#if you feel safe here - you are welcome.
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[ID: A fifteen striped flag. The first and last four stripes all have small bumps facing inwards. The stripe colors, from top to bottom, are desaturated orange-yellow, pastel desaturated orange-yellow, desaturated orange-yellow, pastel desaturated orange-yellow, dull pink, light pink, pale pink, white, pale pink, light pink, dull pink, pastel desaturated orange-yellow, desaturated orange-yellow, pastel desaturated orange-yellow, and desaturated orange-yellow. In the center of the middle flag there is an icon of a halo with wings, while the other flags do not have said icon. End ID]
♡ ⁔⁔ IMPURANGELIC ... !!
[PT: Impurangelic. End PT]
— A gender related to impurity and angels. This gender is the feeling one may have of feeling defiled or impure, while wishing they could go back to when they were pure. This gender is also related to the song "Pure as a Lamb" by Baby Bugs, fallen angels, mourning over what could have been. It embodies mourning, melancholy, and a wish for a softer reality.
— This gender was created with trauma survivors in mind, and I would prefer if only trauma survivors use it. Despite the religious themes to it, it is not exclusive to religious trauma survivors. This term was not created to aestheticize, glamorize, or romanticize trauma; it was created for coping reasons. The use of the word "impure" is not meant to be derogatory, nor is it meant to promote or romanticize unhealthy mindsets. Once again, this is a term created by a trauma survivor to cope with feelings related to their trauma.
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Idk how people will be anti self dx and then call sb a narcissist like so I can't diagnose myself based on my lived experiences and research because I don't have the qualifications to diagnose others but you who also doesn't have that qualification can diagnose people with a disorder you probably barely know about?
This post is not about being concerned and telling someone you know personally that they should look into something to see if that might be the case, that's a suggestion. This post is talking about people who are making videos on YouTubers who get exposed and calling them narcissists like... You don't even know them. Besides they usually won't even show signs of NPD, they'll just be manipulative and maybe have a pretty big ego and sense of self importance but none of the other signs, like an unstable sense of self, need to be praised, or a genuine lack of empathy* are present. And that's only to name a few symptoms, others also rarely appear when these YouTubers get called narcissists for being bad people. A narcissist is not the same as being a bad person, you can't call everyone you don't like a narcissist. Despite the people I'm specifically referring to, this post can also be about anyone calling somebody, even someone they know, a narcissist without having a single clue how the person thinks or what narcissism even is.
*A lack of empathy is not the same as not caring about others. Empathy is the ability to understand how others feel, and to feel with them. A lack of empathy is not a lack of compassion. It does not mean you don't care about others. It means you can't really understand how others feel. You can't read their feelings and you don't feel a certain way just because they feel a certain way. People who don't have empathy can still care about others and people who have empathy don't necessarily care about the feelings of other people. Being able to understand the feelings of others doesn't necessarily mean you give a shit about the way they feel, and you may even find delight in someone being upset if you wanted them to hurt.
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From now until march, along with KOSA and support for trans folks/tumblr's transphobia, I'm only going to be reblogging posts about Palestine, Congo, Sudan and the potential other countries that I'm unaware of subjected to atrocities and genocides all at the same time (because just when you thought you've seen the depths of human vileness you learn about something else happening that makes you realise no you didn't). My blog's pretty small so this probably doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things, but since I didn't completely go through with the strike this time around I feel like the least I can do is this. General reminder to not stop talking about the genocides, donate if you can, write/call up your MPs, show support for the trans community and spread as much awareness as possible about all these issues mentioned. Stay safe, everyone.
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But yeah sure keep telling me how the anti-zionists are the good guys here
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Trans women are like the backbone of Tumblr’s nsft community. Not just in the sexual sense, but in creating welcoming environments with clear communication. They talk about their interests. reblog art, share important info about kink safety. and help carve out a safe space for other trans people to explore their sexuality in a safe environment where they don’t have to worry that their attraction is predatory or “too weird”. It’s wonderful seeing trans women so present and comfortable sharing their desires here!
Thank you Trans Women 💗
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Ember. adult. (25+) - sometimes I age regress to a teen mentality while stoned, but I'm still an adult.
he/they/it. ( she/they when regressed. )
transmasc. non-binary. queer. aspec.
autistic. plural. disabled.
blog mascot is March 7th from Honkai: Star Rail.
currently obsessed with:
Honkai: Star Rail. ( playing as Caelus, but I also reblog Stelle content. )
other rotating SpIns and hyperfixations:
The Coffin of Andy and Leyley. ( this is a good portion of my blog's content. )
Danganronpa. ( I have not played v3 yet. main content on this blog is Despaircest and ships involving Mikan. for all other DR content see my sideblog @kibogaminechaos )
Hazbin Hotel. ( any and all Vivziepop content is catch-all'd with the term 'vivzieverse' for blacklisting. )
The Umbrella Academy. ( invested in both the show and the original comics )
Umineko no naku Koro ni. ( I know the whole story but I have not finished a complete playthrough myself )
Kimi ga Shine / Your Turn To Die.
more tba.
thought crime does not exist.
fiction = / = reality
fictional characters regardless of their age and/or relation to each other do not have autonomy, and putting them in fictional scenarios outside of their canon source cannot harm real victims of abuse who can and should curate their own online and media consumption experiences.
my sideblog for more on these subjects, regarding anti-censorship, discourse and whatnot is @momentsofamberclarity. if you followed that blog and I've followed you back the follow is coming from here!
if you need something tagged a certain way for blacklisting, just let me know how you'd like it tagged. 💗 ( anon is on if you're shy! and you do not need to give me a reason for the tag whatsoever. the fact that you want to blacklist something is completely valid to me regardless of why. )
we are a plural system ( pro-all systems ) but probably won't go super into detail about plurality on this blog. when you see I/me/my/myself on posts rather than we/us/our/ourself it just means the collective system is speaking in unison; I and we are interchangeable and are often chosen based on grammatical context.
credits:
userboxes 1
userboxes 2
blog icon is March 7th on the loveship flag.
blog banner is March 7th on the Kawaii Escapism Syndrome flag.
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I have so many posts in drafts about Palestine and I still just don't even know what to say or where to start
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I’m not sure why some people feel pressured to act any different when someone popular follows them? Literally couldn’t be me. Like for a moment I’m in awe of like oh this popular person followed me, neat! Goes away very quickly though. My brain just moves on like oh okay guess this is part of my online experience now, gives you a little wave, & goes back into my digital apartment to go about my day.
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While I have no doubt there is a problem with revisionist history and shit, when a lot of people say “nazis aren’t punk” or the like, it’s not a statement of “there’s never been any troubling or historically racist or antisemitic behaviour in punk music or culture”
It’s a current statement that says “you’ll find no shelter here” it’s about creating no safe harbour for nazi posers. If the culture once gave them home, fuck them we’re going to change it. There is no home for nazis in my punk.
And *I* get to decide what *I* stand for. That’s one of the fundamental core concepts of punk as I understand it, and I stand for No Safe Harbour For Nazi Scumbags.
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What really pisses me off when people are like. No child should be friends with an adult; it’s (insert word/phrase that has been misused so much it’s kinda ceased to have meaning to me anymore) is… My older friends? Even though I’m 28 and yknow. An Adult. Have literally saved my life. Like not only do they have more knowledge about how things work (like Medicaid and food stamps and student loans and resumes and and and all the other shit nobody bothers to teach you and can be hella confusing/nearly inaccessible unless you Know but is hella important/can really fuck up your life if you’re not careful) and like…more experience so when they tell you “it’s gonna be hard, but you can handle it” or “I know it looks scary, but it’s not that bad and I promise you’ll get through it” or “it doesn’t matter if don’t graduate college, look at me. I didn’t. I’ve got a stable, well paying job. It’s not impossible to be comfortable without a college degree. And look at (other friend who is sitting right next to them), they worked their ass off for a double degree and currently not using it! You’ll be okay, you’ll figure it out.” your brain can actually believe them cuz yknow. They’ve been where you are. They have that life experience. And they’re not gonna lie to you because they love you and respect you too much to do that.
Like I don’t want to make it sound like friendship is a commodity, but older friends and intergenerational friendships can be so extremely valuable, especially to vulnerable younger people in abusive households. And I don’t even mean like in that they can offer you a place to crash cuz not every friend is gonna be able to do that and that’s OKAY. But maybe they can still help you in other ways. Even if it’s “just” holding your hand and validating your fears while you cry your eyes out but reassuring you that they believe in your ability to work through it. They believe in *you*. (And yes, I REALLY appreciate the same sentiment from friends my age and it’s also extremely helpful and I love them so very much. But it just sorta hits in a different way coming from an older friend. Not in a way that’s better or worse. Just different.)
Also something something seeing that you have a future when you can’t see past the next year or six months is just. So fucking reassuring.
Also. Older friends are just plain fun. I love my older friends and my life would be so much poorer without them. So yknow. Fuck people that condemn intergenerational friendships.
Also also something something something ‘fuck you for making me feel terrible/paranoid about wanting to offer my own experience to those younger than me. To help them in any way I can. As another fantastic and dearly beloved friend says. “If you start sounding like my mental illness, YOU are the problem and maybe need to re-evaluate some things.”’
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Me at my followers who feel like they don’t have anyone to talk to about stuff/feel like they’re “not cool enough” to interact with others:
Had a discussion recently with a friend and realized how nice it is to have someone to talk to about things that bother you/ stress you out. I’ve also seen some people say they’re scared/nervous to talk to people in the fandom so I’ve decided: I’m adopting all of you and will be your big sister, you can not stop me the paperwork is already filled out you all belong to Kat now.
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Hello, I just saw the anon ask talking about you not being on tumblr that much anymore and we don't really talk to eachother (I think we only ever exchanged messages once), but I wanted to say, while I can, that I have wonderful memories of this website and a lot of them include seeing the mangacaps that you reblog or reading your tags, including all of the occasional venting and even some of the adorable auntie stories.
If you allow me to ramble a little bit, I want to talk about the blog that you called "shitty" and how I think it is actually really cool.
You might not think that you do much because you mostly just reblog stuff, but I feel like all the mangacaps that you reblog are more meaningful than most people think. I think that they are an act of self-expression and throughout the years I've felt like those kinds of posts express a desire that people have to be more honest with their feelings and put them out into the world. I've felt like the mangacaps, combined with all of your text posts, probably do accomplish some of this.
I am not going to say that your blog changed how I view life or anything like that, but I can say that your blog, along with many other similar ones, have seriously been a part of my journey of better understanding myself.
For example, today I liked a post that had a guy feeding a cat in it. And I didn't like the post because the art was amazing. I liked it because I thought that the guy is gentle and that aspect of gentleness resonated with me personally. And obviously, there are times where I might like a post just because I think that the art looks cool, but I think that a lot of times when I'm browsing through tumblr I'm just learning more about myself through the things that I like.
Maybe the whole thing isn't supposed to be that deep, but sometimes (not always) for me it is. I think that this whole thing feels unreal for you because you don't put a lot of effort but I think that it is pretty cool that a bunch of people like the blog despite that.
As always, have a nice day and drink some water.
;-;
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[eyes narrow]
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WOW TUMBLR ARE YOU AGAINST ME TOO
BUILD TRUST WITH A PROFESSIONAL SYSTEM ADVERTISEMENT
AS IF THIS ISN'T THE EXACT FUCKING THING I AM TRIGGERED AND THE MOST DAMAGED BY EVERY SINGLE GODDAMN DAY I'M AWAKE
DO YOU WANT ME TO DELETE MY ACCOUNT AND STOP USING TUMBLR? IS THAT WHAT WE'VE COME TO? WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU EVEN WANT ANYMORE I CAN'T BE HERE I CAN'T FUCKING BE ANYWHERE
that's it
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I've been panic crocheting all day to the point where I got so frustrated I almost cried, as the existential dread of being an American today is so aggressive I keep almost having panic attacks (scared for the lives of my students, my nieces, myself, you know the drill) SO HOW ARE Y'ALL DOING? YOU OKAY? YOU TRY THE SALAD? I THOUGHT THE SALAD WAS GREAT HAHAAHHAHAHAHAHSHRUDGHUIOF *crochets another scrunchie*
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