#fakeclaiming mention

[tommyssupercoolblog]

"i know they're faking DID/OSDD because their alters are cringe!!!!" This may come as a shock to you, but sometimes, people's coping mechanisms, are cringe.

so when their brain introjects or creates someone, it's also cringe.

#i made a textpost #lmaoooo #like it's. like it's not that hard to get haha #anti fakeclaiming #anti fakeclaimers #anti fakeclaim #system #plural #multiplicity #endo safe #although this post is mainly about how in truamagenic systems there is an obvious explaination for cringe alters #but if u relate or just want to boost u can totally reblog!!! #factive #fictive #introject #fakeclaiming mention

[moonpool-system]

People that fakeclaim with the pretense of "you're only doing this online, it's roleplaying" baffle me, mostly because like... These people do realize the people behind the blogs they interact with have lives outside of the internet, right? Like tangible ones in physical space? We're still existing as plural offline with all the benefits and complications that brings. We're reminded over and over again that fakeclaimers do not see us or know our lives. They don't know the times another member has been laughing their ass off or sobbing their eyes out in front, when our host feels no emotional connection to the situation at all. They don't know the money we allocate towards non-hosts' interests and styles, nor the feeling of physical sickness in the body when a fictive dwells on their source trauma. They don't know we have many fronting/activity habits that have nothing to do with the internet. They don't know how we feel when we know we're not alone at night because we're able to remind each other it's going to be okay.

They don't know our personal lives. They don't know the intricacies of our private existence. We are real even when the eyes of others are not on us. Fakeclaimers will never have power over us again.

#fakeclaiming mention #pluralgang #syscourse #plural community #traumaendo #traumagenic #endogenic #pdid

[multiplicity-positivity]

Here’s some positivity for systems who have recently rediscovered their plurality!

For many systems, their process of plural discovery can be messy, complicated, or difficult to understand. Some systems may have members who completely forget about their multiplicity, only to rediscover it later on. There is nothing wrong with forgetting, rediscovering, or struggling to come to terms with or remember your systemhood! This post is for all those who are rediscovering or re-questioning their plurality!

🌸 Shoutout to those who rediscovered their plurality after being made to forget for their own safety!

🕊 Shoutout to those who aren’t sure whether or not they are plural despite having identified as such in the past!

💕 Shoutout to empty systems who have recently realized that they are in fact empty systems rather than singlets!

🦢 Shoutout to dualconscious systems who forget about their plurality from time to time!

🌸 Shoutout to systems who feel like they’re in a constant state of discovery or rediscovery!

🕊 Shoutout to those who rediscovered their system after forgetting due to being fakeclaimed, hurt, or traumatized in some way!

💕 Shoutout to those with complex dissociative disorders whose dissociative barriers makes it difficult for them to maintain awareness of their system!

🦢 Shoutout to those who rediscovered their system after forgetting due to having memory issues of any kind!

🌸 Shoutout to individual headmates who have recently realized or remembered that they’re not alone in their own minds!

🕊 Shoutout to systems whose process of rediscovery has been challenging, upsetting, or painful!

💕 Shoutout to systems who have easily embraced their plurality after their rediscovery!

Having multiple instances of system discovery is actually a normal and common aspect of the questioning process for many systems. If you have recently rediscovered your plurality after forgetting about it, hiding it, or brushing it aside for any reason, we want to let you know that we see you, we believe you, and your rediscovery does not invalidate your plurality in any way, shape, or form! Know that you belong in the plural community, and we are so very happy to have you here!

If you’ve rediscovered your plurality recently, please don’t go hard on yourself for forgetting or refusing to acknowledge your system. What matters most is that you have made progress on your journey of self-discovery! Even if you forget again in the future, that doesn’t negate your progress whatsoever. Please remember to take it easy and have some patience and compassion for yourself and your system! Thank you so much for reading, and take care!

#multiplicity #plurality #pluralgang #actuallyplural #system positivity #plural positivity #plural pride #system pride #rediscovery #syscovery #trauma mention #fakeclaiming mention

[murielsbottombitch]

"you're faking your disability for attention"

why would I spend a bunch of money on mobility aids just for attention?

I could spend that money on an onlyfans model and get much more attention.

#tw ableism #ableism #tw fakeclaiming #anti fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #fakeclaiming cw #fuck fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #chronic disability #chronic fatigue #chronic illness #chronically ill #chronic pain #cripplepunk #spoonie #text post

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

Guys, apparently if you use neopronouns and you're a system you're faking )):

Sorry to be the one to inform you )):

#got this from r/syscringe smh #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #anti fakeclaiming #traumagenic did #did alter #did system #actually did #did osdd #endos dni #traumagenic system #anti endo #anti endogenic #fuck endos #calico has spots

[the-100-percent]

Guess what (not out yet) endo system had to hold back tears when their mom was talking about how endos aren't real! 🤫🧏🎉🥰

Oh oh! And guess what? She kept bringing up "Alastor" as a sign they are faking being a system! And guess who was co-fronting with me when this was happening? 🥳🥳

-🏳️‍🌈

#all systems are valid #plural #plural system #plurality #system #endo system #endogenic safe #endogenic system #fictive system #fictive heavy system #pro endo #endo safe #endo friendly #endogenic #paragenic #system stuff #system vent #vent post #vent #plural vent #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaimers dni #fakeclaiming mention #anti fakeclaiming #fuck fakeclaimers

[sappy-sabbath]

as a society can we stop making mental illness/neurodivergency trendy and romanticized. i know more mf who faked claim than ppl who actually had the condition. at the end it just makes the people who are diagnosed with the condition the butt of the joke or look disingenuous.

ALSO IF I MAY be real for a sec!!! it’s because of the “destigmatizing XYZ 🥺” tiktoks and self diagnosing that make this happen, i know they are good intent and not all people have resources but its one thing to be concerned about your mental health and another to claim to have a disorder that you haven’t been diagnosed with!

autism, ADHD, schizophrenia, BPD, bipolar disorder, psychosis, OCD have all became quirks than serious debilitating condition and as someone with ADHD and psychotic depression IM SICK OF ITTTT, it’s different with things like depression and anxiety bc you experience that at least once in your life but it’s getting out of hand

#mental health #neurodivergency #actually mentally ill #mental heath support #mentalheathawareness #neurodivergent #neurodiversity #romanticism #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaimers dni #anti fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #fuck fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming cw #destigmatization #self diagnosis #self diagnosed autism #self diagnosed adhd #self diagnosers #autism #autistic spectrum #adhd #actually adhd #schizophrenia #schizoaffective #bpd #bipolor #psychosis

[orange-orchard-system]

I cannot take the reasons behind fakeclaiming and being assholes to anyone accused of being a faker seriously. "But what if someone is faking DID?!" If someone is so desperate for connection and attention (and friendly reminder that because we are social creatures, these are basic needs) that they think an inauthentic position in a community they're going to have to repeatedly lie to is going to give them that... I'd rather they seek out those needs they have here, in an "average person probably has some idea on how to handle the trauma and other problems a lack of proper connection and attention can give a person" community, than any "let's go make fun of people to make us feel better about ourselves" community. I do not think this is a big problem. Any misinformation or misconception a faker could perpetuate by faking is no worse than the shit I've seen doctors and actual people with DID perpetuate.

Besides, most of the fakers I've seen (which is like. Two out of the hundreds, maybe thousands of systems I've met in passing online) haven't actually done anything. They just post shit about their fake system until they decide to quit and admit to their lies. A lot of fearmongering about "what fake systems will do to the community" doesn't actually happen nearly as often as people think it does. And I'm not sure I trust a lot of this "they'll spread misinfo" worry, considering some people think it's "misinfo" to say you can get DID from trauma other than physical and sexual abuse.

"But what if you support a faker?!" Fakers probably need that support. They probably need someone to acknowledge they're not wrong for needing attention, even if I would prefer an ideal world where they don't have to resort to lying to get it. It's really not a big deal at the end of the day. I have other problems than worrying about than if someone is faking DID. Like how best to manage my own DID. May all those faking DID or anything else find the community and attention they need without having to lie and hide their true selves.

#front soup.txt #did #fakeclaiming mention

[cavityinmybrain]

something else that made me personally change my ideas on syscourse was that my system didn’t function like a lot of anti-endos. i relate much more to things that people say are “faking.”

not everyone in my system is aware of themselves as a person. we dont know how many there are, but we have a lot of fragments. pieces will show up and front with specific memories and we can target where they’re from and they’ll never front again. my system kept going entirely dormant/unaware for months repeatedly. i got worse amnesia about my life and lived experiences. i felt like i was doing it all for attention. except its been happening for as long as i remember.

seeing people poke holes in others experience to say they’re “faking” was really bad for my denial. now im seeing a therapist and thats kinda helping.

so yeah, when you fakeclaim, you hurt people who experience whatever looks “fake” to you.

#yeahhh our system is waking up again thanks to having a new therapist #hopefully she believes us #its really hard to explain whats going on in my head a lot of the time #plural #system #multiplicity #traumagenic #traumagenic system #fakeclaiming cw #fakeclaiming mention #tw fakeclaiming #fuck fakeclaimers #for making me feel like i was crazy #endo safe #endo friendly

[thelookoutsystem]

Something needs to be said: Fakeclaiming is INCREDIBLY mentally damaging, and it's never acceptable. No matter HOW justified you feel doing it.

Especially regarding systems, if you don't 100% know with undeniable proof that a person is "faking" being a system, fakeclaiming them can harm them in ways you would never even think about. Most systems (diagnosed or not) deal with denial on a very regular basis. DID/OSDD is a covert disorder, literally designed to hide itself from the person who has it. The brain will attempt to "logic away" any of their symptoms and chalk it up to delusions, a wild imagination, faking for attention, etc. So when you target a system who likely is already struggling with these thoughts and say "yes, you ARE faking this disorder", you're validating an incredibly harmful train of thought they are already having.

If you think a person is faking a disorder, fakeclaiming them will only give them the attention they want. If you think they're wrong about the disorder they have, then that's not a valid excuse to harass or fakeclaim them. There is genuinely no good excuse to fakeclaim anybody, as it will encourage genuine fakers (which are VERY few and far between) and discourage actual systems from talking about their experiences and discovering themselves.

#anti fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaiming #did system #dissociative amnesia #dissociative identity disorder #osdd system #fakeclaiming mention #plurality

[gillipopmoji]

I don't understand DID

I don't understand age regression

I don't understand typing quirks

I don't understand personality disorders

I don't understand gender

I don't understand how endogenic systems form

I don't understand ID

I don't understand therians.

BUT GUESS WHAT?

I also don't understand the human brain. Just because you don't understand doesn't mean you have to fakeclaim or bully.

#not an emoji #tw fakeclaiming #anti fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #fuck fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #bullying #tw discourse #discourse tw #cw discourse #discourse cw #discourse

[sayorispace]

It's so annoying when people say OSDDID accounts are only run by fakers because "why would a person with real OSDDID show off their disorder like that?"

Because we're real people! We have real interests! We can want to be online and be ourselves if we want too! It's our trauma and we can do what we want with it! We shouldn't be forced to close ourselves away from everyone to prove our legitimacy!

If you wouldn't say it to someone with depression, don't say it to someone with OSDDID! /srs

#tw fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #----------------------------------------------------------- #fictive #osdd #osdd fictive #ddlc fictive #did osdd #did system #osdd system #sayori fictive #system #osdd 1b #osddid #osdd alter #actually dissociative #actually system #actually osdd #actually did #osdd community #did community #traumagenic #traumagenic osdd #traumagenic safe #looking for sourcemates #sourcemates interact #sayori alter #sayori ddlc

[luckygrlsyndrome]

fakeclaimers and just ableists in general are so insane to me like you show a symptom of your disorder? faking. you don't show a symptom of your disorder? faking.

#fakeclaiming mention #ableism mention #ableist bullshit #diagnosed did #dissociative identity disorder #person with dissociative identity disorder #bigots fuck off #you're weird #leave people alone

[call-metiger]

Hey google how do I know if I've been through more severe trauma than I think I have?

I just... I feel so much like a fake system. What I went through wasn't that bad, it wasn't bad enough, it wasn't extreme or horrible. I remember so much of my childhood and past, and my system is so TikTok-esque it's fucking comical.

On one hand I just want to know that it was bad enough, it was trauma, I'm not making it up.

On the other, I wish what I went through was worse so I wouldn't be feeling this way in the first place.

Any advice is welcomed and greatly appreciated, please and thank you.

#fakeclaiming cw #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming mention #system #did system #did #dissociative amnesia #actually dissociative #dissociative identity disorder #osdid #osddid #vent tag

[debunkingfdc]

fakeclaiming people online is one thing, bit if you meet irl people and immediately post your private little drama about them supposedly faking to r/fakedisordercringe, and then stalk their social media accounts to farm for likes and upvotes:

please consider the possibility that maybe you're the attention-seeking, manipulative one in your friend group and that you should never be allowed within a 10 mile radius of any neurodivergent person- no, never allowed within a 10 mile radius of any person

#anti fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming cw #fakeclaimers #fakeclaiming #stalking #tw stalking #harrassment #tw harrassment #fakeclaiming mention #fakedisordercringe #r/fakedisordercringe #ableism #ableist people #neurodivergent #neurodivergence #fight ableism #neurodiversity #actually neurodiverse

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

I hate fakeclaimers so much, if not for the sole reason that we don't want this. We don't want to be a system. We don't want to have DID. We've tried to unalive ourselves over having DID. And then they come and say bullshit like "you're faking!!!"

#traumagenic did #did alter #did system #actually did #traumagenic system #did osdd #endos dni #anti endo #endos not for you #anti endogenic #fuck endos #fakeclaiming mention #anti fakeclaiming #tw fakeclaiming #tw sui implied #calico has spots