#so that’s where the parents are huh

[pagesfromthevoid]

I’m sorry BILLY AND MRS. WHEELER?

#cress talks too much #so that’s where the parents are huh #what the fuck honestly

[spacedlexi]

me restraining myself when i see lee and clem get left out of parent child video game duos

#then she also grows up to become the parental half of an adopted family unit #everyone always asks 'wheres the MOM with adopted SON huh?' like shes right here #this was also me when clemvi got left out of the gaymer girl zine ive never recovered #one of the few gaming wlw couples that have actually kissed multiple times and called each other girlfriends....and they werent in there #clem im so so sorry bby girl you dont deserve to be ignored like this you were and are an icon #it speaks #twdg

[naffeclipse]

thinking back on the time that I trapped myself in my room for two years and avoided as much human interaction as possible due to overbearing anxiety—and understanding now that it was an extremely unhealthy coping mechanism of self-isolation and not "laziness" or being an "antisocial weirdo" and I'm proud that I pulled myself out of that and am so much happier for it

#my parents would constantly ask me when i was going to do things because i was smart and ambitious in high school #and i didn't know why i was doing this #and i felt so dumb and defeated for the longest time #it's no one's fault that it happened because none of us understood what I was actually struggling with #but i'm right where i thought I would never be: submitting my book and going for my bachelor's degree and i'm part of a great community #like i wish i could tell myself then when i was locking my door that it's going to be okay and you're going to get out of there #naff nuh huh #vent #kind of? #anxiety

[hollowflight-propaganda]

I think it's time I change my bio to say it's been 11 years since I started to watch Ninjago.....

Gosh. Where's my senior discount on the lego sets, huh?

#I actually don't remember exactly when I picked up ninjago. I just know that it was april or may cause it was nearing the end of- #the school year #anyway this show feels like it's my best friend in all honesty. it's been with me for so long and at my loneliest #and to think that I've grown up alongside it. it's so weird #I have such a clear memory of like when just about anything happened for this show #s3 finale? I was sick but I still tuned into watch and CRIED #s5? I watched nearly every episode when it aired on cartoon network in my parents room cause my dad was using our other tv at that time #s8? watched it weekly in my grandparents basement and It Was A Ride #s11 finale? got to the episode at like. 6 am before I had to go to school and felt utterly disappointed there was no kai and zane fight #seabound? watched it weekly that one spring and IT WAS ALSO A RIDE #and that's not even touching the hours upon hours of fan works I've looked at #just. it's been such a long time. over a decade of my life that I've been attached to this show. and at the same time it feels like no- #time has passed at all #I actually first watched the show cause some classmates were talking about it and I wanted to be friends with someone so bad so I started- #to watch it and I Very Quickly surpassed their love of it #what a ride huh? now we're at a point where I can look this show and say it's genuinely good (THANK YOU DRAGONS RISING!!!!!!!!!!) #ok I'm done reminiscing. time to think about the newest scenarios in which to make kai suffer >:) #ninjago #phoenix prattles

[shima-draws]

GAMEFREAK WHAT DO YOU MEAN THE PARADOX POKEMON WERE ROAMING AROUND IN AREA ZERO WAY BEFORE THE PROFESSORS EVEN MADE THE TIME MACHINE

#Pokemon #Pokemon Scarlet and Violet #Pokemon SV spoilers #Pokemon SV #Pokemon Scarlet and Violet spoilers #I guess that’s why they’re called Paradox Pokemon huh 😳 #I only unlocked that dialogue with Arven recently where he’s like #’Wait. If my parent MADE the Time Machine recently to bring all these Pokemon here…why are there records of them from years and years ago?’ #I’M WONDERING THE SAME THING. #All of the Paradox Pokemon are recorded in the Scarlet/Violet book 🤔 Which was published AGES before the professor built the time machine 🤔 #Gamefreak. I DEMAND answers #Shima speaks #I really REALLY hope we get a DLC that will uncover more of this #I still have so many questions

[cosmereplay]

🖊️ Lirin/Hesina

"I don't want to know," Lirin said, his tone distressed.

"Well I do," Hesina insisted. "He was my son, too."

She had pictured Tien's death a thousand ways, and for her peace of mind she needed to narrow it down to one.

"Then I won't be there when you ask," Lirin sighed. "Pailiah knows you'll probably get farther with him if I'm not there."

Normally she would argue to face it together, like most things in life. But Hesina understood her husband. Knowing might break him.

"I'll ask Kal tonight, after supper," she said, and her stomach clenched in anticipation.

Ask game

#drabble #100 words #man i really need to get that fic out of me huh #where Kaladin tells the whole story to his parents #IT'S SO SAD THOUGH #stormlight archive #words of radiance #wor spoilers #hesina stormblessed #lirin stormblessed #ask answered #stormlight fanfic #my fic

[lupsbro]

welp i am crying

thanks taz balance episode 69

#WHAT A SURPRISE #my throat hurts so fucking bad did you know crying can make your throat hurt more i literally just made an appointment to the doctor #it took me a while huh #I don't think im gonna relisten to amnesty as well but man balance is just. it heals the heart. GOOD FOR THE SOUL #fucjing magnus and fuck8ng griffin for his superb storytelling #now i guess im gonna have to switch to christmas spirits again and read my stupid holiday romance book? #oh MAN #i remember back in 2018 fucking 5 YEARS AGO after i finished the finale there were a few weeks where id just burst into tears randomly #just thinking about taz and listening to the ost (and voidfish plural of course) #made for an awkward run in with a roommate lol #now i gotta explain to my parents why my eyes are red #and also why i can't TALK anymore jesus christ

[carlyraejepsans]

Well? Which one is it are you a father or an uncle?

heh... nah. i was always just "sans" to 'em.

...

#as sans #(dodging the QUESTION. so ill explain instead. yeah technically they're his nieces since they're papyrus' kids) #(but also. the bros lived together in dr just as they do in ut. so it's like. you know cultures where extended families all work together) #(and the adults all raise the kids together and the cousins may as well all be siblings and all the uncles/aunts parents?) #(something like that. like TECHNICALLY he was their uncle. in practice he was basically co-parenting) #(but yeah they were on a first name basis anyway gksjfkaj i just think it's funny) #(yeah that's my papa. his name is papyrus and he's the best daddy in the world. huh? oh that's sans.) #answered asks #utdrp

[worldwake]

Also one thing I did not anticipate about finally passing to Some extent (I still mostly don't I just like to strut around like I do) is how different other men treat me now. The main thing is just how weird it is to be offered a handshake greeting/farewell instead of a hug (SO weird to me, a known hug enjoyer)... like why are you allergic to giving me a hug...

#its actually fine its just odd #also judges calling me 'sir' like HUH?!? #i grew up in a household where my friends' parents were [their first names] not even mr/ms [surname] #so its just a bit of a shock to me 😅

[non-un-topo]

The irony of trying to start a "pain journal" but being too fatigued and having too much brain fog from said pain to start one

#is that irony? idk. i can't think. #i try so hard not to get crabby when i'm in pain like i genuinely try so so hard to be kind and patient #posting this on fb not to make my parents feel bad but also maybe to show them how bad this is #far as i know i don't have scoliosis like my dad. i was checked growing up. but there has to be some kind of curve #and at this point i will not tolerate anyone telling me it's just posture because it canNOT be just posture now. #i wake up in pain now. at the moment it's so bad i was just crying and waddling and pacing #it's my spine right in my mid-back. like where my bottom ribs connect to my spine #trying to stretch. took some naproxen 3 hours ago and it genuinely did nothing. put some tiger balm on #does tiger balm make anyone else drowsy??? or is that just brain fog from the pain? #fatigue and brain fog are things i literally just realized. like this whole time i thought i was just a lazy person #needing to lie down for most of the day unable to concentrate on even fucking reading. #but no it turns out when you're in pain every day all day for at least 11 years it makes you foggy and exhausted. #the more you know #literally drag me by the hair to a doctor because i cannot do it. i cannot be told to just Do yOgA and go on birth control or w/e #if you're afab it's always gotta be your period huh. that's a physician's only answer.

[iloveyouitisruiningmylife]

you ever hangout with someone and their company is actually much worse than being alone?

#she came over and we watched hasee toh phasee together okay #bc she said she hadn't seen it and i was like huh wtf!!!!! #terrible idea she doesn't deserve to see that movie it was so perfect she didn't ruin it exactly bc it's my fav #movie ever and she's not important enough to change that #but god it was annoying having her next to me i wanted her to go away and watch it on my own😭😭 #she kept looking at her phone on super important scenes and she kept saying arey she should find out about them where is the spice #and i kept saying this isn't about spice it's sweet heartwarming story about love and doomed relationships and father daugter rships #but she didn't appreciate it #i need to watch the movie again on my own to cleanse myself from the negativity ew #and she said i had so much fun let's do this again help😭😭 meko nahi karna never again #time to subtly start ignoring her so she gets the message and leave me alone #i already got the ick from her when she acted that way over parents but i was like ivy no ppl aren't perfect give her a second chance you #friends you're really lonely your internet friends are great but they can't sit next to you and talk to you #but i was wrong being lonely is better she's just so. wrong😭 #i kept thinking she's literally worse than everyone in my life i would have had more fun watching it with my MOM😭 #and my sis loves this movie and my bestie loves this movie and my cousin sis also loves this movie #UGH

[padfootastic]

Probably unpopular opinion but… James would have been a better parent than Lily, and probably would have been the one to adjust to parenthood the easiest.

oooooh, controversial, anon

i feel like my answer to this would be equally unpopular but i agree with you

and the thing is, there's no specific reason for it, either. absolutely no basis in canon (where we see examples of lily's parenthood, not james) but i just--am really biased towards my boy ykno?

in addition to viewing james as nurturing/like a caretaker, i also feel like lily was the more selfish of the two. and more independent as well. so she would take time to adjust to this entire human depending on her whereas james is a fkn sponge--he'll love having harry attached to him at all times. he was also a lonely child who adored his parents and wanted something similar to that whereas lily's family situation was, well. ykno.

so yeah, i dont know if i'd call it a better parent, exactly (james was almost def the more indulgent of the two, and would always put harry's happiness over everything, even if it could be detrimental so he had his faults) but i do think he was a natural parent and it came harder to lily.

#hi yes im back to the unpopular opinions #wdym they're a month old huh #women are demonised in media yada yada yada i know #but let me live w my silly little headcanons #major disclaimer that these r all opinions #(the fact that i have to caveat my posts lol) #its all precautionary bc ive always had the best anons but still. just in case. #i also think there was a moment of like--parental jealousy? on lily's end #where she's sad and envious at how quickly j&h got close and how easy it is for him but she has to work hard #and then she has a convo ab it with sirius #whos like 'listen its the pitfalls of being around james potter--u always feel inadequate' #(reminds me of the line from FoD where lily tells harry that being with overachievers can be tough) #and he tells her james has always been a natural carer #that doesnt mean shes bad at it. she just needs time #also he relates to her fears and anxieties more #coming from a dysfunctional family himself #so yeah #pen’s asks

[weepylucifer]

Remind me to at some point do something about that ficlet i have knocking around in my head where ulixes surprise-visits steban at his mom's place during semester break and steban gets extremely flustered about it

#posts by me #this would be early in their friendship #they met each other in the last semester and instantly clicked but it's all still new. uli hasn't even realized he has a crush yet #he's staying with his parents and they're distant and disinterested and he misses talking to his new friend #and hey steban did give him his family's address ''for emergencies'' and urgently needing to talk theory is an emergency!! #so he heads to villalobos. has the door opened by steban's mom. all very yes hello can my friend come out to play #he's led out back to a little community garden that some people in the apartment block manage together #steban's there helping out bc he's on break. he's in his oldest shittiest gardening clothes. there's dirt on his hands #and mud on his bare feet. uli looks at him in the sunlight and thinks ooohh. i am IN LOVE with you #then steban sees him and is like OH NO. he's not supposed to see me without my nice academic getup #now he'll think [mesque stereotype] [mesque stereotype] [mesque stereotype] #and meanwhile uli's thinking wow he is the most beautiful being to ever exist i want to be communist lovers with him #cue uli sitting in the kitchen with lemonade while steban has a whispered argument with his mom outside #all ''muuuums why did you just let him IN HERE i'm not even properly DRESSED'' and his mom is all oh you want to impress the boy huh? #you want to look nice for the boy? 😏 #and steban (blushing) is like i want the boy to take me SERIOUSLY as an ACADEMIC #like... this is firstie steban. he's still grappling with the whole 'poor kid in a college environment' thing #he hasn't yet learned to simply own it. he's probably trying to suppress his accent when he's on campus. and uli might even be middle class #(!!!) #and like he's not Ashamed of where he's from. his family's great. he... doesn't Hate being mesque. he's not sure yet how it all squares w #his brand-new communist beliefs. where he belongs and what he defines himself as #but he knows this: he does kinda want to impress ulixes. it just feels right to have him around #so he's just very very flustered and confused and trying to act nonchalant about it #steban's mom after fighting tooth and nail for it eventually gets uli to call her by her first name

[rubberbandballqueen]

#the worm speaks #i used one of my dad's envelopes for the paperwork and they had like these strips to peel away for the gum seal #but they weren't very good and i also had to open the one for my state taxes a couple times bc i forgot stuff. like the page w/my signature #and my dad saw me opening them n was like 'huh? you can just open them?' n i was like 'ya' #n he was like 'well that's not very safe.' n i was like 'nope!' n he told me to tape it shut n i was like 'i could wax seal them' #n he didn't believe that i had the supplies for it so he just laughed it off and so i went back to my room n got my wax seal stuff #and usually i do it w/a little candle in the bathroom w/the fan turned on n i strike a little penny match i bought in eighth grade #n i light the candle n do all that in the private of the bathroom but this time i just took it all down to the kitchen n used a stove burne #the first envelope i didn't flatten enough before putting the hot wax on and so it almost dripped off before i could actually seal it #but the second one turned out nice n so then i went over to my parents' room where they were discussing smth or other abt their own returns #and i was like 'look father the envelopes have been sealed' n he was like 'HAAAH? ...aiya...' and my mom was like '幹嗎? 她做甚麼?' #n so my dad just handed her the envelopes n she squinted at the seals n touched them disbelievingly #and then she was like 'how did you do that?!?' n i just showed her my wax sealing spoon n said 'with THIS!' n then my wax pellets #'and this!!' and then pointed in the direction of the kitchen 'and the stove!!!!' #anyway i was going to then also tape the sides like my dad told me to at first but then i couldn't find the tape

[arcaneyouth]

i'm starting to think living with 5 other people may simply be a problem

#vent post #negative #i've come to the conclusion i'm not getting enough sugar in my daily meals #(which is. ironic in a lot of ways. but i don't know what else the problem would be) #and that's great that's cool that i've come to this conclusion. i don't think i can solve this one #we don't buy that much sugary or junk food stuff anymore #my dad's got diabetes that makes sense that's understandable #so a lot of our family meals are like rice and meat and a salad #but yknow i'm not really gonna ask my parents to change that! it's been like that for a long time now it's fine it's alright #but i don't think i can actually solve the problem #i. already have a lot of foods that the rest of my family isn't allowed to touch. because i am So Picky #and when they were eating my foods more often i was Starving #i don't. think. i can ask for more. and you know what that's fine! that's fine that's ok i like my meals they're tasty as hell #what about snacks then? can we get snacks for the whole family? well no #we stopped buying more junk foodish snacks because it was All my siblings were eating #and it was bad! it was bad they shouldn't have been doing that. but now i don't think my parents trust us to be responsible with snack food #so our snack foods are. protein bar. fruit snacks (i had to request these specifically). popcorn #that's. that's fine. that's fine maybe i should be focused on fruit instead! fruit is good sugar! #well we don't store fruit i like the way i like it (don't put it in the fridge) so i never eat any of it anymore #but everybody else seems fine with it so really i'm not going to win this argument cause everybody else actually eats it more when it's out #(i don't think this is true. but i think it's true for My Dad and My Mom specifically.) #and i just. it really got me thinking about how much i don't have foods that i like in the house or meals that i love because Somebody Else #likes it done differently and not the way i like it #and that takes priority #to the point where i don't know what the fuck kind of foods i like because we just don't. have. any #i prefer white rice. mom prefers brown so we get brown. i prefer crunchier potatoes. mom prefers them soft so we make them soft #i like my fruits cold. my parents prefer to be able to See the fruits so they stay on the counter. i only eat chicken breast not any other #part of the chicken. my parents prefer thigh meat so we get thigh meat (which i don't eat) #oh huh. this post was a lot longer but tumblr deleted half the tags. yeah that's fair

[starsandthorn]

okay so first we had brothers who love and care about each other a lot but don't know how to express it which leads to them arguing. now we have separating your own wishes for the future from what your parents want for you. kaeya event for real

#personal stuff #thorn plays genshin #seriously they started talking about doing what you want vs doing what your parents want and my brain went Brothers Thoughts Mode #also going bonkers over everyone here having the same blue hair and glowing blue eyes. this is going to be a plot point i know it #did all of them die in the desert?? were they transformed somehow when they came in here?? #lessig didn't seem to have the same effects so maybe he's still alive and well #but we know idyia's an oceanid. and despite how she acts she's definitely capable of doing things oceanids are capable of #also kokomi???????????? huh???? #answers my question about why exactly she was here but hm. hrmmm. opens up more questions about what this thing is #and how the hell it got here from way across the sea #also where are kaeya and klee. are they hanging out around here again i want to see them