#it's the reactions from the men for me

[captainfern]

Not a request, just a remark: soft but strong and hairy dad bod Price makes me very weak at the knees

#stole this from my darling bbbbyblu and i felt like it was fitting #this made me have a physical reaction #i’m obsessed #i love my men big and beefy and just large #and hairy wtf #i can’t stand mf who say hair is gross or hair is unhygienic blah blah blah #i’ll lick the fuck out of a man’s happy trail i’m telling you now #rubbing the hair on his chest and stomach like he’s a fuckin scratch and sniff #love hairy men lol #god can you tell i’m obsessed or what LMAO #captainfern #captainfernsalutes #captain john price

[skitskatdacat63]

Cannot stop thinking about how Fernando was the first one to hug Seb after Monza 2008:

#two men who are not afraid to hug with both arms sjfklfl #but seriously fernando especially is always going full in on hugs(rather than the typical one handed) and i respect it #BUT GODDDDDD THAT HE WAS THE FIRST!!!!!! LITERALLY MURDERED ME #ive literally watched this race before and i didnt even notice #i think i wanted to see if there were pics of them from before 2009 and came across this and was so OH????? #fun fact if you look at my gallery from during the past gp + #its literally a mix of sad reaction pics and vettonso pics. what singapore does to a man. :') #but god i feel so abnormal about this hug. its just veru sweet to me okay!!! #vettonso is fun bcs theres not as much content so every little bit is very precious and important to me <3 #likeeeeee how close they hug each other and the way theyre still close when they pull back to look at each other!!! #i wonder what theyd be like if they hadnt been rivals. but tbh on the other hand their animosity is why I like them ! #but ofc very sweet to see them when the slate was blank bcs then im like hmmm how long until 'fuck you my boy' happens #well! you guys know theyre my brainrot nowadays :D #watching 2010 will be fun bcs its literally primetime for all my ships #f1 #formula 1 #sebastian vettel #fernando alonso #vettonso #we do a little bit of f1 #2008 italian gp

[1doesnotsimplyhavejust1fandam]

Watching Eddie Begins with Buddie-colored glasses on is already crazy enough, but I just caught something that I never really thought about before. Athena tells Bobby that the news crews showing up before she leaves for another call might turn the call into a nationwide story. And then Buck absolutely LOSES it when 30 feet of wet earth falls on top of Eddie. So yeah, maybe Bobby pulls Buck away to stop him from futilely digging for Eddie with his hands, but maybe he also does it because he doesn’t want his kid’s grief and fear and love for Eddie being broadcast across the country. Especially not when Bobby thinks that Eddie’s probably already dead. And not only does Bobby pull Buck away from the well, he pulls back right into his lap. This is the closest we get to Bobby cradling Buck in his arms until the lightning strike, and it’s because he doesn’t want Buck to be in pain, and he most certainly does NOT want the tragedy of Eddie’s death to be made even worse by Buck’s pain over it being broadcast to the entire country.

#bobby is buck's dad #911 #9-1-1 #911 abc #9-1-1 abc #buddie #bobby nash #eddie diaz #evan buckley #athena grant #also #just because I’ve never really posted meta about Eddie begins before #we REALLY need to talk about the fact that Buck’s reaction to Eddie’s potential demise is the ONLY reaction show live and in color #season 3 buddie was NOT subtle in the slightest y’all #I know there’s so many fics out there about Eddie finding a video of Buck’s reaction to him being trapped but I want one where he watches #and is ALSO so fucking grateful for Bobby pulling Buck away from where he was buried #for taking care of his partner when he wasn’t topside to do it himself #that still of Bobby and eddie talking for s7 reallyyyy has me in my feels about these three men and their incredible dynamic #well scene #you will always be famous #fuck the writers for this actually #(affectionate)

[butchjess]

jess’ mere presence triggers some sort of strange possessive reaction from all of rorys bfs like they will not give him a moment of peace he didnt even do anything yet in both scenarios and dean and logan both wanted him DEAD. NOT ALIVE. and its bc they saw how rory (always has and always will) gravitates towards him they had to shut that shit down immediately. terrible vibes. its like trying to keep ur cat away from a stick of butter that it really wants to eat. you can’t do it.

#🦈 #hilarious. to me #literati #jess mariano #gilmore girls #rory gilmore #hes here hes breathing that’s enough RELAX DEAN #why dont you go run off with jack or whatever. JESS? oh im not running off with jess! #normal reactions to another man existing from two very normal men

[sanyu-thewitch05]

Me watching the LGBT community who almost never rarely gives black women and girls, asexuals, or aromantics genuine respect, pretend we’re all friends and have always treated us right the minute it’s June 1st and want to use black women(mainly darkskinned) and girls as their little poster girl:

#asexual #aromantic #It’s always coming from the non black people(including other racial minorities) too #and the stuff coming out of the lgbt community towards black women and girls has gotten real nasty #i have seen numerous people(although they’re mainly black) say that black people are inherently queer because we’re unnatural and strange #in the eyes of white supremacy and white people #like are you ok in the head??? why do you want to say that black people are inherently strange and we defy every social standard #as of our existence is a social statement #I personally think the worst thing I’ve personally heard(from yet another black person) #was that black women and girls would get seen as men or trans women because our hair is nappy #what does our natural hair have to do with getting seen as men or trans women?? #and the white lgbt people just applauded them and hearted their tweet #it annoys me how for some weird reason political and social movements will mainly use black women especially darker black women as rep #and It’s almost always by a non black person #like why don’t you use a girl or woman from your own race in your political and social justice artwork #oh wait that’s right #because in general the lgbt community views black women and girls as magical negras who will be their ride or die sista soulja #who will mule and fight for them no matter how badly they outright insult us or sneakily talk badly about us #pride month is basically another black history month when it comes to how everyone reacts to it #every reaction to it is superficial and they’re only celebrating us because they feel like they had to or wanted social points #had it been any other month they would’ve been focusing on the group that they belong to

[orcelito]

Like OK so I've been reading a fic with trans wolfwood in it that is so. HONEST. About how it affected him and still affects him. In a way that's very much not an average cis writer portrayal of a trans character.

Like. Either this writer is trans or did plenty of research, but it just feels REAL to me. And it has me thinking about my own way of writing trans Wolfwood.

I'm not there yet. But I've been thinking about it. The ways that what the EOM did fucked him up... but it also acted as HRT that affirmed his gender. So what do you do when you're in a body you don't recognize, but looks much more like a man than ever before? There's some gender euphoria in a way, but dysphoria at the same time bc you didn't grow into this. You didn't watch yourself transition. Suddenly you just Were this, and it's not you, but also it's nice to finally be seen as a man, but it also feels wrong to feel grateful for any part of what they did to you...

On and on and on

You see? This is what I want to think about with him. This is why trans Wolfwood is so compelling to me. It's just so Complicated, he'd have such Complicated feelings about his body and the way he lives with it. He learns this new body, it starts to feel more like his, but he also mourns the fact that he didn't get to watch it grow into this like he should've.

That kind of thing.

#speculation nation #itnl shit #tagging it bc these r things relevant to itnl ww. because. he is trans☺️ #TRANS WOLFWOOD MY BELOVED!!!!!!!!!! #i wanna do more research into trans things. ive already done a lot. but like #into the actual physical side of it all. the effects of HRT. all those messy little details that people dont often focus on. #some months ago i skimmed thru this writing guide on how to write trans men. and i think i wanna revisit it #read it more slowly and thoroughly. #bc im confident in my ability to write trans characters. considering the fact that im not cis myself. #but im not a trans man. so there r some Things that i just dont know about by virtue of not having experience with HRT #so. research! supplementing my existing knowledge with the perspectives of the actual people im writing about. #and so it goes when ur writing about an experience that is not entirely your own. #it matters to me to make my writing of trans men as realistic as possible. #even with the messy details that people normally shy away from. Especially them. #i pride myself on my realism as much as is within my means of capturing it. #realistic emotions. realistic reactions. realistic bodies. #i am Going to write a trans wolfwood that is So realistic. as much as possible. #(i keep specifying ww with this even tho vash is trans also just bc vash is a bit more uhhhh not human lol #so the definition of what makes him trans is a bit more loose. still inferred by real life experiences #but he wouldnt have the same sorts of experiences with HRT. or gender expression in general #so i feel less of a pressure to capture it as fully accurate to the real life human experience as possible. if that makes sense.)

[supercalime]

Watching straight men react to red white and royal blue is more mentally taxing than I anticipated

#seriously #we could’ve had some really interest perspective from straight men but boys will be boys I guess #and I mean #I get that romcoms most of the time aren’t masterpieces of cinema or supposed to be taken extremely seriously #but bro c’mon #those guys are treating the movie as if it’s a cringy trashy mess #I’m not gonna name who these creators are cause I doubt it was a malicious response to a mlm movie #but it made me think of how men are taught that everything that isn’t entirely catered to them are immediately treated as lesser #and I’m saying as someone who cringes easily with corny movies #I’m not even immune to this one #just a random thought/rant #red white and royal blue #rwrb #firstprince #rwarb #lety rambles #reaction #red white and royal blue movie #alex claremont diaz #henry mountchristen windsor #henry hanover stuart fox

[prettyboykatsuki]

i have deep desire to write for demon slayer (and by write for it im specifically talking about zenitsu currently.) but the story is so deeply impacted by it's setting that its gonna take at least two weeks of research to do it any justice so the plans r Delayed

#aristotle.txt #writing for my hero = easy because im insane and know every inch of it #writing for anything else = impossible #i figured trying to find fic for it was going to feel like this in the first place #from my limited understanding the story takes place in the events directly after japans first industrial revolution #which means that the advent of technology is not only integral to the story telling but there's also like an unreal #amount of sociopolitical context for most of the major details #writing for my hero is easy because a society post tech is very easy to imagine. we live in it lol #demon slayer in particular takes place during the emergence of industry #what makes zenitsu an interesting character to me is that his narration is influenced directly by his class and proximity to modernity #he has a specific level of cynicism i can only describe as post industrial. whether that be his sense of cowardice over tanjiro/inosuke #or his attitude towards women. the way he behaves and how he critically analyzes certain kinds of behavior #like im currently watching the entertainment district arc and i think inosukes reaction vs zenitsus pretty much exactly covers it #where inosuke is overstimulated and tanjiro is reserved - zenitsu recognizes the district for what it is. that quality makes him stand out #a lot among them at least to me. i love hearing him talk sooo much lmfao. #anyways. all that to say. i want to write zenitsu but i need to do more reading to make it any good so . pray for me i suppose #zenitsu the embodiment of men used to chop trees and go to war fr

[brokenbackmountain]

i think being around some of my friends has altered my vocabulary a little too much because now every time i see a good looking man i think: wow. what a fine looking young man. i'd like his pronouns, or perhaps his hand in marriage. i enjoy the way he is confident in his own skin and i, too, would like that kind of energy. but what actually comes out of my mouth is "i need to impregnate that man"

#all these men are older than me btw i'd never say that about someone my age or younger #SARA DUNKEY THIS IS DIRECTED AT YOU BTW. VOCABULARY PERMANENTLY ALTERED #/ily both #i have gotten a few horrified reactions from my rl friends so that is . Hilarious to see #i am aroace btw should i mention that #tumblr #posts

[lesbiansanemi]

I hate working with men

#have a male coworker who has been doing his job HORRENDOUSLY wrong #to the point that everyone else is having to take HOURS of their shifts to fix what he’s fucked up #and APPRENTLY several of my coworkers have tried to talk to him about it and correct him #and he’s been getting so goddamn offended and butthurt over it and acting like he’s not doing anything wrong #(and this is important the ppl who have tried talking to him are all older women. one in her 40s one in her 50s and one in her 60s) #ONE OF WHOM IS OUR DEPARTMENT MANAGER #and I was bitching about him today #and one of them was like ‘well maybe you should try correcting him’ #and I was like why 1. not my job I’m not a manager but 2. he’s not listened to anyone else why would he listen to me #and she was like ‘well it will feel less threatening from you less like he’s getting scolded by a mom so he might take it better’ #and like. HM! WELL! #I know this is a crazy wild absolutely batshit suggestion #but when a man gets told what to do/corrected by women (who have all been doing this job SIGNIFICANTLY longer) #and his reaction to is to act like a little fucking disrespectful piss baby #WE JUST WRITE HIM UP LIKE WE WOULD ANYONE ELSE INSTEAD OF TRY TO APPEAL TO HIS FWAGIL TEENY TINY EGO #LIKE IDK SEEMS LIKE THE NORMAL COURSE OF ACTION TO ME????? #not make the androgynous goth bitch in their 20s try to correct him cuz I’m SOMEHOW less threatening #I’m read as a woman he’s gonna have the same damn reaction #I just. ugh. UGH #I fucking hate men #kaz rambles

[luvring]

scrolling past every babygirl joke people make with a frown on my face

#💬nia.rambles #we as a society can do better than this #i think a lot of people can. struggle with What else to say #'babygirl coded charas“ specifically . talk about how easy it is to fluster them. how ur gonna annoy the shit out of them #call him a sopping wet kitten. say god hes such a dumbass im going to kiss him on the lips and serenade him #say missionary because his eyes pretty and his face handsome. say youre going to tuck his hair behind his ear #His x y z looks and cringe fail personality have captivated me. his big eyes and loser boy personality. #this is also for when ur trying to talk about female charas w/o saying girlboss/mother btw #just go god shes so fucking cool. no ones doing it like her #someone might want her but you want her in a deeper intellectual way. no crimes to forgive because she didnt commit any. #she could fix me could make me worse she could say whatever and i would heed her call like a devout follower to their god #go i need them so bad im dizzy. i could change their life #like u have the brain capacity and meme/reaction album to think of jokes outside of. 3 terms. i believe in u #& how did babygirl charas go from ironic Big (serious) muscular men to Feminine Featured(?) Easily Flustered 'Pathetic' Men. #like im sure both cases existed before but. what its turned into now....its majority the latter... Hrmm.... #< part of why i switched to saying my handsome beautiful prince etc etc. uve made me feel odd and upset.. #babygirl character just say pathetic guy . loser dude. shy and silly . errrrghhhh...

[myrtaceaae]

People's reactions to significant phobias is so stupid "you just need to be a little bit brave" "don't you know that it isn't rational" "you can hold my hand" "don't make a fuss of yourself"

Babe. Do you even know what a phobia is , or are you just applying your distaste for spiders onto me, who has to be sedated when the object of my phobia is being forced on me

#about me #actually phobic #listen fuck all people who say that they have a phobia of something. but can still interact with the object of their fear #just say that you're really scared of something i don't want to hear that you're phobic #and then go yeah but i can still trap & release the object of my phobia #like. that's not phobic. that's scared. #i can't actually say the name of what I'm phobic about. when i read the word i have to take my emergency meds #last time i was in the presence of the object i literally had to be held down by 5 burly men #I'm banned from certain hospitals because of my reaction to the phobia. #when you call your fear of spiders phobic you're fucking making phobic people be dismissed by health #professionals #and like. I'm not saying that you're not scared. but pleeease use the correct language

[a-a-a-anon]

if i had a nickel for every time a male british comedian i like said that on a childhood birthday a patriarch in their family said they were too old to hug and kiss them bc it's girly/gay i would have two nickels???? which isn't a lot but it's weird it happened twice....

(ade edmondson:)

(jon richardson:)

I went to kiss my granddad once-I would have only been about 7 or 8, but I'd had clearly what my grandad viewed as a landmark birthday. I went to say goodbye, and I kissed my Nana Gwen and went to kiss my Grandad Ron, and Grandad Ron said, "You're a man now. You don't kiss other men anymore." (- meet the richardsons 2.08)

#i think (popular) british comedys relationship with masculinity is sooo interesting bc there will be like you know #kind of old schoolish jokes said on panel shows about like oh that person isnt manly or something #but at the same time many british male comedians seem comfortable with material involving doing things that arent very traditionally #masculine like physical intimacy with men or dressing up traditionally feminine etc #(which isnt them trying to do a Statement or anything just like them doing it) #thats kind of like a staple of british comedy i feel like #more so than american comedy #i feel like its #an interesting interplay between (obviously trying to be subversive like all comedy but also) echos from the alt comedy scene #(which was expressly trying to NOT depend on sexism for humor (like the traditional comedy of working mens clubs)) #and the inescapable sexism of general culture still affecting comedy and also men's lives today (repressed as hell) #and like the jokes about masculinity are obviously a reaction (unconscious or not) TO being so repressed #britcom #nina.rambles #adrian edmondson #jon richardson #tw abuse #does this make sense? no<3 #ALSOOOO that interview with ade is everything to me. hes the cutest man in the world actually. he cried when his grandson #said “good job everyone!” as he got 2nd place in a race (out of happiness). and then cried while talking about it. and he grew up in such a #repressed era #WE LOVE TO SEE GROWTH!!

[onlyonekenobi]

do you know what is great about this. my very favorite part of all of it. i truly don't care

#there is Nothing they can say now that will get a reaction from me #im NUMB to you antics actor men #they could say tomorrow that there are seven recorded minutes of them making out in the bunker #and I'd be like yeah. i figured. see you next week

[icedteaandoldlace]

RIP to the customer who told me today that purple isn't my color. He ain't dead, he's just dead wrong.

#I legitimately can't tell if he thought he was being funny #or if he was doing that weird-ass power play thing that those wannabe alpha dogs do #y'know where they give a girl a compliment then immediately follow it with an insult to like get her in a vulnerable state or something idk #he seems kinda old for that but he did pause for an awkwardly long time like he was waiting for a reaction from me #but anyways if I gave a rat's caboose what weird men think I would have no personality so ✌🏻💜

[butchmartyr]

Hi first of all love the chicago quiznos coyote icon. But i wanted to ask if you wanted to elaborate at all on being of two minds about the whole femboy thing ? Genuinely just curious about what you have to add but feel free to answer privately or even just ignore if you don't wanna !

ya sure!

i meant that more about shared stuff w transfems&femboys. obviously there’s a lot of wiggle room for lack of a better word in terms of where someone’s trans femininity stands when they id as a femboy and I was trying to think about the social back and forth surrounding different parts of that umbrella.

i.e. a trans woman might have more experience with misogyny and seeing/pressing against it than a femboy who’s more ardently identified with being a man and “dodges” (word doesn’t fit well because they’re catching transmisogyny time2time) some of those experiences by not actively pursuing being seen as a woman and not enacting whatever gender social roles come with that.

and i think there’s something to say too about how a perception of professed manhood changes the way some ppl interact and how some people live; that femboy/trans woman twitch stream experiment thing a bit ago is sorta getting at what I mean with much more traffic on the femboy stream. or that an individual might approach something different depending on gender identity because of societal views and what they’ve been taught in line with that identity. this is all essentially to say that I think misogyny is a prime evil of the world and I think about it a lot

also THANK YOU ive been waiting so people wouldn’t think im sivi but my coyotepilled heart needed Quiznos icon

#but it’s not as if all femboys try not to be seen as women #or as if we should act like all femboys suck because a bunch are misogynistic #not to mention; in not playing out properly masculine roles a lot of femboys or queens wind up in the failed men category #and there’s a lot to be said on the effects of that #so im a bit of two minds about it because I see the similarities #i justjust remember the reaction to Bridget lol #but part of me wants to still have us see the men that are there as men and understand that in a feminist way #<working with this thought and trying not to kneejerk considering how so many in that ‘female impersonator’ category #don’t always have access to actually leverage misogyny on people and benefit from patriarchy #mm. what a paradox! ill think some more while I enjoy vergils moveset #dunno I wrote a lot not sure how much of this makes sense lol #asks #marxism-transgenderism #how much mileage can I get from this unused sociology bachelors