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#leviathan yells at folkel
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When I am treated “like a child” because of my disabilities the thing fucking isn’t that they “should treat me as adult” the thing is they shouldn’t fucking treat actual children and youth like that
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dyspunktional-revan · 5 months
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A narc abuse believer has reblogged from me so here's your Fucking reminder that no disorder is an abuser disorder. Your abuser(s) did/do not abuse you because they have an Abuser Disorder, they abuse(d) you because they believe(d) in their right to control you and had the means. And no, no disorder fucking creates that.
To abuse is a choice, and it's a carefully protected bolt in all the larger systems of oppression. To have a disability born out of being abused, that fucks You up, is not a fucking choice. And is certainly not a fucking protected bolt in the larger systems of oppression, rather the fucking opposite.
Yes, people with Any disorder Can choose to abuse. As well as people without that disorder! And people with that disorder are not fucking More Likely to abuse! And don't fucking armchair diagnose other people!
And the fucking case of parental abuse. You were not "raised by narcissists", you were raised by people whose literal societal role is to abuse you. Which Very Much does not absolve them. Parents are cops, and more. Read up on youth liberation and stop throwing *other survivors* into the fucking meat grinder.
And the fucking nerve to put anti-narc shit into the *npd* tags. You know well it's a Disorder, not an Abuser Personality Type that the abuser Chooses, and still demonize us.
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dyspunktional-revan · 5 months
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Sure you reblog posts about supporting psychotics and OCDers but then you act like a psychotic / OCDer in your life is some kind of a fucking dark lord or some thing that deserves to be depersonized and degraded if they have a delusion or a compulsion that they cannot hold completely inside their head without you ever knowing.
Yes, including if it directly affects your life. You can address that without ableism, actually.
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dyspunktional-revan · 1 month
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Stop fucking lying to folx about what intrusive thoughts are. They do not have to be about “harming oneself or others” (in ways that *you* think are Objectively Harmful, not what might be harm to oneself to the individual experiencing them, of course, yea). They do not even have to be about actions at all.
Intrusive thoughts are your brain picking a theme that distresses you the most and bombarding you with thoughts about it because it thinks it’s protecting you from it that way (basically like an allergic reaction). That can be anything for anyone. And you don’t fucking get to decide what is distressing or non-distressing for others.
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dyspunktional-revan · 6 months
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“Where would Jews not be considered settlers” you absolute fucks there’s a difference between living somewhere your lineage is in one way or another “not from” and oppressing, expelling and murdering the people there
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dyspunktional-revan · 7 months
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Raistlin: *is explicitly multiply chronically ill*
Fans in at least two different languages: why does Raistlin look ill???
Also yes, he was already disabled before the Test of High Sorcery! Stop forgetting that challenge!!!!
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dyspunktional-revan · 2 months
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"Help these people, because the people harming them will also come for you" shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up shut the fuck up
Help because they are being harmed not because you might also get
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dyspunktional-revan · 9 months
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I think my disability benefits should include the legal right to beat up with my mobility aids anyone who thinks that dependency should mean giving up autonomy.
Signed, a dependent, currently abused, really fucking needing a non-abusive caregiver but not knowing if I can ever have them, disabled person.
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dyspunktional-revan · 10 months
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If you fakeclaim others because their experience is different from yours, fuck you.
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Separating "physical" and "mental" disability & disability issues, literally whatever you do with that separation, is insulting to many people's lived reality, is historically insulting (I promise you people who tried to commit genocides against disabled people didn't make this distinction. Neither do contemporary ones), actively harms a lot of people, ignores the variety of experiences on "either" "side" for the sake of claiming that Look This One Thing Makes It Different.
And thank you to all disability bloggers who actively Don't Do That, not just to those who speak against it but very very much to those who make posts about disability and include "both" "physical" and "mental" disabilities in it without any distinction, to people running disability blogs without the division for "physical" and "mental".
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dyspunktional-revan · 3 months
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For fuck’s sake you don’t need to put down individuals with low intelligence when you talk about the ableism you face/have faced
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dyspunktional-revan · 23 days
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The year is 2024 and almost the fucking entirety of tumblr trans discourse looks like only men and women exist. I’m so fucking sick of you all.
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dyspunktional-revan · 7 months
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Some accessibility tool not helping you does not negate its help for others.
Shut the fuck up about tone tags.
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dyspunktional-revan · 5 months
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Never fucking dare to open your mouth about how some disabilities/disabled experiences Are Not That Bad, no matter what you have yourself.
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dyspunktional-revan · 4 months
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"They [the oppressors] will also come after me" should not be your only fucking reason to stand up for marginalized groups you don't belong to.
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dyspunktional-revan · 6 months
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Can you maybe fucking not measure ongoing atrocities against one another????
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Can you maybe fucking not measure ongoing atrocities against one another????
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