overcommitting & extending himself too much & he never finishes anything #that's what actually stresses him out #so him in a 5b house is just going to be him filling all that space with stuff until he's stressed again #anyway i have NO IDEA how to react to this because i think it's such a bad idea #i'm really bad at faking things i don't feel but i feel like it's too late to say 'wyd bro???' because apparently his offer was accepted #i did ask him how he's going to clean 4 bathrooms and he said he's just not going to use them #also it feels weird morally for a single (rich) man to buy an entire 5b house only for him in the middle of the seattle housing crisis #not like if he didn't buy it someone else would buy it and make it into affordable housing units so maybe it doesn't matter #still feels weird though and contributes to me not knowing how to react #if you have any advice for me followers...i am all ears #i've been really floundering on how to be a supportive friend to him lately #just really struggling with how to engage with him when it feels like he's his own worst enemy #and like it's not that he needs to have the same priorities as me it's just that he comes to me all stressed out and idk how to react #bc 'no shit you're stressed out. have you tried making completely different choices?' isn't a great option lol

[daisywords]

the worst part about being a pianist is that you can't just...simply take your instrument with you

#friends I am BEREFT #I was incredibly lucky to have my own piano for the last three years of college #and I mean like. someone gave it to me for free #and I also had access to a social network in the area + a pickup truck + my father who is an experienced piano mover and problem solver™ #but anyway I could not bring it with me when I left #and even if I could just manifest it here there is nowhere to put it in this house #that's the thing like. you can find pianos pretty cheap on facebook marketplace these days #but moving one is a whole ordeal #and then you have to have somewhere to put a whole piece of furniture #our living room is tiny :( #thinking I could maybe fit a keyboard in my bedroom if I could find one #but it's not the same... #anyway my best hope atm is getting door access to the church I attend #but I have yet to converse with anyone in a position to help me with that #and it's only a short walk which is nice #but still not the same as home piano #ik ik this is a very ''first world problem'' #but for most of my life I have been in the habit of playing almost every day #it's stress relieving! it's creative! it was...kind of loadbearing in some ways... #it's a very Jane Austen predicament. where's a secret fiancee to buy and deliver a surprise piano when you need one

[heavenlydreamangelflyhigh]

moms getting competitive w her eating disorder again

#she keeps mimicking how ive been living and now that ive been sliding back and restricting again due to stress #she's been body checking around me more talking about how much she works out how 'toned' she looks #and dishing up smaller portions than me only eating half and then saying 'oh i'm so full...marie #if you can't finish yours just throw the rest out...' #she had her friend over yesterday and the poor woman made the mistake of confiding in my mother and i about her ed #and i gave her some advice for recovery & let her know that anorexia is hard to tackle esp when you're taking care of someone else at the #same time but its doable..and she was asking about what i do when i relapse #and obv i didnt go into detail so as not to like. give any ideas. but it was nice to have someone Nice to relate to on that front #immediately my mom jumps in with 'oh i restrict too! thats what i do! i go days without eating and count my calories. #marie doesnt work out like i do because their therapist said not to..but i work out so i can stay toned and confident.' like no you dont #it hurts me that shes doing this shit to herself but i know shes doing it in front of me to feel superior because she Always Has #its CYCLICAL with her. as soon as my gf left the mask came back off and she was right back to the mama i know #using MY CLOTHES to body check using MY MIRROR infront of me i feel insane. #like i told her i feel disgusting because i gained two pounds and im at 114 now and she immediately started talking about her weight and #that we need to stop buying 'junk food' #MOMM....OH MY GOOOD... #whatever whatever . i'll get over it in a few mins im just pissy in general and i feel like i live with a 15 yr old sometimes. #ed ment #i will say it uswd to be worse when she wasnt in therapy n shit but hhghhthtnf even my dad who is Never Home has picked up pn it and has #started checking her and telling her to keep it between yhem bc i dont. i canr handle that rn dude

[meowonhao]

my ticket finally came!! 🩷

#i rarely have to use my full english name unless it’s stuff like this that i have to verify myself #and it always reminds me just how long it is ajshsbsjsk #like especially in korea but honestly even by like american standards #think it’s like 26 characters total including the two spaces since i have to do my first middle and last name 😅 #long ass line blacking it out taking up half the ticket #diamond life #anyways story time! #no one knows the stress interpark has put me through in the process of actualy receiving this ticket…. #was supposed to be mailed out like within a week of buying it #took forever to do that #Then they finally did like sometime last week and said expect it to come 3-5 days #and it came thru the post office and i was like okay probably next week because they don’t deliver on weekends #or so i thought #anyways that was like thursday i think? then i get a text like friday afternoon #saying oh we tried to call you to come deliver the ticket (bc i have to sign for it) but you didn’t answer so #even though i did not have a single call that wasn’t a saved number all day #so i immediately called the number that texted me and they were like well it’s too late to come today #(it was like 4pm) #and it’s about to be the weekend so we’ll come on monday just make sure you answer the phone this time #even though they literally never called me in the first place 🙄 #pretty sure they were just pretending so they could go home early on a friday ahsjsks #but the thing was. i wasn’t even expecting it until this upcoming week so they could have just waited and i never would have known #ANYWAYS so i was like okay fine i’ll make sure someone is here to get it on monday #tell me why i slept in bc it’s sunday and i don’t have rehearsal and i was woken up by a call #they’re like i’ll be coming to deliver your ticket in about an hour! #like it is literally sunday and you said you couldn’t deliver on weekends…..but whatever i was like oh 네 감사합니다 you know #then dude came like. 5 mins later i’m still basically half asleep and look like a mess #but anyways none of that really matters now bc i finally have my ticket but #it put me through so much unnecessary stress bc i’m always paranoid about stuff like this until i have it physically in my hand #even though i knew it was gonna come and be okay

[pepprs]

discovered miah_pie on t*ktok (<- i don’t have one btw i just stumbled upon her bc someone i follow on ig talked abt her) and her videos make me want to cry so bad. 24 year old dependent moment

#purrs #i went to a clothing store today to try to get new work shoes and pants bc the one pair i have of each literally have holes in them and are #falling the fuck apart on my body and it was a HORRIBLE experience largely bc i think everybody in town was out shopping for back to school #so it was super crowded and there were lots of screaming kids and it was extremely stressful + my dad got into a mini car accident while i w #was in the store (he was / is completely fine thankfully but the car is not which is so awesome 😍😍😍😍😍) and i was just so stressed and #overstimulated but also like… nothing fits me bc im so short lol. but anyway it was so horrible i was on the verge of starting to cry in the #store and then i came home empty handed and my mom got super pissed at me for… needing to go to the store / being the reason we were out lol #and then finding miah pie and her videos are all about making trips to the store SO much fun and buying little treats and saying yessir and #OHHHHHH MYYYYY and just finding the joy in smth that can be so stressful and unpleasant… it makes me want to cry happy and sad tears at the #same time like i want that soooo bad and i can’t do it fully yet but i want it. need it. fuck my stupid baka life #anyways im gonna start saying the stuff she says just to make myself feel better even when im not at a store. yessir! OHHHHHH MYYYYYY. #acquired. don’t mind if i diddly dooooo! #also btw i am not a dependent except for the ways i am a dependent. hope that helps 🫶🏻 #the problem is really that i don’t have a car or a license and also that my mom throws a fit every time i need / want to get driving #practice bc it’s never a good time so. lol 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍 me doing drivers ed this summer was a fucking joke i forget literally everything i #learned and have only been behind the wheel 3 times and none of them have actually counted bc im just developing basic motor skills #(literally). fmlllll im never getting out of here who am i kidding 🤪 #delete later

[bsaka7]

god it has been a Day

#uncle refusing to make an appt with a cardiologist despite HAVING A STROKE shoestring family seeing college friend who i hadn't seen in 2yrs #who is recovering from PNEMONIA new city buying train ticket new train train journey my mom's stressed and her knees r acting up and i help #annnnnnnd work stuff is starting to happen which God bless but also a bit stressful. #sorry for POSTING #And im not even home for another hour and a half maybe

[weenhands]

im so upset i think im literally shutting down

#im just so overwhelmed all of a sudden because of this fucking course #i cant just relearn everything (i have the time and ability to do so) but it #just isnt fuckiny right and to get a min 50 on the exam #for a course thats known for a severe fail rate #im just. idk i feel frozen and bad and shitty idk how 2 study for this i cant just half ass understand everytbing #even if thatd EXACTLY what i did for my other exam??? #bc i Did remember some stuff #idk i think im overreacting i need to calm down #bc i am literally spacing out and i need to go home i dont wanna be near anyone im gonna buy some #food so i actually fucking eat and go home and like probably try to gather myself together #i think i just suddenly went down a bad mentsl path and dhdhhxhdhxkchdodruwiyfieud now im fucking stressed the hell out #i need to calm but iNeed to fucking study this goddamn exam is on mondsy u fucking idiot ans u didnt do #good on ur other exams because youre such a stupid failure jesus christ its stats you absolute fucking dumbass #god im incapable of ANYTBING i shouldve killed myself in december literally such a waste !!!!!

[jahsontodd]

I had my first settlement yesterday

#I get a cut of this payment too so #yippee #I honestly am stressed on what to do with it #do nothing? #buy something cool? #put it toward *gags* buying a home? #we have like 4 more trials this year I don’t think my heart can take it

[unganseylike]

in good news … i thought i cracked my phone two weeks ago and was quite sad about that but today i got the motivation to change screen protectors (in case i dropped it again wanted to keep it from cracking more) and it turned out it was just some very convincing cracks in my screen protector. thank you lord i can keep my phone w a home button for a little longer

#needed this forreal guys #obviously was stressed that it was gonna get unusably bad and id need to figure out how to buy a new phone #but like. my first concern was shit what if i not only need a new phone but i cant get one w a home button