#sorry i dont recognize the other person :(

[wilbursoot-updates]

Tommy posted to his IG story!

#wilbur soot #tommyinnit #shubble #ranboo #crumb #crumb cuptoast #sorry i dont recognize the other person :( #instagram #vidcon

[thenamessparkplug]

shoutout to my old 4th grade teacher for being more supportive of me one time 6 months ago than my own mother's ever been< 3333

#it was like such a tiny interaction but i also never forgot #it was during some kind of family party thing for kids parents (and siblings) to come and eat pizza and some other stuff i dont remember #and anyways my brother(who currently goes to this school) wanted to go so my whole family went #and while i was there my mom saw my old 4th grade teacher and was like “omg you should go talk to her” #and i was like yeah i should she was a really cool lady actually #so i nervously was like “hi” and didnt think shed recognize me at all #but she IMMEDIETLY was like “ITS YOU! /pos” #she then points to my shirt and asks me “hey are those your pronouns now?” #and this was back when i still wore pronoun/pride pins in general #and i was like “yeah actually!” because no adult had ever asked me about it before and i was so happy to like be recognized as a person #and she gave me a hug and told me she was proud of me and how much id grown and i /maybe/ got a little close to tears but ignore that #and my mom just stood there the whole time #she didnt say anything #she didnt smile #and this was not my first time wearing my pronoun pin my TRANS FLAG pin even #never once did she acknowledge it #also like a month later she made fun of me for it and i havent worn one since #uh yeah anyways #sorry for ranting lmao #or ig venting?? this was not my intention mb mb #trans #transgender #lgbt #lgtbq #lgbtqia #(to be clear my mom has made it very clear she will never support me on numerous occasions it wasnt like a one time thing lmao) #tw vent?? #tw vent

[munamania]

real life drama moment eye roll sams apparently struggling bc he wants to move out and is touring this building hes been eyeing but his roommates dont want him to but also apparently theres beef and he just 'doesnt want to be friends with those people anymore' and he was really vague about what that was all abt and his friend group and who he wanted to even still talk to. and well. not my circus not my monkeys....... but im gonna go ahead and keep my feet in two lanes here does that make me a shady bitch. girl i literally dk any details and thats fine but like. idk whatever..

#personally me and ur roommate r fine so gonna just chill there and also thank my fellow dyke they went on a trip with #just for being a lesbian hashtag dyke swag (we met once and high fived over this) #again not my business but all i know is that apparently some of them planned trips even to where hes from over break and didnt talk to him #abt it. and i was like well did any of you just talk about spring break at all and he was like no. so. okay.. and then he talked vaguely ab #doing so much for them to try and make them like him again and i was just like well once again #did anybody in this friend group ever just like have a direct conversation about anything ever. lowkey. i said it nicer than that #and the answer is pretty much no #like ok blames not fully on u ig but if we had unspoken beef and u were adjacently doing nice things idk that id. recognize that..? #esp just with. the busy-ness of sams life. not trying 2 be callous #idk in general that group just needs to fall apart once again why have u known each other since freshman year #go to like. therapy. also. ok im sorry to be bitching abt somebody thats kind of my friend i dont like feeling like a two faced bitch #thats the gemini in me i guess. ahaha everyone laugh. but whatever this is tumblr dot com. also like the fact that he approached this with #ugh.... im feeling Complex emotions... and i dont like it... :(. im gonna keep it real idk that thats very complex #ur just gonna have to talk to them. a general them. whoever. 'well whats the end goal of that' idk dude u have to figure that out hello #abby talks

[etchedstars]

spotify friend activity making me so emotional rn .... hello online friend who i havent talked to in 3 months. i hope youre well and youre enjoying your sad emotional tuesday evening daylist

#im actually really sad over this actually #oddly enough my current daylist is also sad emotional tuesday evening #the overdue asteroid strikes again #ok im so going on a whole entire tangent but like. drives me crazy sometimes #how you can be so close to a person and have so many memories and be each others friends in a time when it feels like youre alone #and then suddenly life sweeps you back up and then you just dont have enough time to talk anymore #how i would recognize her in an instant if i passed her on the street from the spotify profile alone and how i absolutely know she wouldnt #recognize me back #and its fine like i dont usually think abt this as much as i am now but damn. #ships passing in the night. or buses or something . its been almost 2 yrs since that #i hope youre doing well if you see this . i dont think you will bc you havent checked tumblr in 2 yrs but i still have so much love for you #ok thats all for now. sorry #NVM SHE UNFOLLOWED ME. :(

[toytulini]

dont get mad at me this is a subjective opinion but like. like i enjoy stardew a lot and this is by no means a criticism, more of like. just a Wish.

I want a game very similar to stardew valley in terms of play and "difficulty" but animated/artstyle like, botw.

#toy txt post #if anyone gets on my ass about this i will turn reblogs off so fast im just wishing and this isnt even hating on the artstyle of stardew #more. wishing i could further customize the house and grow crops in botw or totk #you can do more house customization in totk but its still not enough also my house in totk is like. maxmimum number of buildings #which i cant remember? but its that many of just fish ponds stacked on top of each other in a spiral and then every blood moon i get that #many free easy sanke carp #anyway the point is i really loke both games and i dont hate the artstyle of stardew. but its not like my favorite? #also sorry for making this post more disclaimers than opinion at this point i just really want to get it across that i Like Stardew Valley #and i likw the artstyle and this is not like a call to action on the dev or a demand or anything it is me daydreaming about a game that #doesnt exist. also if i had the controls i have in botw maybe i wouldnt be getting mugged in the mines so much #also im a fake gamer so i dont know all the right terms but i know there are like Other Games that have like the exploration vibe and #probably the ability to customize a house and give gifts to ppl and shit however all the ones im thinking of......... #to be clear here when i say art like botw i dont just mean like oh expensive 3d rendering and all that shit. like a little but like #CRUCIALLY. NOT AIMING FOR REALISM. it (DAYDREAM GAME MADE UP) needs to be stylized bc #listen i was being nice w the sv i dont hate the stardew valley style. im not going to be nice here: i fucking despise games trying to look #like real life and real life ppl every single one ive ever seen is uncanny valley to me EVEN DESPITE the many advancements they have made. #i recognize theyve made a lot of advancements. and i recognize this is also a subjective opinion i hold. but i just think all the ones ive #ever seen are so fucking ugly stop trying to capture the realism just lean into some stylization please im begging youuu #the worst part is there are games whos premise i would probably find interesting? but theyre so fucking ugly im not spending over $40 on #that shit ESPECIALLY if it has the audacity to be first person pov #i can maybe be tricked into it in this regard if its heavily ocean centric. i can be bribed with ocean

[misspickman]

cassierose for the ship ask game !!

Ship It

What made you ship it? i liked them in tt03, which you know, is truly a feat considering how terribly that comic treats both of them. but their dynamic (angry homoeroticism) managed to be compelling still

What are your favorite things about the ship? i enjoy girl antagonism from time to time. i know were all sick of the trope that teen girls all hate each others guts but considering cassie has a pretty good relationship with all the other girls on her team(s) its fun to see her just go ugh i hate this one. this one can go. theyre just fun and bitchy and i think they should hatefuck about it. but beside that theres also so much potential there ! i think you know, if anyone writing that comic actually cared about cassie or rose or about their character development, it would have been interesting to see their relationship change over time instead of getting one issue where cassie implicitly calls rose family while protecting her, and then the next one she immediately she calls her a manipulative psychopath for no good reason bc they cant figure out how to make the team interesting without having some wildly antagonistic relationship that doesnt make sense if u think about it for a few seconds. theyre never going to be besties but it would have been nice to see them go from blind hate to an uneasy truce; they dont like each other but they do, unfortunately, care about each other, and lets see where we go from that. + itd be interesting to dig into cassies hypocrisy when it comes to hating rose

Is there an unpopular opinion you have on your ship? i guess its that i would like them to grow past mindlessly despising each other ? this is not me criticizing anyone but i feel like a lot of takes on cassierose ive seen are that they should stay in the hatefucking no mushy business❌❌❌phase which is definitely fair and true to how they are in tt03. but i do have some issues with the way they were written in tt03 (particularly cassie) and would like to see their dynamic progress from that (see rant above)

#i guess the reason im personally more interested in them sort of working through it is bc cassie doesnt have. a good reason for hating rose #i dont think its ooc but a lot of it Is supposed to be bc shes either jealous of her bc of tim (??)or thinks rose sucks bc she killed peopl #which is. she was drugged and manipulated and i think most teen titans in the superhero business should be able to handle #that sort of a not black and white situation #and idk. be more understanding. i know rose isnt super nice but maybe calling her a manipulative bitch constantly isnt the way to go #theres fun antagonism and theres cassie being just needlessly awful to her (that convo she and tim have about rose) #and i do think theyll always be bitchy to each other but i would like to imagine cassie is more considerate than this #and would eventually recognize she was occasionally just being shitty ! it would make for an interesting story ! alas #i think cassierose going from hating each others guts as teens to adult coworkers who dont really hate each other anymore #bc theyve been through so much shit together #but need to keep up the appearances of hating each other bc god forbid they admit to being kind of friends. that would be fun. to me<3 #ask #thank you. so sorry this got so long #youve given me an excuse to rant about cassierose so this is what u get<3 #sorry that the question was what i like about the ship and i just bitched about how it could be better #i guess the answer is im intrigued by the potential. also i love lesbians

[potatoesandsunshine]

had the longest day in the world... and tomorrow is gonna be longer........

#bro 😑 why did i schedule two back to back 'go be condescended to while helping someone' items #i care about these people. i WANT to do the cleaning and grocery shopping and errands etc etc for them. genuinely. #unfortunately i am now old enough to recognize that i find them both personally insufferable MOST of the time. i just hate having a #'conversation' with someone that can't ever allow you to be right. like even when i agree with her i'm still wrong because she has to be #Right And Correct about everything. more than anyone else can ever be! it's like please just go back to tv and let me clean your house!!! #i'm here to dust your fifteen million bookshelves! i'm SORRY that some of the books got out of order the last time this happened - #when i wasn't even here! that was you!!!!! just let me clean!!! #and the other person is my grandma which is just like okay are you inviting me over to have lunch bc you actually want to see me #or is this the first step of the next elaborate guilt trip youve constructed for me. bc i'm just. #you can only say i dont love you and have me give in so many times ma'am. and you are over the limit.

[todayisafridaynight]

Sorry for ruining your posting kfjdj I also didn't know such a person existed but I ended up finding the post where they defended him because it was the same one in which they said they hated Park cos she was abusive and manipulative to Haruka 😭😭 like. The dissonance between what they can't accept and what they CAN just cos they find a guy hot really gets me

OH NO YOU'RE GOOD THE TIMING WAS JUST REALLY FUNNY the halo effect and misogyny can hold grimy ugly hands unfortunately

oh damn i aint readin all that. i skimmed it just for you but if i read it any more i was gonna feel my eyebrows merge as i pinched them together perplexed

#snap chats #i always feel weird jumping straight to misogyny for hating a character or person but. but i have eyes. Sometimes #also edelgard was my favorite lord in 3H ok so i. i understand. #the halo effect is one of my favorite phenomena tho because of how true it is sorry i quote it every other post #like im not gonna lie i'm not the biggest park fan either but that's just cause she reminds me of my mom but even then shes less shitty #she's still compelling as a morally-grey character tho. also she's hot #ALSO WHAT PARK DOES ISN'T NEARLY AS BAD AS ODA??? #like. threatening to shut down a kid's orphanage so she pursues your dream and becomes an idol ? p shitty but like #compared to sex trafficking that led to a physical ailment- nonetheless everlasting mental scars- yeah idk #the scale is SURE hard to measure on that one golly gee i just don't know which is worse #also i wanna try to clear the other anon's name cause i haven't seen this person in my notifs #i generally keep track who visits my blog or i recognize frequent visitors #tho i did just get notif spam from two people but still i'd recognize a name like that #unless fam's lurkin... i dont mind lurkers tho but this do be a crazy take #man all this bonkers shit makin me kinda hungry but i dont wanna eat any more meat or rice that's all i got #actual scurvy moment #they got mango juice for two bucks next door.... hmmmm mango juice.....

[worldofgoo]

How do I stop being a Hater like you it’s bad for my mental health

good question... hm... idk why it happened exactly so the easiest answer would be to just be me but that is not very useful to other people

probably a really big factor is just removing myself from things that make me angry. in my case thats mostly discourse since that was the main thing that pissed me off (and kind of made me doubtful about human nature in general tbh), but that did include also just not being around things that irritated me or didnt interest me either. its probably why i dont follow or follow back many people now, even though im sure most of them are very normal and nice, just kinda curating my surroundings ig

if irl is also exacerbating Hater Tendencies, or its things online that you can't necessarily avoid, I feel like the other side is to just try to understand the thing or people you're being a Hater about, and why some people like it or think the way they do even if its baffling to you. since there's some things you just can't change, or aren't worth the energy to change

#meant to answer earlier but then i took a mega nap oops #if this is not quite addressing your question feel free to clarify #oh and by trying to understand i mean like #idk.. personally i spend a lot of time thinking about other people. like when they behave in ways i just find absolutely incomprehensible #or stupid or awful i feel compelled to try to understand how somebody wouldve gotten there and recognize their human traits #the key to this though is that though you might understand somebody better you dont actually need to make yourself get 400 feet near them #because some people are gonna be too annoying or frustrating to be around #though idk if its something harmless being around them could be helpful. like desensitization #in some cases if youre talking to somebody you can actually just kind of be honest about your thoughts instead of holding it in and it can #also make being a hater easier. since there is less resentment or holding things in #obviuosly not being mean but just explaining you dont really like something and why #sorry... this may be a tangent #well enjoy #ask

[pikkish]

Sorry if it's been asked before, but what are your pronouns?

You're good! I use she/her

#pikspeak #i dont think anyone actually ever HAS asked me that before hdkshfkhf #i think ive referred to myself as a fangirl in passing before but.. other than that.. #this is the Interwebs tho amd i recognize it can be a bit ambiguous when youre not seeing the person face to face or know them personally #so i wouldnt be too upset if you got mixed up #im cis but i have a nonstandard body shape (read: i am very small) so i tend to wear boys clothes just bc theyre more comfortable #and i think one time i was addressed as a boy? and- at least for me- it was really just more confusing than anything else?? #like im sorry sir are u talking to me a girl who has been a girl my entire life?? ok #on that note i hope all y'all trans folks are doin well today and u have good nice clothes that fit u comfortably and peope use #your correct pronouns for u. and thanks for askin before assuming; anon!

[aeirs-moved]

i hate my antidepressants so much sometimes. Not going to lie having my perception of time skewed so fucking horribly and being really prone to forgetting who i am is not helping me move through life...

#no because i was looking through my archive the other day and i saw posts i made in april but i thought i made them like. last week #and it kind of stressed me out because like. wtf. but like AH i cant stop taking my meds because depression IS worse than this #ray.txt #but also. things just feel weird. and have for a while. having everything be dulled down a little bit definitely helps with my anxiety but #its just so weird. like i wasnt really nervous when i did my speech at graduation. i barely remember what it was like up there. #but like also like. its like that meme thats like ''ooh i dont want 2 b medicated bc itll dull my sparkle'' .. the sparkle: *staring at the #celing in bed with greasy hair* #and i feel like its just. bad and weird. in a weird way. i feel like i dont recognize my personality and thats good sometimes but its just. #urgh. its weird. i dont like it. i mean. its also not like i have another option than celexa tho. the dr said i have to go to a psychiatris #t if this doesnt work last time. and its been fine for now but its just scary on some kind of existencial lvl sometimes. #im not good with shit like this. like i avoid psychological horror and liminal shit and unreality for a reason and its because it stresses #me out so bad like Okay i need everything to be real and good and fine or ill kms #ok sorry for complaining so much. im going to go see if i can find dimple on pixiv

[astrajune]

I really like amane momose I r

#shes 12 for fucks sake everyone who says she brought this (the guilty verdic and thus all the consequences that come with it #upon herself I dont like you #she grew up with the cult as her only environment she has all its idealisms engrained into her mind #and that idealism includes feeling as though she's not allowed to do things or act a certain way because she's been punished for it in the #past #on top of that cults have a very us vs the world mindset thats a theme that you would find on ANY cult and I'd imagine that mindset has #been inplemented into Amane's personal worldview as well #despite all that though she's a CHILD #A CHILDDDDD #her mind is so deeply influenced by the cult because she's never had any other external factor or figure to bounce off of #a child's mind is easily influenced and that's why she *seems* like she's so far into the indoctrination #but again a child's mind is EASILY INFLUENCED #if she had been offered a safe place and support in this brand new environment then she probably would have been able to recognize #the difference between that and the way the cult treated her #and im well aware that might have not been the case I know but it haunts me everyday that she got voted guilty #when there was no real reason to punish her #not at the first trials. never at the first trials #crying noises i love you amane #SORRY LMAO #alika ramble corner

[marzaid]

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#personal #everyone leaves eventually and they should go #if i am harming someone in any capcity dven if just by being slightly weird then they need to take care of themselves #im not nearly as important as other peoples right to comfort and emotional wellbeing #i can handle this #there is nothing wrong with people taking care of themselves by leaving me or deciding they dont want to be around me or talk to me #they are entitled to that and do not owe me anything regardless of what i feel #and me to expect that of people is wrong #i have been doing my best to recognize and understand what other people are feeling #its hard but this is what ive learned so far and im doing my best to continue to be understanding of others #my fragile ego can deal with a few dings and dents if that means thst other people are safe happy and well #i can continue whispering into the void and can get rid of the rest of these silly thoughts #sorry if these series of posts are uncomfortable or trigger you #that wasnt my intention with this #i just always figure that people wont read what i say cause they never talk to me anyway #but if you actually read my stuff i alologize for upsetting you or anything else i might have done

[snekdood]

like i really dont think ya understand the severity of the abuse- even aside from the sexual abuse-

i have bpd and come from a home where im not validated very well (obviously, bc thats what makes ppl bpd in the first place). i meet this person who validates me in every way i could possibly imagine or want (love bombing). they pretend to like me so much that they start to become like me and pick up traits of mine they like the most. they know they have a hold over me and power over me bc i didnt know how to validate myself and they were the only source of validation i had. so then they go ahead and start invalidating me and acting like im less of me and theyre somehow more of me. i knew who i was deep down but suddenly i felt unseen again and silenced and pushed into a corner. and then they act like im a horrible person (discarding phase) and serve me an entirely different version of me thats not who i am, but bc i didnt know how to validate myself and was reliant on them (something thats particularly important for this type of abuse to work), it made me question myself and who i was and what i was like and what my intentions were and what my actions were and if i could even trust my own reality all over again when i really didn’t fucking need to since i knew who i was deep down, but they somehow convinced me they knew me better. because i was reliant on them. i dont think you understand how much that fucks with you.

#vent #this is why i kind of find it hard not to cling to the term 'narcissistic abuse' since this is verbatim what happens in that type of abuse. #based on everything ive read. #again. i dont personally think it necessarily has anything to do w ppl with npd. narcissism as a term existed before the diagnosis. #it means someone whos selfish and only looks out for themselves and will do anything for themselves even at the expense of others. #and literally EVERYTHING ELSE people online have said about this type of abuse happened. #the smear campaign. the sending people after me to stalk me and get info out of me. the apparently never leaving me alone as evidenced #by that anon recently. #oh and- cant forget accusing me of everything they did but 10x worse somehow. #if a certain type of abuse can be predicted so well and so many people have had the same experience or similar enough experiences #i dont see why it doesnt deserve its own term. we just have to divorce it from the idea of npd. maybe give it a different name. #because its really not *just* emotional abuse. sorry. #its so much more than that and so much more strategic. #and this is why even though i didnt think of them as being exactly like zero before i still thought of them as being vampiric. #bc they tried to drain me of my energy and who i was. #but nowadays i can really see the similarities. if only they were rich and had institutional power and paid politicans to oppress #minorities. then theyd be the same person. but im not gonna sit here and pretend thats the case. they're similar to him in so many ways but #theyre not the same person. im obviously able to fucking recognize that. #in spite of them pretending like i cant. #now if that ends up secretly being the case... well.... #might be harder for me to divorce them from being similar lmao. #but so far i dont have enough evidence to confidently say that.

[goldammerchen]

not a canon purist nor a canon hater, but a secret third thing

#sorry for the autistic ackchyually attacks im just like broooom infodump #shiphaters using canon as a bludgeon weapon to bother others should be ignored #hima wouldnt/doesnt give a single fuck #and do whatever you want anyway #it doesnt fucking matter. we're on earth for short period #“but!” of couse dont be bigoted. short time on earth means dont make other lives worse too #i find annoying when a random is like 'i hc something thats already canon' but with anime existing is 100% normal #anime only is fine #(while the manga/webcomic even if in one place is... a lot) #taking few characters and running with them is heta fandom normal #both the canon and fandom evolved for better and i personally like to recognize that #(tho wheres the dark content lol) #outsiders will dump all heta fans together so a freak yelling to other freaks is useless

[butchmartyr]

sometimes i get so frustrated about how many transmisogynistic users get reblogged despite their reliable-to-the-point-of-predictability episodes of vitriolic hostility against transfems or absolute lack of care in spreading hearsay about us that i think of making a big blocklist or callout, but its a foolish idea because callouts are only for making a spectacle and Other of someone in order to reinforce norms in the in group. transmisogyny callouts never spread to a large audience for this reason; as a rhetorical tool, they are not for enacting justice.

and even if they could, i stop myself, because they're a stupid way of trying to stop bigotry in the first place. we should be striving to be able to recognize bigoted rhetoric and challenge it ourselves, to stand with the marginalized in our communities, rather than making the victims have to point out The Bad Ones over and over since you can't see. and clearly, you can't see! because i cant hardly scroll this website and see an acquaintance reblog a post without recognizing op as either an open transmisogynistic themself, or a useful idiot for transmisogynists and spreading their callouts. (many of which included private pictures and nudes for "evidence" towards their evil kinks; to make this clear, revenge porn with a coat of progressive paint.)

but time and time again, nobody sees the problem when it happens to trans women. its all a pretense to voice preconceptions of disgust to trans women. they dont really believe that making shitty posts is equivalent to actual sexual abuse, just like they dont actually believe that wearing thigh highs is pedophile-coded, its all just excuses to hate trans women like they want to. for them, its just finding excuses to put in the keywords that turn peoples brains off and play into their bias. oh, sure, i cyberstalked literal years into her private nsfw blog to dig up that nude and match it with a selfie from her main and i put both in the callout im spreading around, but why would that be bad? dont you know she calls her girlfriend mommy in private sometimes? look, i did mental gymnastics to equate this consensual roleplay to real world harm, its totally pedo-incest coded! look, i said shes into raceplay apropos of nothing just to get people pissed at her, but you're not gonna check, right? why would spreading that and her nudes- sorry i mean evidence of her crimes to more strangers and exposing her to transphobes be bad? how can it be sexual harassment when the woman person really really deserves it i promise?

#ok to rb #sasha speaks #transmisogyny #&i remember every time i see one of them because i have to. if trans women dont keep track of the people who'd backstab us then no one woul #if i dont then im at the very least im allowing useful idiots to look at my blog and stalk it. which is a real concern that i have to have!