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duckytree · 12 days

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whats the oldest you’ll date? im not kidding when i say mine is 61 and im 14. im sorry 😭😭

hello????? hello???????????????????

#that’s such a random ass number #do u have someone in mind????#but yeah um #this is none of my business but pls don’t date someone that old #you’re so young and anyone who says yes is automatically foul and not worth ur time #i’m already married so i wouldn’t date anyone #but my wife and i are the exact same age #a few hours apart but my time zone was different so on paper we are a day apart #i’ve been mentioning her a lot recently my bad #but my inbox is flooded with questions about her #asks

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bigfatbimbo · 1 month

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good morning tumblr, i’m officially never beating the Vox allegations because my ego has taken too many hits today and i want to be mean to narcissistic and pathetic men. Valentino and Sir pentious requests today <3

#MY DAY HAS BEEN ASS #not in a sad way tho #in a comically bad i’m about to FREAK THE FUCK OUT KINDA WAY #RABID #im about to BLOW MY LID #hazbin hotel smut #dom reader #inbox open

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valyrfia · 1 month

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i'm like n1 lecfosa but i have to say some of the anons i've seen in other people's inboxes because they think that charles could've driven better today or that carlos deserved the win....have not been it. if you have an opinion to say, please just post it on your own blog and put your own name to it rather than going to terrorise and spit on someone who doesn't agree with you while retaining the luxury of hiding behind an anonymous icon. or even better, if you're upset, stick to the blogs that you know share your opinions.

#do not give the lecfosi a bad name we may not be particularly ethical people but we are fair #bonus points if you get that reference #but seriously guys......i was as upset as the next person but at the end of the day it's one race and charles is still p2 in the standings #with a suzuka upgrade coming that will make the front pointier #and carlos did win after getting his appendix out literally two weeks ago it is an impressive narrative people are ALLOWED to be impressed #blogs you enjoy can have differing opinions from you and that's okay!#but if you're upset about it there is no reason to send those with differing opinions a barrage of “CHARLES DESERVED BETTER DON'T YOU SEE”#like do i think charles deserved better. yeah. am i going into the inboxes of people happy for carlos and taking that away from them. no #if you have something to say that could be controversial put your name to it #like i'm fully aware my opinions are not everybody's cup of tea and that's okay #i have mutuals i really enjoy content from celebrating carlos and that's also okay end of the day it's a SPORT #if you come into my askbox and tell me that charles leclerc is washed i will be snitty because that's my territory #but the beauty of tumblr is you can curate your space - USE THAT BEAUTY #okay rant over just a psa i have been a little upset seeing some ppl i like content from get upset

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honnelander · 7 months

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good morning everyone! (or afternoon depending wherever you are 👀)

just a quick update:

I am currently working on part 5! 😮‍💨 I hope I can get it out sooner than later but we’ll see.

then after I publish part 5, instead of jumping into another series right away, I want to focus on the requests I have in my inbox. I’ve read them all (and even started a couple of them) but haven’t had the time to complete them, so I want to do some of them at least so I can give back to everyone 🥹

I just want to let everyone know that I’m not ignoring you or your request, but just that writing takes a lot of time for me and I want to give every request/idea the time they deserve 🥹🫶🏼

thank you for your support and understanding! 💖

#I feel sooooo bad about everything that’s piled up in my inbox- you have no idea!#some have been in there for weeks…I’m so sorry!#but this is all for fun and not a business at the end of the day you know so- I gotta do what’s best for me #but I will get to them all!#thank you 🥹🫶🏼🫶🏼

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ruckis-vandalizes · 1 month

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I thought i was following the blog this whole time and i wasnt 💀💀💀

It's too late to turn back

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wqnwoos · 2 months

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saw my old high school crush today. what if i just ended my life

#i embarrassed myself so bad. why TODAY of all days #also hi people in my inbox and dms i love u i’m not ignoring u i just need to . muster up the energy to give u the responses u deserve 😭#the past 2 weeks have been from HELL actually #hana’s babbles

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fastcardotmp3 · 10 months

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Oh would you so kindly expand on your Murray/that plotline™ thoughts? Btw I didn't remember it as a cheating situation but since it's been so long since watching that season i was taking other people's word for it. And yeah i don't think Murray did anything even if it was. like he didn't make them have sex.

I started to type out an answer to this ask, forgot to save it as a draft, and lost all of my thoughts, so apologies if this is a little disjointed but! I will do my best to give my thoughts coherently <3

I really do think the Murray thing is maybe a mischaracterization of his intentions, but also not the thing I care most about when it comes to narratives that deal with Steve/Nancy/Jonathan situation in season 2, because at the end of the day it's just another reframing of the same tired take tbh

I'll stick it under the cut though because I know I can be wordy

There's this, like, company line in this fandom that Steve and Nancy were just two teenagers who hurt each other, which I one hundred percent agree with, only that tends to be the company line everywhere except for the Steve-centric fics that get written about that plotline, which instead seem to frequently make an argument that "Nancy cheated on Steve, was cruel enough to cause long-term emotional damage, and then either is forced to grovel for forgiveness or be shut out of his and his friends' lives forever" which is. Not that. Right?

Fandom cultures at large, not just this one, are more willing to do empathetic, in-depth character analysis of male characters than they are female. This is something we know to be true and this is something that is noticable in how Nancy gets treated by fanon, especially when it comes to her relationship with Steve.

Because here's the thing, we could debate it all day (and I won't, for the record, if anyone's thinking about starting a fight) but for my part, what she did wasn't cheating. From the very first time I watched season 2 when it was released, I always read the Halloween fight and the morning after as a breakup.

HOWEVER, even if Nancy did cheat on Steve? It doesn't warrant the downright malicious Nancy characterizations that often feel ubiquitous to this fandom.

Even if Nancy did cheat, there is a refusal to look at the situation from her point of view, something which even Steve is canonically able to do by the end of season 2 (we'll get to that). Because there's more nuance here to take into account than just Nancy making a choice to specifically hurt or break Steve and there's more nuance here than Steve being incapable of moving on from this breakup.

In fact, if you really look at the choices both of them are making, it has very little to do with each other and everything to do with their own reactions to immense personal trauma and grief. Nancy has spent a year suppressing a mourning she's not allowed to experience out loud, and you expect her not to snap eventually?

Does personal hardship mean cheating is, like, a good thing (if that's the takeaway you're going with from canon)? No. Does it still wildly differ from the cruel and intentionally malicious version of Nancy that shows up in far too much fic? Yeah.

She's a teenage girl whose best friend died in a violent and preventable way at sixteen years old. Nancy tried to fit herself into Steve's coping strategies, tried to let it all go back to normal, and was visibly hurting in the process. She sought out comfort. Understanding. A chance to be heard.

It's a disservice to both of their characters to treat this like there's a "good" and "bad" guy, when the way they handle it in canon, the way Steve comes to terms with it (literally within days he is telling her to go with Jonathan, by the way), is all vitally important to their growth.

When Steve says "I may not be a very good boyfriend" that's not about him being down on himself or having low self worth, it's a moment of growth and self reflection/ awareness for him to acknowledge that in his efforts to make himself feel better, he also hurt Nancy. It's about him no longer being in the same bitter headspace of "what am I apologizing for?" that he was at the start of the season, and having the maturity to see that they don't work as they are at their current mental states, no matter how heartbreaking that may be for him.

And Nancy choosing to go with Jonathan is really just a continuation of everything she was doing in trying to get justice for Barb-- she's choosing to follow her heart after being trapped away from acknowledging it for so long.

In other words, not only does he not have reason to, but Steve doesn't hate Nancy, Steve doesn't hold a lifelong grudge against Nancy, Steve doesn't think Nancy is a cruel and unfeeling bitch, but fic authors sure seem to.

If it were just a handful of fics here or there, I wouldn't be so adamant about it, but it's such an ingrained narrative in this fandom that sometimes I think people have genuinely forgotten the canon context.

Don't strip them of their agency and everything they learn from getting together and falling apart by making Steve less emotionally competent and Nancy more borderline abusive than either of them are.

It's boring and it's sexist and it shouldn't be the norm.

but that's just my 2 and a half cents peace and love anon, hope this answered your question <3

#ask #dot thought #this has been sitting in my inbox for days sorry anon #should i have waited to answer until I was having a genuinely very bad few days? maybe not! but alas #i am at my most impulsive when sad things are happening around me #also ps weirdos will be blocked on sight I do not have time for it <3

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ganondoodle · 1 year

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a wild assortement of comic wip screenshots and a random doodle that i posted to twitter but not here

(this doodle here is of Raal (aka demise before he became a deity) but whatever happens here isnt anything 'canon', i just randomly doodled him to try a loosen up my painting style bc when i work on the comic i tend to concentrate too much of rendering it perfectly and i dont like that)

#ganondoodles #doodles #art #i am so very tired #too tired for tags #btw i do love and read every ask i get but damn i just dont have the energy to reply to most #and i feel so guilty #i wish i could make a warning show up when someone wants to send me an ask #that just says -yo i love and cherish and reread all asks but unfortunately have zero energy to reply but chances are it made me cry-#given the asks isnt mean spirited or straight up bots #which my impsoter brain sometimes still tries to make me think #like either woo look at all those people LYING to your face #but i have grown alot since those days and now its mostly just #so look what a nice and lovely absolutely beautiful ask this person send you and you disrespectful fool are not answering it shame upon you #thats most likely why i have been getting less and less and man i feel so bad #like when its asks about drawing advice i either dont know what to say bc i dont have any idea what im doing eihter #or bc i plan a giant response with a big ass illustrated tutorial even tho i know i neither got the time or energy for it #but still cant answer then bc wait you wanted to make a tutorial you cant answer it just like that #and when its a super nice compliment about my art i just #dont know how to express my gratitude and silently reread it time and time again never answering it bc then it would be gone from the inbox #;__;#alright falling asleep brain better not have written sth i will regret reading tomorrow #i think this is the longest tags i put on a completely unrelated post of mine #if you have read all these tags send me an ask only containing the name of your fav fruit and i will make you a little pixel sprite of it

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slasherscream · 9 days

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really wish people would read blog rules more, it makes running blogs like this very low reward and you feel like a machine if people aren't commenting and aren't even abiding by one of the, honestly, very few and politely phrased rules i even have

#then i'm left trying not to respond like a bitch when the rules are there in the first place so i don't have to have negative interactions #with the people who come to this blog #like keeping it 100 you write for yourself but you write for ENGAGEMENT and COMMUNITY #and these days in fandom there really is no community #for any fandom across the board #people see something and move on #that's bad enough at killing fandoms #but the fact that a creator can have really only one super hard rule and it gets disregarded every day #day in and day out! and i really mean it this rule gets broken in my inbox DAILY man!#i write for a lot of small fandoms or smaller characters i love the characters i'm happy to do it #but i have an adult job. college. friends. family. my own original creative projects #and even if i don't respond to the asks where people are blatantly violating /again/#one of my FEW rules #it's exhausting to even see it !!!#it makes me not feel like a person #who cares what the girl behind the screen asked me not to do? right?? but i'm about done #i'm only at my breaking point because i've had this blog now for what three or four years??#and no matter how i phrase the rule people break it #no matter how many reminder posts #it's exhausting because it's an every day daily thing #idk maybe i'll feel better abt it in the morning but i'm getting exhausted tbh #exhausted as in this blog might be going BYE BYE i wont delete i think you'd have it up until tumblr goes away but i am getting pissed off #TRULY pissed off bc it's been years of me asking cmon now

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allamericansbitch · 2 months

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#its like... i can't even go a week without wanting to take a hiatus again #i barely even did anything and i've gotten hate all day #just nonsensical parasocial nonsense and people calling me names #i had such a shitty day and have just been truly fighting the urge to cry #and i cant even escape to my blog for a distraction #using this blog has become so exhausting solely bc there's no way to control what gets sent to me #i cant block anons from being weird to me or harassing me #i get an unimaginable amount of troll asks that just want to get attention #i want to keep my inbox open because the nice ones are so nice but the bads ones are starting to outweigh them by far #im genuinely so.... tired #im going to bed

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quicktimeeventfull · 6 months

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[voice of a guy who loves listservs] we should make a death note listserv

#this is a bad idea but i want it so much #i keep joining listservs i love listservs #i mean this sincerely the two closest experiences i’ve had to tumblr are livejournal and the [redacted] listserv #every day i wake up eagerly to see what random little flurries of conversation have been tossed into my inbox #its exciting when someone posts something and then u get like 14 little follow up emails with everyone’s weird signatures #sometimes people even vague. over the listserv. there is drama. intrigue.#this is what i want. i want to see u all on my inbox and i want literally no control or input as to when #THIS IS NOT DOOMPOSTING i just love outdated technology sorry #i’d fax you all if i could

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voidsaber · 1 year

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#3 you can (not) redo

#eli vanto #thrawn 2017 #thranto #it's not even been one day my godddddd #listen. okay please listen friends. comrades. fellow hooligans.#i'm not going into your inboxes or leaving replies on your posts or anything #i'm not “calling anyone out”#maybe this counts as vagueposting and being aggressive or whatever idek. but like #it's just.#if you do an art. at some point you gotta be more conscious about your choices of colour palette #esp when depicting someone with darker skin #like at this point fine. you can think eli is “tan” if you want. live in denial.#but at least give him the damn melanin for it #colourism is a thing too yknow!!#you know this actually happened ages back in another fandom i'm in #and when i sent the artist a curious msg about it they were like 'o yeah i can see and i agree i messed up the colours on this one real bad #it's literally not that hard to just notice and move on and just try better next time #okay next time i promise i'll post the meme without any commentary okay i just. sigh.#white eli tag #hmmm maybe i should change the meme to read “whitewashed” as opposed to just “white”#that way it's a more accurate argument re colourism #hm hmmmm

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babsaros · 3 months

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hey, regular reminder that if you get someone in your inbox (that you have never interacted with before/has never been following you) asking you to reblog a post on their blog (sob story asking for donations, usually about a pet to make it extra guilt-trippy) and they specifically ask you to answer this ask privately (for a vague and weak reason, why wouldn't they want more eyes on this post?) and then you go to their blog and their account is days old at most (and they're even claiming they have an old account that got shadowbanned ((?? being "shadowbanned" on tumblr does not mean you can't still post from that account?)) but never mention the url of that old blog) and all their reblogs are straight from the op and not from anyone they might be following who reblogged the post first (indicating they just quickly searched a semi-popular fandom tag to reblog some innocuous fanart to make the blog seem lived in)-

this is probably a scam :/ keep your eye out for odd details, inconsistency, and a glaring lack of credibility. stay safe out there everypony.

#ugh #yucky #bad taste in my mouth #this specific format of ask has also just been previously proven to be a scam tactic #so anybody trying to use it legitimately to fundraise is begging not to be taken seriously srry #they've clearly been in other peoples' inboxes with the same guilt-trippy copypasta #bc the ~200 notes they got are filled with ppl saying they cant donate rn but will signal boost it #ughhh #i'm rereading the exact wording of this post and getting so mad it doesn't make any sense #one of the pictures included is a vet invoice but they say they haven't gone to the vet yet but also the cat is pictured in a cone already #it does not make sense #said vet is also “the only one in the area that will take donations over the phone” but “needs to be paid upfront”#so. you cant have taken the cat to the vet yet. bc you dont have the money. which you are asking to be donated directly to ur paypal #thats not over the phone. thats. what?#MAYBE they mean an online payment but like.#then why do u have an invoice and the cat is clearly bandaged and in a cone already!!#then they also say the cat is already on antibiotics and only has days left if they dont get further treatment #and then a paragraph later claim the cat needs antibiotics!#im SO tempted to email this vet #i wont #im gonna put this to bed now

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frecklystars · 4 months

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Did you hear the news?? Some kind of Christmas version of ‘I’m Just Ken’ is being released this Wednesday! 😱 Ryan Gosling and Mark Ronson have worked on it together! 🐢

#wednesday is PERFECT bc i have to work that day and it'll be CHAOS #so i'll be able to save the song til i clock out... smth to look forward to #i miss ken so bad it's been hurting. i can pretend he wrote this song bc he misses me too :')#i cant wait to hear it.#love that ryan and mark were like. you know what the world needs? more ken #and they were GODDAMN RIGHT #anon i did nothing but cry today so this cheered me up immensely #tysm for telling me 🥺🥺💙#anonymous #asks #🐢 anon #i wasnt planning on opening my inbox yet but this caught my attention dsflkfsldkf

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tvrningout · 5 months

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good evening 👁️👁️

#i gotta bake cookies for my family and coworkers once i get home but honestly i’m excited!!#i love pfeuffernusse (?) cookies bc it’s like gingerbread cookies but x10 #i’m just also staring at the kaiya inbox call and my own inbox rn like pls pls i wanna write so bad 😭#and i know myself — i’m about to take forever with these cookies bc i get distracted so easily :’ ))#anyway i hope the day has been kind to y’all!! i’ll be here when i can 💜#get ready to ramble | ooc

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angelbesideme · 2 years

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two cuties cuting together 🥹

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