#just kinda uncomfy w/ it

[m0ssy-m1sf1t]

so i didnt know and accedently commented on a proship post not knowing it was proship, absolotely crying rn

#not an anti #just kinda uncomfy w/ it #im prob in troble

[breakbeatbun]

y'all have gotta learn to act normal about other people's characters

just bc you think they're hot doesn't mean the person who made them wants to know if, or how, you'd fuck them. i feel like that's common sense. it doesn't make it OK now just because it's not a real person you're sexualizing. you don't know what they mean to the person who made them, and if you do, well what the fuck, then.

#please excuse me i've just noticed really often lately #the way people will comment nasty nasty stuff on art and i have to wonder like #are you sure that the artist is cool w/ that? are you sure already that the person who owns or made that character is cool with that? #idk i had to watch a couple people oversexualize the characters from a friend's very personal & emotional game they made about trauma #i posted a turnaround of a model i did for a friend in a discord server and someone called it “the boykisser” just bc it was a cat? #like. do you know who the character is? do you know who owns the character? do you understand the context they're from? #if not. why would you say that to/about them. #ik those instances occured on their own and don't really warrant a whole post #but I've been seeing some REALLY uncomfy comments thrown at people's art every here and there #and i think some of y'all are forgetting how to behave for real. #this post & tags are a little half-baked i'm just kinda sick of seeing it. be normal. leave a nice comment or something

[wheeboo]

new ask from : dizzy anon ! xe says...

good evening, america. i,, have come with not a fictional story but something very much real! (also, i love your reviews sm. i actually am writing the first 'episode' of the compilation stories! but not patience and grace yet. i like to finish something for the most part even if i'll release it in parts, so it'll be a while,,, i can tag you in it in the future hehe ^^)

do you get that feeling when you feel really smart when you get something? i don't know about you, but i seriously love it- like i figured out equations for shit like voltage, current, and resistance in my robotics exam (that i didn't study for and didn't take the first time). even with a calculator, it was noon and i was exhausted beyond belief, like- ?????? HOW the fuck did i do that.

feeling smart is everything to me, even tho i'm a silly little dude who likes to partake in silly little activities. this is why i like making my lore make sense by working on every nook and cranny, it makes me feel intelligent /j as if di ako bobo (affectionate) LMFAOOOO

another thing btw, nag-choir kami ng gregorian chant para sa music, at tangina napasigaw lahat ng mga boys nung natapos HAHAHAHA 😭😭 ako din naman. like sumakit paa ako amputa, napa-omsim sa inisip na 'deserve ko kumain'. imagine dalawang PT exam tas nag dalawang written kasi nag-absent buong week last week. then i had like six or five exams the day before 💪💪

hopefully your week's been good!! in my timezone, we're abt to head into the weekend and i hope to finish a powerpoint before 12am ^^ reemmber to drink water and/or treat yrself in any way.

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FKSLJFSD im glad u love my review lovely <33 just know i'm always willing to share my input on anything!! and omg i'd love to be tagged pls tag me !!

bro OMG ALL THE TIME. me in my college math class fr right now i literally feel like a fuckin einstein whenever a problem finally *gets* to my head. but im glad u were able to figure out ur stuff ur absolutely slaying fr bestie!! u deserve it sm <3

mahabang rehearsal ba ito? sobrang maingay ng mga boys 😭😭 anong kumain mo afterwards? i ask because i'm eating pancit rn sobrang sakit ng ulo ko djflkdsjf </3 but i hope u were able to eat something delicious n treat yourself!! those exams sounded so stressful omg but just be proud u were able to endure it and get it done !!

my weekend has been fun so far :) ako ng oras kasama ang mga kaibigan kagabi and went sa isang haunted house SJLKFSD. hope u were able to get ppt down before 12am!! and don't forget to also stay hydrated and treat urself as well <3

#💫 anon #answered #alos i see what u did there 👀 hehe #im blind i didnt even notice at first bye #um also is it weird i kinda like already figured out who u are like .. #a w hile back... #SLMAOSOD #i just didnt say nything cuz i didnt wnna make u uncomfy or anything </3

[xannerz]

you ever see a callout post for a user you've never heard of, and so many of the listed issues consist of the most sensationalized 'ok, yes... and-?' bullet points so you just keep scrolling like

#happy monday everyone i'm cranky and choosing to channel it by bitching abt faceless terminally online netizens today #i meet up w my rl local friends and these things come up once in a while and then im reminded im not crazy lmfao. #'were actual real individuals tangibly hurt ooooor' #'did their fictional works just happen to make you uncomfy #b/c they didn't 100% align with your preferences/worldview.' #yk that meme abt putting certain buzzwords up on a shelf i think we need to retire or limit how ppl 2-liberally conflate fiction w reality #after a while some of the most obvious distinctions were thrown out the window esp during a time when media literacy's kinda. tanking too. #you can be squicked by something a person makes that shouldnt inherently give you ammunition towards villainizing them. #🥄👅 this post is not a personal endorsement of every 'problematic' trope or k1nk you dont like. its the principle ty god bless.

[brightyearning]

Edward Norton's just slanging dick in those striped pajama bottoms huh?

#im kinda uncomfy w it ngl #like cover urself up you harlot #knives out #glass onion #it might just be that he reminds me if an ex #they're like the same age too 💀

[acerikus]

OKAY OKAY BUT THE WEIRD 'FLOWEY IS AN ADULT' TWITTER THING. SAW MORE W THAT THIS MORNING AND WAS LOSING MY MIND

People were using some claim from toby in the artbook or something about being happy when people call god of hyperdeath asriel hot as 'evidence' that he must be an adult or it's weird and it's like???? God of hyperdeath is what he's supposed to look like/wants to look like as as adult if he'd survived manifested. Asriel is canonically an adult in DELTARUNE. Toby was probably delighted to know that people will probably be all over deltarune azzy when he's revealed it's not that deep 😭

#like. weird to be so persistent this kid is an adult. really don't get it. like apparently there's some kinda age debate or whatever #and as long as you aren't sexualising ut flowey or azzy whatever but I'm staying far away bc it makes me uncomfy #but asriel in deltarune is an adult. if ppl find him specifically hot when he turns up that's fine y'know? #and if he looks similar to god of hyperdeath then. there's a very easy answer right there #if anyone tries to argue on this post I'm killing u btw #all this feels like ppl just wanting an excuse to insist their adult/minor ships w flowey are fine or to sexualise him :I #or to insist things like flowisk are bad once they lose the incest argument (frisk does not always get adopted by toriel) #personally i see flowey as an aroace king but. flowisk shippers get behind me #(as long as you're not willingly seeing it as incest or hcing flowey as an adult)

[idiotsonlyevent]

i like adachi as a character. i think he's a generally well-written antagonist, even if p4 doesn't actually do a good job of addressing his issues w society/nihilism. i think it's crucial that he is on some level relatable and sympathetic; that's the whole point. this can happen to anyone. you can know/be an adachi, without realizing it.

but also.... idk. dont wanna act like every conversation/post abt adachi has to mention that he tried to sexually assault/rape(?) yamano and saki, but it kinda skeeves me out when adachi analysis/interpretations just... ignore it? dont mention it? act like He Wanted To Connect With People But Got Scareds? bc no he didn't.... he wasnt Just Sad Because He's A Failure. like he very explicitly approached yamano and saki w Intent to Harm them. he is very explicitly misogynistic. and predatory. you cannot pretend those aspects of his character don't exist

#some of this phrasing is bad but im tired of editing so. sorry :/// whatever idk #getting kinda tired of seeing this #idk its weird to me when fans are like 'i looove messy/problematic characters!' and then go and do this like. are u sure abt that.... #i think its also why im so uncomfy w any iteration of trans adachi bc like. what does it add to his character? do you really think it makes #him More sympathetic? Why? is this rlly what u want even from fanon transfem/masc rep??? #obvs this isnt me telling ppl what to do . i just dont get it ig #L.txt #p4 #persona

[diabeticgirl4]

I'm watching queer eye and like. most times I can understand the fab5 and why they need to change/fix this person and the ways whatever they're teaching will help, but like. they're teaching etiquette to this total country rancher guy bc he wants to find a girl and settle down and he never learned that type of stuff and yeah manners and basic etiquette is important but rn they're focusing so much on dining and the amount of forks!! and no you can't dip your bread in soup you gotta tear a small piece and drop it in!! and you're absolutely terrible if you set your spoon on the table!!

idk man I'm super not vibing w this ep

#ignore me #maddie liveblogs queer eye #still in season 6. the bull rancher guy. #idk this whole ep is making me super uncomfy #idk just anytime the problem is 'peter pan syndrome' where the guy is happy and living his life fine but everyone else has issues w it? #just. as an autistic who also no doubt has 'peter pan syndrome' it just rly rubs me the wrong way #sure his living space and hygiene are less than ideal but idk I don't think he needed a whole intervention for that #and again!!! the etiquette stuff!!! why the frick!!! #who tf cares about which fork to use and soup spoons when he's a rancher cowboy in texas!!!! #and just. the whole time he's So Uncomfortable w everything #they keep playing it like 'ohoho he's just a conservative texan dealing w 5 gay guys for the first time!' but like. #he probably never asked for any of this? and you can tell how resistant he is to change. I get that. it's scary. #and p much everything he does has reason. for his business or for his heritage. it's super important to him and that's valid!! #and the fab5 come rushing in and tell him he needs to change if he wants to find a girl and settle down #and like. ok yes he needs to work on hygiene and his housing situation. but idk man karamo thinking etiquette lessons will be the best fix? #I still have like ten min left but man he's been so uncomfortable the whole time it's kinda heartbreaking #I do like tan and antony listening and going slowly and helping him ease into change #bc what they're doing is such a big change!!! for someone like him he needs to be eased into it #what they're doing is basically tossing him into the deep end of the pool to teach him how to swim and it's driving me nuts #ok sry I gotta shut up I'm just. rly not vibing w this episode and I'm bummed about it :\

[kdsburneraccount]

#i feel like if this was in 2020 i would look at the thread and go ‘ew cringe lets shame those posters’ but now im like ‘let them cook idc’ #always have mixed feelings abt conventionally tumblr fannishness applied to sports being highlighted on other sites #bc on one hand it’s sometimes funny to see ppls reactions #but at the same time it does feel like mockery #idk there’s always a fine line between like tweets from twitter that suggest something semi ironically vs a tumblr post #just feels a little like punching down ig #esp when the urls aren’t cropped out :/ #maybe im being overly sensitive bc im not the one whose stuff got screenshotted but yeah #also uhh in the original thread mina kimes was there??? i would pass away tbh #byeah only kinda adds to my thoughts abt those fine lines #cool that tumblr fandom isn't being universally slandered or whatever but also. hm #thats basically how i also feel abt ppl screenshotting ao3 of rpf #its public yeah but also what are you doing in that fanspace introducing it to a group unfamiliar with it #no disrespect to op idk their intentions they're probably familiar w that style of fannishness its just a tad uncomfy #to have part of the fandom perceived in that manner #re: qrt the tumblr football team has been around since 2021 get with the times man /j #fandom #sports fandom #fandom culture #nfl #cincinnati bengals

[thirteendaysintaunton]

my unpopular beagles opinion that would get my strike force membership card revoked is that I don't like monica as much as everyone else

#she's not even bad she's just kinda there and sometimes i just feel uncomfy with her lines #idk maybe ive just had too many childhood friends get uncomfortably obsessed w me and it's just not all that appealing to me #ANYSWAYS #fe journeys

[astrxealis]

lowkey just got a therapy session from my philosophy teacher ohmy

#⋯ ꒰ა starry thoughts ໒꒱ *·˚ #<- I ANSWERED A QUESTION and it's like 'how easy is it to share the real you' and then. okay. okay #miss is right fr hfhfhdhshshwhsjsh #okay to say my answer here a bit! i answered that uhh its hard bcs its kinda like theres a Lot of layers #and i sort of put out a different persona for everyone i meet. and its hard to tell what really is. Me #i feel a bit embarrassed sharing but also ty miss /gen LMAO </3 <3 #tbh i am really such a big fan of philosophy #but it's weird for me too bcs my. inherently nihilistic mindset is in such a clash w my also inherently hopeful and positive mindset too #very weird!! philosophy makes me want to tear out my brain but it's also. really nice bcs i like my brain (???) #humans are so interesting. the world. everything #i love psychology and philosophy so much hehe #Zhdhrheheh IDK IF I EVEN ANSWERED CORRECTLY TBH GOOD GODS I HOPE I DIDNT JUST REALLY EMBARRASS NYSELF #<- OVERTHINKING. dw imm okay #but my glasses are so uncomfy rn uhghghhhhhhhhhh. also i want a haircut soon fr

[pwettybunni]

um also guys if u DM me pls just be nice at first🥺 u can be horny nd everything just keep it on the tamer side in the beginning.. i don’t like being degraded or immediately asked 2 explore my harder kinks by ppl i don’t know who i haven’t established any boundaries with :(

#when ppl r super into it literally RIGHT when they DM me i get nervous abt bringing up what i do and don’t like #but i don’t want them 2 be mad at me or not like me so i kinda try 2 go along w it :( #nd then end up feeling kinda uncomfy nd turned off :/ #so yeah pls just.. be nice 2 me #treat me w care unless i say it’s ok 2 be mean nd gross #mine #nsft

[theghostofashton]

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#tbh there's something really insidious about this trend of like.....going into other people's inboxes and judging them #judging their taste in fictional characters or fictional ships inserting your own moral code into things and projecting it's kinda.....what #because it creates this shame and guilt that is literally so unnecessary none of this is real #no one should have to feel guilty about the characters they like or don't like based on someone else's moral code #this like 'how can you like x character when they've done y' is like.......if /you/ don't like that character for that reason #that is your business you are 100% entitled to that #but projecting those feelings onto someone else unprompted is just wild to me #it's so unfair and feels really uncomfy and i guess i just question the goal of it #like what's the point what is this message doing lol #people are drawn to different characters for different reasons and that's honestly so cool i love seeing different responses #and i just feel like this need to put people in problematic or unproblematic boxes in line w creating 'consensuses' in fandoms is just #so antithetical to the point #this is fiction none of it is real #and it's really gross imo to create shame in someone for liking a fictional character just bc you may not like them #idk just thoughts that haven't left my brain for a while lol #leave people alone and let them like whatever they want is my point basically

[ace-up-your-sleeve]

how do you. communicate abt being ok w "spicy" stuff in a new relationship. which is long distance.

#its only been like a month #but also yeah #i cant even reference previous relationships #bc my gf is the first person i ever did anything with #and we had the gift if not bring long distance #so stuff just kinda happened and the talking happened later #helpppp #we r both aspec too #but idk how sex repulsed it is #so i dont wanna make it uncomfy by bringing it up #but there is the very large possibility that that is why it isnt bringing it up w me #oughhhhhh

[garoujo]

I LOVE YOUR NEW FIC OMGGGG

shuji has my whole heart

side note:

do you ever think you’d write for kisaki again

👉🏻👈🏻

maybe a harder dom version of kisaki 🫣

eeeee fank yew so much bbie ૮꒰ ⸝⸝ ◞ ˬ ◟ ꒱ა i am sooo glad u like it !!! shuji has my whole hear t istg <3 omigosh yes i’d love 2 write 4 kisaki again i had so much fun .. snifle but i’m not v good w hard doms they’re not rly smth i read / venture in2 2 much yk ! so idk if i’d be able 2 do that justice (ᐡ ̥_ ̫ _ ̥ᐡ) i’m sorry <3 !!!

#ʚ ₊˚ 💬 — new emmail. #ʚ ₊˚ ⌕ — nonnie. #snifle sorry im sensitive i wud cry !!! plus i’m not v good w power dynamics in writing so i’d hate 2 get it wrong >< #n end up making someone uncomfy yk !! but i do love kisaki i just see him more soft dom kinda <3

[astrxealis]

yk i fell out of love with fgo bc the way they designed girls mde me feel icky, but the fate franchise started off as an nsfw visual novel way back in the day so the fanbase it has is...yeah, which explains the extremely questionable designs for the girls

BUT RECENTLY THEY RELEASED KRIEMHILD AND I LOVE HER DESIGN SO MUCH IT'S SUCH A BREATH OF FRESH AIR 😭😭😭

so yeah, while i have a distaste for fgo for numerous reasons, it still holds a place in my heart for being my first gacha and letting me meet some actually chill people and the numerous husbands i have there kriemhild <33

HONESTLY SAME 😭😭 i actually never rlly did much more than like ... the prologue ?? n then idk wtf happens after, but from what my friend who got me into it when she talks abt it, n then from research, yeah ... :(( <//3 the Huge sexualization of the females rlly makes me feel 💔😭 and tbh i didn’t know that but holy shit it makes sense AFHBDSHBFHJ <///////3

BUT AYO OMG ....... SHE DOES LOOK GREAT !!! the whole dark color scheme she has going on and her design omg 🥺💖 i can def see why u like her FHSFHBSJH <33

yeah ....... TvT that’s def okay n perfectly understandable !! 💪✨  hehehe kriemhild ;D <33

#to be perfectly honest i didnt ever get super far into fgo for like 3 reasons ?? 1 me being kinda petty to my friend bcs </3 2 bcs yeah ^^ #that n then 3 bcs other stuff that kind of makes me feel uncomfy w fgo :( it's p sad tho bcs i'm always interested in getting into new stuff #but it's just rlly not my vibe and a lot of turn offs in there 😭 i like astolfo tho hehehe <3 and some characters rlly r so cool FHSDBFHJS #LIKE KRIEMHILD !!! once again mari strikes w the great taste >:) 💖 #⋯ ꒰ა my galaxy ໒꒱ *·˚ #⋯ ꒰ა letters of stardust ໒꒱ *·˚ #— mari! ♡ #ngl fate makes me pretty uncomfy TvT like i don't rlly want to get into it for various reasons #dw abt u talking abt it to me tho !! hehe you're good <3