It’s late so I have no real positive inkling about how coherent this will be.
I’ve been seeing a lot of posts engaging with the concept of “don’t look away, bare witness” and how anyone looking away by not reblogging or engaging is privileged and therefore a bad person. I reject this premise wholeheartedly for one very critical reason: the world will not get better if the only emotions we have are anger, exhaustion and trauma. None of those truly lead to anything productive in the long run.
This is not to say don’t engage with different perspectives, unlearn things or simply sit in the uncomfortable nature that comes from our global society. But learn to take breaks.
There is massive difference between “looking away” and “hitting pause”. It needs to be more acceptable on the internet to hit pause. To seek joy, to sleep and wake up rested. There is also the fact that our brains are not able to process the 24/7 news cycle - if we try, we end up making the nuanced into simple paradigms.
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Arranged marriage AU with Barbarian Bakugou who is so daunting to be around at first. He’s all gruff curses and broad shoulders and scarred cheeks and neck and jaw. He scowls constantly, stares at you while your parents auction you off like some show pig, but doesn’t say much to you besides a grunt of his name. You’re terrified, thinking that he’ll be cruel to you, that you’re being set up for a life full of unhappiness and terror and regret.
But he’s the exact opposite. Bakugou is gentle in ways a man of his size typically wouldn’t be, but he shrinks himself for you. Not in a way that diminishes his status as the newly appointed king, but to respect you, show you that you’re beside him instead of behind him.
He picks you berries on his hunts because he knows the smell of a fresh kill brings nausea to your stomach. You find him along with the other maidens and helpers around his village, sitting beside them, big fingers holding tiny little flowers that he weaves into a crown for you. When he sets it on your head, he purses his lips, mutters something under his breath in his language that you’re still not too familiar with, but sure it means something along the lines of pretty and soft.
And when he finds you bathing in the river only few have access to, he’s sweet the whole time. Doesn’t make a spectacle of you being naked, and is relieved when you don’t instantly cower when he wades his way over to you. You try not to stare at the clawed scars that decorate his pec and jaw when he stands above you, and it helps when he suddenly dumps water all over your head. He shushes you when you splutter, continues on with cupping his hands and letting the water run off of your hair and down your shoulders, scrubbing at your skin until your flesh squeaks. He doesn’t expect you to do the same for him, but he hums in satisfaction when you push him down a little lower so you can wash the crown of his head.
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Roderich: *drunkenly wheels himself into an open manhole in the 1920s right outside of a brothel and HECKIN dies*
Roderich returning to the same brothel two days later completely unharmed in a new chair: “Me? Dead? What, have you switched to drinking absynthe? At least purchase a round for the deceased, if you really believe I’m no longer of this Earth.”
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Okay not to defend the hot irredeemable murderer but it is real funny Juliette is out here thinking that Elinor killed Theo to ruin her relationship. I’m sorry babe not everything is about your doomed Shakespearean love. Sometimes your sister wants to hook up with a hot hunter too and then his brother shows up and she thinks she’s been set up so she pisses off both of them and they try and kill her and so she moves out of the way and lets one brother kill the other then wipes his memory so she won’t get blamed or be roped into the mess that will inevitably come from getting a hunter killed.
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I don’t pay much attention to the fandom anymore, just kinda wanna post my queue from last year-earlier this year and take a break but sometimes it’s like. Idc whatever discussion’s happening but I think it would be funny to poke Nightheart with a stick because I like him and he’s so vehemently like the brat I acted like as a teenager. They write angry teenagers pretty okay.
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ugHHhh i feel sick, I went on this date with this man last week and it went really well. I don’t have any specific rules for sleeping with people but I don’t necessarily like hooking up. he seemed really interested (planning lots of different date ideas, mentioning the future, helping me out with things) and I ended up sleeping with him on the second date. things were still going well all week (he asked me to hang out every day) and then we had plans friday and he ghosted me. I texted him this morning and just said “hey, I was surprised you didn’t answer the other night since everything seemed to be going well. just wondering what caused the change up?” (I can never let anything die without an explanation) and he ignored that too. so now I just feel gross and for a lack of a better word….. slutty because I hate sleeping with people for it to go nowhere. It makes me feel used
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Why do people who enjoy spam liking always act so high and mighty about it ‘well I like it when someone likes all 200 of my posts bc it means they love and cherish my creations, I’m sorry you’re a cold hearted grinch and don’t have any appreciation for the common people who love your work, maybe if you stopped being such a snob 🙄’ ok bitch good for you?? I just like reading people’s comments/tags on my art and having a lot of individual like notifications clogs it up so it gets a little annoying that’s all. If spam liking makes you feel good that’s great I’m happy for you but it’s just a matter of personal preference it doesn’t make either of us morally superior lol get off your high horse
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I need help dealing with this. How do you deal when fans from your own division are laughing at your team that's in a major slump at Game 39 of the season? I'm trying to enjoy the Pens still but it's hard when teams around the Metro are mocking us like we're the only ones with issues while they keep on winning. Some of our own fans have even wondered (including me honestly) if any of the Metro teams will ever lose again because almost all are peaking this early, like how is that possible for many teams to do this well with TDL still 2 months away, while we are begging for a major change to potentially save the season
stop watching.
i’m not being flippant here. if you’re going through a fandom trying to get other fans to be responsible for your emotional regulation over each and every loss, stop watching, either until you feel better or permanently. it’s not fair to ask everyone else to help you deal with your feelings over a loss, because we all also have our own.
at the end of the day, this is just sports! it doesn’t matter, and more importantly, there’s nothing any single fan can do. so you either learn to enjoy watching a team that goes through rough patches, or you stop watching. simple as. but it’s not up to everyone else to read long messages about how bad it’s making you feel that we didn’t say we’re ok receiving and dealing with.
also, why are you reading what other teams’ fans think? who cares? are they SUPPOSED to be nice about a team they don’t like?
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Hulloooo! I just restarted my island last week! It's my personal nightmare currently but it'll get there. How have you been?
I’ve been pretty good! This weeks been a bit of a time cause I had cold that just completely zapped all my energy, but other then that, I’ve been doin pretty ok. Nothing to stressful or crazy and nothing too like.. exciting to talk about I guess, lol.
Hmmm, I think the most exciting thing that has happened is that I drove home from ‘the big city’ and I even drove in it, so like…. That was a bit crazy! Slowly getting there on the driving thing lmao.
I’m both really excited about starting over my ac island and like. Nervous lmao. I never really got very far in decorating it tho, so I’m looking forward to a completely fresh slate with it!
How about you? Anything cool, or just acnh (nothing wrong with that if it’s the answer tho 🥰).
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i think the hardest thing with rehabbing is that sometimes from your point of view there are no success stories some days. we have the birds who are doing well of course but im not really working with them. i did one exam today and the bird had to be euthanised because of the injury severity. the other intakes we were waiting for either didn’t come during my shift or died before they could get to us. the only other bird i worked with was a window strike with severe neurological damage who had to be force fed. sometimes i come home emotionally drained just because rehabbing isn’t always happy endings
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