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[halluciniwaynia]

#dungeon meshi #falin dunmeshi #delicious in dungeon falin #dunmeshi falin #falin touden #dunmeshi #delicious in dungeon #personal post

[x-chai]

Wasn’t really sure about these selfies tbh but wtvr

#personal #personal post #me #selfie #Spotify

[spirk-trek]

a very star trek birthday :)

#the eyeshadow is spock and jim themed :) #i took myself out antiquing and found so many star trek books! #the film strips are gifts from my mom #she got me a whooooole bunch #i'll upload them individually later!!! #misc me #personal post #star trek #trekkie #self love #happy birthday to me

[tiredsn0w]

If nobody has told you yet, or this year, or even this day, I want you to know that what you can do is enough.

If all you can do is an hour or two of school/work, that's enough. If all you can do is go to medical appointments, that's enough. If all you can do is tidy up your room, that's enough. If all you can do is take a shower, that's enough. If all you can do is your hobbies/things that make you happy, that's enough.

If you can't do any of that, and have to lie in bed most days, or every day, and other people take care of you, you're living despite a world that is so hostile, you are suffering so much and still living. You are doing enough.

You don't owe anyone productivity. You don't need to have a job, go to school, or write or draw, or do anything else in order to have inherent worth and value. You deserve to be taken care of. You deserve to be loved. No matter what you can or can't do.

#chronic illness #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #fibromyalgia #myalgic encephalomyelitis #autoimmune disease #disability positivity #personal post

[madphantom]

Also huge fan of the fact that my 4'9 pink haired sunshine lollipops and rainbows ass is the big spoon and my chronically dressed all black, boomer's nightmare violence-is-the-answer boyfriend is the little spoon. We have the dynamic of a cartoon couple sometimes.

#personal post #boyfriend shenanigans

[zhou-enlai-fanclub]

some of you need to understand that "go outside" as an admonition is also an encouragement to better yourselves. because genuinely some of you talk to people on this website in a way where if you said this to someone irl everybody would just kind of stare at you uncomfortably and with disdain. and rightfully so! i understand having social disability i am myself autistic but there is something to be said about like. knowing what is an appropriate way to talk to a stranger who is a real person.

have you considered that you do not have friends because you choose to be cloying and difficult to be around.

#personal post

[acemdzsfan]

Me: Clearly describes to someone that I am sex-repulsed and aroace.

That person: Proceeds to hit on me in a very sexual way and ask me to sleep with both them and their partner.

Me: .... :|

#okay then #i guess #sex repulsed #asexual #aromantic #aroace #aspec #arospec #personal post

[aaronstveit]

bossuets → aaronstveit

i don't even know what to say about this one y'all. let's not talk about it. no need to signal boost, in fact i prefer if we just pretend this isn't happening to me thanks!

#personal post #url change

[halluciniwaynia]

this takes the prize for the most deranged thing said in a manga ever

#dunmeshi #dungeon meshi #delicious in dungeon laios #delicious in dungeon #delicious in dungeon falin #falin dunmeshi #falin touden #falin dungeon meshi #dunmeshi laios #laios touden #laios dungeon meshi #personal post #chilchuk tims #marcille donato #senshi dungeon meshi

[thickness-protection-program]

We can't ibuprofen our way outta this one boys

#personal post

[space-owl]

Episode 5: aw he’s just a silly little guy!

Episode 8: oh he’s a bit fucked up actually!

#love iiittt #lucifer Morningstar #Hazbin hotel #Hazbin hotel spoilers #Hazbin hotel lucifer #I’m a simp #personal post

[ilovefandoms]

#that notification nearly made me cry #dan and phil #dnp #dan and phil games #dnpg #danandphilgames #dan howell #phil lester #amazingphil #danisnotonfire #dil howlter #phan #personal post

[madphantom]

Just had a dream that a novel exists which is written from the POV of an old man dying in the 1920s in the form of diary entries and bit by bit it's revealed it's actually a closeted trans woman who was out during her youth and forced to recloset and now I desperately want to read it

#personal post

[zhou-enlai-fanclub]

An aspect of political consciousness and the deprogramming of the self from the protocols of cisheteropatriarchy is the acceptance that, as a woman, it's actually fine and ok and not shameful for you to be attracted to women. There is a pervasive self-policing and, in turn, policing of others implicit in the cultural tools of expression granted in liberal spaces wherein bi women and lesbians will say things like "omg gay panic/lesbian panic/bi panic" (which Does Not Mean What You Think It Means) and "she is NOT beating the Allegations" (a specific framing, whether comedic or not, of lesbian attraction as criminal or aberrant).

If you are unable to accept that it is ok for you as a woman to like women, love women, love women's bodies, love sex with women, and love romantic intimacy with women, how can you expect to treat a potential partner with respect? How can you expect to have a healthy and respectful and communicative relationship with sexual intimacy, with emotional intimacy, with your understanding of yourself at all? You must let go of the shame, for your own sake, yes, but more importantly, for the sake of the other women in your life.

Likewise, there is an old joke among bisexual women wherein: "I love girls hahahaha but I could never date one, I'm too intimidated o///o"

The reality here is that the word "intimidated" is selected because it has nominally more acceptable valences to it ("I'm a smol bean squeeee") rather than the valences of the actual sentiment ("I have a shame complex about my attraction to women and I don't know how to deal with it.") You cannot be ashamed of your love for women and still treat women like human beings. You must grow out of this.

Pointedly, this is more pervasive in bisexual circles specifically for the reason that bi women have less of a vested interest in needing to interrogate this ideological position, because specifically it is so much easier to date men since it is societally sanctioned and universally considered acceptable. It is the easy way out, and therefore many bi women find themselves in relationships with men (which, whatever, that's fine in itself, date a man if you want it's kind of besides the point) specifically because they are incapable of pursuing gay intimacy with women due to their unaddressed "internalized homophobia."

Your shame will not save you. It will not protect you. All it will do is poison your relationships with others. And, in the process of your halting and hesitant path towards self-acceptance, how many women will you choose to harm along the way?

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[waiterwaiterpercolator]

Thinking of christopher eccleston on this trying day 🙏🏻

#the coronation #uk news #uk politics #personal post

[tiredsn0w]

This can't just be me, right?

#personal post #disability memes #fibromyalgia #myalgic encephalomyelitis #autoimmune disease #chronic pain #chronic fatigue #chronic illness